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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsMy Dumb Trumper Sister: "We have to reopen the country! We can't go on like this!"
NO TESTING. Nothing. Just let people mingle again and cram them into wherever again. She's bored, she says (retired) and she wants this to be over.
I brought up testing. She said "well they don't know how, they have to develop these things!". I told her S. Korea, Singapore and many other countries had massive testing going on within 2 weeks. WITH ABSOLUTELY NO VALID EXCUSE GIVEN, we have not done that here. If they can figure it out, so can the US. She says: "well this country can't go on like this, it will get destroyed!" I told her it will be more destroyed if we just open it back up. Everyone will be infecting everyone else and the hospitals will be massively overwhelmed and it will be even more expensive than keeping things on lockdown. This will drag out much longer too, and they'll have to shut down again. She says: "well, they can't shut it down again! They don't shut everything down for the flu!" I told her this is much worse than flu and it's killing people and unlike the flu, there's no vaccine or treatment.
HOW AM I RELATED TO SOMEONE SO STUPID!!
Ugh.
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Sneederbunk
(14,286 posts)Trump had not screwed up in January and February.
CousinIT
(9,234 posts)I can't believe she's that dumb. I think she's just bored and mad that she can't go to church.
Dan
(3,541 posts)So trying to be nice.
In theory going to church now might give her an opportunity to see Jesus sooner.
aggiesal
(8,909 posts)CousinIT
(9,234 posts)DENVERPOPS
(8,802 posts)TexasProgresive
(12,157 posts)Cha
(297,029 posts)Last edited Thu Apr 9, 2020, 08:17 PM - Edit history (1)
was trump's sister you were talking about!
TexasProgresive
(12,157 posts)Cha
(297,029 posts)was going out the door.
I'll edit NOW!
gratuitous
(82,849 posts)It's going to last as long as it lasts, and I'm inclined to listen to the experts in medicine and epidemiology who have dedicated their lives to the practice of medicine, rather than the self-serving nostrums offered up by a vain, selfish liar, whose major concern is his poll numbers, not the public health of the American people.
CousinIT
(9,234 posts)stopbush
(24,393 posts)were effecting her.
My response: The virus doesnt care about your independence, and it will effect you until you're dead.
CousinIT
(9,234 posts)What is it with them? "I'm bored and inconvenienced, so let more people needlessly die + let this pandemic drag out many more months or years + costs US taxpayers trillions more money! Why should I care. I'm booooored! And besides Trumps says it's OK!"
stopbush
(24,393 posts)Asked her to name one - crickets.
DENVERPOPS
(8,802 posts)I have thrown in the towel on any friend, acquaintance, or family member that says any single fucking thing pro Republican.
They and their Republican Party cronies have made it more than abundantly clear they don't give a shit for any of us, well then, right back at you, you despicable Sub Human pieces of excrement........
Karma takes longer than I certainly wish it would, but it eventually comes back around, and when it does the carnage that comes down on all the Republicans will be devastating.....
stopbush
(24,393 posts)BTW - when will you stop believing in karma? Its bullshit.
aggiesal
(8,909 posts)We only had 11 cases!
That's how you handle epidemic.
Not with Pendejo45 in charge, he let it turn into a Pandemic and
then states that he would score a 10 of 10, for the way he's handled it.
They're all IDIOTS.
Life imitates art. Idiocracy!
Different Drummer
(7,611 posts)His word is the most important to them. They won't obey the medical professionals if those professionals say something they don't want to hear.
Beakybird
(3,332 posts)Because they had epidemiologists on the ground and widespread testing. They know who has the virus and who doesn't. This was like changing oil on the car. Trump fucked up, and it's too late to follow South Korea, Singapore, Taiwan, and the other countries that had widespread testing from the beginning.
CousinIT
(9,234 posts)NO. It does not! Trump's admin simply denied them to Americans.
Jamastiene
(38,187 posts)That is how I always felt when I was still in contact with my sicko mother and even more sicko stepfather. Both are extremely misogynist and extremely homophobic, but swear up and down that they are not. They tried to lie about their votes on Amendment One in NC, but I looked it up at the local precinct level and the only two votes against it were my aunt and I. So, I know for a fact they were lying. They have the same Trump mentality, but try to pretend they don't. I can tell by everything they say that they are Trumpers and of course, very misogynist and homophobic and ok with other horrible stuff that would get most prisoners killed if they were in gen pop.
I'm so glad my aunt was around when I was a child. There is no telling what my mother would have put me through without my aunt to try to use diplomacy to rescue me from that horror. I miss my aunt since she died last October. I don't miss my mother since cutting all ties in November to end the abusive crap both she and my stepfather were inflicting on me. My car runs again now too. So, my stepfather not messing with it and a real mechanic taking care of it means I can go anywhere at all, or could until this Covid-19 thing happened. He kept me hobbled with that crap he was doing to it, including blowing out my spare tire, for almost a year. I'm glad the abuse is over.
That head smashing thing. Yeah, I understand that feeling. It is frustrating. It is hard to understand how family can be so ridiculously stupid, but for some of us, that's how it is. I don't think a lot of people don't have to deal with it truly understand how frustrating it is.
ConnorMarc
(653 posts)I've never understood this phenomenon.
Jamastiene
(38,187 posts)depending on who is around. It is something I saw her do from the time I was a child. My grandmother said she was born a grifter.
OMGWTF
(3,949 posts)My fundie end-timer mother (the worst person I have ever known) is, I imagine, thrilled about the virus. In her fevered brain, the Rapture is about to happen and Donald J. Trump is the emcee for the reappearance of JFC, who is going to vacuum up all of the "Good Xitians" while they're flipping the bird to the rest of us saying "I told you so!" Bye jerkholes!
ConnorMarc
(653 posts)The rapture, is not Biblical?
As her to show you the text that supports her belief.
If she presents some text, then ask her to reconcile that with...
1 Thessalonians 4:16-18
dhol82
(9,352 posts)ConnorMarc
(653 posts)Check it out.
3catwoman3
(23,965 posts)Ive spent a 45 year career in pediatrics, and truly wish that parenting were a licensed profession. Id be happy to decide who did and didnt get a license. Your mother would not have.
I hope you are OK now.
2naSalit
(86,502 posts)Eliot Rosewater
(31,109 posts)and their bodies are writhing and thrashing around in extreme pain and fright...
If ANY OF YOU OUT there do that to ME or my loved ones, I wont REST ...
I dont have the link, but there are videos of that and descriptions...it is SO BAD that I cant imagine it.
stopbush
(24,393 posts)to mitigate their thrashing about as they suffocate.
I dont know why these things arent being widely reported. Might make people think twice.
Danmel
(4,911 posts)And unable to have a funeral so the family can have some comfort.
lpbk2713
(42,750 posts)You can choose your friends but you can't choose your family.
DinahMoeHum
(21,783 posts). . .not us humans.
#newrostrong
hlthe2b
(102,192 posts)beliefs... Honestly, I can scarcely speak to extended family members that are fully or even partially still Republican (and by Republican I don't let them claim "anti-Trump" ). I just have a tremendous difficulty maintaining any respect for them.
Laffy Kat
(16,376 posts)Raised two left-wing daughters.
Kitchari
(2,166 posts)He is a fundamentalist who welcomes the apocalypse because he believes all this is prophesied in the Bible: Plagues, earthquakes, floods, etc. To him this is a source of a sickening sense of superiority. SMH
stopbush
(24,393 posts)Celerity
(43,250 posts)TeamPooka
(24,216 posts)MLAA
(17,266 posts)and my trumpet brother is actually your sisters brother. What do you think, bro?
LiberalFighter
(50,826 posts)I have three sisters (one deceased years ago) and they are all different. We were all treated the same except for the youngest one. All had different interests.
John Fante
(3,479 posts)If Dickhead came out tomorrow and said the country should remain locked down until the end of May, your sister would parrot that. So would Hannity, Nunes, Bill O, etc. They've all become blind followers of the reality show moron. It's freaky.
CousinIT
(9,234 posts)vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)These people want to go out and get sick that's just natural selection taking course. People died because of stupid things like this and people will continue to die because of stupid people like your sister
Roland99
(53,342 posts)JustAnotherGen
(31,798 posts)She's got to work her way UP TO stupid. That should be her long term goal. She's not smart enough to be stupid.
Kitchari
(2,166 posts)Like my brother
Wounded Bear
(58,619 posts)diva77
(7,638 posts)Permission requested to steal this!!
Wounded Bear
(58,619 posts)A HERETIC I AM
(24,365 posts)(Paraphrasing) Trump cultists are often the type of people who will ignore the No Diving signs and go in to that shallow end head first!
I like the line, but I must add that the context he used it had to do with their rhetorical depth, he was speaking about the types of emails and Twitter responses he gets.
Still funny, though.
Nasruddin
(751 posts)It's difficult dealing with reasoning such as you describe.
The problem really lies in all of us.
The spongy thing that's sitting on top of our shoulders evolved to organize keeping us alive and reproducing.
Somehow, who knows why, a part of that brain tissue developed the ability to solve algebra problems. It's better in some people than in others, but that's about all that extra ability is really good for. The rest of the time, when you're not solving algebra problems, it's figuring out how to justify whatever crazy emotion, stray feeling, randomly-generated thought, or misinterpreted pattern it's seeing in nature or in itself. It's all nonsense, almost all.
I've been trying to keep this in mind, but for the same reason as I described above, it isn't easy.
C Moon
(12,212 posts)BunnyMcGee
(463 posts)She gets news from Facebook or somewhere else on her smartphone, and she spout the same shit. I am not speaking much to her. When I do, I feel my BP rising
lostnfound
(16,169 posts)I dont know how people cope with that in a partner.
Buckeye_Democrat
(14,853 posts)... to my ex-wife a few days ago.
In the dream, she was driving me crazy during the social distancing protocols.
It was a very realistic dream in that regard because she could NOT entertain herself in real life. If I was busy studying for my Masters degree, or I forewarned her that I needed private time for about 8 hours to catch up on homework, shed still drape herself on me within an hour to complain that she was bored. (Then shed often go to a bar and get drunk.)
I started wondering how she was in my life again, and I awoke soon thereafter... so relieved!
CountMyVote4Reality
(209 posts)It feels weird to say under the circumstances, but her stupidity will be the death of her and a few more of her contacts. Still sorry for your loss.
Traildogbob
(8,705 posts)Let her go roll out the dead bodies from hospitals and body bag em. Walmart is hiring. There are quit a few nurses and medical staff that would love a little boredom. Selfish.
CousinIT
(9,234 posts)That's it. I agree.
Coventina
(27,084 posts)Seriously.
If you are bored, I do not feel sorry for you one bit. There is always plenty to do, and plenty to explore, especially in this information age.
Ferrets are Cool
(21,105 posts)lillypaddle
(9,580 posts)It's painful. Currently she is not speaking to me. All I did was call her a fucking moron. Who knew?
She has a Master's degree in art, is a fucking AMAZING artist, but has always been a bigot. A racist fucking bigot. What a waste. She used to be a Democrat, bragged about supporting Eugene McCarthy - but THEN a BLACK man came to office and she switched on Fox News with her racist bigoted husband. The rest is history.
OMGWTF
(3,949 posts)marieo1
(1,402 posts)I think we all have stupid relatives/friends like this.......I just never ever talk any politics with any of them - what's the use. They have strong opinions and so do I. It's a lost cause, they will not see the light until it hits them.
Hassler
(3,370 posts)My own sister is, objectively, smarter than me, but she got hooked on hate radio and FOX and has turned into an absolute dolt. Hang in there, it'll get better someday.
LakeArenal
(28,809 posts)People should stay home when they are sick without fear of reprisal.
People should wear masks if they are sick.
Everyone should wash their hands more. Especially if they have the flu.
People should have the proper equipment for all contingencies.
Immediate service for people who are sick.
Im no medical person but Im sure I have barely scratched what we should do when sick with a contagious disease.
Kerrycrat
(159 posts)Sending her out first, like a canary in a coal mine
hellno45
(67 posts)aggiesal
(8,909 posts)this has been the most entertaining thread I have read in a long time.
CousinIT
(9,234 posts)I'm glad to know I'm not alone dealing with self-centered family idiots.
BrightKnight
(3,567 posts)He is just deflecting blame for shutting the economy down. He knows that Democrats will make a stink about it and he can paint it as their plan. He wont have to take responsibility at all for the economic fallout made much worse by his inaction.
ConnorMarc
(653 posts)Who closed the country?
And wait for a response.
roamer65
(36,745 posts)But even she said shut everything down.
Im sorry yours is so dumb.
Claustrum
(4,845 posts)There are lots of places that needs volunteers like buying groceries for seniors or disabled, working at a food bank, etc.
Wednesdays
(17,332 posts)eppur_se_muova
(36,256 posts)I learned a few years ago that my sister has a tendency to panic, which I had not realized before. She finds it hard to be cooped up, and in fact I just learned yesterday that she is still dropping by fast-food joints on a regular basis. She shops for groceries at WalMart, and even though she has passed on some paranoid woo about how to "cure" or "prevent" COVID-19 she doesn't seem to be doing much to prevent exposure, which is the safest approach. No hand sanitizer, no gloves, no mask, 2-3 trips out of the house every day -- and she shares a house with me and her elderly mother. If Mom dies from the virus, it won't be because of me. But she's too wrapped up in her inconsistent, irrational view of the world to ever realize she's doing anything wrong, much less take any responsibility for it.
Like you, I wonder how on earth I could be related to someone whose brainpower is so misdirected.