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no_hypocrisy

(46,083 posts)
Mon Apr 20, 2020, 08:38 AM Apr 2020

Sh*t got real. This is the first person I knew who died of CV-19.

I met him in first grade 55 years ago. White blonde hair, a wide grin with a glimmer of mischief. The bane of the existence of several elementary teachers. Ironically, he was often restricted to "The Box," a yellow lined rectangle painted on the blacktop of our school's playground when he misbehaved. (The punishment was you couldn't run around the playground and there would be hell if you left The Box.)

While we didn't run in the same social circles, I kept abreast of where he was, what he was doing. He even married a mutual friend.

He died in the hospital in his sleep after three days of fighting for his life.

I just shared comforting words on FB to his widow. They were appreciated but I'm sure they weren't enough.

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Sh*t got real. This is the first person I knew who died of CV-19. (Original Post) no_hypocrisy Apr 2020 OP
Im so sorry for your loss.... samnsara Apr 2020 #1
That 'close to home' emotional impact, is going to hit many, and make big differences, empedocles Apr 2020 #2
Lost a guy who umpired my son's little league games. gibraltar72 Apr 2020 #3
I'm sorry for your loss. onecaliberal Apr 2020 #4
Words are never enough, but they help... Wounded Bear Apr 2020 #5
I've never seen so many pages in the obituary section of our local paper... CTyankee Apr 2020 #6
I don't wish anybody harm or death, but I truly hope that some of these idiotic protesters get to MiniMe Apr 2020 #7
I doubt that many of them have the empathy to truly grieve. nt csziggy Apr 2020 #9
... Aristus Apr 2020 #8

empedocles

(15,751 posts)
2. That 'close to home' emotional impact, is going to hit many, and make big differences,
Mon Apr 20, 2020, 09:24 AM
Apr 2020

in the days to come.

gibraltar72

(7,503 posts)
3. Lost a guy who umpired my son's little league games.
Mon Apr 20, 2020, 09:28 AM
Apr 2020

Often disagreed then, but he was a good guy. As I recall he umpired our league championship game. It was regular kids against hand picked rich kids. He was fair but I felt he was happy when the real kids won.

CTyankee

(63,903 posts)
6. I've never seen so many pages in the obituary section of our local paper...
Mon Apr 20, 2020, 10:44 AM
Apr 2020

Mercifully, I did not know any of them.

I've never seen anything like it. My kids, now in their early 50s, lived through the AIDS crisis...my youngest daughter was in the room with this friend when he died. He had his closest friends and his parents with him. His last words were "This is going to be interesting."

I grieved for my daughter's grief. It seemed so unnatural to lose those friends in her own generation to that cruel disease.

MiniMe

(21,714 posts)
7. I don't wish anybody harm or death, but I truly hope that some of these idiotic protesters get to
Mon Apr 20, 2020, 04:10 PM
Apr 2020

get to experience that feeling.

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