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Hekate

(90,562 posts)
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 12:21 AM Nov 2019

UPDATE W/ THANKS BELOW. I never ask for Prayer but tonight I turn to you my friends

Last edited Tue Nov 26, 2019, 10:05 PM - Edit history (2)

My son and his home are suddenly in an explosive fire zone in Santa Barbara. I emailed him and texted him -- don't know if we'll hear back, but he is definitely in the evacuation zone.

My #1 brother is extremely ill in Oregon, and #2 brother (SoCal) has been keeping me and our sis (NY) apprised. The good news, I guess, is we have not heard anything today. On Sunday we thought we might be trying to get flights over Thanksgiving.

I was maintaining until I turned on the news and saw the fire.

So I'm asking. If you believe in prayer or just a good thought, my family could use some tonight.



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UPDATE W/ THANKS BELOW. I never ask for Prayer but tonight I turn to you my friends (Original Post) Hekate Nov 2019 OP
Positive thoughts Bettie Nov 2019 #1
Thank you. It's going to be a long, hard night Hekate Nov 2019 #3
I'm sorry to hear this MustLoveBeagles Nov 2019 #2
Thank you Hekate Nov 2019 #4
You and your family are in my thoughts. Nevilledog Nov 2019 #5
Thank you Hekate Nov 2019 #6
may he have rain or at least clear roads Hermit-The-Prog Nov 2019 #7
Yes Hekate Nov 2019 #9
please update as you can Hermit-The-Prog Nov 2019 #15
Nothing yet, except it's blown up to 3200 acres with strong cold down-canyon gusts... Hekate Nov 2019 #52
the expanse of fires out there is just hard to comprehend Hermit-The-Prog Nov 2019 #60
.. roamer65 Nov 2019 #8
Thank you, too Hekate Nov 2019 #10
Positive vibes, my friend JHB Nov 2019 #149
Prayers for your family and for you. coeur_de_lion Nov 2019 #11
Thank you Hekate Nov 2019 #18
My thoughts are with you and yours, Hekate. sheshe2 Nov 2019 #12
Thank you. This is going to be a long night for a lot of people... Hekate Nov 2019 #17
I'm so sorry BigMin28 Nov 2019 #13
Thank you so much Hekate Nov 2019 #19
On prayers irisblue Nov 2019 #14
Thank you Hekate Nov 2019 #20
Sending up prayers for you, your son, your brother and your whole family. pnwmom Nov 2019 #16
Much needed and much appreciated Hekate Nov 2019 #23
All my good thoughts for you and your precious family, my dear Hekate... CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2019 #21
Thank you Peggy Hekate Nov 2019 #24
Positive energy heading your way for you and your family. yonder Nov 2019 #22
Thank you Hekate Nov 2019 #29
May all be safe and well blogslut Nov 2019 #25
Thank you Hekate Nov 2019 #31
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 DUgosh Nov 2019 #26
Thank you Hekate Nov 2019 #32
Positive thoughts of healing and safety for your family. onecaliberal Nov 2019 #27
Thank you Hekate Nov 2019 #34
Lots of prayerful thoughts sent into the universe Blue_playwright Nov 2019 #28
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #35
Sending them on to you and your family. FM123 Nov 2019 #30
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #37
Will light a candle for your family...and for all those in harm's way. RestoreAmerica2020 Nov 2019 #33
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #40
Hekate pdxflyboy Nov 2019 #36
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #42
Nothing wrong with prayer ismnotwasm Nov 2019 #38
Yes. Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #44
From one mama to another, dear Hekate. MontanaMama Nov 2019 #39
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #45
Prayers for the safety of your son and family and for the health and comfort of your brother. May emmaverybo Nov 2019 #41
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #46
Of course. n/t Harker Nov 2019 #43
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #47
... Harker Nov 2019 #48
Prayers and positive thoughts. Adsos Letter Nov 2019 #49
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #54
.... spanone Nov 2019 #50
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #58
☮️ spanone Nov 2019 #66
Sending wishes for serenity, strength... 3catwoman3 Nov 2019 #51
You have my Thoughts and Prayers!!! Wiseman32218 Nov 2019 #53
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #59
You are more than welcome, I cannot imagine your fears, anxiety concerns you have. I really wish you Wiseman32218 Nov 2019 #65
may there be good news, and may it travel fast. mopinko Nov 2019 #55
Thank you, mopinko... Hekate Nov 2019 #62
Oh no I feel so bad for you. You have all my best thoughts and hopes. ancianita Nov 2019 #56
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #63
I can see the fire from downtown Santa Barbara. Glimmer of Hope Nov 2019 #57
Do take care of yourself, Glimmer, and be prepared to move fast... Hekate Nov 2019 #68
I usually don't worry but this one is too close for comfort. Glimmer of Hope Nov 2019 #80
We lived in Goleta until 2 years ago, when we moved to Ventura... Hekate Nov 2019 #81
My prayers for you and family. oasis Nov 2019 #61
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #70
Good thoughts for you, dear Hekate UpInArms Nov 2019 #64
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #72
You and your loved ones will be in the thoughts of so many until we hear more from you... Judi Lynn Nov 2019 #67
Thank you Judi Lynn Hekate Nov 2019 #73
Prayers for positive outcomes! mfcorey1 Nov 2019 #69
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #74
🙏🏻 dweller Nov 2019 #71
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #82
I am here with you tonight. Grasswire2 Nov 2019 #75
Thank you, and hope your friend remains okay Hekate Nov 2019 #84
I will say a short prayer for you. Chipper Chat Nov 2019 #76
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #88
Good vibrations for your dear ones. Captain Zero Nov 2019 #77
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #86
Loving thoughts cilla4progress Nov 2019 #78
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #89
sending good vibes Demovictory9 Nov 2019 #79
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #91
Prayers and positive thoughts Raine Nov 2019 #83
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #92
... SunSeeker Nov 2019 #85
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #94
... SunSeeker Nov 2019 #95
Stay strong and be prepared for great things that come from shared sacrifices and challenges grantcart Nov 2019 #87
Thank you, grantcart... Hekate Nov 2019 #98
I'm with you, Hekate. Mersky Nov 2019 #90
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #99
. Mersky Nov 2019 #101
I'm sending hopes for everyone, you especially. nolabear Nov 2019 #93
Thank you, nolabear... Hekate Nov 2019 #100
My heart hurts for you. It is my honor to intercede for your request. sprinkleeninow Nov 2019 #96
Thank you, sprinkleeninow... Hekate Nov 2019 #103
I believe I have seen prayer work. ... spin Nov 2019 #97
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #104
Prayers on their way to you and your family, dear Hekate! pazzyanne Nov 2019 #102
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #105
Sending to you and your family ... maryallen Nov 2019 #110
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #119
Sending good thoughts your way, Hekate. diva77 Nov 2019 #106
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #108
🙏 demosincebirth Nov 2019 #107
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #109
Of course. Wishing you peace during this time. Maraya1969 Nov 2019 #111
Thank you, Maraya.... Hekate Nov 2019 #118
I can't even imagine gopiscrap Nov 2019 #112
Thank you... Hekate Nov 2019 #117
Praying for you and your family, Hekate liberaltrucker Nov 2019 #113
Thank you, liberaltrucker... Hekate Nov 2019 #116
Scary fire! Rain is forecast Tuesday afternoon or evening, so hoping firefighters can hold the line Liberty Belle Nov 2019 #114
Thank you, Liberty Belle... Hekate Nov 2019 #115
Here's a map of the evacuation zone, searchable by address: Liberty Belle Nov 2019 #132
My suspicion is that your loved ones will be fine: Volaris Nov 2019 #120
Thank you, Volaris... Hekate Nov 2019 #121
In your defense, you must be damn tired of posting all the thank yous tonight... Volaris Nov 2019 #123
I will do that Hekate Nov 2019 #124
Good and healing vibes sent your way, Hekate....nt Heartstrings Nov 2019 #122
i offer up a plea to the universe orleans Nov 2019 #125
How awful to have to wait for news... it's the absolute worst renate Nov 2019 #126
Local news just reported no structures have burned thus far. onecaliberal Nov 2019 #127
Sending your family love and light Withywindle Nov 2019 #128
Prayers for your family and you, for safe passage mahina Nov 2019 #129
Having all that dumped on your plate at once is a cruel twist DFW Nov 2019 #130
I am right there with you. Just heard from my friend who is 3 miles from the fire. Stinky The Clown Nov 2019 #131
Many good thoughts to you during a time when you need them. AJT Nov 2019 #133
My thoughts and prayers are with you Hekate still_one Nov 2019 #134
May all improve soon, Hekate hlthe2b Nov 2019 #135
Hugs malaise Nov 2019 #136
You got it... tavernier Nov 2019 #137
Sending strength and hope. democrank Nov 2019 #138
So very sorry. Scarsdale Nov 2019 #139
You're on my prayer list Clash City Rocker Nov 2019 #140
Hoping and praying lillypaddle Nov 2019 #141
Coming your way Hekate. redwitch Nov 2019 #142
Holding you and your family in my heart and praying that you will awaken to good news. Tanuki Nov 2019 #143
From CALFIRE nitpicker Nov 2019 #144
sending lots of good thoughts... a la izquierda Nov 2019 #145
Thinking of you MFM008 Nov 2019 #146
Sending you positive vibes. dewsgirl Nov 2019 #147
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾, Hekate. BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2019 #148
Sending you and your family positive thoughts. CaptYossarian Nov 2019 #150
Prayers, friend. Poeraria Nov 2019 #151
Sending good thoughts panader0 Nov 2019 #152
Adding my prayers to the many others ChazII Nov 2019 #153
Sending prayers Docreed2003 Nov 2019 #154
Very heavy winds overnight, decreasing, may get some rain tonight. Hortensis Nov 2019 #155
Ask and ye shall receive, Hekate. Hugin Nov 2019 #156
Sending positive thoughts and prayers. nt SayItLoud Nov 2019 #157
Thinking of your family... N_E_1 for Tennis Nov 2019 #158
Positive thoughts from here, specifically ... planetc Nov 2019 #159
Keeping you in our thoughts. kag Nov 2019 #160
Positive thoughts, good vibrations and prayers sent to your family in need. lark Nov 2019 #161
Sorry so late, just read this. I am so sorry to hear about these events negatively impacting ... SWBTATTReg Nov 2019 #162
Sure hope things have held overnight, Hekate. JohnnyLib2 Nov 2019 #163
In my thoughts... CaptainTruth Nov 2019 #164
Sending them your way WinstonSmith4740 Nov 2019 #165
Sending positive thoughts your way! denvine Nov 2019 #166
Good thoughts and vibes heading your way! Raster Nov 2019 #167
I'm sending strong positive thoughts that all remain safe. yardwork Nov 2019 #168
Good vibes to you and yours. Lady Freedom Returns Nov 2019 #169
Of course, Hekate! radical noodle Nov 2019 #170
You are in my prayers!!!!! onecent Nov 2019 #171
I am so sorry to hear this pandr32 Nov 2019 #172
I send good vibes to you OldBaldy1701E Nov 2019 #173
Done and done. sarge43 Nov 2019 #174
I am thinking of you and yours, Hekate Tom Rinaldo Nov 2019 #175
Dear DU Friend, Mme. Defarge Nov 2019 #176
Prayer shenmue Nov 2019 #177
Sending all kinds of good vibes for your family! Alliepoo Nov 2019 #178
Sending calming thoughts, prayers, and lots of DU love your way! nt woodsprite Nov 2019 #179
Prayers for you and family, Hekate. guillaumeb Nov 2019 #180
Prayers and Positive Vibrations. H2O Man Nov 2019 #181
I am touched beyond measure Hekate Nov 2019 #206
Oh, you are so nice! H2O Man Nov 2019 #209
Thinking of you.... peacebuzzard Nov 2019 #182
Sending prayers your way bluestarone Nov 2019 #183
I'm so sorry all this is happening Cha Nov 2019 #184
Holding you and family in the Light, dear Hekate. nt TygrBright Nov 2019 #185
Hekate, thinking babylonsister Nov 2019 #186
Consider it done. n/t PatrickforO Nov 2019 #187
Well, for worries in Santa Barbara, as of an hour ago the report was Hortensis Nov 2019 #188
Good vibes from Oregon. Enoki33 Nov 2019 #189
Best wishes Marthe48 Nov 2019 #190
What's the latest news on this fire? n/t malaise Nov 2019 #191
Prayers on the way for you and your family. highplainsdem Nov 2019 #192
Sending positive thoughts to you and your family Hekate. smirkymonkey Nov 2019 #193
Prayer just sent, our dear Hekate. montana_hazeleyes Nov 2019 #194
GRATEFUL THANKS: I TRULY BELIEVE YOU HELPED... Hekate Nov 2019 #195
Prayers and wishes that things continue getting better thinkingagain Nov 2019 #196
The storm that is arriving tonight should put out the fire, or at least slow it down! CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2019 #198
I am so glad ismnotwasm Nov 2019 #199
Thank you for the update Gothmog Nov 2019 #202
I have been thinking about you. sheshe2 Nov 2019 #203
So glad that the edges are getting less sharp UpInArms Nov 2019 #204
Thanks for update. Glad your son and doggie safe and your brother is stable. You were strong. emmaverybo Nov 2019 #205
Stay safe, mi amigo liberaltrucker Nov 2019 #207
So good to hear all around, including that you're still home and Hortensis Nov 2019 #208
wishing the best for you and yours Skittles Nov 2019 #197
absolutely demtenjeep Nov 2019 #200
Prayers for all living things affected by this. hamsterjill Nov 2019 #201

Hekate

(90,562 posts)
52. Nothing yet, except it's blown up to 3200 acres with strong cold down-canyon gusts...
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 01:10 AM
Nov 2019

In 24 hours we're supposed to have a rain storm for awhile...

sheshe2

(83,654 posts)
12. My thoughts are with you and yours, Hekate.
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 12:35 AM
Nov 2019

I can't even imagine your fears right now.

Huge hugs. Please let us know when you hear from him.

Hekate

(90,562 posts)
17. Thank you. This is going to be a long night for a lot of people...
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 12:43 AM
Nov 2019

I was going to drive that way tomorrow, but will have to call in the a.m. to see if my appointment is still on. And that is absolutely the least of my worries.



pnwmom

(108,959 posts)
16. Sending up prayers for you, your son, your brother and your whole family.
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 12:40 AM
Nov 2019

I'm so sorry -- this is way too much to be going on all at once.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,525 posts)
21. All my good thoughts for you and your precious family, my dear Hekate...
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 12:46 AM
Nov 2019

So scary for you. I can hardly imagine how scary.

Blue_playwright

(1,568 posts)
28. Lots of prayerful thoughts sent into the universe
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 12:51 AM
Nov 2019

So sorry your family is going through all of this at once.

ismnotwasm

(41,967 posts)
38. Nothing wrong with prayer
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 12:57 AM
Nov 2019

No matter what beliefs or unbeliefs there are. Asking or hoping for intercession in frightening times is always a good thing, a compassionate thing. You have my agnostic prayers for what they are worth. May you and yours remain safe

MontanaMama

(23,296 posts)
39. From one mama to another, dear Hekate.
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 12:57 AM
Nov 2019

I’m asking our Universe to hold you and yours close to the light tonight.

emmaverybo

(8,144 posts)
41. Prayers for the safety of your son and family and for the health and comfort of your brother. May
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 01:00 AM
Nov 2019

you have good news.

Wiseman32218

(291 posts)
65. You are more than welcome, I cannot imagine your fears, anxiety concerns you have. I really wish you
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 01:24 AM
Nov 2019

the best and hope things go in your favor!

ancianita

(35,934 posts)
56. Oh no I feel so bad for you. You have all my best thoughts and hopes.
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 01:14 AM
Nov 2019

In cases like these, our heart's best instincts are important. Go, call, or do what you feel, if it's within your means.




Hekate

(90,562 posts)
68. Do take care of yourself, Glimmer, and be prepared to move fast...
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 01:28 AM
Nov 2019

KEYT3 has shown one black and white web cam from UCSB that showed the fire, and their own TV Hill camera that shows it clearly. Those are quite a distance apart.

Rain storm expected in 24 hours. I hope it's soon enough.


Hekate

(90,562 posts)
81. We lived in Goleta until 2 years ago, when we moved to Ventura...
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 01:41 AM
Nov 2019

We know exactly what our old neighbors are doing: J is on the roof of his 2 story house, calling down reports, W's wife refuses to let him do that any more, lol, since he's now over 80, M and the rest are in W's front yard watching the progress... Good people.

Our son lives in a cul de sac off Cathedral Oaks, in the evac zone.

You take care.

Judi Lynn

(160,450 posts)
67. You and your loved ones will be in the thoughts of so many until we hear more from you...
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 01:25 AM
Nov 2019

Hoping your son will have had enough warning to be able to move beyond the reach of this threat in time, and that events will unfold much more peacefully than you have feared.

Remember to take time to stabilize your breathing, it helps so much, gives you back some missing calmness, if practiced enough, over time.

Those who've thought of you through your presence and thoughts here will definitely be looking forward with hope your news will be far better than you feared.

Grasswire2

(13,565 posts)
75. I am here with you tonight.
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 01:33 AM
Nov 2019

And thank you for this OP; I now know to check in with someone in Santa Barbara as well.

I sure understand your motherly concern. What a fraught world we are in.

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
87. Stay strong and be prepared for great things that come from shared sacrifices and challenges
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 01:45 AM
Nov 2019

You are held up by hundreds who support you

Mersky

(4,980 posts)
90. I'm with you, Hekate.
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 01:49 AM
Nov 2019

Please take great care. We’ll be here for you if you need us.

Am sending good vibes your way

nolabear

(41,936 posts)
93. I'm sending hopes for everyone, you especially.
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 01:50 AM
Nov 2019

It’s so hard to feel helpless and far away. I truly hope it’s all okay and you’ll be able to rest. You’ll be in my thoughts, Hekate. ❤️

sprinkleeninow

(20,217 posts)
96. My heart hurts for you. It is my honor to intercede for your request.
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 01:52 AM
Nov 2019

Please receive my prayer for your beloved family. The Eternal One will hear and have mercy. I ask for Him to comfort you and yours and grant healing and wellness to those who have fallen ill. I ask him to save those in distress due to the fires. God, in Your goodness and concern for all creation, protect the travelers from harm and any inconvenience in their plans. Amen.

These are dark days in our government and personally all over it seems. But there is a 'Light'....
💙

spin

(17,493 posts)
97. I believe I have seen prayer work. ...
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 01:54 AM
Nov 2019

Others of course will ridicule my experience. However I am more than willing to say a prayer for your family.

pazzyanne

(6,543 posts)
102. Prayers on their way to you and your family, dear Hekate!
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 01:59 AM
Nov 2019

Take care of yourself as you face your newest challenge. May all work out well for you all.

diva77

(7,629 posts)
106. Sending good thoughts your way, Hekate.
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 02:02 AM
Nov 2019

The wind has been fast and furious all over SoCal this evening - I hope it settles down and takes mercy on your son and his home.

gopiscrap

(23,726 posts)
112. I can't even imagine
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 02:08 AM
Nov 2019

I do know a little from experience, we had a house fire and lost everything 28 years ago. My prayers and positive thoughts are with you!

Liberty Belle

(9,533 posts)
114. Scary fire! Rain is forecast Tuesday afternoon or evening, so hoping firefighters can hold the line
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 02:19 AM
Nov 2019

until then.

Power is out in much of the area which may be why you're having trouble reaching anyone.

You can check Twitter.com for the #CaveFire hashtag to get the latest tweets. The Los Angeles Times has a story up.

So far no homes have been confirmed burned but that could change.

The fire is now close to parts of downtown Santa Barbara. I used to live there; so sad to see such a beautiful city threatened.

I will say a prayer and hope it helps, too.

Liberty Belle

(9,533 posts)
132. Here's a map of the evacuation zone, searchable by address:
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 03:39 AM
Nov 2019

View a map of the evacuation zone here: https://sbcoem.maps.arcgis.com/apps/webappviewer/index.html?id=ff627ef192de40b6b19c7c2718f59028

They just expanded the voluntary evacuation area all the way to El Camino Real. There's also a large mandatory evac area 5 miles wide.

If you're looking for family, you might check these shelters:

Shelter Location:

Goleta Valley Community Center

5679 Hollister Road. Goleta

Animal Sheltering: For Assistance, call Hotline: 805-681-4332

Small Animals:

Goleta Animal Shelter, 5473 Overpass Rd.

Large Animals:

Earl Warren Showgrounds, 3400 Calle Real, Santa Barbara

For current information on evacuations, shelters and other updates visit https://readysbc.org/.

Volaris

(10,266 posts)
120. My suspicion is that your loved ones will be fine:
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 02:27 AM
Nov 2019

Hes smart enough to get the hell out of the way, if your posting here is any indication of the education you offered him as an Offspring Person=)

Volaris

(10,266 posts)
123. In your defense, you must be damn tired of posting all the thank yous tonight...
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 02:32 AM
Nov 2019

Have a glass of wine, and take a well deserved nap lol!!!

Hekate

(90,562 posts)
124. I will do that
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 02:53 AM
Nov 2019

I thought I should acknowledge the kindness of friends. I think I can get some rest now and take in the caring. You too.

orleans

(34,042 posts)
125. i offer up a plea to the universe
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 02:55 AM
Nov 2019

to help keep your son safe, along with the others in his community

and to have him get in touch with you.

sending you love.

renate

(13,776 posts)
126. How awful to have to wait for news... it's the absolute worst
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 02:58 AM
Nov 2019

Prayers and good thoughts for your son and your brother. I’m so sorry you are going through this. You have all of us here sending light and love to all of you.

mahina

(17,622 posts)
129. Prayers for your family and you, for safe passage
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 03:20 AM
Nov 2019

For your son and ohana,

For healing and comfort for your brother and helping brother too, and comfort and peace of mind and rest for you.

I hope you take one hand and put it on your heart, touching skin, and take deep breaths in and out. It helps!

Most of all, sending you aloha dear Hekate.

DFW

(54,302 posts)
130. Having all that dumped on your plate at once is a cruel twist
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 03:22 AM
Nov 2019

Here's hoping that things twist back. Nothing ever happens exactly as we expect or want, but sometimes things work out to "as best as can be expected." It sounds like you could use a little of that right now.

May your load lighten as the week's news trickles in!

Stinky The Clown

(67,762 posts)
131. I am right there with you. Just heard from my friend who is 3 miles from the fire.
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 03:24 AM
Nov 2019

They are in the Evacuation Warning Zone. Right now he says the wind is favorable for them.

I hope you hear from your son and it is all good news for him.



I hope all is improving for your family.

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
139. So very sorry.
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 06:54 AM
Nov 2019

Too much sadness all at once. Try to stay strong. Remember the old adage "Bad news travels fast. NO news, is good news" Maybe they are having trouble locating a safe source of communicating? Hopefully you will hear soon.

Clash City Rocker

(3,390 posts)
140. You're on my prayer list
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 07:05 AM
Nov 2019

Sorry you have to go through so much family stress at one time. Please make sure you’re talking to someone about what you’re feeling. Stress is a killer.

Good luck and God bless. Keep us apprised, please.

lillypaddle

(9,580 posts)
141. Hoping and praying
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 07:11 AM
Nov 2019

that you and ALL of your family, will have much to be thankful for this thanksgiving.

Tanuki

(14,914 posts)
143. Holding you and your family in my heart and praying that you will awaken to good news.
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 07:17 AM
Nov 2019

Also praying that the fire will cease and that all creatures great and small be safely spared.

nitpicker

(7,153 posts)
144. From CALFIRE
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 07:29 AM
Nov 2019
https://www.fire.ca.gov/incidents/2019/11/25/cave-fire-not-a-cal-fire-incident/


CAL FIRE Incident
This is not a CAL FIRE incident. Contact the Administrative Unit for more information.

Last Updated
11/25/2019

Date Started
11/25/2019

Location Information
Highway 154 and E Camino Cielo near Painted Cave in the Los Padres National Forest

Counties
Santa Barbara

Acres Burned
3,100

Condition Statement
EVACUATION ORDER in place from Ontare to PATTERSON AVE, north of Cathedral Oaks Rd. For more information, please contact the Santa Barbara Sheriff: https://twitter.com/sbsheriff https://www.facebook.com/santabarbarasheriff County Emergency Call Center, (833) 688-5551.

panader0

(25,816 posts)
152. Sending good thoughts
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 08:37 AM
Nov 2019

A few years ago I was ordered to evacuate during the Monument fire
here in So Az. Scary stuff. I had to make a quick decision on what to save
and take with me--old family photos. some artwork and 10 guitars.
I hope everything will be OK.

planetc

(7,789 posts)
159. Positive thoughts from here, specifically ...
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 09:18 AM
Nov 2019

Your son undoubtedly has the brains you gave him at conception. He will do the smart thing. As soon as he's finished, he will Check In with Mom.

I have noticed that there is a factor not measured by our modern scientific medicine, and that is the patient's attitude. May your brother have attitude to burn, and wake up and demand breakfast.

kag

(4,078 posts)
160. Keeping you in our thoughts.
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 09:19 AM
Nov 2019

About five years ago we had to evacuate quickly (three cats, a guinea pig, two kids and as many photo albums as we could carry). The fire got within about half a mile, but the firefighters were (are) heroic, and saved many houses in our neighborhood, including ours.

I'll keep your whole family in my deepest thoughts.

lark

(23,065 posts)
161. Positive thoughts, good vibrations and prayers sent to your family in need.
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 09:31 AM
Nov 2019

I believe in covering all the bases, just to be sure.

SWBTATTReg

(22,077 posts)
162. Sorry so late, just read this. I am so sorry to hear about these events negatively impacting ...
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 10:05 AM
Nov 2019

your family, friends, and neighbors.

If I know most of our extended DU family, and I think sometimes I do, all of us do wish the best of health and safe shelter in times of need, for all of your extended family, friends, and neighbors, in California...

denvine

(799 posts)
166. Sending positive thoughts your way!
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 10:39 AM
Nov 2019

Sorry you are going through such crisis right before the Holidays.

radical noodle

(7,997 posts)
170. Of course, Hekate!
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 11:31 AM
Nov 2019

It sounds as though you've been hit with a ton of worry and stress. Sending good wishes for your entire family to make it through this difficult time.

Tom Rinaldo

(22,911 posts)
175. I am thinking of you and yours, Hekate
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 02:07 PM
Nov 2019

I hope you are surrounded by friends and loved ones (in additio0n to us) and that some good news will arrive.

Mme. Defarge

(8,013 posts)
176. Dear DU Friend,
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 02:08 PM
Nov 2019

I remembered you last night in my prayers and this morning when I said my morning prayers with a lit candle and icons. May the Holy Theotokos, Saint Michael and all of God’s angels watch over and protect you and yours and all people in harm’s way.

Blessings ❤️❤️❤️

H2O Man

(73,510 posts)
181. Prayers and Positive Vibrations.
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 03:21 PM
Nov 2019

I've been building a new lodge, and am keeping you and your family in mind. Hopefully, it will be done in the next day or two, and we will be doing ceremony for you.

H2O Man

(73,510 posts)
209. Oh, you are so nice!
Wed Nov 27, 2019, 11:57 AM
Nov 2019

I read post #195, and am glad that things are going better. But we will carry on the ceremony, using the white flint cobbles that intend healing energy, with you & your family in mind. My 2nd cousin and I have a smaller circle in ceremony than we did 30 or 40 years ago -- some have moved to other parts of the country, others have passed on -- but we have some youngsters that we are teaching the ceremonies. And so I thank you for this opportunity to teach them the most important one of all.

Cha

(296,857 posts)
184. I'm so sorry all this is happening
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 04:30 PM
Nov 2019

with your son in Santa Barbara and your brother in Oregon, Hekate! May your son and family be safe from the fires and your brother get well!

My niece and her little boy had to evacuate in the hills of Los Angeles.. thankfully their house was safe.. so much devastation, though

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
188. Well, for worries in Santa Barbara, as of an hour ago the report was
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 05:38 PM
Nov 2019

no homes lost so far, so including their son's. The fire's 0% contained but currently in the mountains, winds dropped dramatically, and rain expected tonight and tomorrow.

Sending out more wishes for good news eventually from Oregon.

This was taken by a later evacuee in California just about the time Hekate was hanging it up last night.



Marthe48

(16,904 posts)
190. Best wishes
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 06:31 PM
Nov 2019

My nephew and his in-laws live in S. Ca. Last year, the Woolsey fire threatened them all, but they came through ok. Communication was awful, but they contacted us as soon as they could. Hope your brother gets well. Hang in there!

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
193. Sending positive thoughts to you and your family Hekate.
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 08:30 PM
Nov 2019

I hope everyone stays well and healthy. Please let us know how everything is going!

Hekate

(90,562 posts)
195. GRATEFUL THANKS: I TRULY BELIEVE YOU HELPED...
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 10:03 PM
Nov 2019

It started last Thursday, with news about my brother who lives in Oregon. He's 71, a lifetime heavy smoker and drinker with COPD, edema, and apparently a bleeding ulcer. He lives alone.

Our youngest brother wrote to us 2 sisters: Just wanted to let you know that Joe has been in and out of the ICU twice in a week, he has had to call an ambulance to pick him up and was apparently barely able to do so both times. He has an ulcer that starts bleeding and he doesn't know it, so he gets weak and has trouble breathing and moving about so he calls an ambulance.

Apparently the second time he ended up at the ER they decided to keep him under medical supervision until some kind of stability could be achieved. That was when they contacted family, i.e. youngest brother. It really sounded like Joe was dying, and we started making preliminary plans to fly in from upstate NY, Ventura CA, and San Clemente CA, so we could say goodbye if the medical reports continued to be that bad.

But apparently Joe has stabilized for now. He's not healthy, that's no longer in the cards, but he's not actually dying either, so that is good news for now.

And it is good that the rest of us don't have to fly this weekend, because what with the holiday and the weather systems in play across the continent it would have been awful. I suspect we 3 will try to put together a visit before the end of the year, or shortly after the New Year.

I spent several days in tears, though, thinking of what a brilliant raconteur he always was, and the charm he evidently always had for the ladies. I know two women who were girlfriends when he was probably 19 - 21, who have a very soft spot for him to this day, and have just found out that his landlady has actually been his guardian angel for several years, managing his SS check and hiring him for paid maintenance work from time to time.

So good. Or, as good as it gets.

The fire sounds stabilized, too. It's only grown a couple hundred acres since last night, to 4300 acres, containment at 10%. No homes have been destroyed that we know of. Mutual aid systems throughout SoCal have thrown hundreds of personnel, dozens of fire trucks (I think they get staged in the neighborhoods), and more water-dropping aircraft than I knew were in the region at this fire. We are all counting on the rain tonight.

Our son is safe and has a place to stay with his dog. His house that he has worked so hard to have is safe. He is okay.. I am so relieved.

And that's all there is for now. Thank you all. Thank you all so much for helping me through this.






thinkingagain

(906 posts)
196. Prayers and wishes that things continue getting better
Tue Nov 26, 2019, 10:10 PM
Nov 2019

That’s a lot to deal with all at once and very stressful glad to hear that things are a bit better.
Good thoughts all around.
Have a beautiful holiday.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,525 posts)
198. The storm that is arriving tonight should put out the fire, or at least slow it down!
Wed Nov 27, 2019, 12:08 AM
Nov 2019

I saw that on the news tonight.

They also reported that no homes had been lost.

I hope you're resting much easier now.........

UpInArms

(51,280 posts)
204. So glad that the edges are getting less sharp
Wed Nov 27, 2019, 01:11 AM
Nov 2019

And the blades of danger seem to have retracted

Peace and joy to you, dear hekate

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
208. So good to hear all around, including that you're still home and
Wed Nov 27, 2019, 09:19 AM
Nov 2019

not out in the storm so to speak. I'm presuming/hoping your son's home is one of the many that isn't threatened by potential runoff and debris flows from the much needed rains.

Happy almost-Thanksgiving.

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