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!?! Utah Senate committee unanimously votes to decriminalize polygamy!?! (Original Post) bobbieinok Feb 2020 OP
link Eugene Feb 2020 #1
Thanks for link bobbieinok Feb 2020 #4
Oh, I thought you said polyamory. MineralMan Feb 2020 #2
Grotesque JDC Feb 2020 #3
That's shocking and horrifying! AJT Feb 2020 #5
This is what happens when religion and culture are one and the same. Baitball Blogger Feb 2020 #6
Saw it coming. cloudbase Feb 2020 #7
I believe this is related to the court suit Kody Brown DeminPennswoods Feb 2020 #8
BTW,the Brown Klan has Wellstone ruled Feb 2020 #10
Yes, but the criminalization of polygamy helped create the Warren Jeffs aikoaiko Feb 2020 #15
I don't have an issue with it as long as everyone is an adult Buckeyeblue Feb 2020 #9
That is my thoughts on it also. Doreen Feb 2020 #12
Well my view is if women are allowed to have multiple husbands then lunatica Feb 2020 #13
I am all for it unless they are abusing marlakay Feb 2020 #17
freedom of choice in family and marriage nt msongs Feb 2020 #11
Do women get this choice too? lunatica Feb 2020 #14
At least in the Brown's case, yes DeminPennswoods Feb 2020 #18
Simple. Outlaw marriage. not_the_one Feb 2020 #16
Not for me, but who am I to judge? Generic Brad Feb 2020 #19
It's not polygamy: it's slavery. lindysalsagal Feb 2020 #20
Not necessarily against polygamy (polyamory, really)... Wounded Bear Feb 2020 #21

AJT

(5,240 posts)
5. That's shocking and horrifying!
Tue Feb 11, 2020, 12:55 PM
Feb 2020

Everyone knows how dangerous polygrams are, shapes with so many lines.....it's anarchy!

DeminPennswoods

(15,273 posts)
8. I believe this is related to the court suit Kody Brown
Tue Feb 11, 2020, 01:38 PM
Feb 2020

(Sister Wives) filed a few years ago. There is a big difference between what mutual consenting adults do in deciding their relationships and the cults run by the likes of Warren Jeffs.

 

Wellstone ruled

(34,661 posts)
10. BTW,the Brown Klan has
Tue Feb 11, 2020, 01:48 PM
Feb 2020

long since moved to Arizona. Believe Flagstaff or Santa Fe.

This legislation will not address the real issues that are on going daily in the Plig Communities . In fact,it will cause more human Harm and Social Issues when all restraints are removed. Most people have zero clue as to the lives in these Communities. Because someone watch Sister Wives,one things that is the daily life within a Plig Household. Long way from it.

aikoaiko

(34,165 posts)
15. Yes, but the criminalization of polygamy helped create the Warren Jeffs
Tue Feb 11, 2020, 03:02 PM
Feb 2020

Kind of like how prohibition and the drug wars fueled organized crime.

Please don't get me wrong. Warren Jeffs was evil and a lot of bad things happened in Colorado City/Short Creek/Hildale. I saw some of it first hand.

It's culminating in a terrible genetic disorder - fumarase deficiency.

Buckeyeblue

(5,499 posts)
9. I don't have an issue with it as long as everyone is an adult
Tue Feb 11, 2020, 01:42 PM
Feb 2020

I personally don't know why anyone would want more than one spouse. But I'm all for letting people live their own lives.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
13. Well my view is if women are allowed to have multiple husbands then
Tue Feb 11, 2020, 02:59 PM
Feb 2020

Last edited Tue Feb 11, 2020, 05:07 PM - Edit history (1)

I’m pretty much OK with it. Consenting adults and all.

marlakay

(11,446 posts)
17. I am all for it unless they are abusing
Tue Feb 11, 2020, 03:18 PM
Feb 2020

Welfare by saying they are unmarried. I am all for helping people in need even those with multiple relationships but not if it is done in a way to game the system.

DeminPennswoods

(15,273 posts)
18. At least in the Brown's case, yes
Tue Feb 11, 2020, 03:59 PM
Feb 2020

The funny thing is, if you watch the show, the adult kids are choosing monogamous relationships, one even is in a same sex relationship (can't recall if they are married). The wives want to live in seperate houses, too.

 

not_the_one

(2,227 posts)
16. Simple. Outlaw marriage.
Tue Feb 11, 2020, 03:14 PM
Feb 2020

Lots less paperwork, lots less $$ going to lawyers.

Marriage was initiated as a business proposition. Check it out.

If there was anything equal about it, women would not rush eagerly to give up their last name, to become MRS. anybody. The Babble says women are expected to "shun" their families, and "cleave" unto their husband. (In other words isolate and brainwash...)

We, generally, got rid of dowries, but in some countries "honor killings" are still accepted.

In "christian" homes, women are still expected to be subservient. (Except for Mike Pence, who is completely controlled by "Mother", and to a lesser degree, the turd.) Men are the ones expected to make all family decisions.

If there is one that is "making the family decisions" it should be the one making the most money, NOT because one has a penis.

Do away with it all. But that is just me.

Is Utah also saying that a woman can have multiple HUSBANDS? For some reason I don't think THAT is the thrust of this legislation. Can we say hypocrisy? I thought we could...

YMMV

Generic Brad

(14,274 posts)
19. Not for me, but who am I to judge?
Tue Feb 11, 2020, 04:04 PM
Feb 2020

As long as everyone is a consenting adult, it is none of my business what sort of relationships people want to explore with each other.

lindysalsagal

(20,648 posts)
20. It's not polygamy: it's slavery.
Tue Feb 11, 2020, 04:06 PM
Feb 2020

These girls are brainwashed and abused. They aren't old enough or strong enough to choose to marry: they're groomed from birth to join the harem. They're property, and it's inexcusable.

Wounded Bear

(58,628 posts)
21. Not necessarily against polygamy (polyamory, really)...
Tue Feb 11, 2020, 04:08 PM
Feb 2020

It gets a bad name because so many of the publicized cases involved child molestation and abuse.

But consenting adults in a group marriage? Have no problem there, again, as long as we're talking consenting adults here.

As far as income taxes, we should probably take marriage out of the equation and just everybody do single claims, and divvy up the dependents by group consensus.

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