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kentuck

(111,051 posts)
Sat Apr 25, 2020, 02:31 PM Apr 2020

Is it possible to find a positive in a pandemic?

Children that have been born in this millennium are seeing the world as they have never seen it. They never knew it was possible. Blue skies. Snow on distant mountains. Clear water in the canals of Venice, with fish. More bees and butterflies. Better air to breathe.

All is not lost.

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Is it possible to find a positive in a pandemic? (Original Post) kentuck Apr 2020 OP
Family time Marrah_Goodman Apr 2020 #1
+100 kentuck Apr 2020 #5
This is true! Marrah_Goodman Apr 2020 #11
Or the opposite Dem2 Apr 2020 #9
This is also true Marrah_Goodman Apr 2020 #12
Damn that is hard malaise Apr 2020 #13
My son passed ChazII Apr 2020 #14
Thank you Dem2 Apr 2020 #16
yes, but NO DonCoquixote Apr 2020 #2
A silver lining, by November, if we can get a landslide, like FDR had . . . empedocles Apr 2020 #3
People have more time at home and spend more time with family Claustrum Apr 2020 #4
This question is coming up more and more among respected friends. Alex4Martinez Apr 2020 #6
A co-worker and I were just speculating lapfog_1 Apr 2020 #7
Trump's tongue might be digging his own political grave. Jamastiene Apr 2020 #8
Clean air lame54 Apr 2020 #10
maybe personally, yes. But those of us who are empathetic, or NRaleighLiberal Apr 2020 #15
It's pretty amazing isn't it. ucrdem Apr 2020 #17
Quiet streets. Totally Tunsie Apr 2020 #18

Marrah_Goodman

(1,586 posts)
1. Family time
Sat Apr 25, 2020, 02:34 PM
Apr 2020

My bfs son has an 18 month old and he works long, long hours as a college coach. This pandemic has given him a real opportunity to form a tight bond with her.

Marrah_Goodman

(1,586 posts)
11. This is true!
Sat Apr 25, 2020, 02:43 PM
Apr 2020

You can tell how much this little girl is loving having her dad home playing with her. She even copies him as he works out!

I am staying at my bfs house during the pandemic. I decided to stay down in the in-law apartment so they we wouldn't be on top of each other 24/7 and drive each other nuts. It's working out pretty well. I miss my kids, but we facetime, so it's almost like being there.

Dem2

(8,166 posts)
9. Or the opposite
Sat Apr 25, 2020, 02:41 PM
Apr 2020

My dad died Feb 23rd. I haven't been able to see my mom or any of my family since a week after that.

Not only has it been a strange grieving process, my mom is all alone :/

Marrah_Goodman

(1,586 posts)
12. This is also true
Sat Apr 25, 2020, 02:44 PM
Apr 2020

I miss my folks a ton. The neighbors in their retirement community caught it and he died, alone in the hospital. She survived. So sad.

malaise

(268,670 posts)
13. Damn that is hard
Sat Apr 25, 2020, 02:45 PM
Apr 2020


The only redeeming thing about this horrific virus is that Don the criminally negligent Con will be history shortly.

ChazII

(6,200 posts)
14. My son passed
Sat Apr 25, 2020, 03:09 PM
Apr 2020

March 6 and it is a strange grieving process. I was lucky in that before the shelter in place or keep your distance came into play I had those few days - 72 hours in which friends came by and gave me hugs and brought gift cards to a couple local restaurants. Like your mom I am alone. Sending prayers for you and your mom.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
2. yes, but NO
Sat Apr 25, 2020, 02:35 PM
Apr 2020

We as humans have found a way to make positives out of negatives. It enables us to survive, and indeed may be what is unique about us. However, as much as we need clean air and water, the death of millions should NEVER be celebrated, because sure enough, someone will get the bright idea of trying to repeat this, be it a government, corporation or simple terrorist. We cannot give them any room to become heroes, be it in the name of jesus Christ or Mother Earth.

empedocles

(15,751 posts)
3. A silver lining, by November, if we can get a landslide, like FDR had . . .
Sat Apr 25, 2020, 02:35 PM
Apr 2020

[Perhaps even, the Robber Barrons may not again escape from treason charges]

Claustrum

(4,845 posts)
4. People have more time at home and spend more time with family
Sat Apr 25, 2020, 02:35 PM
Apr 2020

I know some leads to divorces but I bet more find the time to spend and speak to their children/parents valuable, talk about things they never discuss before.

Alex4Martinez

(2,191 posts)
6. This question is coming up more and more among respected friends.
Sat Apr 25, 2020, 02:38 PM
Apr 2020

My sense is that outcomes will be mixed, many good and many not so good.

Many will embrace this as an opportunity to transform how we live and work while others will fight vigorously to "get back to normal", and normal was, actually, pretty bad.

Traffic congestion, stress, unsustainable patterns of consumption and continued overpopulation, none good and all impacted in this moment.

We will learn, some, but we will also revert to old bad habits and new pandemics will come along, probably with greater frequency.

I'm glad that we are demonstrating great resilience and flexibility, and I'm more encouraged than discouraged.

Might we keep some of the emergency health care we are providing, might stimulus checks open the door to universal basic income programs?

I would like to see us halve the military budget and double or triple top marginal tax rates, then raise the minimum wage and go to a 32 hour work week, thus creating as many jobs as we have lost.

Stuff like that there fills my little mind.

lapfog_1

(29,190 posts)
7. A co-worker and I were just speculating
Sat Apr 25, 2020, 02:39 PM
Apr 2020

that this could be the "new norm".

For many of those who can, work from home all the time.

local travel to local restaurants and bars and grocery stores and shopping.

But no more commute to the office. Save the companies a boat load on office parks and energy. save a lot of gasoline. Freeways become less congested, mass transit less crowded.

Let the wilderness start to heal the planet.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
8. Trump's tongue might be digging his own political grave.
Sat Apr 25, 2020, 02:40 PM
Apr 2020

We can hope, at least, that he has finally fucked up so much that we can get a Democratic president back in office and Trump gone. That is hopeful.

The entire world has not gone batshit. The rest of the countries pity America because of Trump. So, while America is a hotbed of people off their damn rockers protesting being told to chill out at home for a while, the rest of the world has stayed sane. That is reassuring.

Musicians are making videos for us for free online. That's great, especially since one of my top three (tied) most favorites has put up multiple videos. I'm enjoying that anyhow.

There are many positives to find. If we could just get rid of Trump, the whole world can possibly come back from this and begin to heal and prosper and be free and have a new lease on life.

NRaleighLiberal

(60,006 posts)
15. maybe personally, yes. But those of us who are empathetic, or
Sat Apr 25, 2020, 03:38 PM
Apr 2020

lose loved ones, or observe the mind-bending stupidity, ignorance and more...no one simple answer to your question.

ucrdem

(15,512 posts)
17. It's pretty amazing isn't it.
Sun Apr 26, 2020, 04:01 AM
Apr 2020

Oil at minus 40 bucks a barrel for instance, and is it just me or did April seem a lot colder than it has been the last few years? It's hot now but in recent years I've been able to turn the heater pilot off on or before March 17. Not this year.

In other words we might be learning that global warming is not so irreversible.

But that is a sliver lining in the midst of horrible and unnecessary suffering.

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