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samplegirl

(11,476 posts)
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 11:30 AM Apr 2020

Hoping everyone here can spare some good wishes to our JohnnyRingo who started Chemo today.

I would of liked to of gone with him and would of gone with him but can’t at this time.
It’s right up the street from me and makes me sad I can’t go be his moral support.
Trying to keep him in meals. Of all times to have to start chemo! He is very high risk.

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Hoping everyone here can spare some good wishes to our JohnnyRingo who started Chemo today. (Original Post) samplegirl Apr 2020 OP
Be Well JR Me. Apr 2020 #1
Cisco Kid was a friend of mine Cirque du So-What Apr 2020 #2
Best of luck JR! OAITW r.2.0 Apr 2020 #3
Hang in there, JohnnyRingo, you too samplegirl. Bless you both. MerryBlooms Apr 2020 #4
Thank you samplegirl Apr 2020 #68
Get well JR Ferrets are Cool Apr 2020 #5
Awwwwww-sweet samplegirl! Alliepoo Apr 2020 #6
He is so loved samplegirl Apr 2020 #97
I didn't know. underpants Apr 2020 #7
Sending Positive Energy ⚡️ Johnny's Way! TheBlackAdder Apr 2020 #8
Wishing you luck and strength Johnny! Ohiogal Apr 2020 #9
He picked up samplegirl Apr 2020 #71
Please do! Ohiogal Apr 2020 #76
Go Johnny Go!!! nolabear Apr 2020 #10
Best of luck to JohnnyR. greatauntoftriplets Apr 2020 #11
K&R ismnotwasm Apr 2020 #12
Chemo is so hard on the body and immune system, dware Apr 2020 #13
All good thoughts, and best wishes. Scarsdale Apr 2020 #14
Holding Johnny in the Light! n/t TygrBright Apr 2020 #15
JohnnyRingo....get back here quick!!! spanone Apr 2020 #16
Best wishes to JohnnyRingo. femmocrat Apr 2020 #17
Best wishes iamateacher Apr 2020 #18
Healing Vibes JR! SheltieLover Apr 2020 #19
Best wishes Prosper Apr 2020 #20
He's lucky to have such a loving friend malaise Apr 2020 #21
Awwwwww... thank you so much for being so caring, samplegirl. calimary Apr 2020 #22
JR Hoping everything works out for 100% Kaiserguy Apr 2020 #23
K&R Solly Mack Apr 2020 #24
Chemo can be very ugly DFW Apr 2020 #25
I think different people respond differently frazzled Apr 2020 #46
That was just round one DFW Apr 2020 #65
So sorry frazzled Apr 2020 #70
For a long time DFW Apr 2020 #72
Beautiful! frazzled Apr 2020 #73
We had been there before DFW Apr 2020 #75
Best wishes to JohnnyRingo pandr32 Apr 2020 #26
Good positive thoughts your way. gibraltar72 Apr 2020 #27
The Nurses will adore you Johnny! FarPoint Apr 2020 #28
Best wishes!!! You're in my thoughts. CaptainTruth Apr 2020 #29
Best wishes and healing energy your way JR flibbitygiblets Apr 2020 #30
Sending my best to Johnny Ringo! yardwork Apr 2020 #31
Only the best wishes from all of us.......N/C DENVERPOPS Apr 2020 #32
Sending healing hugs gademocrat7 Apr 2020 #33
Sorry JR & you are going through this, but happy he is getting treatment. Maru Kitteh Apr 2020 #34
Thank you samplegirl Apr 2020 #112
Best of luck to you JR! n/t Greybnk48 Apr 2020 #35
Of course we can! BobTheSubgenius Apr 2020 #36
Wishing only the best for you Johnny! Ilsa Apr 2020 #37
Stay well, stay safe, and outside of CHEMO, stay, home dear JohnnyRingo. hlthe2b Apr 2020 #38
Be well Johnny n/t sarge43 Apr 2020 #39
Best wishes Johnny!!! bluestarone Apr 2020 #40
💕💕💕💕 MLAA Apr 2020 #41
Hang tough Johnny jmbar2 Apr 2020 #42
. Soxfan58 Apr 2020 #43
Wishing him strength and success! cate94 Apr 2020 #44
Hang in there, JR. It's tough, but you can get through it. sinkingfeeling Apr 2020 #45
Keep strong Layzeebeaver Apr 2020 #47
I am an example of the fact that you can live through chemo. TNNurse Apr 2020 #48
My brother wears silly socks during chemo to keep himself amused Cozmo Apr 2020 #49
Sending my best wishes to JR! (nt) scarletwoman Apr 2020 #50
Kick it's ass, Johnny! And get back here soon! Squinch Apr 2020 #51
We have known samplegirl Apr 2020 #98
Sending good vibes his way. snacker Apr 2020 #52
You can do this, JohnnyRingo!! tosh Apr 2020 #53
Get well JohnnyRingo rufus dog Apr 2020 #54
Best wishes for a successful outcome... Moostache Apr 2020 #55
Good luck, JR! murielm99 Apr 2020 #56
Peace and good health JR Magoo48 Apr 2020 #57
I have a godfather who is going through this. Things are going well. I hope the same for JR. nt chowder66 Apr 2020 #58
Let him know this place is in his corner, that we hope the best outcome for him. ancianita Apr 2020 #59
Get well soon, Johnny Ringo. ❤ nt littlemissmartypants Apr 2020 #60
JohnnyRingo, you might not be able to see us, Dem2theMax Apr 2020 #61
to both of you: orleans Apr 2020 #62
Best Wishes. Stuart G Apr 2020 #63
Sending positive thoughts ChazII Apr 2020 #64
K&R Blue Owl Apr 2020 #66
Been there, done that. Staph Apr 2020 #67
Been there, Done that. Good Luck! You've got this! Lady_Chat Apr 2020 #69
Positive Vibes +++++++++++++++ Good Luck! Brainfodder Apr 2020 #74
Best thoughts and hopes for your Johnny. BeckyDem Apr 2020 #77
Thank you for all the Well Wishes samplegirl Apr 2020 #78
Good luck Nululu Apr 2020 #79
Best of luck JohnnyRingo. dewsgirl Apr 2020 #80
Get Well, JohnnyRingo! nt Progressive Jones Apr 2020 #81
Healing thoughts to JR! It may take a cycle or two in order to figure out how to comfort yourself Ninga Apr 2020 #82
K&R for JohnnyRingo. nt tblue37 Apr 2020 #83
Godspeed, JR! scrabblequeen40 Apr 2020 #84
Sending my best vibes to you JohnnyRingo. DU loves you. Marie Marie Apr 2020 #85
Where do you live? WinstonSmith4740 Apr 2020 #86
sending my best Hamlette Apr 2020 #87
Sending good wishes and love to you all Danmel Apr 2020 #88
Get well, Johnny Ringo! Dennis Donovan Apr 2020 #89
We're all thinking of you and sending you moral support, JohnnyRingo! femmedem Apr 2020 #90
Best wishes! JDC Apr 2020 #91
JR I am sending you "get well quickly" wishes, peacebuzzard Apr 2020 #92
Piece of cake. tavernier Apr 2020 #93
DU Vibes for JohnnyRingo! denbot Apr 2020 #94
Good vibes and wishes! treestar Apr 2020 #95
Wishing JohnnyRingo all mzmolly Apr 2020 #96
All the best to you in your battle for health and wholeness! liberalla Apr 2020 #99
You are a good person. BigmanPigman Apr 2020 #100
JohnnyRingo follow the plan, stay strong and get through this treatment. Anon-C Apr 2020 #101
We' got your back, JohnnyRingo. democrank Apr 2020 #102
Sending best wishes and positive thoughts! EllieBC Apr 2020 #103
Oh hell yes thegoose Apr 2020 #104
Healing vibes sent! Heartstrings Apr 2020 #105
Sending positive thoughts Raine Apr 2020 #106
Seriously, I hope it goes easy on him Victor_c3 Apr 2020 #107
Blessings and prayers for healing, Johnny Ringo! Tanuki Apr 2020 #108
I'm saving this post so he can read it tonight. samplegirl Apr 2020 #109
Good luck and stay strong, Johnny! LuvNewcastle Apr 2020 #110
Best wishes! SayitAintSo Apr 2020 #111

Ferrets are Cool

(21,106 posts)
5. Get well JR
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 11:39 AM
Apr 2020

Wifey is getting chemo today as outpatient. We told the Dr that she did not want to be admitted during the pandemic. He agreed and adjusted her schedule.
You can beat this.

Alliepoo

(2,215 posts)
6. Awwwwww-sweet samplegirl!
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 11:43 AM
Apr 2020

Sending you a ((hug)) for the kindness and friendship you bestow on our JR. Also sending a gazillion good vibes to JR-wishing him strength and healing!

Ohiogal

(31,979 posts)
9. Wishing you luck and strength Johnny!
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 11:51 AM
Apr 2020

I know where you're going, it's where I went 12 years ago. They are wonderful there. They will take good care of you.

And you are a wonderful friend samplegirl! Don't feel too badly that you can't be with him. When I had mine, a lot of the folks just slept or dozed .... my husband didn't even stay with me the whole time after a while. Johnny knows you're there for him before and after, which is when he'll need someone the most.

Sending good vibes to both of you ........

samplegirl

(11,476 posts)
71. He picked up
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 03:09 PM
Apr 2020

Food package from the garage. And patted my little car on the hood. He’s the mechanic on it. He loves working on his TR6 and my car.
I hope I can just be supportive! I would of gone!
He reads everything so he will enjoy reading time anyway.
I will keep everyone updated!

dware

(12,363 posts)
13. Chemo is so hard on the body and immune system,
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 11:58 AM
Apr 2020

my late wife went through Chemo and it turned her into a zombie, I wouldn't wish that on anybody.

Thoughts and prayers to JohnnyRingo and hopefully a full recovery.

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
14. All good thoughts, and best wishes.
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 12:02 PM
Apr 2020

What a time for this to have to be. Take care of yourself, so you can be helpful to him. Stay strong, and healthy.

calimary

(81,220 posts)
22. Awwwwww... thank you so much for being so caring, samplegirl.
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 12:18 PM
Apr 2020

Taking care of JohnnyRingo and keeping us informed.

Virtual hugs to you both!

DFW

(54,349 posts)
25. Chemo can be very ugly
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 12:22 PM
Apr 2020

They shoot a whole cocktail of toxic chemical through you and hope it finds that small keyhole to kill the cancer but not the patient.

My wife went thought it, and said if presented with having to go through it again or die, she isn't sure which she'd pick.
It takes guts to go through chemo. If you can't tell him in person, please convey our best wishes, even if it feels like,
"yeah, that and a buck fifty will get you luke-warm coffee."

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
46. I think different people respond differently
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 01:09 PM
Apr 2020

My husband did fairly well on it for six months. Yes, he suffered extreme fatigue, chemo-brain, and his hair fell out, but he had no nausea because of the really good anti-nausea drugs they now have that they push before the chemo infusion (I think his was Ondansetron (Zofran). Of course, he was getting mega infusions of steroids (followed by a week of large oral doses), so I think that kept his appetite up as well. Best of all, it worked (and it doesn't always for every person).

But he usually responds easily to drugs, where the same drug will knock me out entirely. I haven't experienced it myself, so I imagine I would do far less well. I'm sorry your wife had to suffer, but thank heavens she did: you still have her.

DFW

(54,349 posts)
65. That was just round one
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 02:50 PM
Apr 2020

It was in 2001, so the anti-nausea products weren't as refined as they are now.

She came through that round (breast cancer) after a year, but restored. Fifteen years later, she was diagnosed with "the Murderer," a rare form of uterine/ovarian cancer that only attacks elderly (she was only 64) and very slender (that she is) women, and usually kills them, because it never manifests itself until it is too late to save the patient. She was that one in ten thousand that got it detected by pure accident in its initial phase. Since she had had cancer already, she got regularly checked up, and had even the slightest thing thoroughly checked out. A tiny dot turned out to be the initial stages of the Murderer, and she had a five and a half hour operation taking out everything around it. She had 84 biopsies to see where it had spread, and when ALL 84 came back negative, the surgeon said he had NEVER recommended this before, but he thought she could get away with no chemo. Her choice, but he thought it would do more harm than good. Since her last chemo was so awful she opted for no chemo, and now, three and a half years later, she is fine (so far). Nothing is for sure or forever, but for now, we'll take what we have.

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
70. So sorry
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 03:09 PM
Apr 2020

What a nightmare, but also what a miracle. May you have many more years of happiness together. I bet it sure rearranged your priorities in life big time.

DFW

(54,349 posts)
72. For a long time
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 03:15 PM
Apr 2020

Our priorities have been just to stay together as long as possible. She has a yin/yang of genes that make her vulnerable to getting cancer, but also bouncing back from the worst of it.

Seven months later, after beating the murderer, our daughters gave us a long weekend in Dubrovnik, Croatia, for our 65th birthday. Here she is on our last evening there:
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Cancer? What cancer?

DFW

(54,349 posts)
75. We had been there before
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 03:21 PM
Apr 2020

But the last time was in 1982. Amazingly enough, what little I remembered of the language came back to me, and I was able to get around pretty easily. It is one spectacular place, for sure!
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Maru Kitteh

(28,339 posts)
34. Sorry JR & you are going through this, but happy he is getting treatment.
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 12:32 PM
Apr 2020

Some are having a hard time getting their scheduled chemo. May all go well with a speedy recovery and remission!




Ilsa

(61,694 posts)
37. Wishing only the best for you Johnny!
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 12:39 PM
Apr 2020

Even Superman has a weakness. Although you are probably feeling weak now, know that you will be strong again. Until then, may peace be with you.

jmbar2

(4,874 posts)
42. Hang tough Johnny
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 12:45 PM
Apr 2020

Samplegirl shows us how important this board really is. What a great friend you are!

cate94

(2,810 posts)
44. Wishing him strength and success!
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 12:57 PM
Apr 2020

It’s a tough battle in a tough time, but he has a friend like you.

TNNurse

(6,926 posts)
48. I am an example of the fact that you can live through chemo.
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 01:10 PM
Apr 2020

You may not think you will, you may have moments when you hope you won't.

I am glad I took it, but will not do so again. I was 62 at the time, I am 70 now.

There are lots of different kinds of chemo depending on the kind of cancer, some have worse side effects than others. The standard mixture for my kind of breast cancer was three medicines. I lost my hair, had uncontrollable diarrhea (I was warned), lost 50 lbs, had mouth sores, passed out and fell from low blood pressure and dehydration. Not asking for sympathy or anything, but if you have not lived with it you do not understand. Actually when I went back to the work at hospital both doctors and nurses asked me "what is it really like?".. My response was you had live with it or in the house with it to understand.

I am wishing him the very best. I am frightened not knowing what kind of support system he has.

Do not get disappointed if the food you fix for him is not eaten. I had no appetite, temporarily lost my taste buds and knew eating would just give me more diarrhea...it was a tough time. Liquids are key though. Energy drinks with some calories and electrolytes will help.

Please keep us updated.

Cozmo

(1,402 posts)
49. My brother wears silly socks during chemo to keep himself amused
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 01:13 PM
Apr 2020

I wish you all the best. Stay safe and strong and take comfort in knowing you are in the hearts of many.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
51. Kick it's ass, Johnny! And get back here soon!
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 01:38 PM
Apr 2020

And samplegirl, how sweet of you to care for him so well!

Moostache

(9,895 posts)
55. Best wishes for a successful outcome...
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 02:06 PM
Apr 2020

Stay strong and may providence smile on you as well as get the best care possible. Bon chance!

ancianita

(36,023 posts)
59. Let him know this place is in his corner, that we hope the best outcome for him.
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 02:21 PM
Apr 2020


You stay well, too.

You've got a great heart.

Thank you for caring.

Dem2theMax

(9,650 posts)
61. JohnnyRingo, you might not be able to see us,
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 02:28 PM
Apr 2020

but we are all sitting right there with you. You have got so much support from your DU family.

Just take it one day at a time. That is all you have to do. If it's easier to break it into hours, then go hour by hour. Whatever works for you.

We are pulling for you, and we know you will get through this!

And you have the added blessing of having samplegirl right there to help you on this journey.

Sending both of you lots of hugs, tons of positive energy, and always know we are here for both of you.

Staph

(6,251 posts)
67. Been there, done that.
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 03:01 PM
Apr 2020

It's not exactly a walk in the park, but you can survive it, Johnny Ringo! I did!

If Johnny needs to talk to someone who has been through chemo, tell him to send me a private message. It helps to talk to a fellow cancer victim; we know things that even the doctors and nurses don't really know.


Ninga

(8,275 posts)
82. Healing thoughts to JR! It may take a cycle or two in order to figure out how to comfort yourself
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 03:53 PM
Apr 2020

during the days after infusion. You can do it! Don’t let it manage you, you manage it!
May the force be with you!
Love and Hugs,
Ninga

WinstonSmith4740

(3,056 posts)
86. Where do you live?
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 04:09 PM
Apr 2020

Good thoughts coming his way...I live in Nevada if you need meds to help him handle chemo.

femmedem

(8,201 posts)
90. We're all thinking of you and sending you moral support, JohnnyRingo!
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 05:21 PM
Apr 2020

Lots of hugs and well wishes heading your way.

peacebuzzard

(5,167 posts)
92. JR I am sending you "get well quickly" wishes,
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 06:57 PM
Apr 2020

hang in there for those treatments, amigo.
thinking of you often....

Victor_c3

(3,557 posts)
107. Seriously, I hope it goes easy on him
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 08:47 AM
Apr 2020

My grandmother has been on chemo several times over the last few years. They prescribed her an anti-nausea medication, but she didn’t realize she was supposed to take it before the day’s chemo, not after. She did terrible and everyone thought she was dying (for real, not just literally). After a while, she was told of the error and it made a world of difference for her.

Best wishes.

Tanuki

(14,918 posts)
108. Blessings and prayers for healing, Johnny Ringo!
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 09:10 AM
Apr 2020

Modern medicine is a marvelous thing. I am sure you are in good hands with your treatments. Stay strong! You are loved.


samplegirl

(11,476 posts)
109. I'm saving this post so he can read it tonight.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 09:37 AM
Apr 2020

Today they are doing radiation at 10:00 this morning.
Don’t know why they are doing both so close.

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