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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region Forumstrump threatened Lindsey Graham to keep him in line?
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Obviously, Don Winslow's friend could be talking out of his ass. But Graham's 360 is not normal. He even allowed trump to disparage his BFF, McCain, even after McCain's death. If it's true that trump threatened Graham, I wonder how many other Senators/ Congressmen trump has threatened? And what threat is so bad that Graham is willing to betray his country?
pangaia
(24,324 posts)ProudMNDemocrat
(16,783 posts)It is no secret that there is and NEVER has been a Mrs. Lindsey Graham in all his years in Congress.
NanceGreggs
(27,813 posts)... why there's never been a Mrs. Lindsay Graham. 'Outing' him would simply be revealing what's been obvious to most people all along.
ecstatic
(32,681 posts)he's gay or not.
Maybe Graham was hacked by Russians and had illegal or embarrassing material in his email or on his computer.
Still not worth aiding and abetting a traitor, however.
arthritisR_US
(7,286 posts)for younger males and not those of his age group.
mr_lebowski
(33,643 posts)That would be mortified if they were 'outed', even if the whole world basically 'knows', as is case with Graham.
Put on top of it the fact that he's a Senator from Southern State?
He grew up in a different time, I'm fairly certain with parents who would've taught him being gay was 100% evil.
Even when 'the times change', people don't always change along with them, even when it's to their advantage (one would think) to do so.
I absolutely believe it's possible Graham could be manipulated by threats of being outed ... which is not to say that he's NOT also got proclivities toward men much his junior, but I wouldn't say that's a requirement ... to extorting him.
Sad as it is, some people would rather die than have 'everyone know', again, esp. people of older generations.
As an aside, wasn't it just yesterday a teen took their own life over being outed on instagram?
arthritisR_US
(7,286 posts)mr_lebowski
(33,643 posts)Intuitively what you're arguing 'makes sense' in this day and age ... but ... people don't always make sense.
Baitball Blogger
(46,699 posts)Baitball Blogger
(46,699 posts)Probably one of those who masturbated to some video porn, and that porn was gay.
Doesn't matter what we think. It's working on Lindsay, who has been living a double life. The conservative social circles that he operates in will disown him.
dchill
(38,471 posts)I'm also thinking Trump laid this on him during that golf outing, and that the real message was from Putin. As usual, Trump was just the messenger boy. That's my take. The change from critic to acolyte was practically instantaneous.
Skittles
(153,147 posts)not all lifelong bachelors are gay
AlexSFCA
(6,137 posts)1. never been known to have romantic relationship with a woman
2. holding anti-gay public positions - a common trait of closeted republicans
3. sending gaydars through the roof with his delicate mannerisms
4. His response to rumors about him being gay « To the extent that it matters, I'm not gay'» - phrasing it like this is pretty much admitting that he is. Its crystal clear what he meant - he is gay but it has no influence on his political positions.
I dont think that the kompromat is just that. To change quickly like that, it must be something criminal, which very well might be sexual encounters with minors. Think about it, Graham is an accomplice to treason; it must be far more than merely being gay.
Skittles
(153,147 posts)I just did not care for the assertion that "lack of a Mrs." = gay (NOT that there is anything wrong with being gay)
True Blue American
(17,984 posts)octoberlib
(14,971 posts)cwydro
(51,308 posts)Sickening to continue to read this shit here.
octoberlib
(14,971 posts)PoindexterOglethorpe
(25,841 posts)My very best friend in the whole world is a man who has never married, but who I'm inclined to describe as "a flaming heterosexual".
In his case, it really does come down to the fact that he never met the right woman. In a different version of this life he'd have married and had children and would now have grandchildren, but it never worked out that way.
Norbert
(6,039 posts)Hasn't had a serious relationship with a woman since college. He is as hetrosexual as I am.
AlexSFCA
(6,137 posts)When Graham was asked to address gay rumors, he answered To the extent that it matters, I am not gay . He did not say he is heterosexual. It was crystal clear to me that he meant him being gay does not affect his political positions which is unfortunate because it is politics that try to restrict our rights.
Tipperary
(6,930 posts)So sick of this crap.
fleur-de-lisa
(14,624 posts)and now cant remember the source, but the gist of the story is that Lindsey has a longtime boyfriend who is married to a woman. The boyfriend is in the military and the wife doesnt know. The story is that Lindsey doesnt want to harm the boyfriend and his wife.
Surely people who live in South Carolina have heard rumors over the years. I cant believe they have no clue about this.
RockRaven
(14,958 posts)but it is fucking pathetic that Graham is such a weak coward. What's Trump got? Campaign contributions from Russians? Graham is closeted? So fucking what? That is worth being disgraced in this OTHER way?!
Have some sense of self-worth, you pathetic moist Kleenex!
Grasswire2
(13,566 posts)...to one's country and the constitution.
Bezos taught us what to do about blackmail. Run directly at it with the truth, take your lumps, and be free.
pnwest
(3,266 posts)was being blackmailed by a guy threatening to go public about his being involved with an intern? He owned up to it, gave a serious, eloquent mea culpa - and that was it. Nobody talked about it again, and bad guy went to jail I think. I always loved Dave, and admired how he handled that.
Garrett78
(10,721 posts)Patterson
(1,529 posts)True Blue American
(17,984 posts)Come before the funeral? If so it would explain Lindsey inviting Jared and Ivanka against McCain wishes.
That alone puts him in the dirty dog house with me. Also, the fact they attended when they were not wanted is so low class I have no expression for that.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,670 posts)and has attached himself like a remora to Trump because he likes to be where the power is. Hes an authoritarian follower.
Buzz cook
(2,471 posts)The only threat Lindsey or any other republican needs is they may lose their seat. The only incentive they need is tax cuts for their patrons.
octoberlib
(14,971 posts)Since Graham's started being Trump's best buddy , his poll numbers have gone from 40% to over 70%. Graham made a comment that he supports Trump because "it's relevant". It's relevant because he's up for re-election and doesn't want to be primaried. Also, he wants to be close to power.
Funtatlaguy
(10,870 posts)AlexSFCA
(6,137 posts)so your theory is quite probable. Especially if putin has bulletproof evidence.
True Blue American
(17,984 posts)Funtatlaguy
(10,870 posts)Like a rogue Boy Scout leader who specializes in a very wrong type of merit badge give and take.
2naSalit
(86,534 posts)at the top of my list.
NCLefty
(3,678 posts)Hrm.. maybe he's trying to fix Google's second place search-prediction for "lind"? :p
Jane Austin
(9,199 posts)Just curious.
Maru Kitteh
(28,339 posts)Put up, or shut up.
Graham is just being the same jackass he's always been.
Tipperary
(6,930 posts)Anyone can say something vague like that. He should know better.
Funtatlaguy
(10,870 posts)When McCain was alive, he was the biggest anti Russian, NKorea, dictator country guy in the Senate.
Something major changed his attitude toward trump
True Blue American
(17,984 posts)octoberlib
(14,971 posts)anti-Trump his poll numbers tanked. All Trump had to threaten him with was a primary opponent.
True Blue American
(17,984 posts)Focused on Graham sitting nervously looking all around I began to wonder what was wrong with him. Then I found he had invited Ivanka and Jared to the McCain funeral when John himself and the family made it clear they wanted no Trumps there I knew something was wrong with Lindsey.
His frequent out bursts of sheer rage made it clear he is seething with anger. His rage was so unusual, his turnaround, sucking up to Trump was exactly the same as Trump practically bowing to Putin.
Think about that.
Funtatlaguy
(10,870 posts)smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)I mean, he's really invested in it with his whole heart and soul. I would guess this is almost a life and death matter for him and not simply somebody threatening to out him as a gay man.
True Blue American
(17,984 posts)octoberlib
(14,971 posts)His poll numbers were in the crapper, a GOP strategist said if an election were held right then , Lindsey would lose. After Lindsey started genuflecting to Trump , his polls rose from under 50% to over 70%. SC is a staunch Trump supporting state. Its the exact same reason Cruz, Sasse etc are now kissing Trumps ass. They dont want to be primaried.
Republican politics in SC is dog eat dog and brutal, they take each other down all the time. If Lindsey were gay , I think it would have come out by now , but maybe not, dont know.
empedocles
(15,751 posts)trump did. There were testimonies of the the mobster way, trump's personal lawyer Michael Cohen made threats.
Graham more vulnerable than Sessions. [Lindsey, very articulate, could be a tremendous 'flip', if down the road, he decides to go that way].
lindysalsagal
(20,666 posts)here at camp david:
True Blue American
(17,984 posts)Who will ne next?
OldRed2450
(710 posts)He is gay due to his "delicate mannerisms?" and perhaps he likes younger males? I can't believe this is posted on a democrat board. I'm so disappointed.
octoberlib
(14,971 posts)True Blue American
(17,984 posts)The homosexual thing has anything to do with what is wrong with Lindsey. No one would care. This is much more serious.
jcgoldie
(11,631 posts)Its interesting how people out themselves. Enjoy your stay on DU!
OldRed2450
(710 posts)Is policing my spelling all you have to say on this topic?
jcgoldie
(11,631 posts)But using democrat as an adjective is a slip not a typo.
OldRed2450
(710 posts)You attack new people for that? Good Grief!
jcgoldie
(11,631 posts)Nope just making an observation. Have a nice day!
OldRed2450
(710 posts)That seems like a snide remark or at the least passive aggressive insinuation that I would be banned for writing democrat and not democratic.
Tommy_Carcetti
(43,173 posts)During the campaign, Trump gave away Grahams personal phone number on national television and urged his supporters to pester him. Graham himself said Trump was terribly unfit to be president.
It was never more obvious this sudden friendship was procured through threats, and probably horrible ones.
onetexan
(13,036 posts)so the Russians clearly have blackmail info they're using to blackmail Graham, Moscow Mitch, and others. This is the only conjecture that makes sense to me at this point.
MineralMan
(146,286 posts)Just lay it all out for us. Why wouldn't you?
Innuendo sucks. If you know something, say something. He's gay? Who cares? It would have to be a lot bigger than that.
stopdiggin
(11,295 posts)You have the story? Then tell us the damned story!
Any real evidence you want to share?
Do you know anything .. or don't you?
Stop with the cutsie "oh, it must be something bad .." crap.