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babylonsister

(171,056 posts)
Sat May 9, 2020, 08:37 AM May 2020

Will Americans ever forgive Trump for his heartless lack of compassion?

That's a hard "NO" from me.

https://amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2020/may/05/will-americans-forgive-trump

Will Americans ever forgive Trump for his heartless lack of compassion?
Francine Prose
While the nation grieves, the US president has spent less than five minutes expressing compassion for those who are suffering
Tue 5 May 2020 06.22 EDT


To exist at this moment is to navigate (or try to fend off) the flood of grief that threatens to submerge even our rare, buoyant moments. We mourn the death of friends and relatives, the absence of human contact and the everyday pleasures we once took for granted. We can’t stop thinking about the tens of thousands of families facing hunger, bankruptcy and homelessness even as they struggle to endure the loss of someone they dearly loved.

What’s striking, if not surprising, is that this deluge of sorrow has run dry at the door to the Oval Office.
Under Trump, America has gone a bit late Weimar. We know how that ended | Lloyd Green

One’s heart goes out to the reporters who have sifted through the Donald Trump’s press briefings on the current pandemic – hour after hour of bombast, self-promotion, vitriol, lies and recklessly unscientific speculation – for any evidence of sympathy for those who are in pain. It’s hardly a shock to learn that our president’s expressions of care and compassion have occupied a total of less than five minutes, out of all that time.

After all, a man who mocked a disabled journalist and boasted about grabbing women wasn’t elected for the depths of his kindness and the purity of his moral conscience. And it seems unrealistically optimistic to have hoped that the extremity of this crisis should have inspired, in our leader, a deep and essential change of heart.

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What’s most frightening to me is that the lack of empathy – the selfishness, the resentment, the hope that others will suffer even more than we are suffering – is itself a kind of virus: contagious, dangerous, possibly even lethal. I’ve heard people say that the Wisconsin and Michigan protesters – shouting shoulder to shoulder, refusing to observe the simple rules of social distancing – won’t learn how profoundly Trump has betrayed them until they themselves contract the virus that they have been encouraged to downplay. I’ve even heard it said how unfair it is that our overweight, out-of-shape politicians – too vain to wear a mask, flouting scientific advice and the dictates of common sense – have proved immune to the disease that has felled so many decent, generous people.

But such statements echo the absence of compassion that Trump, by tweet and by example, is encouraging us to feel. It’s become another thing to resist. I don’t want to wish that anyone will learn that particular hard lesson, in that particularly hard way: not the governors opening their states for business before it’s safe, not the demonstrators on the state capitol steps, not our president. Despite my own anger, frustration and fear, I still can’t bring myself to claim suffering as a success.

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Will Americans ever forgive Trump for his heartless lack of compassion? (Original Post) babylonsister May 2020 OP
Never gademocrat7 May 2020 #1
Trump followers are heartless and have no compassion. For them there's nothing to forgive. sop May 2020 #2
You are right in that Chainfire May 2020 #7
For a segment of society Cirque du So-What May 2020 #10
A name that will live in infamy. Zoonart May 2020 #3
For his supporters, it's a feature, not a bug... Wounded Bear May 2020 #4
It's way beyond "lack of compassion".. Cha May 2020 #5
+1000 Blues Heron May 2020 #8
His idiotic base has yet to get upset with. LW1977 May 2020 #6
. . . or his 'mindless', relentless, viciousness empedocles May 2020 #9
Some things are absolutely unforgivable. 2naSalit May 2020 #11
Not Me colsohlibgal May 2020 #12
trump's so-called "christian" supporters? He can't do any wrong, its the rest of us to pass judgment beachbumbob May 2020 #13
I won't. Nt raccoon May 2020 #14
Not a chance in hell! nt cry baby May 2020 #15
Not even up for consideration. Solly Mack May 2020 #16
Oh, come on tavernier May 2020 #17
Let me put it this way bluestarone May 2020 #18
If I end up in Hell, it's because of what I think of Trump meow2u3 May 2020 #19
Republicans love him for it ibegurpard May 2020 #20
Can't forgive the unforgivable. GoCubsGo May 2020 #21

Chainfire

(17,530 posts)
7. You are right in that
Sat May 9, 2020, 08:48 AM
May 2020

they do not think that he has made a single error in the pandemic response. No matter what the numbers look like, they believe that thanks to Trump, the numbers aren't twice or ten times the current figures.

Worst of all, they see that their president and their way of life is under attack by liberals, so they will take shelter under Trump's protection.



Cirque du So-What

(25,928 posts)
10. For a segment of society
Sat May 9, 2020, 08:56 AM
May 2020

compassion, empathy, and altruism are merely signs of weakness. Should I live long enough, I will compose a thesis about the coarsening of our nature through cultural influences. I shall call it Sociopath Nation.

Cha

(297,154 posts)
5. It's way beyond "lack of compassion"..
Sat May 9, 2020, 08:45 AM
May 2020

trump intentionally incites violence that has led to many people getting killed.

2naSalit

(86,536 posts)
11. Some things are absolutely unforgivable.
Sat May 9, 2020, 09:04 AM
May 2020

And then there are people whose entire reason for being is unforgivable. There is nothing to forgive this asshole for in any part of life on this earth.

colsohlibgal

(5,275 posts)
12. Not Me
Sat May 9, 2020, 09:06 AM
May 2020

His behavior and meanness, selfishness, it is disgusting. Any reporter asking a question is doesn’t want to answer is a terrible reporter and fake news. We who remember him thought Nixon was the bottom of the barrel but he mostly behaved well in public....when the tapes were released we saw how crooked, racist, criminal he was.

In the end Nixon was done in when Republicans with character withdrew their support of him.

Republican legislators with a semblance of character are in short supply now. And Mitch McChinless has zero empathy or character.

 

beachbumbob

(9,263 posts)
13. trump's so-called "christian" supporters? He can't do any wrong, its the rest of us to pass judgment
Sat May 9, 2020, 09:26 AM
May 2020

in nov 3rd

tavernier

(12,377 posts)
17. Oh, come on
Sat May 9, 2020, 10:50 AM
May 2020

He luvs you. Said so. I can prove it because I still have the stain on my rug where I threw up when I heard it.

meow2u3

(24,761 posts)
19. If I end up in Hell, it's because of what I think of Trump
Sat May 9, 2020, 10:55 AM
May 2020

I have a big problem forgiving a monster like Trump, even though I might end up losing my soul in the process. My anger at Trump is slowly becoming outright hatred, something I fear might eat away at me.

GoCubsGo

(32,079 posts)
21. Can't forgive the unforgivable.
Sat May 9, 2020, 11:07 AM
May 2020

If there really is such a place as Hell, there is a special place reserved for him in it. He'll be sharing that place with his family and his enablers. He'll spend eternity with Moscow Mitch, Pooty Poot, Leningrad Lindsay, and will be forever spurned by his wife and daughter whenever he wants to get laid. Talk about "Hell."

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