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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsHoping everyone here can spare some good wishes to our JohnnyRingo who started Chemo today.
I would of liked to of gone with him and would of gone with him but cant at this time.
Its right up the street from me and makes me sad I cant go be his moral support.
Trying to keep him in meals. Of all times to have to start chemo! He is very high risk.
Me.
(35,454 posts)Cirque du So-What
(25,927 posts)and so is Johnny Ringo. Stay strong, my friend.
OAITW r.2.0
(24,455 posts)MerryBlooms
(11,767 posts)samplegirl
(11,476 posts)Hugz
Ferrets are Cool
(21,106 posts)Wifey is getting chemo today as outpatient. We told the Dr that she did not want to be admitted during the pandemic. He agreed and adjusted her schedule.
You can beat this.
Alliepoo
(2,215 posts)Sending you a ((hug)) for the kindness and friendship you bestow on our JR. Also sending a gazillion good vibes to JR-wishing him strength and healing!
samplegirl
(11,476 posts)And he is part of my entire family!
underpants
(182,769 posts)Hoping for the best.
TheBlackAdder
(28,183 posts)Ohiogal
(31,979 posts)I know where you're going, it's where I went 12 years ago. They are wonderful there. They will take good care of you.
And you are a wonderful friend samplegirl! Don't feel too badly that you can't be with him. When I had mine, a lot of the folks just slept or dozed .... my husband didn't even stay with me the whole time after a while. Johnny knows you're there for him before and after, which is when he'll need someone the most.
Sending good vibes to both of you ........
samplegirl
(11,476 posts)Food package from the garage. And patted my little car on the hood. Hes the mechanic on it. He loves working on his TR6 and my car.
I hope I can just be supportive! I would of gone!
He reads everything so he will enjoy reading time anyway.
I will keep everyone updated!
Ohiogal
(31,979 posts)nolabear
(41,959 posts)greatauntoftriplets
(175,731 posts)I'm so sorry that you can't be with him.
ismnotwasm
(41,976 posts)dware
(12,363 posts)my late wife went through Chemo and it turned her into a zombie, I wouldn't wish that on anybody.
Thoughts and prayers to JohnnyRingo and hopefully a full recovery.
Scarsdale
(9,426 posts)What a time for this to have to be. Take care of yourself, so you can be helpful to him. Stay strong, and healthy.
TygrBright
(20,758 posts)spanone
(135,823 posts)femmocrat
(28,394 posts)Sending prayers.
iamateacher
(1,089 posts)And good luck with the chemo!
SheltieLover
(57,073 posts)Kick ass!
Prosper
(761 posts)malaise
(268,930 posts)calimary
(81,220 posts)Taking care of JohnnyRingo and keeping us informed.
Virtual hugs to you both!
Kaiserguy
(740 posts)and also for you samplegirl.
Solly Mack
(90,762 posts)DFW
(54,349 posts)They shoot a whole cocktail of toxic chemical through you and hope it finds that small keyhole to kill the cancer but not the patient.
My wife went thought it, and said if presented with having to go through it again or die, she isn't sure which she'd pick.
It takes guts to go through chemo. If you can't tell him in person, please convey our best wishes, even if it feels like,
"yeah, that and a buck fifty will get you luke-warm coffee."
frazzled
(18,402 posts)My husband did fairly well on it for six months. Yes, he suffered extreme fatigue, chemo-brain, and his hair fell out, but he had no nausea because of the really good anti-nausea drugs they now have that they push before the chemo infusion (I think his was Ondansetron (Zofran). Of course, he was getting mega infusions of steroids (followed by a week of large oral doses), so I think that kept his appetite up as well. Best of all, it worked (and it doesn't always for every person).
But he usually responds easily to drugs, where the same drug will knock me out entirely. I haven't experienced it myself, so I imagine I would do far less well. I'm sorry your wife had to suffer, but thank heavens she did: you still have her.
DFW
(54,349 posts)It was in 2001, so the anti-nausea products weren't as refined as they are now.
She came through that round (breast cancer) after a year, but restored. Fifteen years later, she was diagnosed with "the Murderer," a rare form of uterine/ovarian cancer that only attacks elderly (she was only 64) and very slender (that she is) women, and usually kills them, because it never manifests itself until it is too late to save the patient. She was that one in ten thousand that got it detected by pure accident in its initial phase. Since she had had cancer already, she got regularly checked up, and had even the slightest thing thoroughly checked out. A tiny dot turned out to be the initial stages of the Murderer, and she had a five and a half hour operation taking out everything around it. She had 84 biopsies to see where it had spread, and when ALL 84 came back negative, the surgeon said he had NEVER recommended this before, but he thought she could get away with no chemo. Her choice, but he thought it would do more harm than good. Since her last chemo was so awful she opted for no chemo, and now, three and a half years later, she is fine (so far). Nothing is for sure or forever, but for now, we'll take what we have.
What a nightmare, but also what a miracle. May you have many more years of happiness together. I bet it sure rearranged your priorities in life big time.
DFW
(54,349 posts)Our priorities have been just to stay together as long as possible. She has a yin/yang of genes that make her vulnerable to getting cancer, but also bouncing back from the worst of it.
Seven months later, after beating the murderer, our daughters gave us a long weekend in Dubrovnik, Croatia, for our 65th birthday. Here she is on our last evening there:
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Cancer? What cancer?
And I bet Croatia was beautiful too.
DFW
(54,349 posts)But the last time was in 1982. Amazingly enough, what little I remembered of the language came back to me, and I was able to get around pretty easily. It is one spectacular place, for sure!
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pandr32
(11,579 posts)gibraltar72
(7,503 posts)FarPoint
(12,336 posts)Keep them on task...All will be good.
CaptainTruth
(6,588 posts)flibbitygiblets
(7,220 posts)yardwork
(61,588 posts)DENVERPOPS
(8,810 posts)gademocrat7
(10,654 posts)and positive energy to JohnnyR. Take care, samplegirl.
Maru Kitteh
(28,339 posts)Some are having a hard time getting their scheduled chemo. May all go well with a speedy recovery and remission!
samplegirl
(11,476 posts)Greybnk48
(10,167 posts)BobTheSubgenius
(11,563 posts)What else have we got except the good will and fellowship of good people?
Ilsa
(61,694 posts)Even Superman has a weakness. Although you are probably feeling weak now, know that you will be strong again. Until then, may peace be with you.
hlthe2b
(102,225 posts)sarge43
(28,941 posts)bluestarone
(16,906 posts)You too Samplegirl!!
jmbar2
(4,874 posts)Samplegirl shows us how important this board really is. What a great friend you are!
cate94
(2,810 posts)Its a tough battle in a tough time, but he has a friend like you.
sinkingfeeling
(51,445 posts)Layzeebeaver
(1,623 posts)And keep well! Best wishes from across the pond!
TNNurse
(6,926 posts)You may not think you will, you may have moments when you hope you won't.
I am glad I took it, but will not do so again. I was 62 at the time, I am 70 now.
There are lots of different kinds of chemo depending on the kind of cancer, some have worse side effects than others. The standard mixture for my kind of breast cancer was three medicines. I lost my hair, had uncontrollable diarrhea (I was warned), lost 50 lbs, had mouth sores, passed out and fell from low blood pressure and dehydration. Not asking for sympathy or anything, but if you have not lived with it you do not understand. Actually when I went back to the work at hospital both doctors and nurses asked me "what is it really like?".. My response was you had live with it or in the house with it to understand.
I am wishing him the very best. I am frightened not knowing what kind of support system he has.
Do not get disappointed if the food you fix for him is not eaten. I had no appetite, temporarily lost my taste buds and knew eating would just give me more diarrhea...it was a tough time. Liquids are key though. Energy drinks with some calories and electrolytes will help.
Please keep us updated.
Cozmo
(1,402 posts)I wish you all the best. Stay safe and strong and take comfort in knowing you are in the hearts of many.
scarletwoman
(31,893 posts)Squinch
(50,949 posts)And samplegirl, how sweet of you to care for him so well!
samplegirl
(11,476 posts)each other 25 years.
snacker
(3,619 posts)tosh
(4,423 posts)Youve got all of DU behind you!
rufus dog
(8,419 posts)A DU legend
Moostache
(9,895 posts)Stay strong and may providence smile on you as well as get the best care possible. Bon chance!
murielm99
(30,733 posts)Get better, and come back to us.
Magoo48
(4,705 posts)chowder66
(9,067 posts)ancianita
(36,023 posts)You stay well, too.
You've got a great heart.
Thank you for caring.
littlemissmartypants
(22,632 posts)Dem2theMax
(9,650 posts)but we are all sitting right there with you. You have got so much support from your DU family.
Just take it one day at a time. That is all you have to do. If it's easier to break it into hours, then go hour by hour. Whatever works for you.
We are pulling for you, and we know you will get through this!
And you have the added blessing of having samplegirl right there to help you on this journey.
Sending both of you lots of hugs, tons of positive energy, and always know we are here for both of you.
orleans
(34,049 posts)Stuart G
(38,418 posts)ChazII
(6,204 posts)and prayers your way.
Blue Owl
(50,349 posts)Staph
(6,251 posts)It's not exactly a walk in the park, but you can survive it, Johnny Ringo! I did!
If Johnny needs to talk to someone who has been through chemo, tell him to send me a private message. It helps to talk to a fellow cancer victim; we know things that even the doctors and nurses don't really know.
Lady_Chat
(561 posts)Brainfodder
(6,423 posts)Can't even....
BeckyDem
(8,361 posts)samplegirl
(11,476 posts)Give him a holler when he posts.
Thanks D.U. Family
Nululu
(840 posts)Hoping for a recovery
dewsgirl
(14,961 posts)Progressive Jones
(6,011 posts)Ninga
(8,275 posts)during the days after infusion. You can do it! Dont let it manage you, you manage it!
May the force be with you!
Love and Hugs,
Ninga
tblue37
(65,328 posts)scrabblequeen40
(334 posts)Marie Marie
(9,999 posts)WinstonSmith4740
(3,056 posts)Good thoughts coming his way...I live in Nevada if you need meds to help him handle chemo.
Hamlette
(15,411 posts)Danmel
(4,913 posts)Dennis Donovan
(18,770 posts)femmedem
(8,201 posts)Lots of hugs and well wishes heading your way.
JDC
(10,125 posts)peacebuzzard
(5,167 posts)hang in there for those treatments, amigo.
thinking of you often....
tavernier
(12,377 posts)Well, pretty shitty cake, but maybe friends to share it with will help.
denbot
(9,899 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)mzmolly
(50,985 posts)the best.
Sending positive, healing vibes their way ...
liberalla
(9,238 posts)BigmanPigman
(51,584 posts)Take care of yourself too.
Anon-C
(3,430 posts)I wish you well.
democrank
(11,092 posts)Take good care~
EllieBC
(3,013 posts)You got this!
thegoose
(3,115 posts)Heartstrings
(7,349 posts)Raine
(30,540 posts)and good vibes! 💞
Victor_c3
(3,557 posts)My grandmother has been on chemo several times over the last few years. They prescribed her an anti-nausea medication, but she didnt realize she was supposed to take it before the days chemo, not after. She did terrible and everyone thought she was dying (for real, not just literally). After a while, she was told of the error and it made a world of difference for her.
Best wishes.
Tanuki
(14,918 posts)Modern medicine is a marvelous thing. I am sure you are in good hands with your treatments. Stay strong! You are loved.
samplegirl
(11,476 posts)Today they are doing radiation at 10:00 this morning.
Dont know why they are doing both so close.
LuvNewcastle
(16,844 posts)SayitAintSo
(2,207 posts)And positive thoughts and prayers coming your way💖💖💖👍