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redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:36 PM Jul 2019

I am beginning to think I am a too moderate for this place.

This discussion thread was locked as off-topic by Omaha Steve (a host of the General Discussion forum).

I am not far left, I am a moderate Democrat. I will vote for whomever the party supports in the primaries, but I will be really unhappy if it is a certain person. I have spent 45 years working for Democrats in 4 states. I send them my extra money, I work phones and walked my precincts when I was able. But right now I don't recognize my party. It began with the booing of a civil rights icon at the convention in 2016 and it continues now.

Not sure what to do, I have always identified as a Democrat, but if this is where we are headed. I need to pull back.

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I am beginning to think I am a too moderate for this place. (Original Post) redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 OP
just start using Ignore, redstatebluegirl Skittles Jul 2019 #1
I have tried, but I got a post hidden the other day and I knew it would be. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #2
Don't worry he won't win. marylandblue Jul 2019 #4
+1000 aeromanKC Jul 2019 #100
You won't have to. MontanaFarmer Jul 2019 #6
That person has no chance of becoming the nominee.nt. drray23 Jul 2019 #7
The loudest voices don't necessarily represent the majority. The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2019 #10
They're not taking over the party. They're just pushing the envelope. Gidney N Cloyd Jul 2019 #15
They are also the loudest voices. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #17
I know who you are talking about, and I absolutely DESPISE him Skittles Jul 2019 #34
Yep the only hides I have had are from them. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #36
I am glad someone else knows about the alert stalkers, wasupaloopa Jul 2019 #55
I really think the trolls want that candidate because they know they can beat him. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #65
they're very obvious Skittles Jul 2019 #71
Yes. cwydro Jul 2019 #84
It's a bunch of divisive bs if you ask me ProudLib72 Jul 2019 #86
+1. It is BS dalton99a Jul 2019 #106
Hang In There Me. Jul 2019 #77
Same thing happened here before. Codeine Jul 2019 #81
yes Skittles Jul 2019 #89
+1000! arthritisR_US Jul 2019 #115
If sanders is the nominee, trump will win 45+ states Gothmog Jul 2019 #110
You are not alone radical noodle Jul 2019 #112
Lots of us have a strong preference, either negative or positive. Don't worry -- that doesn't mean pnwmom Jul 2019 #120
It's a big tent still. There's room for everyone. The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2019 #3
I do my best. I loved Hillary, and they were horrible. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #9
They were mcar Jul 2019 #78
In order for a party to be a "big tent" misanthrope Jul 2019 #16
I do but being told I am a DINO is really hard after all these years. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #18
You seem to be solidly Democratic. delisen Jul 2019 #28
What scares me is they sound a lot like the tea party and look what that did to the Repugs. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #31
True the tea party was tremendously destructive delisen Jul 2019 #73
You're not alone here. Dont go! nt VarryOn Jul 2019 #5
Agreed. Lots of cool heads here. Maybe we are too quiet. California_Republic Jul 2019 #14
It sure seems like the radicals are taking over right now. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #33
There are liberals, which you seem to be. There are progressive liberals, then hardcore progressives ancianita Jul 2019 #105
Stay off the primaries board Dirty Socialist Jul 2019 #8
Agreed, it is a mess. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #12
No kidding it is. trev Jul 2019 #13
True that. LakeArenal Jul 2019 #72
Who is your mystery hated candidate? lame54 Jul 2019 #11
Let's see. The only one running from the 2016 she mentioned in the OP is Sanders. Autumn Jul 2019 #30
On re-read I still don't see that - but ok lame54 Jul 2019 #113
It's not as dramatic as it seems, if that helps DFW Jul 2019 #19
Thanks. I am feeling like an outsider right now. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #22
I have the same problem on FB Lefta Dissenter Jul 2019 #20
It has helped me to block certain members. I figure some of them have blocked me. Tech Jul 2019 #21
I am going to take a breather, I need to get away from here for a while. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #23
Think of it as a vacation. We all need them. Tech Jul 2019 #25
it maybe good for you todo that, but please.... VarryOn Jul 2019 #27
Please remember that there are many many more of us than there are of them. betsuni Jul 2019 #29
Probably the best thing to do right now. DinahMoeHum Jul 2019 #37
Breaks are good. TwilightZone Jul 2019 #69
I did that in 2016. Six months DFW Jul 2019 #108
I'm wondering who the ''civil rights icon'' you're referring to is. YOHABLO Jul 2019 #24
I was there John Lewis. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #26
I'm a far left environmentalist radical extremist. hunter Jul 2019 #32
Thank you. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #35
I'm not just strong. hunter Jul 2019 #41
Yep redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #42
Practical solutions to political problems are always messy. hunter Jul 2019 #49
You are a liberal who falls somewhere in the middle of the liberal side Hortensis Jul 2019 #38
After 6400 posts? JoeOtterbein Jul 2019 #39
I live and work in Oklahoma. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #40
Stay. JoeOtterbein Jul 2019 #43
I will at least take a break, this place is nuts right now. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #44
Thanks. JoeOtterbein Jul 2019 #58
Its always nuts during election time marlakay Jul 2019 #117
i'm a next door neighbor in VarryOn Jul 2019 #57
I have siblings and other people close to me living in toxic Republican strongholds. hunter Jul 2019 #63
Yes, it scares me. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #64
As a teen and young adult most of my gay friends died of AIDS or suicide. hunter Jul 2019 #74
Maybe. Blue_true Jul 2019 #87
yes Skittles Jul 2019 #119
Please take a break if you need one, but don't leave. sheshe2 Jul 2019 #45
I feel like I am a little nuts but thanks! redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #48
redstatebluegirl.. this is for you Peacetrain Jul 2019 #46
Thanks one of my favorites! redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #47
Thanks everyone, off to work on a grant for a STEM program. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #50
You've got to be kidding melman Jul 2019 #51
Take a deep breath. Maybe take a break. But please don't give up. Raven123 Jul 2019 #52
ive taken DU breaks from time to time..it helps me regain my perspective samnsara Jul 2019 #53
Reading through all the respnses in the thread you started... VarryOn Jul 2019 #54
Thank you. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #59
DU isn't representative of the real world. TwilightZone Jul 2019 #56
It was so hard to sit there at a Democratic Convention and hear that. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #61
Some members of the CA delegation were particularly obnoxious, which was personally painful to me deurbano Jul 2019 #101
This. nt Hortensis Jul 2019 #66
That person will not get the nomination. There are manly actual Dems we have to choose from. brush Jul 2019 #60
There are so many great Democrats to choose from he will be toast I hope. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #62
I'm with you. I feel the same way. redstateblues Jul 2019 #67
Yes, we can't win if we go far left. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #68
Sorry to hear that, but it does happen a lot around here... TreasonousBastard Jul 2019 #70
I am rather far to the left, guillaumeb Jul 2019 #75
I'm right here with you mcar Jul 2019 #76
NO matter where you lie on the "scale", primary season is tough... hlthe2b Jul 2019 #79
Dear redstatebluegirl, madaboutharry Jul 2019 #80
I'm not a moderate at all Codeine Jul 2019 #82
I feel like there is too little tolerance TheFarseer Jul 2019 #83
I am likely to the left of you, but I get criticism. Blue_true Jul 2019 #85
Thank you, Redstatebluegirl Niagara Jul 2019 #88
The Difference? colsohlibgal Jul 2019 #90
Don't worry m'dear, he's not a Democrat, and he's not getting our nom Maru Kitteh Jul 2019 #91
don't worry about that candidate, a certain person, its a whole new ballgame this time around yaesu Jul 2019 #92
None of us have anywhere to go. No one Laura PourMeADrink Jul 2019 #93
Our party needs moderates and small-c conservatives... First Speaker Jul 2019 #94
This message was self-deleted by its author Freelancer Jul 2019 #95
Ask yourself what goals you share with the most progressive/left Dems on here Blaukraut Jul 2019 #96
Stop letting others define you! You are welcome here. GulfCoast66 Jul 2019 #97
I Too Will Vote For Our Party Nominee But Bernie Isn't The Only One I'd Be Sad To See Win. Indykatie Jul 2019 #98
Keep Your Ground Horizens Jul 2019 #99
I know the feeling Raine Jul 2019 #102
Take a break if you need to, murielm99 Jul 2019 #103
For a long time now I've felt the opposite. Doremus Jul 2019 #104
In progressive oriented politics, moderate is a scary word. It suggests willingness to compromise... TryLogic Jul 2019 #107
I am also a moderate Gothmog Jul 2019 #109
DU is not representative of the Democratic Party Trumpocalypse Jul 2019 #111
You're not alone ChaoticSilly Jul 2019 #114
I have been here since 2003 and felt very comfortable here. demosincebirth Jul 2019 #116
I'm where you're at--moderate, always voted for the Democratic candidates. elocs Jul 2019 #118
After a review by forum hosts....LOCKING Omaha Steve Jul 2019 #121

Skittles

(171,710 posts)
1. just start using Ignore, redstatebluegirl
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:37 PM
Jul 2019

f them

redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
2. I have tried, but I got a post hidden the other day and I knew it would be.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:39 PM
Jul 2019

They are taking over the party right now. I love Elizabeth Warren, but not the other person. I will vote for him if I have to, but I will not be happy.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
4. Don't worry he won't win.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:41 PM
Jul 2019

aeromanKC

(3,890 posts)
100. +1000
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 11:39 PM
Jul 2019

MontanaFarmer

(761 posts)
6. You won't have to.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:41 PM
Jul 2019

Warren is getting much of his '16 support. Sanders is in, at this point, because he has the money to be. He's not winning the nomination.

drray23

(8,757 posts)
7. That person has no chance of becoming the nominee.nt.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:42 PM
Jul 2019

The Velveteen Ocelot

(130,533 posts)
10. The loudest voices don't necessarily represent the majority.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:42 PM
Jul 2019

I wouldn't worry too much about "the other person" getting the nomination anyhow.

Gidney N Cloyd

(19,847 posts)
15. They're not taking over the party. They're just pushing the envelope.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:47 PM
Jul 2019

redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
17. They are also the loudest voices.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:49 PM
Jul 2019

I worry we can't beat this moron if we go this way.

Skittles

(171,710 posts)
34. I know who you are talking about, and I absolutely DESPISE him
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:12 PM
Jul 2019

and his fans are the biggest alert stalkers

they act like cultists, put them on Ignore

redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
36. Yep the only hides I have had are from them.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:13 PM
Jul 2019
 

wasupaloopa

(4,516 posts)
55. I am glad someone else knows about the alert stalkers,
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:35 PM
Jul 2019

Last edited Sun Jul 21, 2019, 03:53 AM - Edit history (1)

They are fools to think that will help him. Maybe it is just a game and they know they won’t win.

redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
65. I really think the trolls want that candidate because they know they can beat him.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:47 PM
Jul 2019

Skittles

(171,710 posts)
71. they're very obvious
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 10:01 PM
Jul 2019

they make me sick

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
84. Yes.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 10:40 PM
Jul 2019

This.

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
86. It's a bunch of divisive bs if you ask me
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 10:54 PM
Jul 2019

Bringing up the bs is extremely divisive.

dalton99a

(94,115 posts)
106. +1. It is BS
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 11:58 PM
Jul 2019

Me.

(35,454 posts)
77. Hang In There
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 10:12 PM
Jul 2019

You.Will.Not.Have.To.Vote.For.Him

Don't allow yourself to be bullied, they are just doing it because they're disappointed, the dream is fading.

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
81. Same thing happened here before.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 10:27 PM
Jul 2019

Lots of hidden posts, and a lot of us scraped by teetering on the brink of banning until the nonsense petered out after that person lost.

And don’t worry, he’s going to lose again, only much more dramatically.

Skittles

(171,710 posts)
89. yes
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 11:09 PM
Jul 2019

I couldn't BELIEVE how many people fell for his nonsense

arthritisR_US

(7,810 posts)
115. +1000!
Sun Jul 21, 2019, 02:48 AM
Jul 2019

Gothmog

(179,858 posts)
110. If sanders is the nominee, trump will win 45+ states
Sun Jul 21, 2019, 12:35 AM
Jul 2019

radical noodle

(10,595 posts)
112. You are not alone
Sun Jul 21, 2019, 12:39 AM
Jul 2019

Check percentages of support here at DU for the various candidates.

pnwmom

(110,261 posts)
120. Lots of us have a strong preference, either negative or positive. Don't worry -- that doesn't mean
Sun Jul 21, 2019, 05:27 AM
Jul 2019

you don't belong here.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(130,533 posts)
3. It's a big tent still. There's room for everyone.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:40 PM
Jul 2019

Argue for your position and don't let yourself be shouted down.

redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
9. I do my best. I loved Hillary, and they were horrible.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:42 PM
Jul 2019

mcar

(46,056 posts)
78. They were
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 10:14 PM
Jul 2019

and they are back or never left. Alert stalkers drove so many good DUers away.

I refuse to let them win. Take time off if you need to. But come back.

misanthrope

(9,495 posts)
16. In order for a party to be a "big tent"
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:48 PM
Jul 2019

those within it have to tolerate dissent and a wide range of opinions. We'll see if that capacity still exists.

redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
18. I do but being told I am a DINO is really hard after all these years.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:49 PM
Jul 2019

delisen

(7,366 posts)
28. You seem to be solidly Democratic.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:02 PM
Jul 2019

Often the people who claim to be "revolutionary" really aren't but instead lean authoritarian.





redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
31. What scares me is they sound a lot like the tea party and look what that did to the Repugs.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:03 PM
Jul 2019

delisen

(7,366 posts)
73. True the tea party was tremendously destructive
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 10:03 PM
Jul 2019

I don't see this groups as being able to amass as much power.

I do think the Democrats are moving fast to prevent the destructive attempt to primary Democrats in the more centrist seats, especially those just won in 2018.

I consider Ocasio-Cortez's chief of staff to be a real problem and the party seems to have gotten that issue out into the open-which is also good because at least we know what we are dealing with.

Saikat Chakrabarti reminds me of all the rich people who think they are really "socialists" and get involved in politics and start making decisions and ordering other people about, make a big mess and then leave everyone else to clean up after them. The fact that he is getting push back early on is good news.





 

VarryOn

(2,343 posts)
5. You're not alone here. Dont go! nt
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:41 PM
Jul 2019

California_Republic

(1,826 posts)
14. Agreed. Lots of cool heads here. Maybe we are too quiet.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:47 PM
Jul 2019

But stay with us

redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
33. It sure seems like the radicals are taking over right now.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:11 PM
Jul 2019

ancianita

(43,307 posts)
105. There are liberals, which you seem to be. There are progressive liberals, then hardcore progressives
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 11:53 PM
Jul 2019

There isn't radicalism in the Democratic Party.

The Democratic Party is for reform. Not radicalism. Not revolution. The incremental change of reform. Reform is the change that lasts the longest.

The problem, given 45's reign, is that the good old liberal incrementalism is now backed up, jammed up. Now that government also has to be restored, "those" guys want to make sure that they can get reform: medicare for all, taxing the rich, reinstating Glass-Steagal (like Warren), overturning Citizens United, stopping the Keystone Pipeline, backing AOC's Green New Deal, promoting net neutrality, etc, none of which are radical, even by conservative standards.

I'm not sure where you get the fear about him. Except that you're in a red state.

But I really don't think that -- given his record of voting more often with Democrats over the years than 20% of declared Democrats -- he's anyone to worry about.

Radicalism is a word that's too easily used as a pejorative they used on MLK, Jesus and others.

Don't worry about his followers' intensity, or their primary rhetoric. They are not mean or evil. They're not bullies. It's their idealism, not any impulse toward some radicalism.

He's done a lot of good to move "radical" ideas of the last presidential cycle into the mainstream for the whole party this time.

I'm just sayin'.

Dirty Socialist

(3,252 posts)
8. Stay off the primaries board
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:42 PM
Jul 2019

It’s a zoo over there.

redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
12. Agreed, it is a mess.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:43 PM
Jul 2019

trev

(1,480 posts)
13. No kidding it is.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:44 PM
Jul 2019

LakeArenal

(29,949 posts)
72. True that.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 10:01 PM
Jul 2019

And if you have to, read by candidate. Not in general. I won’t even look at somethings when I see the author.

lame54

(39,770 posts)
11. Who is your mystery hated candidate?
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:42 PM
Jul 2019

Autumn

(48,962 posts)
30. Let's see. The only one running from the 2016 she mentioned in the OP is Sanders.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:03 PM
Jul 2019
I'm guessing the mystery hated candidates is... Bernie Sanders!

lame54

(39,770 posts)
113. On re-read I still don't see that - but ok
Sun Jul 21, 2019, 12:54 AM
Jul 2019

DFW

(60,186 posts)
19. It's not as dramatic as it seems, if that helps
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:51 PM
Jul 2019

I go through this every 4 years here. The irritating single-issue posters usually evaporate when the election is done. Those one-trick ponies are quick to attack, and quick to disappear afterward.

Just beware of people who know everything and have no sense humor.
That is where the trouble lies!

redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
22. Thanks. I am feeling like an outsider right now.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:52 PM
Jul 2019

Lefta Dissenter

(6,703 posts)
20. I have the same problem on FB
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:51 PM
Jul 2019

Most of my friends support the candidate who is not my (or your, apparently) first, second, third... fifteenth choice. I actually feel more at home here, but I’m pretty selective in which posts I read. I breeze right past the most rabid posts.

Hang in there.

Tech

(1,956 posts)
21. It has helped me to block certain members. I figure some of them have blocked me.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:52 PM
Jul 2019

Hang in there, and know some are trolls. You may just want to take a breather, even if it is just for one day. It's getting pretty intense. I enjoy hearing your views, if it helps.

redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
23. I am going to take a breather, I need to get away from here for a while.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:53 PM
Jul 2019

Tech

(1,956 posts)
25. Think of it as a vacation. We all need them.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:58 PM
Jul 2019
 

VarryOn

(2,343 posts)
27. it maybe good for you todo that, but please....
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:59 PM
Jul 2019

Come back.

betsuni

(29,078 posts)
29. Please remember that there are many many more of us than there are of them.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:02 PM
Jul 2019

They're just NOISY. All the name-calling and insults and arrogance. Don't worry, it won't last that much longer.

I appreciate everyone here and other places who fights back with facts against the propaganda.

DinahMoeHum

(23,606 posts)
37. Probably the best thing to do right now.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:17 PM
Jul 2019

The DailyKos Good News Roundup has a list of "The Rs of Resistance", including the following:

Rely: Trust that millions of others are also fighting this good fight.
Rest: Take care of yourself, we are ALL in this for the long term.

Also, while there is a lot of fuss going on about 2020, we cannot neglect 2019. Concentrate on the local elections for this year (that's what I'm doing) and try to blot out the rest of the garbage floating around. At least in January 2020.

We'll "keep the light on for ya"





TwilightZone

(28,836 posts)
69. Breaks are good.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:50 PM
Jul 2019

I've been here almost as long as the website's been around and have taken multiple extended breaks, usually during primary season or shortly after elections.

It definitely helps regain a little perspective.

DFW

(60,186 posts)
108. I did that in 2016. Six months
Sun Jul 21, 2019, 12:30 AM
Jul 2019

Had a bunch of nasty Sanders "supporters (or so they claimed)" jumping on me to the point where DU got too ugly for my taste. I just stopped posting. Not a ONE of those people are posting here now--at least not under the names they were posting then. They either went to other sites (one in particular), died of high blood pressure, who knows? Some of them were so mean, it wouldn't surprise me to hear they got impaled on wooden stakes. But they were not typical DU people, and they all (and I mean every last one of them) vanished after the election.

The period leading up to a presidential election seems to attract a certain kind of poster here--quick to attack, usually in a foul mood, and always full of reasons why YOU in particular are always wrong while they are always right.

 

YOHABLO

(7,358 posts)
24. I'm wondering who the ''civil rights icon'' you're referring to is.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:58 PM
Jul 2019

redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
26. I was there John Lewis.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 08:59 PM
Jul 2019

hunter

(40,690 posts)
32. I'm a far left environmentalist radical extremist.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:11 PM
Jul 2019

Bernie Sanders is right-of-my center, and a clueless white guy too.

I'm hard core Democratic for practical reasons.




redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
35. Thank you.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:12 PM
Jul 2019

I have always been strong on environmental issues as well, I just differ on how to go at it.

hunter

(40,690 posts)
41. I'm not just strong.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:22 PM
Jul 2019

If I was emperor of the earth I'd end fossil fuels quickly.

Economic "productivity" as we now define it is a direct measure of the damage we are doing to whatever is left of the earth's natural environment and our own human spirit.

With nods to Sturgeon's Law, 90% of the "work" we do is self destructive bullshit.

redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
42. Yep
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:22 PM
Jul 2019

hunter

(40,690 posts)
49. Practical solutions to political problems are always messy.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:29 PM
Jul 2019

The longer they are neglected, the messier they get.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
38. You are a liberal who falls somewhere in the middle of the liberal side
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:19 PM
Jul 2019

of the left-right spectrum. You and at least 40 million other Democrats.

As for "here," remember the truth revealed by that 8% for Sanders on our little poll and compare that with the total of DUers who chose candidates you would also consider. Don't let those who don't want to accept what this reveals get their problems in your head.

Oh, and another thing: Political scientists say there is no political orientation of "moderate," no matter how often it's used by pundits. People are typically real goulashes of political positions, but we're wired somewhat to one of the two basic personality types: conservative OR liberal (with the door open for libertarian being a third, smaller and rather weird personality type), and politically we incline one way OR the other. So "moderate" means middlin' liberal or middlin' conservative -- it does not mean essentially conservative the way people on the far left want to have it.

"Centrists" are also either liberal or conservative but mild in traits, with a lot of areas where they can fairly easily reach agreement (thus, they're very valuable to democracies).

So-called "independents" are also either conservative or liberal, and few of them swing either way depending on the political winds, they're oriented one way or another also.

Virtually all liberals are "progressive," as in believing in putting government to work to serve the people. We, with some assistance from centrist and moderate conservatives, invented humanism, liberalism, democracy, and progressivism. We brought the light to the Enlightenment.

So, when irritated by the noisy, righteous, intolerant few, just remember that those tending to LW and RW extremes are (mercifully) relatively few in number. Also, the more extremist they may tend, the more and more they have in common with each other and the less in in common with the large majorities who make up the liberal left and conservative right. Those tending toward extremism on both sides are characteristically so righteous and rigid in thinking that they're typically doomed to not be able to understand or respect the views of people who don't agree with them, and life is one long series of inevitably lost elections that they can never accept, or even understand because they don't fit the constructs of reality they've built up.

Now, hopefully you're once again glad to be a proud, moderate, progressive, liberal DUer. And maybe feel just a little sorry for anyone who can't understand why that's something to be proud of?


JoeOtterbein

(7,869 posts)
39. After 6400 posts?
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:19 PM
Jul 2019

If you fought that long why give up now? But, if you are tired I understand. I know because I've worked for 25 years in a red county in PA (York) for the Dems because I wanted universal healthcare.

I've never come close to winning after Bill & Hill gave up, other than Obamacare. And we lost it by compromising too quick without a public option. We should never, ever, give up the good fight.

Ever.

redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
40. I live and work in Oklahoma.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:21 PM
Jul 2019

Every day is a challenge. This place has been my refuge.

JoeOtterbein

(7,869 posts)
43. Stay.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:24 PM
Jul 2019

Please.

redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
44. I will at least take a break, this place is nuts right now.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:25 PM
Jul 2019

JoeOtterbein

(7,869 posts)
58. Thanks.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:37 PM
Jul 2019

I know I've rec'd tons of your posts.

We need you to keep the light shining.

marlakay

(13,282 posts)
117. Its always nuts during election time
Sun Jul 21, 2019, 04:08 AM
Jul 2019

Especially the primaries and I expect it will get much worse when we are down to a few. If it gets too bad for you come back after its down to just Trump and one other, we always try our hardest to pull together for the end game.

 

VarryOn

(2,343 posts)
57. i'm a next door neighbor in
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:37 PM
Jul 2019

Arkansas! We relate!

hunter

(40,690 posts)
63. I have siblings and other people close to me living in toxic Republican strongholds.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:42 PM
Jul 2019

As a minority white guy in my California community I can say shit they can't.

My own elected representatives hand out red cards:

https://www.ilrc.org/red-cards

redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
64. Yes, it scares me.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:44 PM
Jul 2019

I have a lot of gay friends and neighbors who are afraid to come out because of where we live. It is nuts.

hunter

(40,690 posts)
74. As a teen and young adult most of my gay friends died of AIDS or suicide.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 10:04 PM
Jul 2019

That's why I'd piss on Ronald Reagan's grave. Except I saw Reagan once up close at a public appearance during his second term. He was a confused old man who didn't know where the hell he was or what he was doing there. For a brief moment his acting skills kicked in and he played his role as POTUS for the cameras, and that's what the nation saw on television and read in the newspapers.

There hasn't been a Republican President since Nixon who wasn't some sort of compromised meat puppet.

Trump and Pence are compromised meat puppets.

I don't even want to know what's in Pence's closet, but I hope it destroys him.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
87. Maybe.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 10:59 PM
Jul 2019

You should stay off General Didcussion and Primary and any other board that has politics for a while. There are a number of common interest boards here on DU, try spending time on those, that should refresh the refuge nature of this site for you.

Skittles

(171,710 posts)
119. yes
Sun Jul 21, 2019, 04:52 AM
Jul 2019

if you can survive OK, you can survive DU! Hang in there with us, redstatebluegirl!!

sheshe2

(97,626 posts)
45. Please take a break if you need one, but don't leave.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:26 PM
Jul 2019

Your voice is appreciated by many here, redstatebluegirl.

redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
48. I feel like I am a little nuts but thanks!
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:28 PM
Jul 2019

Peacetrain

(24,288 posts)
46. redstatebluegirl.. this is for you
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:26 PM
Jul 2019



redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
47. Thanks one of my favorites!
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:27 PM
Jul 2019

redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
50. Thanks everyone, off to work on a grant for a STEM program.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:30 PM
Jul 2019

It has been a long day.

 

melman

(7,681 posts)
51. You've got to be kidding
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:30 PM
Jul 2019

This board leaning "far left"? This board?

Raven123

(7,797 posts)
52. Take a deep breath. Maybe take a break. But please don't give up.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:30 PM
Jul 2019

That is EXACTLY what the GOP is hoping you will do. A lot of ideas are being aired and will be vetted over time. The election cycle is so freaking long that it is easy to become exhausted.

samnsara

(18,767 posts)
53. ive taken DU breaks from time to time..it helps me regain my perspective
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:34 PM
Jul 2019
 

VarryOn

(2,343 posts)
54. Reading through all the respnses in the thread you started...
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:35 PM
Jul 2019

I hope you're encouraged. But, it's understandable if you need a respite.

I know there are a lot of moderates on DU, but, I think many are lurkers. Rightly or wrongly, it takes a lot to trigger a need to chime in on every topic. I dont mean to stereotype, but many to the far left trigger more easily. They are quite passionate and, it seems, will deem someone an enemy for a disagreement on even minor issues.

The Democratic Party needs us, and it needs the passion of the far left. It just makes it hard when we aim our fire at each other, and presidential primaries stoke the fires.

Like you, I live in a red state and am a member of a red family. It's not a good feeling when your own party has team members who make you feel red sometimes.

Again, I just want to encourage you!

redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
59. Thank you.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:38 PM
Jul 2019

I agree they are easily triggered. I work with graduate students and they are heavily in that camp due to "free tuition". I understand where they are coming from but they are one issue voters. The students I know who are this ilk won't vote for anyone but that candidate. I wish tuition was more reasonable, I wish Science was valued, but I am a person who has seen a lot of change and how to do it.

TwilightZone

(28,836 posts)
56. DU isn't representative of the real world.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:36 PM
Jul 2019

It also isn't representative of the Democratic Party or even a significant chunk of it. It's essentially a niche website that caters to small section of the left; many members aren't even Democrats (we have leftists, Greens, a few anarchists, etc.)

Similarly, the Democrats who booed civil rights icons aren't representative of the party, either. They were a very vocal minority, but a minority they were and a minority they remain. Try not to let their uncouth behavior color your view of the party.

The majority of our candidates are center-left, even the one who claims that he's a socialist. Same thing with the party itself - it's really the same party it was four or eight or twelve years ago, claims to the contrary notwithstanding.

redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
61. It was so hard to sit there at a Democratic Convention and hear that.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:39 PM
Jul 2019

I came home totally disillusioned.

deurbano

(2,986 posts)
101. Some members of the CA delegation were particularly obnoxious, which was personally painful to me
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 11:40 PM
Jul 2019

as a Californian, especially since they were so unreflective (except in their fevered imaginations) of the majority of CA Democratic primary voters who chose Clinton. (And she went on to trounce that orange MAGAt here by millions of votes in the general.) Having the loudest and most... assertive... supporters doesn't equal success in the primaries (well, unfortunately it does help in the caucus states), and we won't have the problem this time of voters assuming that the Democratic nominee will win anyway, so they can afford to send a "message" by not voting or voting for a third party candidate in the general. (I mean, the extreme dead enders might still refuse to unify after the primaries, but at this point they seem more like trolls than actual Democratic voters to me.) And no Comey this time... and we're better informed about the Russians and other ratf**kers. And the orange MAGAt is a known quantity now. Democrats are usually crap at turning out in the midterms, but turn out we did in 2018. So, I'm very hopeful (knock on wood, knock on wood) about 2020, and I think Warren is going to get a lot of the primary votes that previously went to Sanders. I'm obviously no expert, but to me he seems to have hit his ceiling of support, and a lot of that support is just because he's still more well known than anyone but Biden.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
66. This. nt
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:47 PM
Jul 2019
 

brush

(61,033 posts)
60. That person will not get the nomination. There are manly actual Dems we have to choose from.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:39 PM
Jul 2019

redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
62. There are so many great Democrats to choose from he will be toast I hope.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:41 PM
Jul 2019

redstateblues

(10,565 posts)
67. I'm with you. I feel the same way.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:47 PM
Jul 2019

I’m a lifelong Democrat and I worry that the competition to see who is the most progressive will make it hard for us to win in the General. I hear a number of solid Dems who share my concerns.

redstatebluegirl

(12,827 posts)
68. Yes, we can't win if we go far left.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:48 PM
Jul 2019

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
70. Sorry to hear that, but it does happen a lot around here...
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 09:57 PM
Jul 2019

A few months ago I was alert stalked and got three hides in a day or so. One I got past the jury, but then someone alerted on the same post for a different "offense" and it was hidden. Just barely avoided being suspended.

Taking a break sometimes helps, but the hardest thing is biting that tongue-- some things are begging you to say something, but you just know an alert is waiting.

DU is not the world or the Democratic Party. It is one place with a comfort zone for a specific point of view. Relax in that comfort zone and have a fine old time dissing Trump.

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
75. I am rather far to the left,
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 10:07 PM
Jul 2019

but the Democratic Party is big enough for both of us.

mcar

(46,056 posts)
76. I'm right here with you
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 10:12 PM
Jul 2019

Another red state blue girl. Been here since 2002 and the more things change...

Ignore is your friend, as is trash thread. Stay with us. Don't let the trolls get you down.

hlthe2b

(113,965 posts)
79. NO matter where you lie on the "scale", primary season is tough...
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 10:18 PM
Jul 2019

And sometimes it is one group or another that is overwhelmingly vocal making it seem like other viewpoints are the minority view or absent.

Things do "recalibrate" though. Bide your time.

madaboutharry

(42,033 posts)
80. Dear redstatebluegirl,
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 10:19 PM
Jul 2019

You are not too moderate for this place. You are not alone. I am proud to be a moderate Democrat and there are a lot of us here. All Democrats need to be respected.

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
82. I'm not a moderate at all
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 10:30 PM
Jul 2019

and I still don’t like that candidate, and I’m even less enamored of his online bully boys. Don’t let their childish alert swarming and nastiness bring you down — in the end they’re pulling for a loser.

TheFarseer

(9,770 posts)
83. I feel like there is too little tolerance
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 10:39 PM
Jul 2019

The board is being used less as a discussion forum and more to shout people down and “dunk on them”. I think we all need to do more listening and less crapping on people with a different perspective - that goes for the country at large even more than DU

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
85. I am likely to the left of you, but I get criticism.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 10:50 PM
Jul 2019

Being a business oriented person, I always look to determine whether a proposal is rational and will accomplish what is intended. I also am willing to acknowledge some hard truths about things that some see as untouchable. I believe that we will defeat republicans only if we are able to self-reflect on our own policy prescriptions and make wise adjustments. We should never give in to what republicans want, they are wrong pretty much 100% of the time and they positions often are built on hate and fear.

I am true to my values and I use what I observe about people and situations to sanity-check my values. Often that process leads me to state what I see as a hard truth, that does not sit well with some people here.

All I can say is that you know who and what you are. Use that as your Northstar and ignore the fucking noise. I am a longtime progressive democrat and I don't care if a poster here claims that I am not, I know what I am and I have a track record.

Niagara

(11,850 posts)
88. Thank you, Redstatebluegirl
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 11:04 PM
Jul 2019

I want to thank you for all the hard work that you've done for Democrats for 45 years.

If you need a break from DU, go ahead and take that break, but please don't leave us.

colsohlibgal

(5,276 posts)
90. The Difference?
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 11:11 PM
Jul 2019

When I hear the term moderate I am not sure what that means. You think the ultra wealthy shouldn’t be taxed even remotely like Eisenhower, a Republican, did in the 50s? You are only so far into Civil Rights?

The older I get, the more I learn, the more progressive I get.

Maru Kitteh

(31,759 posts)
91. Don't worry m'dear, he's not a Democrat, and he's not getting our nom
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 11:13 PM
Jul 2019

yaesu

(9,328 posts)
92. don't worry about that candidate, a certain person, its a whole new ballgame this time around
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 11:13 PM
Jul 2019

history will not repeat itself unless we get too carried away with disenfranchising any of our candidates, including that candidate, or history will repeat with another tRump term.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
93. None of us have anywhere to go. No one
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 11:14 PM
Jul 2019

stood up for what is right and just (except 85 congressmen). Meanwhile trump marches on. We will just limp to the polls, knowing no one had the savvy to protect the vote. JHC - think outside the box...have a national telethon to raise anti-theft software protection money!! Show over and over Republicans and trump stood against it. Do we gave zero money for ads??

First Speaker

(4,858 posts)
94. Our party needs moderates and small-c conservatives...
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 11:18 PM
Jul 2019

...really, anyone who believes in expertise, science, reason, and the principles of liberal democracy. It doesn't bother me if Dems in reddish areas are to my right; it's the only way they can win there. I'm an eclectic--a moderate, "conservative" on some issues, "liberal" on others...but radical when it comes to the threat to democracy the GOP poses. For instance--I'm open to the idea occasionally put forth that Trump's "judges" need to be removed, because his whole supposed presidency is a conspiracy of treason. Sooner or later we'll have to do something about the far-right, Federalist Society fascist judiciary. On the other hand, the people I'd like to see on the bench would be moderates--a court of David Souters would suit me just fine. I doubt that "a certain person" will win the nomination. But I'll vote, with enthusiasm or without, for whomever we nominate...

Response to redstatebluegirl (Original post)

Blaukraut

(5,998 posts)
96. Ask yourself what goals you share with the most progressive/left Dems on here
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 11:22 PM
Jul 2019

The path to that goal may differ, but I am willing to bet that the goals are the same. So work with the assumption of a common goal, and debate the path to that goal. But remember that we have much more in common than not. I'm a progressive. I want medicare for all. A living wage. Equal rights. Green New Deal. But I also know that realistically, it will take a few detours to get there and I am fine with incremental steps, as long as we don't go backward. Sure, there are days where I wish (being in Massachusetts) that we could just 'divorce' the rest of the US and go our own way or be annexed by Canada, but again - we up here in liberal states have to put up with the nonsense from the rest of the country, seeing how we are the United States. Think of the progressive/liberal wing of the Democratic party as the bulwark that protects you from conservatism by pushing back hard.

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
97. Stop letting others define you! You are welcome here.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 11:25 PM
Jul 2019

I occasionally ID as a moderate here on DU which is kind of a joke. I’m a bleeding heart liberal democrat.

Like most democrats I’m no socialist and am proud of that fact. And I abhor the term progressive for long standing family history.

Others may disagree. Don’t really care. I treat them with respect regardless of what I get back. Or at least do my best!

If you are a member of the Democratic Party you belong here. And yeah, I catch the Irony of that statement.

Indykatie

(3,868 posts)
98. I Too Will Vote For Our Party Nominee But Bernie Isn't The Only One I'd Be Sad To See Win.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 11:30 PM
Jul 2019

The far far left doesn't define our party though the GOP is working overtime to convince people that they do. They want folks to see the Justice Dems and Bernie as the face of our party when they are just a small segment.

 

Horizens

(637 posts)
99. Keep Your Ground
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 11:32 PM
Jul 2019

I'm more left than moderate but urge you to remain and have your say. The far left, I fear, will be a burden come the 2020 elections. Some left cites are nothing more than echo chambers for policies that just won't float with the political center needed to win in 2020.

Raine

(31,177 posts)
102. I know the feeling
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 11:45 PM
Jul 2019

I hate to quote Reagan (who I despise) but often " I feel like I didn't leave the party, it left me". Hang in there you're not alone.

murielm99

(32,988 posts)
103. Take a break if you need to,
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 11:46 PM
Jul 2019

but please come back.

You are a good Democrat and a good activist. Don't let the keyboard commandos tell you otherwise.

I have a feeling you are more of a progressive than the supporters of that person realize. Sometimes I wonder how they got the label, "far left." I think it is a media creation, not a true political position.

We need more threads like this one on DU.

Doremus

(7,273 posts)
104. For a long time now I've felt the opposite.
Sat Jul 20, 2019, 11:48 PM
Jul 2019

I've had posts zapped for criticizing centrists.

A small suggestion for all of us: let's avoid the labels and discuss the issues. IT'S ALL ABOUT THE ISSUES, folks. Fuck labels.

TryLogic

(2,291 posts)
107. In progressive oriented politics, moderate is a scary word. It suggests willingness to compromise...
Sun Jul 21, 2019, 12:13 AM
Jul 2019

with right wing radicals.

Left is scary. Right is scary. Right wing means radical. Liberal often makes people uneasy.
Conservative would sound pretty good if it were not for what that actually means in practice.

I am saying that discrete categories are not helpful. They create differences, in-groups and other, me versus you. Labels and categories are a tool for divisiveness. Guess who benefits from divisiveness in our ranks. Guess who promotes divisiveness. (I'm talking about Trump and Putin and FOX TV, etc.)

Can we stop with the categories and focus on solving problems, first by agreeing on what the problems are.

A good solution can come from anywhere - as long as those working on solutions are honorable and guided by integrity. (That pretty much leaves out today's Republicans, of course.)

One thing for sure: Trump knows how to fight, but he has absolutely no idea how to solve problems.

Democrats are problem solvers. "And don't you forget it!" ( :

Gothmog

(179,858 posts)
109. I am also a moderate
Sun Jul 21, 2019, 12:33 AM
Jul 2019

I have working hard to turn Texas blue. We flipped two red seats in the mid terms and the DCCC has targeted six additional seats. My congressional district and the district where my middle child live are targeted

2021 will be a redistricting session and the party needs 9 house seats to take control of the Texas House. The party has identified 17 seat and my state house seat is one of these seats I am not pulling back

I am a Democrat and I will continue to work hard

 

Trumpocalypse

(6,143 posts)
111. DU is not representative of the Democratic Party
Sun Jul 21, 2019, 12:36 AM
Jul 2019

Members here tend to be more extreme than the average Democrat.

ChaoticSilly

(374 posts)
114. You're not alone
Sun Jul 21, 2019, 02:29 AM
Jul 2019

I haven't felt welcome in the Democratic party for a few years now. I used to vote Democratic exclusively and my political opinions haven't changed but as an uneducated, working class stiff, it seems like the party has kicked me to the curb and left me in the dust. It's really sad that the party that once was the big tent party of tolerance has decided that I'm a lesser person simply because of who I am and where I live. I've never been a prolific poster but I still lurk occasionally because I feel it's important to stay informed and try to see different points of view.

I guess the bright side is that on election day I no longer have to stand in line for hours to vote for people who despise me.

demosincebirth

(12,826 posts)
116. I have been here since 2003 and felt very comfortable here.
Sun Jul 21, 2019, 03:22 AM
Jul 2019

I am also a moderate Democrat, and I feel very out of place at times. I remember why Humphrey lost the election in ‘68 and McGovern in ‘72. Many similar reasons why In 2016 we got the idiot-in-chief. Please, let us not shoot ourselves in the foot again.

 

elocs

(24,486 posts)
118. I'm where you're at--moderate, always voted for the Democratic candidates.
Sun Jul 21, 2019, 04:48 AM
Jul 2019

Then I must endure having those who believe as I do, although not me personally, being put down as being DINOs or Republican Lite.
But I will, as always, vote for the Democratic candidate.
In an election where, on paper, Trump should lose I anticipate the Left fracturing and handing him the election. We already have the excuses lined up for a loss--Russian interference, voter suppression, cheating--but it seems like we're never to blame. Who does that sound like?

Omaha Steve

(109,228 posts)
121. After a review by forum hosts....LOCKING
Sun Jul 21, 2019, 09:44 AM
Jul 2019

Per the decisions and instructions of the DU Admins, all OP's regarding Democratic candidates for the Party's nomination for President are to be posted in the Democratic Primaries Forum. Please post your OP there. Thanks

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