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dameatball

(7,396 posts)
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 04:59 PM Sep 2019

Is it just me or do fewer people carry wallets these days? When I was an adolescent I remember my

father telling me that a gentleman (whatever that was) always carries a wallet and a handkerchief. I quit carrying a handkerchief many years ago because it seemed so unnecessary. And if you need to use it do you really want it back in your pocket?
But it just seems like I know more and more people who have wallets, but leave them in the car or in their desk or whatever.

I know. It's an inane post, but the news is making me goofy.

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Is it just me or do fewer people carry wallets these days? When I was an adolescent I remember my (Original Post) dameatball Sep 2019 OP
I'd rather not have to carry around cards. Voltaire2 Sep 2019 #1
A plastic cc is a lot more reliable than a smart phone. Mosby Sep 2019 #2
I still carry a wallet but gave up on handkerchief years ago. 3Hotdogs Sep 2019 #3
Good point. And shirt sleeves can be rolled up as needed to hide the evidence. dameatball Sep 2019 #4
Depending on volume of discharge, 3Hotdogs Sep 2019 #6
Maybe this is why those zip-off pant legs have become popular. dameatball Sep 2019 #9
But for state ID or driver's license, I wouldn't need a wallet at all... targetpractice Sep 2019 #5
everything is on the phone JI7 Sep 2019 #7
Agree regardking handkercheifs. Dagstead Bumwood Sep 2019 #8
When I was young I always carried a wallet and a comb in my back pocket... Ohiya Sep 2019 #10
Hey I forgot about that one. Wallet and comb in the right rear pocket, handkerchief in the left. dameatball Sep 2019 #18
My son is a prosecutor and he actually carries a badge in his wallet... CTyankee Sep 2019 #11
If we didn't carry a wallet not_the_one Sep 2019 #12
When I was young I never carried a wallet 2naSalit Sep 2019 #13
I carry handmade34 Sep 2019 #14
Never leave the house without it Falcata Sep 2019 #15
I have pants pockets, ergo I carry a wallet. MineralMan Sep 2019 #16
Lots people have their credit cards, DL etc. in a pocket on their cell phone case jpak Sep 2019 #17
Perhaps I am Very Old-Fashioned Wiseman32218 Sep 2019 #19
I still use a wallet Codeine Sep 2019 #20
I carry a wallet. PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2019 #21
I stopped in China after the fourth time I caught someone trying to steal from my bag. meadowlander Sep 2019 #22
I use a wallet MurrayDelph Sep 2019 #23
I carry a wallet for cash/cards/ID Spider Jerusalem Sep 2019 #24
Remember this from Seinfeld: elocs Sep 2019 #25

3Hotdogs

(12,370 posts)
3. I still carry a wallet but gave up on handkerchief years ago.
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 05:18 PM
Sep 2019

Instead, when I need a hanky, I use the big one ( Wipe nose on shirt sleeve).

It works and its quicker to get to than fumbling for a small piece of cloth.

targetpractice

(4,919 posts)
5. But for state ID or driver's license, I wouldn't need a wallet at all...
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 05:21 PM
Sep 2019

... Cash is super annoying to carry around, deposit, etc.

Dagstead Bumwood

(3,621 posts)
8. Agree regardking handkercheifs.
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 05:28 PM
Sep 2019

I probably haven't carried one of those since I was a kid, 40+ years ago. Kleenex seems to be ubiquitous at this point, so I can always bum one off of someone. But, no wallet? How does that work? I always make sure I have some cash on me, and there's my driver license, and insurance cards if there's an accident or doctor's appointment. And I have a 'dumb' phone, and that won't be of any help. So, I cant even begin to imagine life without a wallet.

I wear a wristwatch too, if that's where this conversation is eventually headed.

dameatball

(7,396 posts)
18. Hey I forgot about that one. Wallet and comb in the right rear pocket, handkerchief in the left.
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 09:30 PM
Sep 2019

Then I got a flat top and the comb never recovered.

CTyankee

(63,901 posts)
11. My son is a prosecutor and he actually carries a badge in his wallet...
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 05:53 PM
Sep 2019

I mean, a real badge...you know, with the pointy shape. He has to use it to get into work every day (and the courthouse, of course). I just thought that was so cool...

 

not_the_one

(2,227 posts)
12. If we didn't carry a wallet
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 05:57 PM
Sep 2019

Where would we keep that condom that every teenage boy HAD to carry (but never got lucky enough to use.... so it remained virgin for such a long time that it was probably permeable... So it was lucky that we never got to use it )?



2naSalit

(86,528 posts)
13. When I was young I never carried a wallet
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 07:33 PM
Sep 2019

Now I don't lock the door before I do a quick check for wallet, phone & keys. If I have all those, I'm good to go most of the time. I make a point to load all other things before going back inside to retrieve those items which also include a hat and shades.

handmade34

(22,756 posts)
14. I carry
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 08:06 PM
Sep 2019

my father's wallet.... when he died I gave all the money (about 1k) in it to a woman that I had hired to help care for him and thought it would be wise to use the wallet for myself (that and his scores of handkerchiefs)

Falcata

(156 posts)
15. Never leave the house without it
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 08:26 PM
Sep 2019

Got my license and debit card in it and usually less than $20 in it. If you've ever watched Live PD you would be amazed at the people driving around with no ID or license. That person will never be me

MineralMan

(146,286 posts)
16. I have pants pockets, ergo I carry a wallet.
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 08:38 PM
Sep 2019

It's in my left front pocket. In the right front pocket are my keys and a three-blade stockman's knife. Always, unless I'm flying somewhere.

jpak

(41,757 posts)
17. Lots people have their credit cards, DL etc. in a pocket on their cell phone case
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 08:40 PM
Sep 2019

What they do with cash is a mystery though....

Wiseman32218

(291 posts)
19. Perhaps I am Very Old-Fashioned
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 11:46 PM
Sep 2019

but I carry a money clip with about $20.00 and my ID's and insurance cards. Never had a Hankie, they just seem gross!!!

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,841 posts)
21. I carry a wallet.
Mon Sep 2, 2019, 01:08 AM
Sep 2019

Despite my screen name I'm a woman, so it's in my purse.

Those who never have cash are idiots, because there are times when you do need cash, such as if you want to buy a pack of gum. Okay, so you can use your debit or credit card, but the store will have a certain minimum, usually two or three dollars, and so you wind up buying stuff you don't need just to met that minimum. If, instead, you kept twenty bucks or so in your wallet, you'd spend the fifty cents or so the gum cost. Period.

Likewise, people who never have a credit card with them are idiots because if you're somewhere and your car breaks down, how are you going to pay for the repairs? Or the hotel you need to stay in overnight?

Hankies, no one needs. There's always tissues.

When I was a little girl in Catholic school we were required to have a hanky, and a common question was, "Is it for show or blow?"

meadowlander

(4,394 posts)
22. I stopped in China after the fourth time I caught someone trying to steal from my bag.
Mon Sep 2, 2019, 01:30 AM
Sep 2019

I figured why make it easy for them by putting all the good stuff in one liftable element.

Now I carry everything loose and in different pockets. I only ever really use one credit card, the odd loyalty card and sometimes my library card and I can plan ahead for where I'm going so whatever I need is in the top pocket and easy to grab.

MurrayDelph

(5,293 posts)
23. I use a wallet
Mon Sep 2, 2019, 02:39 AM
Sep 2019

which I carry in a leather hip pouch I bought at a Renaissance Faire before hand surgery, so I could carry everything on one side. Also in the pouch are my passport, a spare cellphone battery, and my house and car keys (which thanks to keyless entry and ignition, I rarely have to take out of the pouch)

I also carry a money clip in a front pocket. Decades ago, a "travel wisely" video suggested keeping ID and money separately, so if a robber confronts you, you can throw the money at him and skedaddle the other way with you cards and ID.

I USED to carry a handkerchief, but not out of the habit.

 

Spider Jerusalem

(21,786 posts)
24. I carry a wallet for cash/cards/ID
Mon Sep 2, 2019, 02:44 AM
Sep 2019

and I also wear a wristwatch because it's easier and more convenient than a phone for telling the time.

elocs

(22,566 posts)
25. Remember this from Seinfeld:
Mon Sep 2, 2019, 06:18 AM
Sep 2019

I still carry a wallet, except for 20 years I have carried it in my front pocket since I had a back injury that required surgery.
Occasionally I will look through my wallet and discover things that should have been thrown away years ago, expired coupons and the like as well as my 9th grade ID card.

Carrying a wallet is likely generational and for guys our wallets really do become a part of us which is why when we lose them we are in such a panic because it's like, "My God! I've lost my hand, where did I leave my hand?"

Also, in my wallet I carry a spare key for my car so I don't worry about getting locked out.
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