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CousinIT

(9,234 posts)
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 06:02 PM Apr 2020

My Dumb Trumper Sister: "We have to reopen the country! We can't go on like this!"

NO TESTING. Nothing. Just let people mingle again and cram them into wherever again. She's bored, she says (retired) and she wants this to be over.

I brought up testing. She said "well they don't know how, they have to develop these things!". I told her S. Korea, Singapore and many other countries had massive testing going on within 2 weeks. WITH ABSOLUTELY NO VALID EXCUSE GIVEN, we have not done that here. If they can figure it out, so can the US. She says: "well this country can't go on like this, it will get destroyed!" I told her it will be more destroyed if we just open it back up. Everyone will be infecting everyone else and the hospitals will be massively overwhelmed and it will be even more expensive than keeping things on lockdown. This will drag out much longer too, and they'll have to shut down again. She says: "well, they can't shut it down again! They don't shut everything down for the flu!" I told her this is much worse than flu and it's killing people and unlike the flu, there's no vaccine or treatment.

HOW AM I RELATED TO SOMEONE SO STUPID!!

Ugh.

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My Dumb Trumper Sister: "We have to reopen the country! We can't go on like this!" (Original Post) CousinIT Apr 2020 OP
We may have been able to open sooner if Sneederbunk Apr 2020 #1
Should have clarified - this is my sister, not Trump's CousinIT Apr 2020 #4
I know this is your sister, Dan Apr 2020 #13
I have only one thing to say about this comment ... aggiesal Apr 2020 #50
I should have told her that! CousinIT Apr 2020 #59
Maybe,.....oh never mind......... DENVERPOPS Apr 2020 #40
You are insulting the op not tRump. It's his sister. TexasProgresive Apr 2020 #14
Sorry.. I read too fast I thought it Cha Apr 2020 #2
You are insulting the op not tRump. It's his sister. TexasProgresive Apr 2020 #17
omg.. Thank you! I read too fast as I Cha Apr 2020 #53
The quick and easy answer: There are no shortcuts through a pandemic gratuitous Apr 2020 #3
+1000 n/t CousinIT Apr 2020 #5
My sister in OH was complaining that she "likes her independence," and that the closures stopbush Apr 2020 #6
Good answer. CousinIT Apr 2020 #7
She's the one who told me she "didn't like Obama's policies." stopbush Apr 2020 #23
When will you have enough and just quit communicating.???? DENVERPOPS Apr 2020 #42
I don't call her. She calls me every 9-10 months. stopbush Apr 2020 #63
I always remind them about ebola epidemic that we had under Obama, which is deadlier ... aggiesal Apr 2020 #55
And besides Trumps says it's OK! Different Drummer Apr 2020 #69
Tell her South Korea has reopened their country. Beakybird Apr 2020 #8
I told her that....she claimed 'well it takes a long time to develop tests' CousinIT Apr 2020 #61
Yes, the head smashing against a brick wall. Jamastiene Apr 2020 #9
Why do you think they pretend? ConnorMarc Apr 2020 #39
Because I have seen my mother say two different things Jamastiene Apr 2020 #68
Common sense is a curse when we have to deal with those who have none. OMGWTF Apr 2020 #44
Is your mother aware that... ConnorMarc Apr 2020 #52
Reads like, first you need zombies. Right? dhol82 Apr 2020 #57
Not at all. ConnorMarc Apr 2020 #71
I'm glad you are out of that. 3catwoman3 Apr 2020 #65
My landlady said the same yesterday. 2naSalit Apr 2020 #10
Show her the video of the person DYING from this who cant breathe Eliot Rosewater Apr 2020 #11
Yep. I heard on TV that without ventilators, the doctors resort to tying down the victims stopbush Apr 2020 #24
And all alone Danmel Apr 2020 #37
So sorry for you. lpbk2713 Apr 2020 #12
Unfortunately, the virus/Mother Nature has the final decision. . . DinahMoeHum Apr 2020 #15
I am forever grateful my sister and I are both in health care and both share similar political hlthe2b Apr 2020 #16
Same with my sister. My southern, "Goldwater Republican" father.. Laffy Kat Apr 2020 #27
I cannot cannot believe I'm related to my brother, as well Kitchari Apr 2020 #18
The three conceits of Christianity: elitism, self aggrandizement and moral relativism. stopbush Apr 2020 #26
this is his herald for the Rumpocalypse Celerity Apr 2020 #75
interesting nature vs nurture experiment you got there. TeamPooka Apr 2020 #19
Hey! Maybe you are my brother MLAA Apr 2020 #20
It probably doesn't take much. LiberalFighter Apr 2020 #21
No offense, but your sister is a brainwashed Trump lemming. All Trumpers are. John Fante Apr 2020 #22
I'm not offended. It's true. n/t CousinIT Apr 2020 #62
I hate to say it but vercetti2021 Apr 2020 #25
It's rampant on FB today Roland99 Apr 2020 #28
She's not stupid JustAnotherGen Apr 2020 #29
She is brainwashed Kitchari Apr 2020 #30
Every gene pool has a shallow end... Wounded Bear Apr 2020 #31
Haha!! Good one diva77 Apr 2020 #32
Like I could stop you? Wounded Bear Apr 2020 #33
And as Author Rick Wilson said in his book "Everything Trump Touches Dies"; A HERETIC I AM Apr 2020 #43
A basic misunderstanding Nasruddin Apr 2020 #34
Perfect response! Wow, she's spewing out crap from the early days of this Trump mess. C Moon Apr 2020 #35
I'm having a problem with my wife BunnyMcGee Apr 2020 #36
Omg that's so unfortunate. lostnfound Apr 2020 #58
I hate a bad dream about still being married... Buckeye_Democrat Apr 2020 #73
My sincere condolences. CountMyVote4Reality Apr 2020 #38
If she is bored Traildogbob Apr 2020 #41
Selfish. CousinIT Apr 2020 #66
tell her only boring people get bored Coventina Apr 2020 #45
I feel your pain. nt Ferrets are Cool Apr 2020 #46
I have a dumb trump humper sister, too lillypaddle Apr 2020 #47
Sux. My BFF of 36-years is a MAGAt too and I don't know if I can be her friend any longer. OMGWTF Apr 2020 #49
Lost Cause marieo1 Apr 2020 #48
Unfortunately, we all have a sister or brother like this. Hassler Apr 2020 #51
We absolutely SHOULD use these measures for the flu. LakeArenal Apr 2020 #54
If you weren't related to her I'd suggest Kerrycrat Apr 2020 #56
I have divorced all my tRump loving relatives long ago so I don't have to listen to stupid. nt hellno45 Apr 2020 #60
I'm sorry to say this but ... aggiesal Apr 2020 #64
Doesn't bother me! CousinIT Apr 2020 #67
Well Trump does not even believe that. BrightKnight Apr 2020 #70
All you have to do is ask them... ConnorMarc Apr 2020 #72
I have a COVID-45 loving sister. roamer65 Apr 2020 #74
Instead of being negative about this, point her to volunteer to cure her "boredom" Claustrum Apr 2020 #76
A Trumper? Volunteer? Wednesdays Apr 2020 #77
Sorry to hear this. My situation is not too different ... eppur_se_muova Apr 2020 #78

CousinIT

(9,234 posts)
4. Should have clarified - this is my sister, not Trump's
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 06:12 PM
Apr 2020

I can't believe she's that dumb. I think she's just bored and mad that she can't go to church.

Dan

(3,541 posts)
13. I know this is your sister,
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 06:27 PM
Apr 2020

So trying to be nice.

In theory going to church now might give her an opportunity to see Jesus sooner.

Cha

(297,029 posts)
2. Sorry.. I read too fast I thought it
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 06:09 PM
Apr 2020

Last edited Thu Apr 9, 2020, 08:17 PM - Edit history (1)

was trump's sister you were talking about!

gratuitous

(82,849 posts)
3. The quick and easy answer: There are no shortcuts through a pandemic
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 06:11 PM
Apr 2020

It's going to last as long as it lasts, and I'm inclined to listen to the experts in medicine and epidemiology who have dedicated their lives to the practice of medicine, rather than the self-serving nostrums offered up by a vain, selfish liar, whose major concern is his poll numbers, not the public health of the American people.

stopbush

(24,393 posts)
6. My sister in OH was complaining that she "likes her independence," and that the closures
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 06:15 PM
Apr 2020

were effecting her.

My response: “The virus doesn’t care about your independence, and it will effect you until you're dead.”

CousinIT

(9,234 posts)
7. Good answer.
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 06:19 PM
Apr 2020

What is it with them? "I'm bored and inconvenienced, so let more people needlessly die + let this pandemic drag out many more months or years + costs US taxpayers trillions more money! Why should I care. I'm booooored! And besides Trumps says it's OK!"

DENVERPOPS

(8,802 posts)
42. When will you have enough and just quit communicating.????
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 07:48 PM
Apr 2020

I have thrown in the towel on any friend, acquaintance, or family member that says any single fucking thing pro Republican.
They and their Republican Party cronies have made it more than abundantly clear they don't give a shit for any of us, well then, right back at you, you despicable Sub Human pieces of excrement........

Karma takes longer than I certainly wish it would, but it eventually comes back around, and when it does the carnage that comes down on all the Republicans will be devastating.....

stopbush

(24,393 posts)
63. I don't call her. She calls me every 9-10 months.
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 08:42 PM
Apr 2020

BTW - when will you stop believing in karma? It’s bullshit.

aggiesal

(8,909 posts)
55. I always remind them about ebola epidemic that we had under Obama, which is deadlier ...
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 08:17 PM
Apr 2020

We only had 11 cases!
That's how you handle epidemic.
Not with Pendejo45 in charge, he let it turn into a Pandemic and
then states that he would score a 10 of 10, for the way he's handled it.

They're all IDIOTS.
Life imitates art. Idiocracy!

Different Drummer

(7,611 posts)
69. And besides Trumps says it's OK!
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 09:29 PM
Apr 2020

His word is the most important to them. They won't obey the medical professionals if those professionals say something they don't want to hear.

Beakybird

(3,332 posts)
8. Tell her South Korea has reopened their country.
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 06:19 PM
Apr 2020

Because they had epidemiologists on the ground and widespread testing. They know who has the virus and who doesn't. This was like changing oil on the car. Trump fucked up, and it's too late to follow South Korea, Singapore, Taiwan, and the other countries that had widespread testing from the beginning.

CousinIT

(9,234 posts)
61. I told her that....she claimed 'well it takes a long time to develop tests'
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 08:31 PM
Apr 2020

NO. It does not! Trump's admin simply denied them to Americans.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
9. Yes, the head smashing against a brick wall.
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 06:20 PM
Apr 2020

That is how I always felt when I was still in contact with my sicko mother and even more sicko stepfather. Both are extremely misogynist and extremely homophobic, but swear up and down that they are not. They tried to lie about their votes on Amendment One in NC, but I looked it up at the local precinct level and the only two votes against it were my aunt and I. So, I know for a fact they were lying. They have the same Trump mentality, but try to pretend they don't. I can tell by everything they say that they are Trumpers and of course, very misogynist and homophobic and ok with other horrible stuff that would get most prisoners killed if they were in gen pop.

I'm so glad my aunt was around when I was a child. There is no telling what my mother would have put me through without my aunt to try to use diplomacy to rescue me from that horror. I miss my aunt since she died last October. I don't miss my mother since cutting all ties in November to end the abusive crap both she and my stepfather were inflicting on me. My car runs again now too. So, my stepfather not messing with it and a real mechanic taking care of it means I can go anywhere at all, or could until this Covid-19 thing happened. He kept me hobbled with that crap he was doing to it, including blowing out my spare tire, for almost a year. I'm glad the abuse is over.

That head smashing thing. Yeah, I understand that feeling. It is frustrating. It is hard to understand how family can be so ridiculously stupid, but for some of us, that's how it is. I don't think a lot of people don't have to deal with it truly understand how frustrating it is.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
68. Because I have seen my mother say two different things
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 09:23 PM
Apr 2020

depending on who is around. It is something I saw her do from the time I was a child. My grandmother said she was born a grifter.

OMGWTF

(3,949 posts)
44. Common sense is a curse when we have to deal with those who have none.
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 07:51 PM
Apr 2020

My fundie end-timer mother (the worst person I have ever known) is, I imagine, thrilled about the virus. In her fevered brain, the Rapture is about to happen and Donald J. Trump is the emcee for the reappearance of JFC, who is going to vacuum up all of the "Good Xitians" while they're flipping the bird to the rest of us saying "I told you so!" Bye jerkholes!

 

ConnorMarc

(653 posts)
52. Is your mother aware that...
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 08:13 PM
Apr 2020

The rapture, is not Biblical?

As her to show you the text that supports her belief.

If she presents some text, then ask her to reconcile that with...

1 Thessalonians 4:16-18

3catwoman3

(23,965 posts)
65. I'm glad you are out of that.
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 08:44 PM
Apr 2020

I’ve spent a 45 year career in pediatrics, and truly wish that parenting were a licensed profession. I’d be happy to decide who did and didn’t get a license. Your mother would not have.

I hope you are OK now.

Eliot Rosewater

(31,109 posts)
11. Show her the video of the person DYING from this who cant breathe
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 06:23 PM
Apr 2020

and their bodies are writhing and thrashing around in extreme pain and fright...

If ANY OF YOU OUT there do that to ME or my loved ones, I wont REST ...

I dont have the link, but there are videos of that and descriptions...it is SO BAD that I cant imagine it.

stopbush

(24,393 posts)
24. Yep. I heard on TV that without ventilators, the doctors resort to tying down the victims
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 06:55 PM
Apr 2020

to mitigate their thrashing about as they suffocate.

I don’t know why these things aren’t being widely reported. Might make people think twice.

hlthe2b

(102,192 posts)
16. I am forever grateful my sister and I are both in health care and both share similar political
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 06:29 PM
Apr 2020

beliefs... Honestly, I can scarcely speak to extended family members that are fully or even partially still Republican (and by Republican I don't let them claim "anti-Trump" ). I just have a tremendous difficulty maintaining any respect for them.

Kitchari

(2,166 posts)
18. I cannot cannot believe I'm related to my brother, as well
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 06:33 PM
Apr 2020

He is a fundamentalist who welcomes the apocalypse because he believes all this is prophesied in the Bible: Plagues, earthquakes, floods, etc. To him this is a source of a sickening sense of superiority. SMH

MLAA

(17,266 posts)
20. Hey! Maybe you are my brother
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 06:37 PM
Apr 2020

and my trumpet brother is actually your sister’s brother. What do you think, bro?

LiberalFighter

(50,826 posts)
21. It probably doesn't take much.
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 06:45 PM
Apr 2020

I have three sisters (one deceased years ago) and they are all different. We were all treated the same except for the youngest one. All had different interests.

John Fante

(3,479 posts)
22. No offense, but your sister is a brainwashed Trump lemming. All Trumpers are.
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 06:47 PM
Apr 2020

If Dickhead came out tomorrow and said the country should remain locked down until the end of May, your sister would parrot that. So would Hannity, Nunes, Bill O, etc. They've all become blind followers of the reality show moron. It's freaky.

vercetti2021

(10,156 posts)
25. I hate to say it but
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 06:57 PM
Apr 2020

These people want to go out and get sick that's just natural selection taking course. People died because of stupid things like this and people will continue to die because of stupid people like your sister

JustAnotherGen

(31,798 posts)
29. She's not stupid
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 07:07 PM
Apr 2020

She's got to work her way UP TO stupid. That should be her long term goal. She's not smart enough to be stupid.

A HERETIC I AM

(24,365 posts)
43. And as Author Rick Wilson said in his book "Everything Trump Touches Dies";
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 07:49 PM
Apr 2020

(Paraphrasing) “Trump cultists are often the type of people who will ignore the “No Diving” signs and go in to that shallow end head first!”

I like the line, but I must add that the context he used it had to do with their rhetorical depth, he was speaking about the types of emails and Twitter responses he gets.

Still funny, though.

Nasruddin

(751 posts)
34. A basic misunderstanding
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 07:22 PM
Apr 2020

It's difficult dealing with reasoning such as you describe.

The problem really lies in all of us.

The spongy thing that's sitting on top of our shoulders evolved to organize keeping us alive and reproducing.

Somehow, who knows why, a part of that brain tissue developed the ability to solve algebra problems. It's better in some people than in others, but that's about all that extra ability is really good for. The rest of the time, when you're not solving algebra problems, it's figuring out how to justify whatever crazy emotion, stray feeling, randomly-generated thought, or misinterpreted pattern it's seeing in nature or in itself. It's all nonsense, almost all.

I've been trying to keep this in mind, but for the same reason as I described above, it isn't easy.

BunnyMcGee

(463 posts)
36. I'm having a problem with my wife
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 07:25 PM
Apr 2020

She gets news from Facebook or somewhere else on her smartphone, and she spout the same shit. I am not speaking much to her. When I do, I feel my BP rising

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
73. I hate a bad dream about still being married...
Fri Apr 10, 2020, 02:00 AM
Apr 2020

... to my ex-wife a few days ago.

In the dream, she was driving me crazy during the social distancing protocols.

It was a very realistic dream in that regard because she could NOT entertain herself in real life. If I was busy studying for my Master’s degree, or I forewarned her that I needed private time for about 8 hours to catch up on homework, she’d still drape herself on me within an hour to complain that she was bored. (Then she’d often go to a bar and get drunk.)

I started wondering how she was in my life again, and I awoke soon thereafter... so relieved!

38. My sincere condolences.
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 07:27 PM
Apr 2020

It feels weird to say under the circumstances, but her stupidity will be the death of her and a few more of her contacts. Still sorry for your loss.

Traildogbob

(8,705 posts)
41. If she is bored
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 07:44 PM
Apr 2020

Let her go roll out the dead bodies from hospitals and body bag em. Walmart is hiring. There are quit a few nurses and medical staff that would love a little boredom. Selfish.

Coventina

(27,084 posts)
45. tell her only boring people get bored
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 07:51 PM
Apr 2020

Seriously.

If you are bored, I do not feel sorry for you one bit. There is always plenty to do, and plenty to explore, especially in this information age.

lillypaddle

(9,580 posts)
47. I have a dumb trump humper sister, too
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 07:52 PM
Apr 2020

It's painful. Currently she is not speaking to me. All I did was call her a fucking moron. Who knew?

She has a Master's degree in art, is a fucking AMAZING artist, but has always been a bigot. A racist fucking bigot. What a waste. She used to be a Democrat, bragged about supporting Eugene McCarthy - but THEN a BLACK man came to office and she switched on Fox News with her racist bigoted husband. The rest is history.

marieo1

(1,402 posts)
48. Lost Cause
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 07:54 PM
Apr 2020

I think we all have stupid relatives/friends like this.......I just never ever talk any politics with any of them - what's the use. They have strong opinions and so do I. It's a lost cause, they will not see the light until it hits them.

Hassler

(3,370 posts)
51. Unfortunately, we all have a sister or brother like this.
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 08:09 PM
Apr 2020

My own sister is, objectively, smarter than me, but she got hooked on hate radio and FOX and has turned into an absolute dolt. Hang in there, it'll get better someday.

LakeArenal

(28,809 posts)
54. We absolutely SHOULD use these measures for the flu.
Thu Apr 9, 2020, 08:16 PM
Apr 2020

People should stay home when they are sick without fear of reprisal.

People should wear masks if they are sick.

Everyone should wash their hands more. Especially if they have the flu.

People should have the proper equipment for all contingencies.

Immediate service for people who are sick.

I’m no medical person but I’m sure I have barely scratched what we should do when sick with a contagious disease.

BrightKnight

(3,567 posts)
70. Well Trump does not even believe that.
Fri Apr 10, 2020, 01:40 AM
Apr 2020

He is just deflecting blame for shutting the economy down. He knows that Democrats will make a stink about it and he can paint it as their plan. He won’t have to take responsibility at all for the economic fallout made much worse by his inaction.

roamer65

(36,745 posts)
74. I have a COVID-45 loving sister.
Fri Apr 10, 2020, 02:20 AM
Apr 2020

But even she said shut everything down.

I’m sorry yours is so dumb.

Claustrum

(4,845 posts)
76. Instead of being negative about this, point her to volunteer to cure her "boredom"
Fri Apr 10, 2020, 08:32 AM
Apr 2020

There are lots of places that needs volunteers like buying groceries for seniors or disabled, working at a food bank, etc.

eppur_se_muova

(36,256 posts)
78. Sorry to hear this. My situation is not too different ...
Fri Apr 10, 2020, 12:23 PM
Apr 2020

I learned a few years ago that my sister has a tendency to panic, which I had not realized before. She finds it hard to be cooped up, and in fact I just learned yesterday that she is still dropping by fast-food joints on a regular basis. She shops for groceries at WalMart, and even though she has passed on some paranoid woo about how to "cure" or "prevent" COVID-19 she doesn't seem to be doing much to prevent exposure, which is the safest approach. No hand sanitizer, no gloves, no mask, 2-3 trips out of the house every day -- and she shares a house with me and her elderly mother. If Mom dies from the virus, it won't be because of me. But she's too wrapped up in her inconsistent, irrational view of the world to ever realize she's doing anything wrong, much less take any responsibility for it.

Like you, I wonder how on earth I could be related to someone whose brainpower is so misdirected.

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