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barbtries

(28,752 posts)
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 11:00 AM Mar 2020

I cry when I vote.

Just got back from voting, where I had to sit in the car afterward for a minute to compose myself.

I've always done. I can remember in the 80s trying to get out of the polling place before the tears fell. I think it's patriotism. I think voting is the most profound expression of democracy, and I love democracy. I find myself overwhelmed by taking an active part in this momentous occasion. Plus I want my candidates to win so bad, and it means so much.

I will never forgive republicans for diminishing the power of the vote in this country, for sullying my love for my country, for doing everything and anything they can to disempower anyone who isn't them. Never. I want them erased.

#Warren2020

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I cry when I vote. (Original Post) barbtries Mar 2020 OP
Election day is my favorite day -- PunkinPi Mar 2020 #1
This message was self-deleted by its author Amishman Mar 2020 #2
Same here. Nt lostnfound Mar 2020 #3
thank you! barbtries Mar 2020 #5
No you are not! I cry too when i vote. Solomon Mar 2020 #12
it's good to know I'm not a total outlier nt barbtries Mar 2020 #13
My husband said I voted really early because I am anxious to get this monster out of the White House redstatebluegirl Mar 2020 #4
I'm glad I waited barbtries Mar 2020 #6
I especially can't forgive their interference with African American votes lostnfound Mar 2020 #7
yep. barbtries Mar 2020 #8
I choke up voting, I choke up singing the national anthem and I choke up when honoring old vets. Javaman Mar 2020 #9
yeah I do all that too. barbtries Mar 2020 #10
Same here, same reasons. Baked Potato Mar 2020 #11
As a black gentleman handed me an "I Voted" sticker Duppers Mar 2020 #14
it's going to be emotional! barbtries Mar 2020 #15
I should've explained that. Duppers Mar 2020 #16
that's Clyburn right? barbtries Mar 2020 #18
Yes! 👍 Duppers Mar 2020 #24
2008 was a particularly emotional voting experience for me. bullwinkle428 Mar 2020 #17
i think it was for many of us. barbtries Mar 2020 #20
Same here. hamsterjill Mar 2020 #19
i wonder how republicans react. barbtries Mar 2020 #21
It is truly disgusting what the GOP has done to this country. Initech Mar 2020 #22
oh, it will. barbtries Mar 2020 #23

PunkinPi

(4,874 posts)
1. Election day is my favorite day --
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 11:05 AM
Mar 2020

better than birthdays, holidays, and anniversaries. And you're correct, I think it is the active participation in our democracy -- our ideals and values expressed in a small action that can have such profound consequences.

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Solomon

(12,310 posts)
12. No you are not! I cry too when i vote.
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 03:29 PM
Mar 2020

Always have. People died so i can vote. I never forget that. It overwhelms me. I have to hide my tears when i vote.

barbtries

(28,752 posts)
6. I'm glad I waited
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 11:17 AM
Mar 2020

given how the slate has shrunk recently. fortunately my choice remains though she seems to be on life support. fear of bernie.

lostnfound

(16,157 posts)
7. I especially can't forgive their interference with African American votes
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 11:18 AM
Mar 2020

People were beaten, risked their lives and in some cases lost their lives for the sake of that.
There’s a special place in hell for the people who steal their votes again, after all that.

barbtries

(28,752 posts)
8. yep.
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 11:30 AM
Mar 2020

immigrants, homeless people, indigenous people, poor people. anyone who they think might not vote for them is fair game.

Javaman

(62,490 posts)
9. I choke up voting, I choke up singing the national anthem and I choke up when honoring old vets.
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 01:15 PM
Mar 2020

these days, I choke up and get very sad when I sing the national anthem and think to myself, what could have been.

barbtries

(28,752 posts)
10. yeah I do all that too.
Tue Mar 3, 2020, 01:27 PM
Mar 2020

except the national anthem in the last few years, it kind of leaves me cold. i always think i'd rather take a knee right now.

i also cry at weddings, funerals, movies, and every holiday program any one of my 4 children ever participated in. i could be a paid blubberer.

Duppers

(28,117 posts)
14. As a black gentleman handed me an "I Voted" sticker
Wed Mar 4, 2020, 04:27 AM
Mar 2020

I choked as I said "thank you." An emotional day - it's such a great privilege to exercise our greatest basic right in this country.

I don't take it for granted.

If we're like this during a primary, what'll we do when cast our ballots against trump?

barbtries

(28,752 posts)
15. it's going to be emotional!
Wed Mar 4, 2020, 09:16 AM
Mar 2020

i was crying in line when I voted for Hillary. i just couldn't help it.

wondering why you felt the need to identify his skin color.

Duppers

(28,117 posts)
16. I should've explained that.
Wed Mar 4, 2020, 10:17 AM
Mar 2020

1. I live in an 85% white district.

2. (I swear this true) The tall, older, grey haired gentleman looked too much like ...


And I immediately made the connection.


barbtries

(28,752 posts)
20. i think it was for many of us.
Wed Mar 4, 2020, 12:24 PM
Mar 2020

Remember Oprah Winfrey weeping? Who thought we'd see a black president in our lifetimes? It was a heady time. I had a "Yes We Can" pin and immediately put a piece of white tape over the "can" and changed it to "Did."

fuck. i started crying again because now we've fallen so far. Warren's been written out of the script for 2020 and I absolutely deplore that.

Hopefully Biden wins the nomination and the election and this ship will begin to be righted. this presidency and republicans' traitorous response to it have just ruined the country. We'll be generations digging out from all the damage they have done, if we can.

barbtries

(28,752 posts)
21. i wonder how republicans react.
Wed Mar 4, 2020, 12:28 PM
Mar 2020

i imagine they don't cry, but feel a sense of satisfaction for having done their part in owning the libs. i mean it. who celebrates locking up babies and stealing them from their families? Who applauds denying health care to people of little means?

sort of the difference between patriotism and nationalism, egalitarianism and authoritarianism. between the desire for equality and the need to punch down.

i don't know. maybe i'll ask my sister if she cries when she votes.

Initech

(100,013 posts)
22. It is truly disgusting what the GOP has done to this country.
Wed Mar 4, 2020, 01:09 PM
Mar 2020

And I fear that it's going to get worse if they get another 4 years.

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