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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsMa (Little Star) passed away today at 5:08 pm eastern.
She loved DU.
She passed at my home that we shared for many years, with her four daughters comforting her.
Hardest thing I ever had to do, but the most necessary.
She was one hell of a strong woman. My best friend, my rock. The smartest, the most common sense, one hell of an intuition, full of life, strongest, loving women one would ever be privileged, to know.
She is no longer suffering, but I am going to miss her more than I could possibly express.
Rest In Peace Ma.
DarthDem
(5,449 posts)May she rest in peace.
Ohiogal
(40,085 posts)Peace to all of you
KT2000
(22,037 posts)It's hard to lose your mom. Peace to you. And RIP Little Star.
Ms. Toad
(38,410 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(129,730 posts)malaise
(294,173 posts)3catwoman3
(28,898 posts)...to one another.
TreasonousBastard
(43,049 posts)kimbutgar
(26,985 posts)hlthe2b
(113,202 posts)I know what that "hole in the heart" feels like, but I'm forever amazed now that I can see so much of my late Mom in myself and in my sister. She is definitely still with us in that respect. And I can much more readily remember a funny or happy story now after time has passed, rather than the pain of loss. May that happen for you and your sisters too and may your mother RIP.
Solly Mack
(96,644 posts)ucrdem
(15,720 posts)We got your back boston bean.
uppityperson
(116,002 posts)Shaddox
(384 posts)dewsgirl
(14,964 posts)ismnotwasm
(42,674 posts)sheshe2
(96,618 posts)I am so glad you and your sisters were there in the end to hold her hand and give her all the love in your hearts.
I know you are hurting. I want to say I loved Little Star, she made DU a better place'
How I wonder what you are.
Up above the world so high,
Like a diamond in the sky.Twinkle, twinkle, little star,
How I wonder what you are.
When the blazing sun is gone,
When he nothing shines upon,
Then you show your little light,
Twinkle, twinkle, all the night.
Twinkle, twinkle, little star,
Love and hugs to you and yours.
She will still be shining brightly above the world so high.
Sweet dreams, Little Star.
Squinch
(58,885 posts)2naSalit
(100,980 posts)I am glad you were able to be together for that. Many will not be able to with the virus. Virus or not, my mom will be going soon and I hope it's after the isolating s over but I'm thinking it will be sooner. Called her today to try and chat, she was lucid today so I made sure to tell her I love her, I never know if it's the last time we will ever speak.
Do take care of yourself.
ornotna
(11,435 posts)RIP Little Star
FM123
(10,346 posts)femmedem
(8,542 posts)What a beautiful description of her. May she rest in peace, and may your grief ease in time, knowing you did all you could for her and that she knew she was loved.
applegrove
(131,074 posts)vercetti2021
(10,481 posts)Cha
(317,721 posts)LuckyCharms
(22,180 posts)underpants
(195,571 posts)Quackers
(2,256 posts)denbot
(9,948 posts)Peace to you and yours.
live love laugh
(16,262 posts)Me.
(35,454 posts)aikoaiko
(34,213 posts)tavernier
(14,371 posts)I well remember.
revmclaren
(2,613 posts)Zoonart
(14,276 posts)Love never dies.
MLAA
(19,678 posts)samnsara
(18,740 posts)dflprincess
(29,250 posts)Peace to you and your family.
crickets
(26,168 posts)Demsrule86
(71,519 posts)jmbar2
(7,780 posts)Your posts about her here on DU showed how much she was loved and honored. I wish you peace as you learn to live with this big hole in your heart.
oasis
(53,433 posts)babylonsister
(172,656 posts)You did with your family.
milestogo
(22,796 posts)Lost my mom 2 years ago, and I miss her every day.
pdxflyboy
(916 posts)I lost my Mom on 4/9/88 at 7:25 am. My consoling hugs go out to you. You you will never forget that date and time. Peace to you.(
cayugafalls
(5,958 posts)She will be in my prayers this evening.
Hekate
(100,133 posts)cate94
(3,061 posts)May she RIP.
emmaverybo
(8,148 posts)Pachamama
(17,544 posts)I have been following your updates this last week and I am so sorry to hear she has passed...
I remember your mom on DU since way back...
Big hug to you
CousinIT
(12,362 posts)Peace and strength be with you at this difficult time.
gademocrat7
(11,844 posts)Take care.
kentuck
(115,279 posts)It was our loss, too. Peace to Little Star.
JohnnyLib2
(11,315 posts)And much admiration for your devotion and care giving.
Docreed2003
(18,713 posts)My deepest condolences during the awful time. My thoughts are with you and yours!
StevieM
(10,578 posts)May she rest in peace.
still_one
(98,883 posts)helpisontheway
(5,372 posts)mokawanis
(4,488 posts)mercuryblues
(16,241 posts)mahina
(20,521 posts)Love to you and Little Star.
How do we survive these moments?
Danmel
(5,727 posts)May sweet memories of your beloved mom always bring you comfort.
musicman65
(524 posts)However music heals
Crabby Appleton
(5,231 posts)R I P
Karadeniz
(24,731 posts)tblue37
(68,341 posts)MaryMagdaline
(7,943 posts)mcar
(45,813 posts)and I am so sorry for your loss.
demtenjeep
(31,997 posts)George II
(67,782 posts)Control-Z
(15,686 posts)I wish you comfort and peace.
BigmanPigman
(54,811 posts)and I am still in shock and dealing with it. He used to say to me when I was little, "Where are you, little star...here I am". I hope you deal with your loss better than me.
FailureToCommunicate
(14,585 posts)Little Star

herding cats
(19,996 posts)My heart is with all of you who loved her dearly.
IADEMO2004
(6,380 posts)irisblue
(37,061 posts)CountMyVote4Reality
(292 posts)So sorry for your loss.
NoRoadUntravelled
(2,626 posts)May you and your sisters know peace and comfort as you go through this sad time.
barbtries
(31,217 posts)iluvtennis
(21,480 posts)OhioChick
(23,218 posts)smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)My condolences to you and your family.
TheBlackAdder
(29,981 posts).
It's nice to hear that all of your sisters were with her and you in her final moments.
Take solace in being there with your mother and helping her though her final years, as it sounds as though she had medical problems.
Caring for one's parents is a very draining task that often goes unmentioned, more so than raising children, but it really is a spectacular accomplishment and one that you will look back upon with great pride. It also speaks worlds of your selfishness and devotion to family.
I wish I could say that the pain goes away, but over time it more like buries itself, waiting to surface again and again.
.
berni_mccoy
(23,018 posts)Silver Gaia
(5,311 posts)Your mother is and has been missed here.
May peace be with you and your loved ones.
mzmolly
(52,714 posts)your loss.
blogslut
(39,110 posts)...and joy in the future.
RestoreAmerica2020
(3,471 posts)peggysue2
(12,443 posts)Condolences to you and your family
Kali
(56,696 posts)dalton99a
(92,843 posts)R.I.P. Little Star
pazzyanne
(6,749 posts)scarletwoman
(31,893 posts)LostOne4Ever
(9,746 posts)My mother passed away just a little under 3 months ago and Im still feeling numb. But the world keeps on moving and all loving mothers would want their children to keep on living as best as we can.
May you find all the solace you need from your friends and/or family in this trying time.
niyad
(130,475 posts)I know that words are not adequate now, but know that your DU family is here for yup.
Rest gently, Little Star.
murielm99
(32,822 posts)backtoblue
(13,126 posts)peacebuzzard
(5,839 posts)Little Star so bright, on the wings of angels.
I am so sorry for your sad loss.
joost5
(421 posts)TygrBright
(21,323 posts)And that gift will endure.
May the pain of loss bear you to the transcendence of loving memory.
respectfully,
Bright
Harker
(17,556 posts)Maraya1969
(23,450 posts)InAbLuEsTaTe
(25,516 posts)Midnight Writer
(25,206 posts)LisaM
(29,534 posts)Take care.
Greybnk48
(10,695 posts)You've been a good daughter and a good friend to your mom. My deepest sympathies for your loss.
EllieBC
(3,638 posts)Im so sorry.
nolabear
(43,850 posts)Bettie
(19,446 posts)I wish you peace in the coming days.
StarryNite
(12,018 posts)NBachers
(19,281 posts)Bless you all for helping Little Star cross
radical noodle
(10,509 posts)I'm so sorry. Always know your DU family is here when you need us.
Duppers
(28,469 posts)"The deeper the love, the deeper the grief."
Your mom, Little Star, deserves her martyr status.
Coventina
(29,442 posts)Trueblue Texan
(4,259 posts)...and sending you loving thoughts that your appreciative memories of such an amazing woman will hold you up and help you in your pain and sadness.
Withywindle
(9,989 posts)I am so so sorry for your loss.
William769
(59,147 posts)
Demonaut
(9,933 posts)Fla Dem
(27,488 posts)Peace to you and all your family, Remember the good times.
Gothmog
(176,745 posts)LittleGirl
(8,976 posts)orleans
(36,736 posts)"Death is nothing at all.
It does not count.
I have only slipped away into the next room.
Nothing has happened.
Everything remains exactly as it was.
I am I, and you are you,
and the old life that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged.
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by the old familiar name.
Speak of me in the easy way which you always used.
Put no difference into your tone.
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was.
Let it be spoken without an effort, without the ghost of a shadow upon it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was.
There is absolute and unbroken continuity.
What is this death but a negligible accident?
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am but waiting for you, for an interval,
somewhere very near,
just round the corner.
All is well.
Nothing is hurt; nothing is lost.
One brief moment and all will be as it was before.
How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again!"
("This poem is often read at funerals. The author, Henry Scott-Holland (1847 - 1918), a priest at St. Paul's Cathedral of London, did not intend it as a poem, it was actually delivered as part of a sermon in 1910. The sermon, titled, "Death the King of Terrors" was preached while the body of King Edward VII was lying in state at Westminster."
and this:
"Your Mother is always with you.
She's the whisper of the leaves as you walk down the street.
She's the smell of certain foods you remember, flowers you pick and
perfume that she wore.
She's the cool hand on your brow when you're not feeling well.
She's your breath in the air on a cold winter's day.
She is the sound of the rain that lulls you to sleep, the colors of a
rainbow.
She is Christmas morning.
Your Mother lives inside your laughter.
She's crystallized in every teardrop.
A mother shows every emotion .......... happiness, sadness, fear,
jealousy, love, hate, anger, helplessness, excitement, joy,
sorrow... and all the while, hoping and praying you will only know the good
feelings in life. She's the place you came from, your first home, and she's
the map you follow with every step you take.
She's your first love; your first friend, even your first enemy, but
nothing on earth can separate you. Not time, not space...not
even death!"
-author unknown
Meowmee
(9,212 posts)7wo7rees
(5,128 posts)jdadd
(1,320 posts)DFW
(59,877 posts)It's never easy. Never.
Raine
(31,121 posts)Sounds like she was a very special person, you're lucky to have had her for your mother. 💞
Demovictory9
(37,113 posts)Granny M
(1,398 posts)So very sorry. Sending you love and peace in this time of sorrow. RIP, Little Star.
GoneOffShore
(18,007 posts)SheltieLover
(78,258 posts)BlueMTexpat
(15,664 posts)All my condolences!
She was very fortunate to have such loving children and to have spent her last hours with them.
littlemissmartypants
(32,803 posts)I hope you find comfort in the memories she left behind. ❤
seaglass
(8,185 posts)tishaLA
(14,753 posts)Thoughts go out to you and your family.
raccoon
(32,281 posts)N_E_1 for Tennis
(12,760 posts)Hortensis
(58,785 posts)I'm glad you have each other, Boston.

Hortensis
(58,785 posts)I'm glad you have each other, Boston.

sarge43
(29,173 posts)EarthFirst
(4,014 posts)klook
(13,545 posts)I lost mine last year. But you'll never lose her love.
So sorry for your loss.
Response to boston bean (Original post)
klook This message was self-deleted by its author.
octoberlib
(14,971 posts)Losing a parent is especially hard.
KY_EnviroGuy
(14,770 posts)Moms are with us forever in our hearts each day.
Mine is still, after all these years and at 72 now I walk with her often for solitude and repose.
RIP, Little Star.......
BooScout
(10,409 posts)Heartstrings
(7,349 posts)LiberalLoner
(11,467 posts)😭🙏
R B Garr
(17,965 posts)Sorry to hear this news.
MineralMan
(150,879 posts)blm
(114,465 posts)((boston bean))
npk
(3,701 posts)Anon-C
(3,440 posts)stillcool
(34,407 posts)don't know of many women that have had the kind of relationship with their mother, that you obviously have. I'm sorry for your loss, but I thank you for expressing what love is.
bluestarone
(21,639 posts)sinkingfeeling
(57,486 posts)Leith
(7,864 posts)It's rough. Very rough. Some day, once you get through the worst of it, you will be able to think of her and smile. I haven't reached that stage yet.
dawn5651
(748 posts)volstork
(5,777 posts)spanone
(141,217 posts)raccoon
(32,281 posts)Stuart G
(38,726 posts)Andy823
(11,555 posts)I am sorry for your loss.
lillypaddle
(9,606 posts)RIP Little Star.
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)brer cat
(27,444 posts)GentryDixon
(3,138 posts)TuxedoKat
(3,840 posts)for the loss of your beloved mother.
edbermac
(16,408 posts)NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)...
Soph0571
(9,685 posts)SalmonChantedEvening
(32,037 posts)Sending love and light your way.
lapucelle
(20,964 posts)wendyb-NC
(4,629 posts)Please know you are all in my prayers. May your, Ma, Little Star R.I.P.
warmfeet
(3,321 posts)My heartfelt condolences.
Love helps us all. Keep it.
DonaldsRump
(7,715 posts)Peacetrain
(24,286 posts)Phentex
(16,688 posts)Sending you a virtual hug. I hope you feel the DU love.
Marrah_Goodman
(1,587 posts)ProfessorGAC
(76,133 posts)My wife & I have lost both lost both parents, so we get it.
Take care.
VOX
(22,976 posts)I know how difficult this time is for you. Know that you are connected and much loved here.
Go safely, and be well
Throckmorton
(3,579 posts)A passing is hard, and in these times it is extra trying. I am sorry for your pain, may it soon pass.
Love, Throckmorton
Renew Deal
(84,762 posts)Please stay strong.
Permanut
(8,135 posts)heartbreaking. I hope she knew what you just said about her.
yardwork
(69,088 posts)Stinky The Clown
(68,937 posts)calimary
(89,294 posts)Such a sorrowful time. And then this on top of everything else.
Im so sorry. Let DU keep a vigil with you. For her.
