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(52,123 posts)
Mon Nov 11, 2019, 11:53 AM Nov 2019

did you know that "diversity" is a bad word? no, a really, *really* bad word?

according to right-wingers, anyway. normal people think diversity is a good thing, or at least they accept the concept.

it's not just that they disagree with it, they treat it like the worst of swear words.

when we visited my brother-in-law, he *banned* us from uttering the word in his house, lest his 8 year-old son hear the word. and it's not just him, we've heard similar stories from others, i'm sure foxnews and rush are telling him that.

i get that they don't like the concept, but treating it like it's a swear word is really bizarre.

ah, the joys of family....

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did you know that "diversity" is a bad word? no, a really, *really* bad word? (Original Post) unblock Nov 2019 OP
"I have formed my opinion... Wounded Bear Nov 2019 #1
if he could raise his son to never see a black person, he would. unblock Nov 2019 #4
Sounds like the kind of person shanti Nov 2019 #13
oh there's no way in hell he would ever go to that state! unblock Nov 2019 #16
Try "tolerance" or "inclusion." See if those words are banned, too. The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2019 #2
we did manage to talk about the concepts, avoiding the dread d-word. unblock Nov 2019 #3
Tell him that you'll use it's opposite ... 'homogeneity' ... as often as possible then mr_lebowski Nov 2019 #5
The kid won't do too well in Science when they discuss adaptation and species world wide wally Nov 2019 #6
Racists are really good at rationalizing science until it supports their superiority... Hekate Nov 2019 #17
Man, white bread all of the time must get so boring. Hugin Nov 2019 #7
Inbreeding is such a wonderful thing Beausoleil Nov 2019 #8
Hegemony, homogeneity... they really are virtues to them ck4829 Nov 2019 #21
They need to get their head out of the sand and stop trying to... brush Nov 2019 #9
Yep ck4829 Nov 2019 #22
what? No taco truck on every corner? OKNancy Nov 2019 #10
Ha ck4829 Nov 2019 #23
That's when I turn right the fuck around and leave. Seriously. Why would you tolerate someone Maru Kitteh Nov 2019 #11
well, we made him be one of the chuppah bearers at our wedding unblock Nov 2019 #14
That is an iron will right there ck4829 Nov 2019 #24
In that case I would use the word a lot pandr32 Nov 2019 #12
that's the thing, it's not merely the concept that he's banned, it's the word -- in any context. unblock Nov 2019 #15
add Empathy to that list nt G_j Nov 2019 #18
yup! unblock Nov 2019 #19
Another profanity to them ck4829 Nov 2019 #25
Taste the crazy! ck4829 Nov 2019 #20
Has the BIL had a genetic ancestry test? DBoon Nov 2019 #26
his mother did unblock Nov 2019 #27
If he is mostly European ancestry, then he is probaly 2-3% Neanderthal csziggy Nov 2019 #28
I could be wrong but I'm pretty sure that diversity is an old wooden ship from the Civil War era. Initech Nov 2019 #29

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(52,123 posts)
4. if he could raise his son to never see a black person, he would.
Mon Nov 11, 2019, 12:01 PM
Nov 2019

he's in north dakota now. apparently it's not white enough so he's thinking about moving to wyoming.

shanti

(21,675 posts)
13. Sounds like the kind of person
Mon Nov 11, 2019, 01:28 PM
Nov 2019

who would go ballistic if he saw an interracial couple/family. He should stay far away from California!

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(52,123 posts)
16. oh there's no way in hell he would ever go to that state!
Mon Nov 11, 2019, 01:41 PM
Nov 2019

he'd quit his job if they tried to send him on a business trip there!

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(52,123 posts)
3. we did manage to talk about the concepts, avoiding the dread d-word.
Mon Nov 11, 2019, 11:59 AM
Nov 2019

yeah, he can't ban "tolerance", because the right-wing insists the rest of us "tolerate" their odious sturm und drang.

he of course fumed at how we were able to get around his silly rules.

but at the end of the day, if he insists on raising a little hitler youth, there's not much we can do about it....

 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
5. Tell him that you'll use it's opposite ... 'homogeneity' ... as often as possible then
Mon Nov 11, 2019, 12:15 PM
Nov 2019

Make sure to emphasize the beginning part of the word when you say it.

Hekate

(90,561 posts)
17. Racists are really good at rationalizing science until it supports their superiority...
Mon Nov 11, 2019, 02:01 PM
Nov 2019

Easy peasy.

The ones who have an insurmountable problem with Science are the fundamentalists.

Beausoleil

(2,838 posts)
8. Inbreeding is such a wonderful thing
Mon Nov 11, 2019, 12:18 PM
Nov 2019

when "diversity" is weeded out of the gene pool.

As was the racial purity of the Nazis.

And anyway, why can't we all be exactly alike? Why can't everyone in the world think like I want them to?

As we learn from the right wing, you cannot just be "different" or disagree, you must be wrong (evil, defective).

brush

(53,743 posts)
9. They need to get their head out of the sand and stop trying to...
Mon Nov 11, 2019, 12:33 PM
Nov 2019

forestall the near future. By the 2030s the nation will be a majority minority nation as whites will no longer over 50% of the population.

Diversity will then be unavoidable and undeniable. Wonder what will they do then?

Maru Kitteh

(28,317 posts)
11. That's when I turn right the fuck around and leave. Seriously. Why would you tolerate someone
Mon Nov 11, 2019, 01:02 PM
Nov 2019

telling you, like you were a damn child, what words you're allowed to use?


I once drove 3.5 hours once to go to my BIL's daughter's wedding reception and he started shaking his finger, right in my face, about "YOUR PRESIDENT" (Obama) 3 minutes after I took my coat off. I shit you not, the only thing I had said to him at all at that point was light, small talk about the weather. Nota single breath climate change mind you, just light, ordinary talk about some heavy rain that had fallen recently.

I didn't even speak. I just picked up my coat, looked at my SIL and thanked her for inviting us and left. Drove the 3.5 hours back home, and I never did that shit again.



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(52,123 posts)
14. well, we made him be one of the chuppah bearers at our wedding
Mon Nov 11, 2019, 01:38 PM
Nov 2019

if he was able to put his anti-semitism aside long enough to do that, while watching his sister marry a jew , we can avoid a word or two when visiting him in his own house.

but yeah, doesn't mean it isn't infuriating....

pandr32

(11,557 posts)
12. In that case I would use the word a lot
Mon Nov 11, 2019, 01:25 PM
Nov 2019

I would throw it into everything like mentioning the diversity of the dishes served on the table, the diversity of the plants in the garden, the diversity of the contents of the fridge, the diversity of items in the closets and drawers, the diversity of the shows on TV, etc. to take away any unfortunate stigma they try to attach to it and to show that it is a word that means variety--not so scary.
I am already enjoying my coffee in the "Merry Coffee" cup from Starbucks and look forward to some happy holidays.
We must do what we can to troll deplorables.

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(52,123 posts)
15. that's the thing, it's not merely the concept that he's banned, it's the word -- in any context.
Mon Nov 11, 2019, 01:40 PM
Nov 2019

DBoon

(22,340 posts)
26. Has the BIL had a genetic ancestry test?
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 09:30 AM
Nov 2019

Does he have documentation of his family tree going back several centuries?

Is he sure he is of pure Aryan blood?

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(52,123 posts)
27. his mother did
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 09:38 AM
Nov 2019

100% european, nearly all anglo-saxon.

father never did, but probably similar, maybe more german than british.

but if he turned out to be 3% black, e.g., he'd dismiss it as irrelevant.

csziggy

(34,131 posts)
28. If he is mostly European ancestry, then he is probaly 2-3% Neanderthal
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 09:43 AM
Nov 2019

I'd bet he would not like knowing that he is part "cave man" even though Neanderthal were very intelligent beings that used technology in similar ways to the Homo Sapiens who took their territory.

Initech

(100,040 posts)
29. I could be wrong but I'm pretty sure that diversity is an old wooden ship from the Civil War era.
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 10:13 AM
Nov 2019


Sad that today's conservatives have the same definition of diversity as Ron Burgundy does.
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