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Ohioboy

(3,236 posts)
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 01:18 PM Apr 2020

There was a jerk approaching and making fun of mask wearers in the grocery store today

Yep, a full grown idiot was being a total jerk at my local Kroger today. He approached and made snide remarks to myself and at least 3 other people that I witnessed. He asked me "what are you afraid of, this isn't New York". I wasn't quick enough for a good come back, but one lady told him "no, but is America so mind your own business". I've always hated assholes, but I especially hate empowered assholes!

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There was a jerk approaching and making fun of mask wearers in the grocery store today (Original Post) Ohioboy Apr 2020 OP
"Then why do you care?" cyclonefence Apr 2020 #1
Some jerks who claimed covid is no big deal found out the hard way that it is. LisaL Apr 2020 #4
The poster cares because we are SICK and TIRED of fucking god damn rump Eliot Rosewater Apr 2020 #151
It was a suggested response to the asshole who accosted the poster, cyclonefence Apr 2020 #180
OOPS my bad, of course that is what it was...see how touchy I am...so pissed Eliot Rosewater Apr 2020 #182
My comeback: "At least Muslim women will survive this." CaptYossarian Apr 2020 #2
My come back Kaiserguy Apr 2020 #53
I love that. They might even comprehend it too. CaptYossarian Apr 2020 #76
I will be using that True Blue American Apr 2020 #82
Good, but risky! n/t thesquanderer Apr 2020 #86
like saying "you still getting climate science and medical advice from rush fuckin limbaugh?" certainot Apr 2020 #113
Daaaaamn! That is so good - n/t mazzarro Apr 2020 #121
Bingo! BlueMTexpat Apr 2020 #168
But Trump supporters will also be protected by their white pointy hoods Clash City Rocker Apr 2020 #152
I love those hoods because they're flammable. CaptYossarian Apr 2020 #175
😂 How about... New York? We just got here from Yonkers last night and are stocking the fridge. TheBlackAdder Apr 2020 #156
-or- What makes you think I'm wearing this mask to protect me from you? TheBlackAdder Apr 2020 #157
He shouldn't be approaching anybody. LisaL Apr 2020 #3
It was such a surprise to have a grown man acting like he was in middle school Ohioboy Apr 2020 #6
Wouldn't surprise me at all greenjar_01 Apr 2020 #57
Suprised? c_junk Apr 2020 #87
that always happens to me. barbtries Apr 2020 #112
Unbelievable. Ohiogal Apr 2020 #5
I don't think store security knew what he was doing Ohioboy Apr 2020 #8
If you cough in his direction bet he'd run durablend Apr 2020 #7
Ha! You're right. BigmanPigman Apr 2020 #164
I have a 3 word response prepared ooky Apr 2020 #9
If it happens again I will be using that one Ohioboy Apr 2020 #11
Rolling your eyes, shaking your head in disugust, and walking away also works. GoCubsGo Apr 2020 #37
These days, stepping far away, turning your head away as you shake it and walking away works. lark Apr 2020 #52
Negative...your response is too short... diverdownjt Apr 2020 #71
I just knew that would be your 3 words!:) True Blue American Apr 2020 #83
That's when you need that 2naSalit Apr 2020 #10
YES! I could watch that video again and again. It was GREAT! NT SWBTATTReg Apr 2020 #81
A simple "Go fuck yourself" works just fine if you're ever in that spot again. HarlanPepper Apr 2020 #12
Beat me to it. Just what I would say. GulfCoast66 Apr 2020 #95
Or the sign language equivalent BrightKnight Apr 2020 #136
I would have yelled if you get any closer Drahthaardogs Apr 2020 #13
My line is: PCIntern Apr 2020 #34
While it's a good line, it's not accurate in my state (Oregon). We have no crime of battery. Shrike47 Apr 2020 #58
In PA it's easy to get charged for both PCIntern Apr 2020 #64
Oregon words it differently Aquaria Apr 2020 #78
IMO, best to not intimidate fools like that because.... KY_EnviroGuy Apr 2020 #14
I'll take the chance. I'm not backing down from these assholes. GulfCoast66 Apr 2020 #148
I wish I had a dollar for every grocery store anecdote here. Tipperary Apr 2020 #15
Maybe because they need food? SoCalNative Apr 2020 #16
ding ding ding.... nor even curbside pickup..... getagrip_already Apr 2020 #23
I have not had any deliveries. Tipperary Apr 2020 #24
Curbside pick-up in many places SoCalNative Apr 2020 #33
Some of us have family members who are Special Needs. Ilsa Apr 2020 #59
Not everyone has the funds or storage to stock up... WePurrsevere Apr 2020 #97
nobody said all the time stopdiggin Apr 2020 #107
Correct. barbtries Apr 2020 #104
I've been home and needed food Ohioboy Apr 2020 #21
We do have to buy food - Been keeping it to once a week. lagomorph777 Apr 2020 #25
One thing i've learned HarlanPepper Apr 2020 #30
Either that, or we are all just such "liberal snowflakes"... FailureToCommunicate Apr 2020 #89
We are severely limiting our grocery trips, but I don't see how delivery is that much better. LisaM Apr 2020 #31
I am not using delivery either. I agree with you on that. Tipperary Apr 2020 #42
We are in Seattle, and people are being great. LisaM Apr 2020 #55
I have a friend in Seattle, and she told me the same about people really being careful. Tipperary Apr 2020 #73
It's pretty amazing. I haven't seen any - or hardly any - bad behavior. LisaM Apr 2020 #79
it's so far from "everyone" barbtries Apr 2020 #109
Unfortunately, their post is dripping with privilege and assumptions. /nt spudspud Apr 2020 #122
Aw Tipperary Apr 2020 #129
I guess we can add condescension too. spudspud Apr 2020 #135
"Dripping with privilege" because I think others should heed the stay home order. Tipperary Apr 2020 #137
You know (maybe?) spudspud Apr 2020 #163
Welcome back. Tipperary Apr 2020 #178
Oh you know. Frivolous stuff like food, manadory medical appointments n/t sarge43 Apr 2020 #61
Ah, yes.... RhodeIslandOne Apr 2020 #66
You're Not From This Town? ProfessorGAC Apr 2020 #84
Well, for me I needed a prescription. So I put on my homemade mask, gloves and went. olegramps Apr 2020 #85
There are more than a few people on DU Steelrolled Apr 2020 #94
If I had a penny for everyone who gloats about their oblivious privilege IronLionZion Apr 2020 #140
Hmm, I don't have a Costco membership. I do have a house. Tipperary Apr 2020 #141
Lol! nt ecstatic Apr 2020 #147
you got that right Skittles Apr 2020 #166
I see no difference in traffic around here. ecstatic Apr 2020 #146
That is the thing. I have a friend doing the same. Tipperary Apr 2020 #150
not everyone has the luxury of staying home Skittles Apr 2020 #165
Something like that would make me wish I was looking at the next Covid patient. lpbk2713 Apr 2020 #17
He probably is the next COVID patient - and deservedly so. lagomorph777 Apr 2020 #26
Sadly Windy City Charlie Apr 2020 #18
You should have reported him to management by phone if necessary nt Meowmee Apr 2020 #19
Indeed. He is not maintaining 6' distance and is endangering people. SunSeeker Apr 2020 #50
A question (rhetirical, so no need to reply) not_the_one Apr 2020 #20
I've seen some of that from other Ohioans on this board greenjar_01 Apr 2020 #60
Hmm..was it my brother? Books_Tea_Alone Apr 2020 #22
Whether it's terrible or not for you to think it... lagomorph777 Apr 2020 #28
As the saying goes: OPPORTUNITY knocks -- Karma hunts you down. nt Buns_of_Fire Apr 2020 #75
keep in mind. barbtries Apr 2020 #117
Social distancing calls for the need of 6 foot long baseball bats. MyNameGoesHere Apr 2020 #27
tell him to go lick a toilet Blues Heron Apr 2020 #29
LOL SunSeeker Apr 2020 #47
Brilliant reference. spudspud Apr 2020 #124
WTF is wrong with people? Initech Apr 2020 #32
Whats wrong is this: Chainfire Apr 2020 #40
I use "Fuck off, asshole". roamer65 Apr 2020 #35
My comeback is, "Fuck off and die asshole!" Covers everything, yeah? nt procon Apr 2020 #38
Great enhancement. roamer65 Apr 2020 #49
In all seriousness, Ohioboy, at this point, I'm so bitter and angry... LuckyCharms Apr 2020 #36
There are assholes everywhere. AirmensMom Apr 2020 #39
I had a lady mock me a couple weeks ago in the grocery store Mr. Ected Apr 2020 #41
Perfect. nt SunSeeker Apr 2020 #46
A Trumper, no doubt. Does he realize more Americans outside of NY have Covid-19 than in NY? SunSeeker Apr 2020 #43
Our county had to email another reminder to assholes that spooky3 Apr 2020 #44
"I have pepper spray, MrsMatt Apr 2020 #45
That's my answer, too Leith Apr 2020 #56
"Are we invited to your funeral" would be an amusing comeback. andym Apr 2020 #48
best response ahlnord Apr 2020 #51
That's right! This mask is to protect YOU, asshole!! BComplex Apr 2020 #108
"No, but if enough dumbasses act like you, it could be." John Fante Apr 2020 #54
I would tell him.... mbusby Apr 2020 #62
All peoples have their duds. Like the woman's response. Hortensis Apr 2020 #63
Similar situation within the last half hour. NoMoreRepugs Apr 2020 #65
well done. barbtries Apr 2020 #111
It most certainly does. NoMoreRepugs Apr 2020 #114
"What are you afraid of?" A HERETIC I AM Apr 2020 #130
i'm ready for that shit: orleans Apr 2020 #67
This message was self-deleted by its author bluedye33139 Apr 2020 #68
Come back response: I'm protecting you . . . cough cough MagickMuffin Apr 2020 #69
Unbelievable. Chiyo-chichi Apr 2020 #70
In a low voice that only he can hear, say "I have some symptoms -- NCjack Apr 2020 #72
Tell him the virus attacks the testicles, tey will drop off, painfully Miigwech Apr 2020 #74
Should have filmed him and posted it on YouTube. edbermac Apr 2020 #77
yes DBoon Apr 2020 #134
"Fuck off, MAGAt." tazkcmo Apr 2020 #80
Awwwww, I was in hopes DENVERPOPS Apr 2020 #88
He should be arrested then banned from the store miyazaki Apr 2020 #90
What these ignorant people fail to realize is that the reason to wear masks is to protect your c-rational Apr 2020 #91
I'm shocked. Usually such people like to exploit mass death in New York City. n/t TheFourthMind Apr 2020 #92
Sir, Please step back, I don't want you to get what I may have! bubbazero Apr 2020 #93
This message was self-deleted by its author Mosby Apr 2020 #96
Don't engage him with a smart comeback, that just invites him to engage with you more. jimmyzvoice Apr 2020 #98
Deplorable MAGAt aeromanKC Apr 2020 #99
I've seen plenty right-wing mask-haters in Southern California, as well. C Moon Apr 2020 #100
Was he wearing a MAGA hat? Dem4Life1102 Apr 2020 #101
Darn, i had a similar experience yesterday around noon @Costco near me & can empathize. onetexan Apr 2020 #102
Someone like that gets within 6 feet of you, you should be allowed to pepper spray them. n/t brewens Apr 2020 #103
I already have a response for that, just ignore them, if they lay a pinky on me I will knock them yaesu Apr 2020 #105
New York wasn't "New York" a month ago either Zambero Apr 2020 #106
I would have pulled the Terminator on his ass vercetti2021 Apr 2020 #110
Tell him to go volunteer at a hospital. AwakeAtLast Apr 2020 #115
Oh, they're everywhere, NellieStarbuck Apr 2020 #116
Trump suporter. I haven't yet but I expect to doc03 Apr 2020 #118
It's not about protecting yourself. zentrum Apr 2020 #119
Who does this? cwydro Apr 2020 #120
I'm always amazed at the grocery store line encounters I read about here fescuerescue Apr 2020 #176
Lol, me too. cwydro Apr 2020 #181
Reply, "Want me to take the mask off and cough in your face?" Hermit-The-Prog Apr 2020 #123
"Let me guess, you voted for Trump" Maraya1969 Apr 2020 #125
I had a guy, a woman and her daughter laugh at my daughter and I. sagetea Apr 2020 #126
If someone does that to me Captain Zero Apr 2020 #158
+1 dalton99a Apr 2020 #171
You could say, "You poor thing." dawg day Apr 2020 #127
A guy came up to my car window Generic Other Apr 2020 #128
You should have removed the mask and coughed--just in case. nt live love laugh Apr 2020 #131
"Be safe" is the new "bless your heart" Ellen Forradalom Apr 2020 #132
I talked to one person wearing a mask last time I had to go shopping TlalocW Apr 2020 #133
An acquaintance in AZ had something like this happen the other day... tonekat Apr 2020 #138
Take off your mask, smile and then pretend to cough "accidentally" McCamy Taylor Apr 2020 #139
asshole Demovictory9 Apr 2020 #142
I would have told him I have the virus and blown a big breath on him. patricia92243 Apr 2020 #143
removed NY State plates from car RicROC Apr 2020 #144
Has anyone else noticed that the people without masks are coughing a lot? ecstatic Apr 2020 #145
It's just something we notice now fescuerescue Apr 2020 #177
I would have coughed just to see his reaction. muntrv Apr 2020 #149
I tell him I go in and out of a lot of places and may have it and not know it Tribetime Apr 2020 #153
I would have said "Were you born stupid or do you have to work hard at it?" BigBearJohn Apr 2020 #154
My husband Rebl2 Apr 2020 #155
Don't you just hate Trump supporters. UCmeNdc Apr 2020 #159
Are you in Ohio too? Buckeye_Democrat Apr 2020 #160
Wow. That sounds like a nightmare. How do you keep your sanity? SunSeeker Apr 2020 #170
You might be one of the nice people, but I'm not. Jamastiene Apr 2020 #161
"What are you afraid of?" soldierant Apr 2020 #162
"Ah-CHOO!" Qutzupalotl Apr 2020 #167
I had an experience like that DIVINEprividence Apr 2020 #169
In Florida Old Crank Apr 2020 #172
Hats off Soxfan58 Apr 2020 #173
Evidence Americans need insurance with good mental health care coverage struggle4progress Apr 2020 #174
There was a MAGAT in our store today Loge23 Apr 2020 #179

Eliot Rosewater

(31,104 posts)
151. The poster cares because we are SICK and TIRED of fucking god damn rump
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 08:45 PM
Apr 2020

supporters who are equally guilty of thousands of counts of voluntary manslaughter.

cyclonefence

(4,483 posts)
180. It was a suggested response to the asshole who accosted the poster,
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 11:55 AM
Apr 2020

not an expression of my own feelings.

I've thought of a few more:

Didn't your mother teach you it's rude to comment on other people's clothing?

Why on earth would you ask me that?

Eliot Rosewater

(31,104 posts)
182. OOPS my bad, of course that is what it was...see how touchy I am...so pissed
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 03:45 PM
Apr 2020

not at the brain broken guy in the oval office, he cant help it, mad at the people who support and facilitate his mass voluntary manslaughter.

CaptYossarian

(6,448 posts)
2. My comeback: "At least Muslim women will survive this."
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 01:23 PM
Apr 2020

"They were always prepared."

See if his face matches his little red dunce cap.

True Blue American

(17,981 posts)
82. I will be using that
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 03:14 PM
Apr 2020

If I run into anyone.

I have honestly been surprised how nice people are. Of course I have only been to Kroger’s twice in the last few weeks.

 

certainot

(9,090 posts)
113. like saying "you still getting climate science and medical advice from rush fuckin limbaugh?"
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 04:01 PM
Apr 2020

as the local blowhards back off their total denial and it's a hoax bullshit they're still getting 'laughs' from moran dittoheads by making fun of mask wearers

in that way those radio stations, licensed to operate in the public interest, are killing people

they need to lose their licenses

Ohioboy

(3,236 posts)
6. It was such a surprise to have a grown man acting like he was in middle school
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 01:28 PM
Apr 2020

I just didn't know what to say.

c_junk

(46 posts)
87. Suprised?
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 03:21 PM
Apr 2020

Shouldn't be too surprised. That man's behavior is being demonstrated daily on TV. The Orange One's daily televised rants and rages (aka COVID-19 updates) are just like that. Saying he won't wear a mask, but he would "if he thought it was important". So some significant portion of the country will believe their "Dear Leader", ignore medical advice, and promote immediate herd immunity by culling a million or two. Then the ones who survive will say he did a fantastic job, and only X million died.

barbtries

(28,752 posts)
112. that always happens to me.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 04:01 PM
Apr 2020

by the time i'm on the way home I have several dozen snappy responses at my fingertips.

Ohiogal

(31,876 posts)
5. Unbelievable.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 01:26 PM
Apr 2020

I’ve gotten strange looks wearing my homemade pink bandanna mask but at least those assholes kept their opinions to themselves. I can’t believe anyone would make fun of mask wearers. Store security should have escorted him out!

GoCubsGo

(32,069 posts)
37. Rolling your eyes, shaking your head in disugust, and walking away also works.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:10 PM
Apr 2020

Don't need to utter a word. Just go back to your business and don't give them the attention they crave.

lark

(23,058 posts)
52. These days, stepping far away, turning your head away as you shake it and walking away works.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:35 PM
Apr 2020

Some people (clueless, distracted ones) just don't pay attention and they have backed up when I've done that, getting they were too damn close. The Haters won't get it, but then they are stupid to begin with and getting away from them is good.

diverdownjt

(700 posts)
71. Negative...your response is too short...
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:56 PM
Apr 2020

IT'S "FUCK OFF AND DIE ASSHOLE!!!"

I don't know it seems a little more appropriate if not more truthful...all things considered.

More than half the people I saw at King Soopers yesterday were wearing masks or
bandana's. Several home made one's as well.

Staying home in Denver as much as is possible...had a dental appt. and went to the store for a script.

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
95. Beat me to it. Just what I would say.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 03:33 PM
Apr 2020

But I should also say, lately well over half the grocery stores I shop in are wearing masks.

Shrike47

(6,913 posts)
58. While it's a good line, it's not accurate in my state (Oregon). We have no crime of battery.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:42 PM
Apr 2020

That doesn’t qualify as assault here, either.

 

Aquaria

(1,076 posts)
78. Oregon words it differently
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 03:07 PM
Apr 2020

But they still have the same concept of simple assault as threats. They call it harassment instead, and it falls under ORS 166.065.




KY_EnviroGuy

(14,488 posts)
14. IMO, best to not intimidate fools like that because....
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 01:38 PM
Apr 2020

too many will come at you at an unsafe distance and try to get in your face.

Fools like that have a higher probability of being virus carriers, so not worth the risk.......

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
148. I'll take the chance. I'm not backing down from these assholes.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 08:24 PM
Apr 2020

And I’ve yet to meet one who won’t immediately back down with a limp ‘just kidding man’ when loudly stood up to. Of course, the chance of these cowards saying something like that to a husky, fit white male in boots and a ball cap is slim. They cowardly pick their targets.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
15. I wish I had a dollar for every grocery store anecdote here.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 01:39 PM
Apr 2020

I guess most duers are not staying home. I seem to read a dozen of these a day. Why are people not staying home?

getagrip_already

(14,570 posts)
23. ding ding ding.... nor even curbside pickup.....
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 01:47 PM
Apr 2020

I've given up. Besides, there are people who absolutely need it and I feel like I'd be taking a service they need and I don't.

So if I have to go into a store, I mask and glove up.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
24. I have not had any deliveries.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 01:48 PM
Apr 2020

I did a pickup at Walmart two weeks ago.

I have soups, rice, beans, oatmeal, frozen stuff, pasta. It didn’t even cost that much to stock up. I guess I am just surprised how many people are still going shopping al the time.

Ilsa

(61,687 posts)
59. Some of us have family members who are Special Needs.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:43 PM
Apr 2020

My autistic son is used to a particular routine and diet. He's had to give up his routine. The whole family and several items of furniture have suffered for it. If I can get him his morning and evening PBJs, then I'll put my homemade HEPA filter mask on and do my best to keep something normal for him, like going to market once every 6-8 days.

WePurrsevere

(24,259 posts)
97. Not everyone has the funds or storage to stock up...
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 03:35 PM
Apr 2020

with enough supplies for a month or longer and it's possible that could take months, not weeks, of being cautious.

stopdiggin

(11,230 posts)
107. nobody said all the time
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 03:57 PM
Apr 2020

this is your own little bugaboo.
(I personally have gone about every 9th or 10th day thus far .. and I'm comfortable with that amount of caution and level of distancing) Also note that they have deliberately kept the stores open for this very reason. People are following the information they're given .. it is not a proscribed, or even a discouraged, activity. In my area we serve a population that is often coming in from considerable distance, and lack options that might be available in more urban areas. The stores themselves have made huge efforts to mitigate where they can (select hours, limiting numbers inside at one time, disinfecting each basket/cart for new arrivals, spacing in checkout lines) and a lot of these people are also on the front lines as far as providing service to the community. And one of the biggest problems they are encountering in the supply chain is with hoarding behavior. So .. if people hadn't stripped the shelves of staples, disinfectant, paper products, etc. like self-serving locusts several weeks back .. we'd all be able to select what we need, and have that much less reason to return?

Glad you're happy with your own decisions ...
-- -- -- --

barbtries

(28,752 posts)
104. Correct.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 03:54 PM
Apr 2020

my son works in a grocery store so he does all of our shopping now as I am in a vulnerable population. but his store does not have, or is out of, many of the things i want. so I tried the local Harris Tweeter and there was not a slot available for pick up. Then I tried Amazon, first Whole Foods, couldn't find what I wanted, then Fresh. I got a delivery yesterday from them, but had to revisit the page to find an available slot.

I'm leaving the house this week only to walk the dog, but we should appreciate that many do not have the advantage I do.

 

HarlanPepper

(2,042 posts)
30. One thing i've learned
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 01:54 PM
Apr 2020

Is that DUers patronize grocery stores that are objectively terrible in many cases.

FailureToCommunicate

(14,005 posts)
89. Either that, or we are all just such "liberal snowflakes"...
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 03:22 PM
Apr 2020

easily offended, but very opinionated.





Do I need this?

LisaM

(27,789 posts)
31. We are severely limiting our grocery trips, but I don't see how delivery is that much better.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 01:55 PM
Apr 2020

I see delivery people coming here (apartment) all day long, they've obviously been in multiple stores, some don't have masks, and they are coming into the apartment lobby all day long (even though it's locked).

If we make a weekly, quick trip to the store, keeping appropriate distancing and wearing a scarf and using sanitizer, I don't think it's worse than using a delivery person who's probably been in contact with dozens of people each day.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
42. I am not using delivery either. I agree with you on that.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:22 PM
Apr 2020

Stocked up before the order came to stay home. There were many posts here about how everyone had stocked up, but now everyone seems to be visiting the store. Yeah, there are some things I would like to have and do not, but I am not going to the store. I thought that was the whole point of staying safe. It seems everyone thinks they are the exception to the stay at home order. I saw one poster who had went on and on about how he had everything he needed earlier this month, then post a store anecdote barely a week later.

We are never going to get through this thing if we do not all follow the recommendations. I see some of the same people here calling for a national stay at home while telling grocery store anecdotes. I just find it puzzling. I truly doubt most people who post here are completely out of food. I know in better days that I would go to the store even when I had plenty to eat simply because nothing appealed to me. Now I am just trying to suck it up and eat what I have.

Maybe some just need to get out if they live in apartments. But, better to go for a walk than to the store. I wish people would stay out of the stores, the churches, Walmart, Target, and so on. I want this nightmare to end, and it will not without everyone doing their best. People are dying. This is for real.

LisaM

(27,789 posts)
55. We are in Seattle, and people are being great.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:39 PM
Apr 2020

We really do zip in and out of the store and limit contact, and everyone in the store is doing the same. We make very few trips to the store and have a decent supply of food, but we can't go two months without replenishing some things (along with the other limitations of being in an apartment, we don't have much storage space). We haven't been to the store this week, but our strategy is to divide up the list, shop as fast as possible, and then only one of us checks out. Then we leave.

I did talk to a co-worker who's going four times a week! I couldn't believe it. (And he has a large house, no storage limitations).

i have the potential for more contact with the incessant flow of delivery people than in the actual store.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
73. I have a friend in Seattle, and she told me the same about people really being careful.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:57 PM
Apr 2020

I have just become alarmed at all the stories here. I live in a house too, so have room for storage. I really do not eat a lot either, but I cannot help but feel some think they are immune. Human nature, I guess. I just want this to be over, the sooner the better.

LisaM

(27,789 posts)
79. It's pretty amazing. I haven't seen any - or hardly any - bad behavior.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 03:07 PM
Apr 2020

On our few walks, people move far out of the way, and smile and wave. People wait patiently at the end of the aisles in the grocery store (or do from what I've observed on my few trips). I saw on the bus yesterday that people were sitting 20 or 40 feet apart (i was not ON the bus, I just looked inside). The buses have done an amazing thing. The drivers are partitioned off, and the fare is free, so riders just need to step on through the back door and don't have to touch anything (I guess they have to pull the cord to exit, but that's about it).

I've noticed a couple of (small) groups of youngish people (20s, 30s) who don't appear to be from the same household* walking together, but they keep their distance from us. And I notice that some people don't seem to understand that it's the norm to walk against traffic if you're in a street with no sidewalks. But this is mostly pretty minor. Delivery people who are stressed also get a little close asking for directions, but it's pretty infrequent. Overall, we're doing great.

*I'm inferring that they are not from the same household from their conversations, which sound as if they are catching up on things. But i don't know for sure that they are from different households.

barbtries

(28,752 posts)
109. it's so far from "everyone"
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 03:58 PM
Apr 2020

it's generally people who have to. We still have to eat. Many of us do not have the means to "stock up."

spudspud

(511 posts)
163. You know (maybe?)
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 12:58 AM
Apr 2020

You know (maybe?) that's not what any of us were getting at. It was your statement: "I have not had any deliveries. I did a pickup at Walmart two weeks ago. I have soups, rice, beans, oatmeal, frozen stuff, pasta. It didn’t even cost that much to stock up. I guess I am just surprised how many people are still going shopping al the time."

You have the privilege of:

1. Having the funds to "stock" up (even if you dismiss it as not costing that much.
2. Having transportation to be able to "stock" up. Some have to walk to the store, or use a bike. Can't carry much even if you use the bus. And no, you ain't calling a damn Uber/Lyft when that money could be spent on food.
3. Not having to worry (apparently) about using your funds to "stock" up when others have to scrape from one week to the next.

Instead of recognizing that, you drop some shrugs, a "bless your heart" and then a straw man argument. I'm not saying you're well off, but at least recognize that folks (on DU) aren't out here going to the damn store for fun and/or blatantly ignoring stay at home orders, and that you may have better circumstances than many of those you are chiding.

ProfessorGAC

(64,787 posts)
84. You're Not From This Town?
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 03:15 PM
Apr 2020

There's no food delivery here, absent the pizza joints.
Need food, go to store. See how easy that was?

olegramps

(8,200 posts)
85. Well, for me I needed a prescription. So I put on my homemade mask, gloves and went.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 03:16 PM
Apr 2020

I was careful not to get to close to anyone. I know that I am at risk since I am 84 year old. My breathing isn't the best either. But you do what you have to do.

 

Steelrolled

(2,022 posts)
94. There are more than a few people on DU
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 03:33 PM
Apr 2020

So even though people are staying home, it might sound like everyone is shopping all the time.

I think you can stay very safe, and still get groceries every week or two. Many fresh vegetables don't last that long, and can't be frozen. And there are limits on popular dry goods to prevent people from hoarding.

IronLionZion

(45,380 posts)
140. If I had a penny for everyone who gloats about their oblivious privilege
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 07:25 PM
Apr 2020

I'd have enough to buy a nice comfortable house with plenty of storage and freezer space, a Costco membership to buy food in bulk, and a nice vehicle to transport it home. And then I could stay home for a month or 2 and gloat at the less fortunate for not being as clever as me while being completely oblivious to their personal situations and environment.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
141. Hmm, I don't have a Costco membership. I do have a house.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 07:47 PM
Apr 2020

Regular fridge and freezer. I do have a nice car, but i had dogs in the car coming home from the store, the groceries did not take up that much room. Maybe I just do not eat as much as some on here. I do not drink soda, only coffee, water, tea, juice, and of course wine.

I commented simply because so many here ‘gloated” as you put it about having stocked up, only to post about going to the store a week later. This place is really funny sometimes.

Have a great night! Stay home and stay safe! Maintain your social distance!

ecstatic

(32,638 posts)
146. I see no difference in traffic around here.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 08:20 PM
Apr 2020

And yes, I guess I'm guilty as charged as well... although I'm only leaving for reasons that I consider essential.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
150. That is the thing. I have a friend doing the same.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 08:43 PM
Apr 2020

I only noticed the fact that people seem to think it is only stupid rumpers who do this. It is not. Apparently I have hit a nerve lol.

lpbk2713

(42,729 posts)
17. Something like that would make me wish I was looking at the next Covid patient.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 01:42 PM
Apr 2020


It's obvious it was his way of supporting his asshole president.

lagomorph777

(30,613 posts)
26. He probably is the next COVID patient - and deservedly so.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 01:53 PM
Apr 2020

Unlike those unlucky enough to be around him.

Windy City Charlie

(1,178 posts)
18. Sadly
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 01:43 PM
Apr 2020

Sadly, he'll most likely end up contracting it. With all the data that's out, I can't believe some still aren't taking this as seriously as they should.

SunSeeker

(51,496 posts)
50. Indeed. He is not maintaining 6' distance and is endangering people.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:34 PM
Apr 2020

Just talking can spread the virus if you don't maintain your distance and aren't wearing a mask.

 

not_the_one

(2,227 posts)
20. A question (rhetirical, so no need to reply)
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 01:44 PM
Apr 2020

Do any of us NOT think that this asshole was CELEBRATING the fact that New York is being the hardest hit?

I didn't think so.

 

greenjar_01

(6,477 posts)
60. I've seen some of that from other Ohioans on this board
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:44 PM
Apr 2020

Though cloaked in more shall we say statistical language.

Books_Tea_Alone

(253 posts)
22. Hmm..was it my brother?
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 01:44 PM
Apr 2020

In that case- yes do not approach him. He is a rabid T.rumper and has been known to threaten violence when he gets worked up. He threw a glass of water at me after the 2016 election. Obviously we do not speak now but heard he was calling the entire thing a hoax last month. We live in NNJ, second worst area of the country right now and he visits various stores, banks, etc a day. Is it terrible to say I hope Karma comes knocking?

Chainfire

(17,433 posts)
40. Whats wrong is this:
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:19 PM
Apr 2020

It is not good enough for them to hold a monopoly on the truth, they also need to berate you for what you believe. Typical bullies.

I got some sideways glances and some whispering and pointing when I went into the grocery store wearing a mask last week. Nobody had the nerve to do it to my face, and it was a good thing, I was not in the mood to take any shit. Even though I am an old white haired man I am still tough enough to deal with the type. I am also of that magic age, that if they lay their finger on me, that simple battery becomes a felony. So messing with me might not only get them an ass whoopin, but also a spell in the jail

LuckyCharms

(17,402 posts)
36. In all seriousness, Ohioboy, at this point, I'm so bitter and angry...
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:05 PM
Apr 2020

If someone got closer than 6 feet to me and they were giving me crap about my mask, I'd consider it assault and I would knock them the fuck out.

AirmensMom

(14,636 posts)
39. There are assholes everywhere.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:14 PM
Apr 2020

But it's interesting because my daughter went to the store first thing this morning, for the first time in weeks, and she said she was the only one there NOT wearing a mask. Husband said the same thing on Sunday morning and asked me to make him some.

My horse wears a fly mask proudly (pink, if you must know), and non-horse people think she's blind or something. But yesterday, I told her that masks are all the rage now and she knew it years ago. She's a trend-setter!

Mr. Ected

(9,670 posts)
41. I had a lady mock me a couple weeks ago in the grocery store
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:21 PM
Apr 2020

I told her that she'll leave a real pretty corpse. She didn't find that very funny, but a couple of other people within earshot thought it was a hoot.

SunSeeker

(51,496 posts)
43. A Trumper, no doubt. Does he realize more Americans outside of NY have Covid-19 than in NY?
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:29 PM
Apr 2020

Like almost three times as many? As of right now, 420k have it in the US, 149k in NY. https://ncov2019.live/ Fucking idiot. I would have gone off on him and told him he was endangering people by walking around unmasked. And that he was an ignorant fucking asshole.

spooky3

(34,387 posts)
44. Our county had to email another reminder to assholes that
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:29 PM
Apr 2020

Parks and courts are closed, keep social distancing, etc.

Leith

(7,806 posts)
56. That's my answer, too
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:42 PM
Apr 2020

On the slim chance that I'll be in a store in the next couple of months, I will be carrying mace. I will give them one chance to back off, then the jerk gets sprayed.

As we used to say, I don't take no mess from nobody.

andym

(5,442 posts)
48. "Are we invited to your funeral" would be an amusing comeback.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:33 PM
Apr 2020

Or something like: you know that no one will be able to attend your funeral during a lockdown.

NoMoreRepugs

(9,358 posts)
65. Similar situation within the last half hour.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:49 PM
Apr 2020

Picked up food at N Florida diner. They are set up outside to handle payment/pickup.

Walked up wearing gloves and n95 mask. 60ish couple in front of me. I maintained a 10 foot interval behind them. They both turned, stared at me and commented out loud that I was sure dressed for the occasion, of course they were wearing zero protection and within 3 feet of the guy behind the little table. Guy actually asked “what are you afraid of?” - I, for me, tactfully replied “people like you” - rather than “fucking morons like you.”

In Florida you simply never know who has concealed carry.

A HERETIC I AM

(24,357 posts)
130. "What are you afraid of?"
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 04:52 PM
Apr 2020

"People like you who clearly didn't pay any attention in High School Biology class"

orleans

(34,039 posts)
67. i'm ready for that shit:
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:50 PM
Apr 2020

i've been sick and i don't want to make anyone else sick. including you.

(what a douche. sorry that happened to you)

Response to Ohioboy (Original post)

MagickMuffin

(15,918 posts)
69. Come back response: I'm protecting you . . . cough cough
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:52 PM
Apr 2020

Maybe that would make them think again about being a ass.

Chiyo-chichi

(3,572 posts)
70. Unbelievable.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:54 PM
Apr 2020

I heard a one member of a group of unmasked bros in the store yesterday say "can you imagine how uncomfortable it'd be to go around in a f'ing paint mask all day?"

I had 2 thoughts. No one is wearing them "all day." And... less uncomfortable than suffering through or dying from covid-19!

NCjack

(10,279 posts)
72. In a low voice that only he can hear, say "I have some symptoms --
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:56 PM
Apr 2020

for your own good, move away from me." If he makes a scene, deny that you said that. You merely said to him, since he was too close, "do you have symptoms -- move away from me."

 

Miigwech

(3,741 posts)
74. Tell him the virus attacks the testicles, tey will drop off, painfully
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 02:57 PM
Apr 2020

unless he wears a mask - NOW

c-rational

(2,587 posts)
91. What these ignorant people fail to realize is that the reason to wear masks is to protect your
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 03:29 PM
Apr 2020

neighbor as much or more than yourself. He is most likely a red blooded christian. I am not a fan of preaching nor religions in general, but it is a good rule not to hate. As I have heard (but not always take to heart), it is akin to throwing hot coals at your enemy. The only person you are assured of burning is yourself.

Update, on MSNBC it was just announded that at Kroger's they will be enforcing social distancing.

Stay safe.

bubbazero

(296 posts)
93. Sir, Please step back, I don't want you to get what I may have!
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 03:30 PM
Apr 2020

Have worn n95 masks in work settings, farm and industrial, all day. Try this next time, when they ask what might you have, reply Doctors don't know yet. STOP conversation there. IF THEY PERSIST - again ask them to step back. Actually, works quite well - and we might be an asymptomatic carrier for all any of us know.

Response to Ohioboy (Original post)

jimmyzvoice

(159 posts)
98. Don't engage him with a smart comeback, that just invites him to engage with you more.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 03:36 PM
Apr 2020

Just start coughing. I guarantee he will walk away.

C Moon

(12,207 posts)
100. I've seen plenty right-wing mask-haters in Southern California, as well.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 03:44 PM
Apr 2020

They also disobey the social distancing.

onetexan

(13,018 posts)
102. Darn, i had a similar experience yesterday around noon @Costco near me & can empathize.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 03:51 PM
Apr 2020

A RW prick and his wife & 2 young girls, none of them mask-wearing, were in line ahead of me. He complained Costco wouldn't let more than 2 people in per card so he made insinuations on how this was an overblown hoax, etc. When the lady ahead of him countered him he insulted her. At that point i had it with the nut and told him people are dying, and if he can't bring himself to comply with the store's rules to leave the rest of us alone. He then proceeded to direct his insults at me, and i returned the favor with factual take-downs, and called him a G-darn prick. Serves him right.

yaesu

(8,020 posts)
105. I already have a response for that, just ignore them, if they lay a pinky on me I will knock them
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 03:54 PM
Apr 2020

flat on their ass & ask them if they feel safe now.

Zambero

(8,961 posts)
106. New York wasn't "New York" a month ago either
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 03:56 PM
Apr 2020

London wasn't "London". Just ask Boris Johnson and any other unfortunate denier from weeks past. The virus doesn't care who you are or where you live, just as long as it gets established and passed along.

NellieStarbuck

(265 posts)
116. Oh, they're everywhere,
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 04:07 PM
Apr 2020

even here in New York, where it actually IS New York. Jerks. I'm pretty sure I can guess the political affiliation.

zentrum

(9,865 posts)
119. It's not about protecting yourself.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 04:13 PM
Apr 2020

The mask can't do that.

It's about protecting others from you, in case you are shedding virus and don't know it yet.

"This mask protects others, Ignoramus. But, like your leader, I guess you don't really care about other other people either."

fescuerescue

(4,448 posts)
176. I'm always amazed at the grocery store line encounters I read about here
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 08:56 AM
Apr 2020

My grocery stores are a little more boring.

sagetea

(1,366 posts)
126. I had a guy, a woman and her daughter laugh at my daughter and I.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 04:23 PM
Apr 2020

My daughter said, "mom, look they're laughing" I didn't say anything, we got in line (at Costco, early) and they were looking back at us, the guy started laughing, I turned to my daughter and said loudly, "I value my life and your life, so I will protect us from people like them".

Boy, did they shut up! Then more and more people came with masks on!

sage

Captain Zero

(6,773 posts)
158. If someone does that to me
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 09:44 PM
Apr 2020

I would be tempted to tell them. The best thing about my mask is when people can't hear me say FUCK YOU.

dawg day

(7,947 posts)
127. You could say, "You poor thing."
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 04:24 PM
Apr 2020

And then, "So many people have laughed this off-- like that preacher in Florida-- and the next thing we hear they've died of it. I sure hope that doesn't happen to you, poor thing."

TlalocW

(15,371 posts)
133. I talked to one person wearing a mask last time I had to go shopping
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 05:59 PM
Apr 2020

Told him his nose needed to be covered as well.

Then I faked having lost my voice when going through the checkout because I got the kid who has to have a full-blown conversation over every item of yours he scans keeping people out in public longer. I felt that was not just a way for me not to have to deal with him but socially responsible as well.

TlalocW

tonekat

(1,810 posts)
138. An acquaintance in AZ had something like this happen the other day...
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 07:18 PM
Apr 2020

...he was in a large liquor/wine store with his wife, they were masked and gloved and some hick said he was going to come over and breathe on them. As the jerk approached his wife, he saw red and knocked the guy on his ass. Store security came out, also masked and gloved, said they saw the whole thing and tossed the guy out of the store.

patricia92243

(12,591 posts)
143. I would have told him I have the virus and blown a big breath on him.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 07:54 PM
Apr 2020

Then calmly put my mask back on and go on about my business.

RicROC

(1,203 posts)
144. removed NY State plates from car
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 08:06 PM
Apr 2020

My snowbird friends from New York State (think: Niagara Falls) spend the winters in South Carolina.

Recently, they have found SC people spitting on their car, such that they had to remove the front license plate and park with the back of the car against the garage door.

ecstatic

(32,638 posts)
145. Has anyone else noticed that the people without masks are coughing a lot?
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 08:18 PM
Apr 2020

Don't know if they're trying to be assholes or if it's just unfortunate timing.

fescuerescue

(4,448 posts)
177. It's just something we notice now
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 08:58 AM
Apr 2020

Every cough I've had from the last month (4 or 5) has brought about great concern for myself.

In the past I wouldn't have even thought about it.

Tribetime

(4,681 posts)
153. I tell him I go in and out of a lot of places and may have it and not know it
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 09:02 PM
Apr 2020

I had the same experience at the supermarket lady look like she wanted to kill me because I was wearing a mask

Rebl2

(13,429 posts)
155. My husband
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 09:11 PM
Apr 2020

was at the post office the other day and there was same kind of jerk there. He heard jerk saying to a woman with mask on going on about how the virus is a hoax. Sick of these people.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,852 posts)
160. Are you in Ohio too?
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 10:55 PM
Apr 2020

A Trump supporter at my workplace approached me and coughed right in my face a couple weeks ago. Then he laughed and told me “It’s just a joke, dude. Don’t believe the fake news!”

That job became more unbearable after I finally revealed to a coworker that I was a liberal. It then spread throughout the factory, like many rumors at that place.

SunSeeker

(51,496 posts)
170. Wow. That sounds like a nightmare. How do you keep your sanity?
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 03:33 AM
Apr 2020

I feel lucky to live in CA, although I live in a little red pocket of the state. A lot of my neighbors are Republicans and it absolutely sucks to be surrounded by those idiots. But at least I don't have to spend time with them. Almost all my coworkers have been liberals, which made work a lot more pleasant. I think I would lose my mind if I had to spend all day working with MAGAts. I'm sorry you're going through that hell.

Ohio has 5,148 confirmed Covid-19 cases and 193 deaths. That's not fake news. https://ncov2019.live/

Please take lots of zinc and Vitamin D to help fight off viruses you might be exposed to by those idiots. And Lysol the fuck out of everything they touch around you.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
161. You might be one of the nice people, but I'm not.
Wed Apr 8, 2020, 10:58 PM
Apr 2020

I'll take the blame for the sin and say it. Let the fucker reap what he sows. Maybe he'll get it and realize how stupid he was being.

soldierant

(6,776 posts)
162. "What are you afraid of?"
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 12:42 AM
Apr 2020

"I'm afraid I might infect YOU"

might be a good answer.

Especially with a cough thrown in.

 

DIVINEprividence

(443 posts)
169. I had an experience like that
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 03:08 AM
Apr 2020

I simply looked them right in the eye and said “wtf are you looking at”.

Loge23

(3,922 posts)
179. There was a MAGAT in our store today
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 11:18 AM
Apr 2020

Replete in his military service hat and *2020 tee shirt. In a store where just about everyone but him had masks on.
I wanted to...well, I just don't when I'm going to be unable to contain my rage at these cretins.
...and I'll never understand why people in the military support this chickenshit impostor who has ZERO respect for the military order or the people in it. He uses them as props an they buy in?? Unbelievable.

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