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dalton99a

(81,468 posts)
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 09:04 PM Apr 2020

"Just going to hold his hand for a bit, I don't think he has long"



A photo from inside a Central Texas hospital gives a glimpse inside a hospital hall to see so vividly, and so painfully, the toll of the virus on patients and caretakers.

It is of nurse Colby Hutson, who wrote two simple sentences, never intended for a social media moment.

"Just going to hold his hand for a bit," he scrawled with a Sharpie. "I don't think he has long."

In full protective gear, Hutson, on duty at Ascension Seton Hays, was with a patient thought to have COVID-19.

He decided to stay in an isolation room longer than expected and wanted to tell his fellow nurses why.

https://www.kvue.com/article/news/health/coronavirus/nurse-photo-ascension-seton-hays-hospital-toll-of-covid-19/269-f4d87d61-c0fd-4769-bee3-067b53b1534a
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"Just going to hold his hand for a bit, I don't think he has long" (Original Post) dalton99a Apr 2020 OP
Bless that nurse for caring and trying to bring what comfort he can; Liberty Belle Apr 2020 #1
A message of such love Sunriser13 Apr 2020 #2
+100 bronxiteforever Apr 2020 #3
I can't think of a situation that could be any sadder. nt oasis Apr 2020 #4
Compassion and empathy. brer cat Apr 2020 #5
+++++ agree. nt iluvtennis Apr 2020 #15
My wife spent 40+ years in nursing, some of it in ICU. Mr.Bill Apr 2020 #6
It makes perfect sense. Harker Apr 2020 #7
That's beautiful. MontanaMama Apr 2020 #9
Thank you. Mr.Bill Apr 2020 #10
A legacy of love. MontanaMama Apr 2020 #13
Cancer care & Palliative care Nurses are special. MAD Dave Apr 2020 #24
... littlemissmartypants Apr 2020 #8
This must be such a comfort for his family. liberalmuse Apr 2020 #11
I am so humbled by the compassion and dedication of all the healthcare workers Marie Marie Apr 2020 #12
That's my hospital (the one insurance pays for). I'm glad there's nurses like that. catrose Apr 2020 #14
So kind pattyloutwo Apr 2020 #16
The level of compassion leaves me in awe. crickets Apr 2020 #17
I wouldn't last ten minutes as a nurse. They're all better than me. marble falls Apr 2020 #18
Brought tears. Duppers Apr 2020 #19
Thank you, Colby Hutson gademocrat7 Apr 2020 #20
I am in tears. TNNurse Apr 2020 #21
A truly decent man Kaiserguy Apr 2020 #22
oh man Kali Apr 2020 #23
This goes into his soul record...wonderful man!❤ Karadeniz Apr 2020 #25

Liberty Belle

(9,535 posts)
1. Bless that nurse for caring and trying to bring what comfort he can;
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 09:06 PM
Apr 2020

how terrifying for people to die without family, but at least this patient may not be all alone at the end.

Mr.Bill

(24,284 posts)
6. My wife spent 40+ years in nursing, some of it in ICU.
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 09:35 PM
Apr 2020

She has always said making sure someone doesn't die alone is one of the more satisfying things a nurse can do. I know that sounds odd, but she spoke of it as almost an accomplishment, because it's not easy to do.

Does that make sense? I thought it was odd when she first told me that but she articulated it better than I can and I understood.

MontanaMama

(23,313 posts)
9. That's beautiful.
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 09:59 PM
Apr 2020

Please thank your wife for her love and her work. My worst fear is to die in pain, alone. Your wife, and those like her are angels.

Mr.Bill

(24,284 posts)
10. Thank you.
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 10:00 PM
Apr 2020

I think she's pretty special, too.

I should mention that her daughter, my stepdaughter, is the fourth generation nurse in their family.

MAD Dave

(204 posts)
24. Cancer care & Palliative care Nurses are special.
Fri Apr 24, 2020, 01:50 PM
Apr 2020

I interacted with a few cancer care and palliative care nurses, when picking my kids up from daycare. Most days they looked like normal people but occasionally you could see in their faces that things had gone horribly wrong. They still acted normal but you could see their pain.

Long story shortened - I know that helping someone die is an amazing gift, I’ve seen it on the faces of nurses that have done it.

liberalmuse

(18,672 posts)
11. This must be such a comfort for his family.
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 10:19 PM
Apr 2020

And other families who are hurting because they can't see their loved ones in ICU. What a beautiful thing to do for that person and for their family. This is humanity at it's saddest and it's best at the same time.

Marie Marie

(9,999 posts)
12. I am so humbled by the compassion and dedication of all the healthcare workers
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 10:20 PM
Apr 2020

on the front lines of this nightmare. I honestly don't know if I could do it and I don't like admitting that to myself.

crickets

(25,969 posts)
17. The level of compassion leaves me in awe.
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 10:49 PM
Apr 2020

Thank you nurses and all other medical staff for all of the wonderful, difficult things you do.

TNNurse

(6,926 posts)
21. I am in tears.
Fri Apr 24, 2020, 12:45 PM
Apr 2020

I worked hard to make sure no patient on my watch died alone. I never had to do it under these conditions. I would like to think that I would have done the same.

Many people have called nursing a calling. Neither my husband (41 years in CCU) nor I (37 years in several positions) ever thought of it that way. It was our job and our responsibility to do it well and with compassion.

We worked to be very organized so that you were in an isolation room for shorter periods. One reason was less exposure but the other that wearing all that protective equipment is HOT and harder to work in. These people are working in that for hours at a time.

Think of them, wish them well and safety.

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