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Bayard

(22,011 posts)
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 03:18 PM Feb 2019

Uber-wealthy 'Sidewalk Sally' assaults family in park over one-year old sitting on sidewalk

"I guess i should be numb to this by now, yet this one tears into me. Jumping out of your Jag to yell about a baby sitting on the effing sidewalk is apparently a thing now.

Kelyn and Isaiah Allen tried to take a few photos in a popular Houston park to commemorate their daughter’s first birthday. Instead, the mother was forced to take video of a crying one-year old who had to witness her father getting struck by a “socialite” who lost it—because the baby was “obstructing the sidewalk.”

If you are a normal person who sees someone doing a photoshoot on a sidewalk, you would likely walk around them and leave them in peace.

If you are Franci Neely, the divorced wife of the Houston Astros owner, who got tens of millions in the divorce settlement, you feel entitled and can’t even drive down the street and allow a baby to have a few pictures on her birthday in peace.

As you can see on the video, she physically drags the props away and strikes the father.




Sorry, I couldn't get rid of the Twitter comments. I'm wondering why this woman is barefoot....
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Uber-wealthy 'Sidewalk Sally' assaults family in park over one-year old sitting on sidewalk (Original Post) Bayard Feb 2019 OP
At the 1:14 -1:15 mark Rorey Feb 2019 #1
Her divorce seems a little more understandable at this time. She was probably the one dumped. TheBlackAdder Feb 2019 #5
Yes. These unbalanced people have always been with us. Hortensis Feb 2019 #28
absolutely yes vlyons Feb 2019 #53
Wait! She wasn't even using the sidewalk? fleur-de-lisa Feb 2019 #2
That's the kicker. She walked across the grass to her car, yet chose a confrontation. TheBlackAdder Feb 2019 #4
That is straight-up assault. I hope he sues the shit out of her. fleur-de-lisa Feb 2019 #6
And she has lots and lots of money to pay rpannier Feb 2019 #11
Make her lose half, then reality will come knocking that she'd better get her act together. TheBlackAdder Feb 2019 #20
Yep x 1000 rpannier Feb 2019 #44
That child is precious. The walkway makes for some great photos. TheBlackAdder Feb 2019 #3
Indeed, ADORABLE. And the shoeless look 100% confirms she wasn't out walking the dog. mr_lebowski Feb 2019 #9
Is it not illegal to drive shoeless? Bernardo de La Paz Feb 2019 #38
Depends on where you live MurrayDelph Feb 2019 #48
And if the cops look close enough to see it... JHB Feb 2019 #51
No, it is not. That is a rumor started by a father sometime in the 50's HubertHeaver Feb 2019 #50
Oh yes, she was adorable PatSeg Feb 2019 #49
Yes, and that's part of a larger dispute (and I'm NOT defending "Sidewalk Sally"). LisaM Feb 2019 #56
There didn't seem to be anyone else around, so it's not like it's a tourist attraction. TheBlackAdder Feb 2019 #58
Apparently it's one of the prettiest places in Houston to take pictures, so people do. LisaM Feb 2019 #65
People taking pictures in public? Who's ever heard of such a thing. Maru Kitteh Feb 2019 #68
Imo, there's enough evidence for a lawsuit. Duppers Feb 2019 #7
Makes you kind of wonder about the divorce rpannier Feb 2019 #12
I wonder if Neely ever takes the dog bowling? Rents it some shoes? mr_lebowski Feb 2019 #8
Buys him a fucking beer and yells when he goes over the line? 47of74 Feb 2019 #13
She is in urgent need of psychiatric counseling. lpbk2713 Feb 2019 #10
She's in need of getting sued. Bigly. calimary Feb 2019 #21
Beautiful baby. Scarsdale Feb 2019 #14
totally agree gopiscrap Feb 2019 #36
Just a witch with a B Mabel Feb 2019 #15
When the husband says, "no, you're crazy", this stable genius slaps him to demonstrate her sanity AdamGG Feb 2019 #16
Bet her ex called her crazy and... Duppers Feb 2019 #18
Couldn't walk her butt 5 ft. around that photo area and ignore it? IKR they simply cannot lunasun Feb 2019 #17
Apparently the homeowners association there thinks they own public spaces Rorey Feb 2019 #22
Wonder what race the prom kids were AdamGG Feb 2019 #23
I saw the video TlalocW Feb 2019 #24
The race would be...human race. Demit Feb 2019 #26
That's my general take-away TlalocW Feb 2019 #34
Wonder how many times she's hit her dog? Duppers Feb 2019 #19
Nah, the doggie is pweshus. She hits other humans: the maid, her kids, her ex-husband... Hekate Feb 2019 #42
What kind of person does that? The baby is about the sweetest thing I've ever seen. Vinca Feb 2019 #25
doesn't matter how cute the baby is orleans Feb 2019 #30
she's about to lose some of those millions. Javaman Feb 2019 #27
She did not apologize... HopeAgain Feb 2019 #29
I'm no saint matt819 Feb 2019 #31
Oh FFS Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Feb 2019 #32
She didn't even need to walk around them Sucha NastyWoman Feb 2019 #45
It's seriously like half the country has gone fucking insane. Initech Feb 2019 #33
"The City of Houston confirmed that the sidewalks in question are public property" dalton99a Feb 2019 #35
The sidewalk the baby was sitting on is a public sidewalk, baby wasn't iluvtennis Feb 2019 #37
Texas woman strikes again. nt RandiFan1290 Feb 2019 #39
The father should insist upon pressing charges against avebury Feb 2019 #40
That's what I think. Sucha NastyWoman Feb 2019 #46
I would have told the parents lunatica Feb 2019 #41
I know; how hard is that? But then I'm a sucker for babies, kids selling lemonade, family bbqs... Hekate Feb 2019 #43
Because you're a normal everyday person. These folks are the abnormalities created by trump iluvtennis Feb 2019 #62
whacko white woman pamdb Feb 2019 #47
Sue. Her. NOW. MontanaMama Feb 2019 #52
The daughter also saw her father being physically assaulted aeromanKC Feb 2019 #54
Oh look, rich white lady goes off on mixed-race couple apnu Feb 2019 #55
This really sucks bigly Submariner Feb 2019 #57
The rich bitch needs a night in jail with some soul sisters. rickyhall Feb 2019 #59
Why why why Chicagogrl1 Feb 2019 #60
Whaddya bet Sidewalk Sally does not carry a poop bag for the dog? Generic Other Feb 2019 #61
Affluenza is just so devastating, isn't it? RVN VET71 Feb 2019 #63
Jaguar Jezebel Blue Owl Feb 2019 #64
"Let me tell you about the very rich. They are different from you and me. They possess and enjoy struggle4progress Feb 2019 #66
please file a police report Demovictory9 Feb 2019 #67
Kick ck4829 Mar 2019 #69

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
1. At the 1:14 -1:15 mark
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 03:27 PM
Feb 2019

That sweet little baby's smile just melted my heart.

That woman should have been charged with assault, at the very least.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
28. Yes. These unbalanced people have always been with us.
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 04:20 PM
Feb 2019

It's the videos that are new.

"Socialite" is a good click-bait word, but I wonder how accurate. As a divorced wife of a wealthy man, he probably got all or virtually all of their friends in the separation. That's the way it usually goes.

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
53. absolutely yes
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 05:50 PM
Feb 2019

I suspect that she had a few belts of gin for breakfast, because she acts like an angry drunk. I assume the baby's father was black, although I can't tell from the video. She was filled with anger before she ever walked up to the family scene in the park.

Anger is poison

fleur-de-lisa

(14,624 posts)
2. Wait! She wasn't even using the sidewalk?
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 03:28 PM
Feb 2019

She got out of her CAR to berate this family? What an ASSHOLE!

I mean, she would have been a jerk if she WAS using the sidewalk, but she got out of her vehicle to harass a family! SMDH!!!

TheBlackAdder

(28,168 posts)
4. That's the kicker. She walked across the grass to her car, yet chose a confrontation.
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 03:32 PM
Feb 2019

.

I guess she'll be a few million lighter in a few months for striking that man.

.

TheBlackAdder

(28,168 posts)
20. Make her lose half, then reality will come knocking that she'd better get her act together.
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 04:02 PM
Feb 2019

.

Anything less than half will send her on her way, to continue on as before.

.

 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
9. Indeed, ADORABLE. And the shoeless look 100% confirms she wasn't out walking the dog.
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 03:41 PM
Feb 2019

She took her shoes off most likely to drive, they weren't good driving shoes.

Not to mention, no collar on dog, nor any leash.

The one great thing here is that this woman is TOTALLY SCREWED.

JHB

(37,157 posts)
51. And if the cops look close enough to see it...
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 05:37 PM
Feb 2019

...which isn't going to happen often for the tens-of-millions set.

HubertHeaver

(2,520 posts)
50. No, it is not. That is a rumor started by a father sometime in the 50's
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 05:34 PM
Feb 2019

so his daughter would keep her shoes on. Same guy that said it is illegal to drive with the dome light on.




Ps Just in case

PatSeg

(47,282 posts)
49. Oh yes, she was adorable
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 05:30 PM
Feb 2019

What a great spot for a birthday photo.

As for the wealthy "socialite", there seems to be something seriously wrong with her, aside from her racism. Her behavior was entirely abnormal. Maybe she was off her meds? Or on the wrong kind?

LisaM

(27,794 posts)
56. Yes, and that's part of a larger dispute (and I'm NOT defending "Sidewalk Sally").
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 05:58 PM
Feb 2019

Apparently the homeowners in this neighborhood and the city have had a dispute going for a while over public photography on this boulevard, which was supposedly settled in favor of the city - it was determined that it was public property, and people could continue to take pictures there.

I am not at all on the side of this woman, especially given the circumstances, one tiny child on a sidewalk rather than the professional setups described in some of the articles (full crews of cameras and people posing), but it's not quite as random as people are saying.

LisaM

(27,794 posts)
65. Apparently it's one of the prettiest places in Houston to take pictures, so people do.
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 06:30 PM
Feb 2019

Again, I'm not taking the part of the woman, I'm just saying that it's not random that she was being pissy about it, it's part of an ongoing issue.

Duppers

(28,117 posts)
7. Imo, there's enough evidence for a lawsuit.
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 03:36 PM
Feb 2019

The socialite/racist acted as if the sidewalk was private property and she had the right to strike anyone she pleased. Bet she's hit people before.

ACLU could take this case.

 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
8. I wonder if Neely ever takes the dog bowling? Rents it some shoes?
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 03:38 PM
Feb 2019

For real though I hope he comes out with a simple statement along the lines of 'Welp ... now you know why I'm divorced' ... cause that'd be awesome ...

What a B***H, srsly.

I wish I could be there for something like this sometime, I'd have laid into her so hard ...

 

47of74

(18,470 posts)
13. Buys him a fucking beer and yells when he goes over the line?
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 03:50 PM
Feb 2019

Yeah we needed Walter Sobchak there to settle things.

lpbk2713

(42,740 posts)
10. She is in urgent need of psychiatric counseling.
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 03:43 PM
Feb 2019



If not, someone needs to talk to her about possible substance abuse.
It's not normal to get of of a car so far away and get violent like that.
At any rate it shows extremely poor taste to disrupt a special family
occasion in such a cruel and thoughtless manner.

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
14. Beautiful baby.
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 03:50 PM
Feb 2019

Gee, and this woman is divorced? With a disposition like that? Seems to me that she has more than enough of her own business to take care of, rather than butting in where she is not wanted. Too bad someone didn't flatten her tires while she was clobbering the baby's father.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
22. Apparently the homeowners association there thinks they own public spaces
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 04:06 PM
Feb 2019

According to an article I read, she pulled the same stuff on some young people doing a prom-related photo shoot. The article also said that she slapped Mr. Allen's phone, not him. I still think that should be considered assault, considering he was holding the phone.

She gave her apology, no doubt because she was advised by her attorney to do so. I think it's a safe bet that some of her rich friends supported her idiocy.

TlalocW

(15,376 posts)
24. I saw the video
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 04:13 PM
Feb 2019

I am guessing that the one shown on the video was Hispanic as well as the filmer.

There's also a third video out there, but I'm not sure of the race.

On Edit: The husband in this latest video is White.

I haven't been reading comments on this, but is the consensus that this is another racist incident like the BBQ lady and others? It seems like she's more an HOA asshole who is attacking people of all ethnicity, but I'm a White guy, and I don't want to go all White Privilege on shit, which I'm probably already doing.

TlalocW

TlalocW

(15,376 posts)
34. That's my general take-away
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 04:26 PM
Feb 2019

But like I said - I'm White. I've probably experienced prejudice and maybe even racism - I think of racism as prejudice plus action - but I get to slough it off if I even realize it's happening to me.

TlalocW

Hekate

(90,564 posts)
42. Nah, the doggie is pweshus. She hits other humans: the maid, her kids, her ex-husband...
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 04:49 PM
Feb 2019

...total strangers going about their day.

What a piece of trash. Usually I don't join in the social media calls for lawsuits, but I'm thinking this is one with a predetermined outcome.

orleans

(34,042 posts)
30. doesn't matter how cute the baby is
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 04:21 PM
Feb 2019

or even how old (i mean, it could be a 12 yr old getting their picture taken) -- my point is that asshole should mind her own fucking business

and--due to the hits she handed out--should be arrested

Javaman

(62,504 posts)
27. she's about to lose some of those millions.
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 04:19 PM
Feb 2019

as soon as she laid a hand on the dad, all bets are off. prior to that, she was just a racist asshole.

HopeAgain

(4,407 posts)
29. She did not apologize...
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 04:20 PM
Feb 2019

She tried to justify her actions instead. I guess rich white assholes don't even have a clue as to what an apology is.

matt819

(10,749 posts)
31. I'm no saint
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 04:21 PM
Feb 2019

And I get cranky a lot.

But I was in the grocery store the other day and saw a little girl, maybe 3?, pushing a kid-size grocery cart, helping her mother, who had a mother-size grocery cart. I walked by and then turned around and told told the mother that that was the cutest thing I'd seen all day. I was happy. The mother was happy. And the little girl was having a great time.

As I said, I'm no saint, but how hard is it to take less than a minute and do something like this?

I guess if you're a racist and an overall appalling human being, it's pretty damned hard.

Sucha NastyWoman

(2,741 posts)
45. She didn't even need to walk around them
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 05:17 PM
Feb 2019

She had been driving and got out of her car to confront these people. This is a very ritzy neighborhood and I guess the people who live there don’t think that members of the public should use their sidewalks for picture taking, even though it is public property

iluvtennis

(19,835 posts)
37. The sidewalk the baby was sitting on is a public sidewalk, baby wasn't
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 04:31 PM
Feb 2019

on the sidewalk/ driveway of this crazy woman’s home.

Btw, read on twitter that she later apologized, but too late in my opinion.

Sitting on a sidewalk while being a biracial baby 👶 is now a No No.....GAH

avebury

(10,951 posts)
40. The father should insist upon pressing charges against
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 04:46 PM
Feb 2019

her. She hit him at least twice that was caught on video.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
41. I would have told the parents
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 04:46 PM
Feb 2019

that their daughter is adorable! And I would have liked to stick around to watch the fotoshoot!

Hekate

(90,564 posts)
43. I know; how hard is that? But then I'm a sucker for babies, kids selling lemonade, family bbqs...
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 04:56 PM
Feb 2019

It brightens my day to see people enjoying themselves. There's little enough joy in this world already.

pamdb

(1,332 posts)
47. whacko white woman
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 05:22 PM
Feb 2019

She struck someone. twice. Isn't that assault? She should be arrested.

If this was a black woman and the family was white, hell, she'd probably have been shot.

MontanaMama

(23,296 posts)
52. Sue. Her. NOW.
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 05:47 PM
Feb 2019

Make this horrific woman pay and pay dearly. Then, put the money in that beautiful baby's college account, for the win and the last laugh.

aeromanKC

(3,322 posts)
54. The daughter also saw her father being physically assaulted
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 05:53 PM
Feb 2019

That could have lasting psychological damages. Sue, I say!!

Submariner

(12,498 posts)
57. This really sucks bigly
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 06:00 PM
Feb 2019

Someday, in the teen years of the little girl or her wedding or her 40th birthday, her parents will pull out the photos and video of her 1st birthday to share the joy, and they won't be able to wipe their memory of the racist encounter they had with that white trash a**hole. So decades from now, today's racism will still be fresh in their memories. Really sad.

Chicagogrl1

(417 posts)
60. Why why why
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 06:06 PM
Feb 2019

Has she not been arrested for assault & harassment?? So many people now feel emboldened by tRump. Hopefully karma pays her a long & nasty visit!

Generic Other

(28,979 posts)
61. Whaddya bet Sidewalk Sally does not carry a poop bag for the dog?
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 06:11 PM
Feb 2019

I'm betting that's why she came to the park in the first place, so the dog could crap where someone else would have to clean it up.

30 mil was a cheap price to get out of a marriage to that harpy.

RVN VET71

(2,689 posts)
63. Affluenza is just so devastating, isn't it?
Mon Feb 25, 2019, 06:28 PM
Feb 2019

Take this poor, demented old lady -- a "socialite" which, of course, is a synonym for "bum with money" -- who is fated to depart this mortal coil amid the funereal "tsks" and self-assured chortles of her uncaring, jewelry and designer clothes bedecked peers, who will chatter in hushed tones at her funeral about her wrinkled face, terrible fashion sense, and useless little doggie -- who will probably inherit whatever wealth is left from the divorce settlement.

Anyway: Go Astros!

struggle4progress

(118,236 posts)
66. "Let me tell you about the very rich. They are different from you and me. They possess and enjoy
Tue Feb 26, 2019, 03:44 AM
Feb 2019

early, and it does something to them, makes them soft where we are hard, and cynical where we are trustful, in a way that, unless you were born rich, it is very difficult to understand. They think, deep in their hearts, that they are better than we are because we had to discover the compensations and refuges of life for ourselves. Even when they enter deep into our world or sink below us, they still think that they are better than we are. They are different"

F Scott Fitzgerald

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