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I think Meghan is rescuing Harry (Original Post) StarfishSaver Jan 2020 OP
You may well be right Hekate Jan 2020 #1
I really love those two. I think they made the right choice. bluedye33139 Jan 2020 #2
Well the truth is she's more worldly than he is lunatica Jan 2020 #3
They won't have any trouble paying bills. I'm sure Diana had plenty after her divorce which vsrazdem Jan 2020 #4
He's not that out of touch. Jirel Jan 2020 #9
I am not being critical of him. lunatica Jan 2020 #10
He was an Apache gunner, not a tank commander jmowreader Jan 2020 #25
I think she really loves him and wants the best for him ChubbyStar Jan 2020 #5
I agree. Harry has been mostly off on his own for quite some time without anyone really caring onecaliberal Jan 2020 #6
Time will tell. cwydro Jan 2020 #7
Perhaps. Perhaps not. Time will tell. MineralMan Jan 2020 #8
Maybe, but if press scrutiny was the major issue, I don't know how this stops any of it. aikoaiko Jan 2020 #11
Not being in the UK stops the worst of it n/t moonscape Jan 2020 #17
Yes! I hope they both now have a much happier life. n/t pnwmom Jan 2020 #12
She disowned her family on her dad's side, she's not that great ansible Jan 2020 #13
Really.... "an egotistical social climber?" DURHAM D Jan 2020 #14
Wow StarfishSaver Jan 2020 #15
You're making a severe judgement without knowing Duppers Jan 2020 #19
Given the way her dad and half sister treated her, PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2020 #20
I'm not a fan... VarryOn Jan 2020 #24
I don't think she meant to sign on to the racist hatred that was thrown her way NT Rorey Jan 2020 #27
Most normal people hate overt and openly racist environments uponit7771 Jan 2020 #29
As I said, I think Harry wanted out and Meghan is helping him do it StarfishSaver Jan 2020 #30
They could have waited on the Queen's demise before bailing. On the family... VarryOn Jan 2020 #31
That sounds like it might be some of the scuttlebut that made her so unhappy. Chemisse Jan 2020 #26
Have you read about that side of her family? mcar Jan 2020 #28
This message was self-deleted by its author tinrobot Jan 2020 #36
She's been a normal person. He was born into a royal family IronLionZion Jan 2020 #16
Who's the oak and who's the ivy, as the Brits say appalachiablue Jan 2020 #18
I've never heard that saying. I love it! StarfishSaver Jan 2020 #23
It's a fairly common saying but I was so disappointed appalachiablue Jan 2020 #34
Yes, from two things..... KY_EnviroGuy Jan 2020 #21
I wouldn't bet on Harry giving it all up, if he has to choose lindysalsagal Jan 2020 #22
And Harry doesn't mind, if he doesn't, make the scene He's got a daytime job, he's doing alright Snake Plissken Jan 2020 #32
My guess is they want to raise their kid(s) free of the birdcage of royalty. nt Blue_true Jan 2020 #33
They can have a historic place in history by spearheading climate change initiatives Arazi Jan 2020 #35

bluedye33139

(1,474 posts)
2. I really love those two. I think they made the right choice.
Sat Jan 18, 2020, 03:15 PM
Jan 2020

Also, I used to live in Vancouver, British Columbia. It is a wonderful city, and if they spend the rest of their lives there, they will be so happy.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
3. Well the truth is she's more worldly than he is
Sat Jan 18, 2020, 03:19 PM
Jan 2020

She’ll continue to teach him and Archie the real ways of ordinary people in the world. As a working woman who no doubt has struggled to establish a career she probably knows what and how to pay bills, like rent, groceries, utilities, etc. I’m not being critical of Harry when I say he doesn’t have a clue about those things. She will guide him through the rougher times of day to day living.

We all know how crappy that can be.

vsrazdem

(2,177 posts)
4. They won't have any trouble paying bills. I'm sure Diana had plenty after her divorce which
Sat Jan 18, 2020, 03:28 PM
Jan 2020

they inherited.

On edit: Just checked. The boys inherited 20 million after taxes.

Jirel

(2,014 posts)
9. He's not that out of touch.
Sat Jan 18, 2020, 04:30 PM
Jan 2020

Remember, he was a tank commander. He got around during the war, living in a tent like everyone else. He may have a few things come up that are novel to him, but he was anything but stuck in the royal way of life.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
10. I am not being critical of him.
Sat Jan 18, 2020, 04:35 PM
Jan 2020

I am simply pointing out that his life has not been like ours.

This British Royal Family have always stepped up to serve their country. Queen Elizabeth herself was a driver and a mechanic during WWII.

jmowreader

(50,533 posts)
25. He was an Apache gunner, not a tank commander
Sat Jan 18, 2020, 08:38 PM
Jan 2020

An Apache has two seats, one for the officer who controls the airframe and one for the officer who controls the weapons suite. Both seats have flight controls, and both officers are certified to fly the aircraft.

Since Harry is a qualified aviator, he shouldn't have any trouble getting his license transferred to Canada and to get a job flying helicopters - hospitals and fire departments always need good pilots.

ChubbyStar

(3,191 posts)
5. I think she really loves him and wants the best for him
Sat Jan 18, 2020, 03:30 PM
Jan 2020

I don't think he has had that since Diana, his mother, was taken from him.

onecaliberal

(32,786 posts)
6. I agree. Harry has been mostly off on his own for quite some time without anyone really caring
Sat Jan 18, 2020, 04:00 PM
Jan 2020

If he’s okay. I am elated for them. I truly hope they live happily ever after.

MineralMan

(146,262 posts)
8. Perhaps. Perhaps not. Time will tell.
Sat Jan 18, 2020, 04:06 PM
Jan 2020

The couple will find themselves in different circumstances than originally planned. It might work out just fine. It also might not. I don't know either of the people involved, so I have no idea how things will develop.

 

ansible

(1,718 posts)
13. She disowned her family on her dad's side, she's not that great
Sat Jan 18, 2020, 05:14 PM
Jan 2020

They all say she's an egotistical social climber. Wouldn't be surprised if this ends in divorce eventually.

DURHAM D

(32,607 posts)
14. Really.... "an egotistical social climber?"
Sat Jan 18, 2020, 05:23 PM
Jan 2020

Have not heard anyone say that who knows her. Where do you get your info?

Duppers

(28,117 posts)
19. You're making a severe judgement without knowing
Sat Jan 18, 2020, 05:46 PM
Jan 2020

Her or her situation with her dad. Do not judge, please. I've had people do this to me who do not have a clue to what's happened or the situation.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,817 posts)
20. Given the way her dad and half sister treated her,
Sat Jan 18, 2020, 05:48 PM
Jan 2020

she's better off without them.

And clearly you are getting too much of your information from the tabloids who simply make things up.

 

VarryOn

(2,343 posts)
24. I'm not a fan...
Sat Jan 18, 2020, 07:10 PM
Jan 2020

She seems to me to be the epitome of what some call a "snowflake." We all have family members who we'd rather not be around, but we deal with it. She got to be a freakin princess, a part of the UK royal family, and couldnt deal with it. She didnt represent the USA very well.

I'm a fan of the Queen, so I'm admittedly touchy about the subject.

 

StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
30. As I said, I think Harry wanted out and Meghan is helping him do it
Sat Jan 18, 2020, 10:10 PM
Jan 2020

She doesn't seem the least bit snowflakey to me. Neither does he. It takes a lot of courage to walk away from this.

I admire them both. And I'm also a big fan of the Queen.

 

VarryOn

(2,343 posts)
31. They could have waited on the Queen's demise before bailing. On the family...
Sun Jan 19, 2020, 12:56 AM
Jan 2020

Clearly , she was upset by the matter.

But, I'm not going to lose much sleep over this

Chemisse

(30,804 posts)
26. That sounds like it might be some of the scuttlebut that made her so unhappy.
Sat Jan 18, 2020, 08:44 PM
Jan 2020

The fact that she is partly black seems to have rocked the UK and brought out some very nasty criticisms of her.

Response to ansible (Reply #13)

IronLionZion

(45,380 posts)
16. She's been a normal person. He was born into a royal family
Sat Jan 18, 2020, 05:40 PM
Jan 2020

so she would naturally have some different perspectives on life and what is normal.

appalachiablue

(41,105 posts)
34. It's a fairly common saying but I was so disappointed
Sun Jan 19, 2020, 01:17 AM
Jan 2020

to find nada when I googled 'oak & ivy'-- strange. But it's good expression anyway.

KY_EnviroGuy

(14,488 posts)
21. Yes, from two things.....
Sat Jan 18, 2020, 06:27 PM
Jan 2020

a.) His feeling like he's the bottom of the pecking order. He can now be among equals, be his own man, not fear offending the royals at every turn and be in charge of his destiny.

b.) Not completely, but some freedom from the clutches of the British tabloid press. They'll never completely escape it but I hope Canadian law will shield them to a degree. I think they'll have much more privacy in Canada in the long-term and their children will be more safe.

We wish them the best......

Arazi

(6,829 posts)
35. They can have a historic place in history by spearheading climate change initiatives
Sun Jan 19, 2020, 01:17 AM
Jan 2020

Followed by Harry's lifelong passions for mental health advocacy and veterans disability reforms.

I have high hopes now they are untethered from the strictures of "royal" duty.

Fly high

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