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Silent3

(15,148 posts)
Fri Feb 7, 2020, 11:02 PM Feb 2020

I try to avoid arguing politics with my right-wing sister on Facebook...

...but I just couldn't stand not saying something when I saw a post that started with...

Sour grapes. Pelosi is a washed up, bitter, and pathetic hater of American liberty. She detests the unborn. She does not support our laws or our safety...nor does she respect those who sacrifice their lives to protect and defend us. The Drama Queen behavior last night just proved how immature, vulgar, and classless she is.


My reply:

The words "immature, vulgar, and classless" describe Trump to a T. All the time, day after day, every day -- not just in an occasional outburst, but as a life-long habit. Anyone who stands by Trump has given up all right to criticize ANYONE for being "immature, vulgar, and classless". Trump does more immature, vulgar, and classless things before breakfast each morning than Pelosi does in a decade.

Trump is the man who just yesterday used the National Prayer Breakfast as an attack platform against his rivals and enemies. He went out of his way to disagree with a preacher (and indirectly, with Jesus himself) after the preacher talked about loving your enemies, to which Trump's response was "I don't know if I agree with you".

And that's just one very recent example. I'd try to list Trump's many acts of immaturity, vulgarity, and classlessness, but I don't thing Facebook will allow a 30 megabyte comment.

As for "sour grapes"... have you noticed how everyone and anyone who criticizes Trump is "sour grapes", or "a loser", or "jealous", or "crazy", or "low IQ", or "a radical liberal", or "a never-Trumper"... always some childish insult, and never, ever a cogent counter argument?

But of course, for some reason, Trump gets the "well, that's just Trump being Trump" pass for his immaturity, vulgarity, and classlessness.

Or for him, the same misbehavior is somehow transformed into "being strong".

As for "respect those who sacrifice their lives to protect and defend us"... who was it who recently described traumatic brain injuries suffered by American soldiers in Iraq as just "headaches"? Who simply abandoned our Kurdish allies to death and displacement on an ill-considered whim? (Something even a few Republicans, in their increasing rare moments of courage, criticized Trump strongly for.)
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I try to avoid arguing politics with my right-wing sister on Facebook... (Original Post) Silent3 Feb 2020 OP
No offense to your sister, but... TwilightZone Feb 2020 #1
Detest the unborn? Initech Feb 2020 #2
I want tickets! n/t kag Feb 2020 #20
ugh, I feel for you Skittles Feb 2020 #3
To maintain familial relations, no more political discussions. It will not end well and she will .. CurtEastPoint Feb 2020 #4
Resist ! Because if words are not refuted others may assume you agree with them lunasun Feb 2020 #5
BRAVO, Silent..... ProudMNDemocrat Feb 2020 #6
Message auto-removed Name removed Feb 2020 #7
Support our laws? Corgigal Feb 2020 #8
Well done. Impressive. blm Feb 2020 #9
I would have said "you're full of shit and you know it" and left it at that. Goodheart Feb 2020 #10
Impresive and reasoned reply... Liberal In Texas Feb 2020 #11
Should've just replied with, "YOU LIE!" GoCubsGo Feb 2020 #12
That's one of the better ones I've read lunatica Feb 2020 #13
Good job. Xolodno Feb 2020 #14
"immature, vulgar, and classless" describe the PUSSY GRABBER. nt UniteFightBack Feb 2020 #15
Your sister sounds just like my brother-in-law. Exact same style and tone of writing. That is what Pepsidog Feb 2020 #16
You know what I do to a woman dumper in person..I tell them I want to grab that pussy. It UniteFightBack Feb 2020 #17
This was my reaction! kag Feb 2020 #21
Leave your family like I did two years ago. kellytore Feb 2020 #18
This is a sister who lives hundreds of miles away... Silent3 Feb 2020 #25
They do hate Nancy with a passion! tavernier Feb 2020 #19
An alpha female standing up to their alpha male? Aussie105 Feb 2020 #22
Are we related? LittleGirl Feb 2020 #23
My sister did reply... Silent3 Feb 2020 #24
Well done. Pacifist Patriot Feb 2020 #27
They ignore everything Trump does and says. dawg day Feb 2020 #26

TwilightZone

(25,428 posts)
1. No offense to your sister, but...
Fri Feb 7, 2020, 11:04 PM
Feb 2020

that was one impressive stream of nonsense. It's like people haven't paid any attention at all to Trump's behavior in the past three years.

Initech

(100,040 posts)
2. Detest the unborn?
Fri Feb 7, 2020, 11:06 PM
Feb 2020

The unborn have more rights than the born do! We should be detesting them!

Detest The Unborn, by the way, is the name of my new metalcore band, we're playing the Troubadour this weekend!

CurtEastPoint

(18,622 posts)
4. To maintain familial relations, no more political discussions. It will not end well and she will ..
Fri Feb 7, 2020, 11:08 PM
Feb 2020

not change her mind.

ProudMNDemocrat

(16,728 posts)
6. BRAVO, Silent.....
Fri Feb 7, 2020, 11:12 PM
Feb 2020

unfortunately for you, your mother raised a FOOL who is incapable of thinking for herself, let alone continues to vote against her better Economic and Social interests.

Mine no longer speaks to me, but it has nothing to do with politics.

Response to Silent3 (Original post)

Liberal In Texas

(13,532 posts)
11. Impresive and reasoned reply...
Fri Feb 7, 2020, 11:28 PM
Feb 2020

to a cult member who is you sister, unfortunately.

I would be interested to know if you had/have a reply.

GoCubsGo

(32,075 posts)
12. Should've just replied with, "YOU LIE!"
Fri Feb 7, 2020, 11:33 PM
Feb 2020

But, I'm guessing she absolutely loved Joe Wilson shouting that while President Obama was giving his address. That was FAR, FAR, FAR more "immature, vulgar and classless" than anything speaker Pelosi has ever done.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
13. That's one of the better ones I've read
Fri Feb 7, 2020, 11:44 PM
Feb 2020

You end up referencing her own heartlessness and gullibility. I like that you didn’t get on the defensive about defending Pelosi. Getting on the defensive means they win.

Xolodno

(6,384 posts)
14. Good job.
Fri Feb 7, 2020, 11:51 PM
Feb 2020

I took a different approach to all my friends and family. Explained, even while watching Ghost Adventures I'm hit with political BS....I go on facebook, for cat videos, national park updates, memes, etc. A break from the garbage on the TV. You bring that garbage here, I'm flagging that post as spam, fake news, etc.

Interestingly, today I didn't see anything political.

Pepsidog

(6,254 posts)
16. Your sister sounds just like my brother-in-law. Exact same style and tone of writing. That is what
Fri Feb 7, 2020, 11:57 PM
Feb 2020

Facebook and Fox dementia looks and sounds like. Here is my brother-in-law’s response to me recently word for word:

“ History doesn’t matter it’s all about now and he’s the right man for the right job at the right time he’s going to drain the swamp and his second term for sure going after all those assholes. They’re going to pay for what they did to it you’ll see”.

I wrote back to him and said look what you wrote, you ought to be ashamed of yourself. He didn’t respond. I fear there are many, many more people who think like this than we realize. I live in NJ which is a Dem State but more often than not run into pro-Trump people. It’s actually very disturbing.

 

UniteFightBack

(8,231 posts)
17. You know what I do to a woman dumper in person..I tell them I want to grab that pussy. It
Fri Feb 7, 2020, 11:58 PM
Feb 2020

shocks them but I say why you voted for a pussy grabber so THAT IS OK WITH YOU.

kag

(4,078 posts)
21. This was my reaction!
Sat Feb 8, 2020, 12:42 AM
Feb 2020

I just find it hard to believe that ANY woman can support the orange menace. Any woman who does deserves to have her pussy grabbed.

Silent3

(15,148 posts)
25. This is a sister who lives hundreds of miles away...
Sat Feb 8, 2020, 01:28 AM
Feb 2020

Last edited Sat Feb 8, 2020, 09:18 PM - Edit history (1)

...so it's not like I've got to live with this crap day-to-day.

tavernier

(12,369 posts)
19. They do hate Nancy with a passion!
Sat Feb 8, 2020, 12:25 AM
Feb 2020

I’ve noticed that republican women don’t have much to say against our men folk, but their heads spin like the exorcist when Nancy’s name is mentioned.

Aussie105

(5,334 posts)
22. An alpha female standing up to their alpha male?
Sat Feb 8, 2020, 12:49 AM
Feb 2020

Doesn't go down well with the beta females!

Despite a bit of evolution, humans still act like monkeys.

LittleGirl

(8,279 posts)
23. Are we related?
Sat Feb 8, 2020, 01:20 AM
Feb 2020

My sister would have written the same. She's a Pelosi HATER. Hates her guts and has lost friends over her hatefulness to Dems and Pelosi.

Silent3

(15,148 posts)
24. My sister did reply...
Sat Feb 8, 2020, 01:25 AM
Feb 2020

...but remarkably more restrained than I might have expected. She's trying to go for the "well, they're both bad" approach, and maybe I should accept even that as a minor victory, because she certainly isn't launching into a full-throated defense of the Orange One.

And at least I've now had the opportunity to add the phrase "Donald John 'grab 'em by the pussy' Trump" to the conversation.

dawg day

(7,947 posts)
26. They ignore everything Trump does and says.
Sat Feb 8, 2020, 01:56 AM
Feb 2020

Their eyes have that glazed look.

Trump gives them permission to hate everyone who isn't him. They enjoy that, I think. I can't figure anything else out.

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