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IcyPeas

(21,871 posts)
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 05:14 PM Apr 2020

aargghhhhhh! just got home from the supermarket [RANT]

in the los angeles area. At a large Ralphs (Kroger) supermarket. EVERYBODY... 99.99% of people were wearing masks.

But this one jerk. not only was he not wearing a mask -- he was YAPPING AWAY ON HIS PHONE spreading his germs all over the place.

WHAT PART OF THIS DO PEOPLE NOT UNDERSTAND?

I would've yelled at him but I didn't because I would've looked like a damn madwoman. So I came here to vent.

thank you.

RANT OVER

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aargghhhhhh! just got home from the supermarket [RANT] (Original Post) IcyPeas Apr 2020 OP
Damn it ... I'm busted ... mr_lebowski Apr 2020 #1
LOL mercuryblues Apr 2020 #4
Lol. cwydro Apr 2020 #6
You just don't get 'em hung over the plate like that for you every day ... mr_lebowski Apr 2020 #11
Oh hell to the yeah! cwydro Apr 2020 #13
Dude, I don't get it rufus dog Apr 2020 #15
Rufus, you're out of your element ... (nt) mr_lebowski Apr 2020 #19
Nobody F's with the Rufus Dog rufus dog Apr 2020 #22
Jesus ... (nt) mr_lebowski Apr 2020 #24
How could you resist? 2naSalit Apr 2020 #31
LOL I needed a laugh IcyPeas Apr 2020 #23
You weren't on the bag phone with the nihilists, were you? Gidney N Cloyd Apr 2020 #39
That was a good rant. You are always welcome to rant on DU. :hi: 42bambi Apr 2020 #2
I'd give it a 9. gibraltar72 Apr 2020 #3
Yikes! Mike Nelson Apr 2020 #5
A Fine Rant leftieNanner Apr 2020 #7
Oh! I hear you. Yesterday I was stuck behind some guy in a long single file R B Garr Apr 2020 #8
How well stocked was it? Here in NoVa we can't find a whole roaster chicken, LiberalLoner Apr 2020 #9
You need a make my day law randr Apr 2020 #10
I hear you! I went to Cha Apr 2020 #12
I'm lucky if I see half of the people in a store with masks on. progressoid Apr 2020 #14
My wife came across a woman who was picking up every package of hamburger meat at Walmart. LastLiberal in PalmSprings Apr 2020 #16
Your wife sounds awesome (nt) mr_lebowski Apr 2020 #25
Today in Walmart Smackdown2019 Apr 2020 #38
... catbyte Apr 2020 #40
I'm seeing more people without masks, sadly Rorey Apr 2020 #17
I thought Garcetti made it policy to wear masks there? cwydro Apr 2020 #18
Exactly why I have given up on actual outings to the store SoCalNative Apr 2020 #20
You're lucky. liberalmuse Apr 2020 #21
He was doing nothing illegal. Warpy Apr 2020 #26
Possible misdemeanor in my state. pertello Apr 2020 #28
With some of the conditions I cited, that would be tough to prove. Warpy Apr 2020 #32
I'm surprised he got in. Here in SF it is now mandatory to wear a mask inside any supermarkets kimbutgar Apr 2020 #27
Consider yourself fortunate not fooled Apr 2020 #29
Huggggggg. I am sorry that you experienced this jerk. niyad Apr 2020 #30
Damn that was a good rant, it even made ME feel better!! Talitha Apr 2020 #33
"I bet you're a Limbaugh guy, aren't you?" Tiger8 Apr 2020 #34
this ,,, from a prior post AllaN01Bear Apr 2020 #35
My personal favorite... caraher Apr 2020 #36
Someone should have called police question everything Apr 2020 #37
Not to generalize too much, but calimary Apr 2020 #41
No shortage of idiots or people who don't follow rules. Dyedinthewoolliberal Apr 2020 #42
 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
11. You just don't get 'em hung over the plate like that for you every day ...
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 05:27 PM
Apr 2020

No mask, at Ralphs, in the LA Area?

That one was a gimme

 

rufus dog

(8,419 posts)
15. Dude, I don't get it
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 05:41 PM
Apr 2020

Off to the bowling alley for me. Maybe after rolling a few frames I’ll get it.

Mike Nelson

(9,955 posts)
5. Yikes!
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 05:21 PM
Apr 2020

... I'm also in the Los Angeles area... the two Ralph's near me have someone at the door... you don't get in, unless you are wearing a mask!

leftieNanner

(15,097 posts)
7. A Fine Rant
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 05:21 PM
Apr 2020

Yesterday, I made my rare trip to the local grocery store (not a chain) where, like your experience, 99% of the people were masked and respectful. As I closed in on the check out section which is clearly marked with tape on the floor, two unmasked women squealed to see each other, hugged, and proceeded to have a long and lively conversation - taking up nearly the entire section where we line up to check out. I finally had enough and asked them to MOVE! We have very few cases in my county in Southern Oregon, so maybe people don't think it's a problem. I'm 67 and being very cautious.

Ditto your remark: WHAT PART OF THIS DO PEOPLE NOT UNDERSTAND?

R B Garr

(16,953 posts)
8. Oh! I hear you. Yesterday I was stuck behind some guy in a long single file
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 05:22 PM
Apr 2020

line to exit the store because they set up all those barriers that you can’t get around. So he’s engrossed in his phone, looking down, starting and stopping walking, just oblivious that the line forming behind him had to start and stop with him just so he could check his phone. Get in your car and check your phone, dammit.

LiberalLoner

(9,761 posts)
9. How well stocked was it? Here in NoVa we can't find a whole roaster chicken,
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 05:22 PM
Apr 2020

There is barely any chicken at all and it’s being rationed. Frozen vegetables are rationed to two packages per customer.

There is enough food, overall, but it’s very difficult to get exactly what you want.

But, everyone there was wearing a mask, so that was good.

randr

(12,412 posts)
10. You need a make my day law
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 05:26 PM
Apr 2020

Someone threatens your life you can take them out as we have seen over and over

Cha

(297,211 posts)
12. I hear you! I went to
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 05:30 PM
Apr 2020

shop Sunday at my natural food store in another town.. and I saw a friend going in the store without a mask, as I was outside packing up my groceries outside.

I got mad.. she said "hi".. and I'm sure she could tell by my abrupt attitude. Didn't have time to say anything else as I had to catch a bus.

Everybody in the store had on Masks!

Wearing a mask shows you're conscientious and you care about not infecting other people. And, it's a reminder that there's a silent deadly invisible CV out there.

16. My wife came across a woman who was picking up every package of hamburger meat at Walmart.
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 05:52 PM
Apr 2020

"I think you missed touching that one," she commented. Needless to say, she got a snarky look from the woman.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
17. I'm seeing more people without masks, sadly
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 05:53 PM
Apr 2020

The day that Governor Polis said we were going to go from "Stay At Home" to "Safer At Home", people seemed to start easing up on following the guidelines. They can't even wait until the new phase actually takes place.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
18. I thought Garcetti made it policy to wear masks there?
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 05:54 PM
Apr 2020

Red county here in NC, and most are wearing masks.

Neighboring county has a mask rule.

liberalmuse

(18,672 posts)
21. You're lucky.
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 06:15 PM
Apr 2020

I went to the store yesterday (finally able to get oats!) and I was wondering if the virus was over and I hadn't gotten the memo. Only a couple people including myself were wearing masks, and most people were not really social distancing.

Warpy

(111,256 posts)
26. He was doing nothing illegal.
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 06:32 PM
Apr 2020

You might not have liked it, but it was not actionable.

In addition, you don't know if he had a light case and has recovered or if he was clueless about the whole thing.

Some people will be out there unmasked. A few of them might spread the virus. You don't have to like it but that's just how it is. Protect yourself as best you can and go with the statistics on this thing.

You do get to describe his ancestry, anatomy, proclivities, IQ deficiency, and ultimate destination. It was just unwise to do that to his face because he was breaking no laws and you know nothing about his status, including if he's been tested recently and has been negative in a job that requires testing.

pertello

(55 posts)
28. Possible misdemeanor in my state.
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 06:44 PM
Apr 2020

2005 Connecticut Code - Sec. 53a-63. Reckless endangerment in the first degree: Class A misdemeanor. (a) A person is guilty of reckless endangerment in the first degree when, with extreme indifference to human life, he recklessly engages in conduct which creates a risk of serious physical injury to another person.

(b) Reckless endangerment in the first degree is a class A misdemeanor.

Warpy

(111,256 posts)
32. With some of the conditions I cited, that would be tough to prove.
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 07:03 PM
Apr 2020

and I sincerely doubt the cops would bother.

All states have reckless endangerment statutes but they're generally restricted to "Bubba, hold my beer and watch this" situations that endanger more than the speaker.

kimbutgar

(21,144 posts)
27. I'm surprised he got in. Here in SF it is now mandatory to wear a mask inside any supermarkets
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 06:32 PM
Apr 2020

Or any store that is open with social distancing like Target. I wear my gloves also.

not fooled

(5,801 posts)
29. Consider yourself fortunate
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 06:51 PM
Apr 2020

Went shopping in CA & AZ on the same day earlier this week, so was able to compare:

--in CA: everyone wearing masks, observing social distancing.

--in SW AZ, deep red maggot central: ~1/3 wearing masks. Except for the mask wearers, business as usual. Most store employees not wearing masks. Went to a restaurant to pick up an order--none of the employees was wearing a mask. Last time I'm going there.


I'm going to make a point of shopping in CA from now on.

niyad

(113,302 posts)
30. Huggggggg. I am sorry that you experienced this jerk.
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 06:58 PM
Apr 2020

Pre-covid, when encountering such bad behaviour, I would pull out my phone as though it had just rung, and said something like "oh, hi. . So sorry I can't talk right now. Some idiot is yelling into his phone" just loud enough.

Can't run into them with your cart, not supposed to be close enough to accidentally spill your coffee on them. . . What IS a body to do??

 

Tiger8

(432 posts)
34. "I bet you're a Limbaugh guy, aren't you?"
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 07:20 PM
Apr 2020

That was my planned response to one jerk in Trader Joe's who argued/yelled with their employee who told him it was a state law to have a mask.

Just pissed me off....

caraher

(6,278 posts)
36. My personal favorite...
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 07:42 PM
Apr 2020

There was a guy in produce at our local store, with a mask, but it wasn't covering his mouth and nose, it was just dangling around his neck. He was taking his sweet time, too, as he looked over the offerings.

I figured he promised someone to "wear a mask" and this was his was of technically saying he did...

calimary

(81,261 posts)
41. Not to generalize too much, but
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 08:06 PM
Apr 2020

The thoughtlessness and sense of entitlement in the behavior that one individual suggests he could be a trumper. AND I also wouldn't be surprised to learn that he's "pro-life."

Dyedinthewoolliberal

(15,574 posts)
42. No shortage of idiots or people who don't follow rules.
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 09:24 PM
Apr 2020

You'll go nuts if you invest too much into them
We can't control the actions/inactions of others so do what you do and stay away from people like that

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