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CTyankee

(68,154 posts)
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:15 PM May 2020

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7) Is getting my haircut worth the risk of dying? ret5hd May 2020 #1
+1 Alex4Martinez May 2020 #3
Or do I leave my house for any reason short of medical emergency or fire? CTyankee May 2020 #4
When you go for a walk in the woods be sure to leave the shoes you iemitsu May 2020 #10
Even the safest haircut is much riskier than a trip to the supermarket. LeftInTX May 2020 #23
7.1 Is getting out of bed each morning worth that same risk? LanternWaste May 2020 #65
Go ahead. The risk of unnecessary contact in the midst of a pandemic is not... ret5hd May 2020 #74
8) do I actually look better in a ponytail? TheCowsCameHome May 2020 #2
I am 80 years old and gray. I would shave my head but I would scare myself. CTyankee May 2020 #8
Then send him a check, wrap your hair in a bun or ponytail, TheCowsCameHome May 2020 #15
I am very much data driven, and have shown the extraordinarily low death rates Celerity May 2020 #39
Thank you for the data. I am very much impressed with good data and you have persuaded me CTyankee May 2020 #49
it is a very poor risk/reward ratio, IMHO, and I suffered myself with hair issues for ages during Celerity May 2020 #54
I really don't much care about my hair. And I don't mind being in. I am writing another book and CTyankee May 2020 #58
what is the subject matter of the book? Celerity May 2020 #59
The relationship of art and music all throughout Western art since pre-Renaissance times... CTyankee May 2020 #62
I hope you include some attention to Dadaism and the musical avant garde Celerity May 2020 #70
I will certainly look at this! Dada is a fabulous art movement, albeit short, and very important CTyankee May 2020 #95
Give him a call and see what practices he is following. Blue_true May 2020 #89
Is the air conditioning turned off and no fans allowed? FreeState May 2020 #5
good point. Thank you for your helpful advice. CTyankee May 2020 #9
that isn't a good point.......... Takket May 2020 #45
Ah, I see what you mean. Thank you for the clarification. CTyankee May 2020 #50
if my hairdresser is opened this month Skittles May 2020 #6
Bless You!! Nictuku May 2020 #18
+ JI7 May 2020 #78
Here is what my salon is doing.. luvs2sing May 2020 #7
Excellent checklist. Thank you very much. CTyankee May 2020 #12
I have an appointment on 23 March if we move to phase 2 dsc May 2020 #26
ten months is a long time to wait Skittles May 2020 #83
sorry mean 23 May dsc May 2020 #87
Just because he is taking precautions in his shop... womanofthehills May 2020 #92
I've gone to the Kenny Rodgers look, on my way to Willie Nelson. dem4decades May 2020 #11
I'm in between SCantiGOP May 2020 #25
My tentative plan is to get my hair cut the day after we throw Trump out. brewens May 2020 #33
Don't go jimfields33 May 2020 #13
Do you have a metric for your own situation? CTyankee May 2020 #16
My metric is to limit as much face-to-face interaction as possible. Drunken Irishman May 2020 #24
We are not even at 10 percent testing across the country jimfields33 May 2020 #28
and when do you plan to "go out and get my ___ done"? CTyankee May 2020 #41
When it's safe. I can't believe this. jimfields33 May 2020 #60
Your response seems rather shrill and overly-emotional relative to the sincerity of the question. LanternWaste May 2020 #66
I will jimfields33 May 2020 #68
I'm not the person who made the comment - but I feel the same way. Ms. Toad May 2020 #40
I was getting a bit antsy about my toenails growing uncomforably up against my shoes so I was CTyankee May 2020 #46
It will open eventually - Ms. Toad May 2020 #47
My nail salon is very good ...doing the social distincing and masked gloved etc... Demsrule86 May 2020 #51
our nail salons aren't opening just yet. Hair first. CTyankee May 2020 #55
Nice. I have been doing my own hair but boy I do need some work...we shall see. Demsrule86 May 2020 #61
I don't pay attention to my hair much. I like the gray and I kinda wish I had more gray...I use CTyankee May 2020 #63
I don't have grey but I put highlights and such in my hair. Demsrule86 May 2020 #82
Hey, CT. sheshe2 May 2020 #14
That's the risk - plus, you don't know what the social distancing has been for their other clients. Drunken Irishman May 2020 #19
Remember during the first years of the AIDS epidemic, when we were warned that we would tblue37 May 2020 #36
That's exactly what I've been saying. AirmensMom May 2020 #64
Besides, who's gonna see me? nt tblue37 May 2020 #75
There is that. AirmensMom May 2020 #76
I can't risk my mother. sheshe2 May 2020 #38
Agree - so my Republican cousin tells me his barber is seeing clients in his home womanofthehills May 2020 #93
I guess it depends on one's own level of personal safety. CTyankee May 2020 #27
The 'client' is my mother. sheshe2 May 2020 #48
None of these precautions matter. Drunken Irishman May 2020 #17
thank you. that makes sense, except for the face thing. Why do we wear face masks anyway if CTyankee May 2020 #31
Face masks can limit its spread... Drunken Irishman May 2020 #35
Ohio's doctor Acton puts it this way: Ms. Toad May 2020 #44
+1 uponit7771 May 2020 #72
Mine is in a shop by herself essme May 2020 #53
So, she only sees you? Drunken Irishman May 2020 #56
Biased inferences illustrate little... LanternWaste May 2020 #69
lol Drunken Irishman May 2020 #73
+1, Time + distance + space + ventilation in this is not good. uponit7771 May 2020 #71
I had a hair cut True Blue American May 2020 #20
It just really isn't worth your life. Squinch May 2020 #21
Would you say the same about home aides for elderly clients? CTyankee May 2020 #34
Are your aides well trained? Do you see them practicing Squinch May 2020 #37
some services are necessary Skittles May 2020 #85
A combo of the above replies is my advice... BigmanPigman May 2020 #22
Next week SCantiGOP May 2020 #30
Active cases. Tenngal May 2020 #29
You don't know how many active cases there are in your neighborhood. Squinch May 2020 #32
We Can Find Out Positive Tests by Zipcode Here In IL ProfessorGAC May 2020 #52
You can wait another month or so to see how things edhopper May 2020 #42
No vanity trips for me in times like these, I'll be a hippie again first! lol Baclava May 2020 #43
I bought a can of Aquanet. I'm just keeping my hair from Politicub May 2020 #57
I wouldn't do it. That said, are all clients required to mask and disinfect hands upon entering? hlthe2b May 2020 #67
I wouldn't chance it! sueunderh May 2020 #77
Buy a gift card/certificate or any products they might be selling at the salon JI7 May 2020 #79
I hear the virus ponytail will be WhiteTara May 2020 #80
I would tell my mother, who is 86 and in excellent health.. Marrah_Goodman May 2020 #81
Just dress appropriately LiberalArkie May 2020 #84
I am going in Virginia on Saturday. It's by appointment with distance from other customers. phylny May 2020 #86
Not one of my friends would risk getting a hair cut - so womanofthehills May 2020 #94
Ventilation and goggles to begin with... OhioChick May 2020 #88
How about masks and gloves? And goggles etc. Meowmee May 2020 #90
How many other customers come and go in that enclosed space? LAS14 May 2020 #91
Oddly enough. I have gotten used to cutting my own hair. clutterbox1830 May 2020 #96

ret5hd

(22,485 posts)
1. 7) Is getting my haircut worth the risk of dying?
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:17 PM
May 2020

Alex4Martinez

(3,319 posts)
3. +1
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:22 PM
May 2020

It's that simple.

CTyankee

(68,154 posts)
4. Or do I leave my house for any reason short of medical emergency or fire?
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:23 PM
May 2020

Yes, I get that because I could end my life by leaving my house at all (except for walks in the woods, avoiding any other walkers).

I am serious, not kidding. I don't go to the supermarket and the person who goes for us is gloved and masked and does not enter our house (and all groceries are unloaded from the floor). Packages wiped.

iemitsu

(3,891 posts)
10. When you go for a walk in the woods be sure to leave the shoes you
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:28 PM
May 2020

wore on the porch.
I'm not going anywhere either.

LeftInTX

(34,209 posts)
23. Even the safest haircut is much riskier than a trip to the supermarket.
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:50 PM
May 2020

I'm not getting mine cut for quite awhile. Salons opened on Friday.

I have been to the store numerous times. You cannot maintain distance in a hair salon. It's impossible.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
65. 7.1 Is getting out of bed each morning worth that same risk?
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:55 PM
May 2020

Six of one, half a dozen of the other.

Point being, when we rely on ablative absolutes (in common parlance, bumper stickers masquerading as a valid premise, such as yours), we allow the hobgoblin of little minds to fester far more quickly than a a virus.

ret5hd

(22,485 posts)
74. Go ahead. The risk of unnecessary contact in the midst of a pandemic is not...
Sun May 10, 2020, 07:15 PM
May 2020

worth it to me. I am not a very vain person. I haven't shaved in over two weeks. Nobody cares, even me. A haircut is just almost on bottom of my priority list...my last was almost a year ago. Your priority list may differ. Haircut? Dinner out? Movie? Protest? All different levels of risk, all unimportant to me, maybe important to you.

I can tell you what is higher on my priority list. I will soon be going to a National Forest for a month of dispersed camping. I would be doing that whether there was a pandemic or not. I will need to stop for fuel (twice there, twice back...one unnecessary risk). I will need to pack a months worth of food (most of it I already have, but I will make an extra trip to the grocery store...another risk). Most water will be filtered on-site, but there is still a slight risk of water borne illness. I will be hiking, so I guess there is a risk of fall/injury.

Those risks I am willing to take. Others priorities are different.

But really, don't you ask yourself the same question when you think of a haircut? Or a dinner? Or a movie? Yeah, I thought so.

TheCowsCameHome

(40,270 posts)
2. 8) do I actually look better in a ponytail?
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:22 PM
May 2020

CTyankee

(68,154 posts)
8. I am 80 years old and gray. I would shave my head but I would scare myself.
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:26 PM
May 2020

If I can keep this small business owner who overcame serious alcoholism and who cuts my hair sensibly in business, and I can safely utilize his business, I would like to.

Otherwise, I stay home.

TheCowsCameHome

(40,270 posts)
15. Then send him a check, wrap your hair in a bun or ponytail,
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:42 PM
May 2020

enjoy your "new look", and wait until it is completely safe to get that close to others again.

Celerity

(54,326 posts)
39. I am very much data driven, and have shown the extraordinarily low death rates
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:09 PM
May 2020

in both the US and here in Sweden FOR THE YOUNGER AGE COHORTS. I toss that out to show you how serious I am when I say you, at 80 years old, are at MASSIVE risk.

My wife and I both are born in 1996, we just found out (via the brand new Roche antibody test that is 100% accurate if it shows antibodies) are antibody positive, so we were exposed despite being some of the very, very few people our age here that we know who self quarantined. We were (we have broken self-isolation now) very careful for almost 3 months, and still caught it (we had zero symptoms, no negative impact at all, we had no clue we even had caught the virus.)

That said,

80 years old and up people are at extremely significant chance of death should you catch it.

80 years of age and up people have accounted for around two thirds (the actual number is a tad over 65%) of all the deaths here in Sweden,

Almost 99% of all deaths in Sweden have been 50 year olds and up, 95% of the COVID-19 deaths here are over 60yo, 88% have been over 70 years of age.

In the US, 99.2% of all US CDC documented COVID deaths have come from the 35 years of age and over cohort

97.3% of all US CDC documented COVID deaths have come from the 45 years of age and over cohort

92.2% from the 55 years of age and over cohort.

Almost 60% of US COVID-19 deaths have come from the 75yo and up age cohorts.

I would NOT risk that dice roll if I were you.

I hope this helps.

STAY SAFE!!


CTyankee

(68,154 posts)
49. Thank you for the data. I am very much impressed with good data and you have persuaded me
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:27 PM
May 2020

that this is a bad risk, all things considred.

Celerity

(54,326 posts)
54. it is a very poor risk/reward ratio, IMHO, and I suffered myself with hair issues for ages during
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:35 PM
May 2020

self-isolation (I am a part-black multiracial female, with pretty kinky hair when it is left to its own devices, lol) but I got through it. My wife helped a bit at first (she had zero issues, she has pretty short blonde hair, no dye jobs needed), but I just finally took clippers and shaved it very short, so I looked a right proper butch (which I so am NOT, lolololol). Hair is never worth your life, that seems to be a good maxim to thrive by.

good luck!

hugz,

Cel <3

CTyankee

(68,154 posts)
58. I really don't much care about my hair. And I don't mind being in. I am writing another book and
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:40 PM
May 2020

have been bearing down on that lately -- maybe too much, I feel I need a break from it, all my research papers strewn around. It's enough, damnit.

Celerity

(54,326 posts)
59. what is the subject matter of the book?
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:45 PM
May 2020

Writing is so cathartic and invigourating, at least that what I tell myself when I am bogged down in reports or my post grad work, lolol.

CTyankee

(68,154 posts)
62. The relationship of art and music all throughout Western art since pre-Renaissance times...
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:51 PM
May 2020

including the album cover art of the 70s and 80s in the U.S.

I must say,, I've learned an awful lot about lutes...(beautiful instruments, no wonder artists loved painting them!).

Celerity

(54,326 posts)
70. I hope you include some attention to Dadaism and the musical avant garde
Sun May 10, 2020, 07:02 PM
May 2020

a couple links to peruse



https://www.ltmrecordings.com/festival_dada_paris_ltmcd2513.html

Various Festival Paris Dada [LTMCD 2513]
A unique anthology of piano music linked to the Dada art movement in Paris between 1920 and 1923, Festival Dada Paris is based on the piano repertoire performed at two landmark Dada happenings staged in Paris. The first was the Festival Dada on 26 May 1920, and the second the infamous Soirée du Coeur â Barbe on 6 July 1923 - an event disrupted by violent confrontation between Tristan Tzara's Dada faction and the Surrealist vanguard lead by André Breton.



https://ir.uiowa.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1334&context=dadasur

from https://ir.uiowa.edu/dadasur/

Songs, Anti-Symphonies and Sodomist Music: Dadaist Music in Zurich, Berlin and Paris

Paul Ingram
Birkbeck College, University of London



CTyankee

(68,154 posts)
95. I will certainly look at this! Dada is a fabulous art movement, albeit short, and very important
Mon May 11, 2020, 01:37 AM
May 2020

for early 20th century music (where I have an entire section devoted to that era).

Thank you for this and the scholarship behind it. Important inclusion.

A plus!

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
89. Give him a call and see what practices he is following.
Sun May 10, 2020, 10:15 PM
May 2020

At your age, the risk profile is pretty significant.

FreeState

(10,702 posts)
5. Is the air conditioning turned off and no fans allowed?
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:24 PM
May 2020

CTyankee

(68,154 posts)
9. good point. Thank you for your helpful advice.
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:28 PM
May 2020

Takket

(23,699 posts)
45. that isn't a good point..........
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:17 PM
May 2020

apologies to the person who posted that to you, but this is not accurate.

You don't want the virus to be lingering in stagnate air. The more air changes per hour a room has, the cleaner it is. Hint: Do you think hospitals turn off ventilation systems to stop virus spread?

Yes the A/C system cited in the article linked caused problems but the reason was it was mounted on the wall and blowing horizontally across the room, and the unit just recirculated the air in the room (I.e. there was no fresh air brought in from outdoors).

If the salon has a central A/C system (I.e. you see air vents in the ceiling and not actual blower units on the walls), you will be fine. if you see blower units or window mounted residential type air conditioners, i would be worried about that.

CTyankee

(68,154 posts)
50. Ah, I see what you mean. Thank you for the clarification.
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:28 PM
May 2020

Skittles

(171,564 posts)
6. if my hairdresser is opened this month
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:24 PM
May 2020

I will stop by and give her money for a haircut but decline to receive the haircut. Yup.

Nictuku

(4,653 posts)
18. Bless You!!
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:46 PM
May 2020

Bless you Skittles. That was the answer I was looking for, and you have rekindled my faith in humanity.

... this was the only response who seemed to consider the hairdresser. I imagine that he/she would rather not have to open and take customers, but hairdressers generally do not have insurance. They do not have retirement (believe me, I know this). Their kind of work can not be done remotely. They can not telework. The ONLY reason they would be open to the public is because they are desperate for the money (or an idiot Trump supporter)

I know this because my mother is a cosmetologist, and she lives with me. She is retired (but still does my hair). She has no pension, no savings, and no other income other than social security (but she does have me, her loving daughter who pays the mortgage and all the other bills).... I digress.

She is retired, but she is the only hairdresser I have ever had (I'm lucky, she is very good, even now. She studied at Vidal Sassoon many years ago), however, during this Covid-19 situation (where I get to work from home), I would not even consider having her cut my hair. We are not even hugging each other, not even today, Mother's day. Why? Because she is 78 and Diabetic, and I do have to go to town every couple of weeks for groceries/pharmacy or other necessities, and so there is a small chance that I have been exposed and have brought it home.


(edited for typo)

JI7

(93,561 posts)
78. +
Sun May 10, 2020, 07:21 PM
May 2020

luvs2sing

(2,234 posts)
7. Here is what my salon is doing..
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:26 PM
May 2020

The first 3-4 weeks they will be limiting the number of clients in the salon as well as time spent in the salon. Stations are spaced farther apart, and not all stations will be used to further minimize contact.

- When you arrive for your appointment time, call the salon, and they will alert you once it is your time to enter.

- Leave purses or other bags in car. No guests or children can accompany the client.

- If you are a senior or a high risk citizen, they are recomending Monday Mornings.

- Everyone entering the salon has to do a temprature check, including Staff.

- Everyone including staff, will be required to wear a mask. If you do not have a mask you will be DECLINED service.

-Touch-less greetings and goodbyes, No hugs or handshakes.

-color shampooing only. Please come in with freshly shampooed hair.

- NO blow drys. They are not thrilled about this expectation, but they are concered about germs spreading.

My stylist, who I have been with almost twenty years, called me the other night. After all this time, we have become friends, and I trust his judgment asl well as the salon owner’s judgment. He said he felt comfortable returning to work with these conditions in place. I scheduled for a haircut on May 29. We will see what happens.

CTyankee

(68,154 posts)
12. Excellent checklist. Thank you very much.
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:30 PM
May 2020

dsc

(53,386 posts)
26. I have an appointment on 23 March if we move to phase 2
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:52 PM
May 2020

I trust him but will be asking him when it gets closer just what precautions he is taking.

Skittles

(171,564 posts)
83. ten months is a long time to wait
Sun May 10, 2020, 07:38 PM
May 2020

dsc

(53,386 posts)
87. sorry mean 23 May
Sun May 10, 2020, 08:04 PM
May 2020

womanofthehills

(10,988 posts)
92. Just because he is taking precautions in his shop...
Sun May 10, 2020, 10:48 PM
May 2020

You don’t know if he is socializing with friends or wearing a mask or taking risks when he is not in his shop. My friends and I have visited by sitting 20 ft apart outside in each other’s yards. I Haven’t been to a hair salon in 25 yrs - not my thing. My hair is thick and curly so I can get away with cutting it myself. Videos online. My dentist sent me a card to make an apt for a cleaning - just the fact that he would do that during a pandemic makes me not trust him.


dem4decades

(14,029 posts)
11. I've gone to the Kenny Rodgers look, on my way to Willie Nelson.
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:29 PM
May 2020

By Christmas i'll be Santa. It is what it is.

SCantiGOP

(14,714 posts)
25. I'm in between
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:52 PM
May 2020

Jerry Garcia and Rasputin.
But I was already mid-60s hippie length before any of this started.

 

brewens

(15,359 posts)
33. My tentative plan is to get my hair cut the day after we throw Trump out.
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:57 PM
May 2020

I suspect it's not going to seem safe by then though. A woman I used to work with at the blood center I'm retired from cuts hair on the side, but the Supercuts she works at is shut down. I'm thinking that if she draws me after the election, since we're already exposed to each other, I might offer her $30 bucks or so to come over to my place and do it. She already offered to do that a couple years ago to make a little on the side.

 

jimfields33

(19,382 posts)
13. Don't go
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:39 PM
May 2020

One air borne spittle and you can get it. Is hair worth it?

CTyankee

(68,154 posts)
16. Do you have a metric for your own situation?
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:46 PM
May 2020

What is your metric for deciding when to go out yourself, based on what you have just stated here "One air borne spittle and you can get it"?

 

Drunken Irishman

(34,857 posts)
24. My metric is to limit as much face-to-face interaction as possible.
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:52 PM
May 2020

I order my groceries online.

I don't go inside the gas station.

If I want to order out, I use Grubhub or other delivery services with no-contact delivery.

On top of all that, I wash down the stuff I bring into the house (even mail) with wipes.

As for deciding when to go out and get something that could potentially put me at a higher risk (hair cutting, going into a smaller building with larger crowds), I am going to take the wait and see approach. If everything reopens in the next month, and we don't see a massive spike, I may feel better - but I'm going to let the process play out because I suspect we're going to see quite the spike and if I don't have to be one of those who adds to the spike, I will do everything to make sure I am not.

 

jimfields33

(19,382 posts)
28. We are not even at 10 percent testing across the country
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:52 PM
May 2020

Even DU has changed in one week from the negativity to Georgia to let’s all go get our hair done. What the hell changed???

CTyankee

(68,154 posts)
41. and when do you plan to "go out and get my ___ done"?
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:12 PM
May 2020
 

jimfields33

(19,382 posts)
60. When it's safe. I can't believe this.
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:49 PM
May 2020

Are we going to demand openings? Seriously in one week all’s well?

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
66. Your response seems rather shrill and overly-emotional relative to the sincerity of the question.
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:58 PM
May 2020

Calm down, Cool Breeze.

 

jimfields33

(19,382 posts)
68. I will
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:59 PM
May 2020

But things sure changed around here in one week.

Ms. Toad

(38,578 posts)
40. I'm not the person who made the comment - but I feel the same way.
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:11 PM
May 2020

I make my decisions about going out the same way I make all health care decisions - because ging out right now is a health care decision.

How significant is the risk (death, permanent injury ranks pretty high)
How likely is the risk to materialize (single brief socially distanced encounter - remote; single, up front and personal, longer encounter - higher; large crowd - even higher)
If the risk materializes, what is the likely impact on me (older than 60, diabetes, but under control, Vitamin D normal, generally a quick recovery from injury/illness - every doctor has commented on it in my last 4 post-diabetes significant medical encounters (breast cancer, removal of a rib x 2, and a spiral leg fracture that was surgically repaired); two family members I live with who are more at risk; I'm not likely to infect my 80+ parents since I wont' see them)
How important it the thing I want to do (haircut - meh - my last haircut was nearly 3 years ago; but food or medicine - pretty darn important)

And (not something I'd consider in a purely medical situation) - are there other considerations I can address in a less risky manner - can I engage the service in a less risky air; can I support the service without receiving anything; bigger tip; etc.)

For me, personally, the above mean I've been out twice since ~March 6, each time for essentials (including stopping at my place of employment for things I needed to do my job at home - combined with a trip for food or meds). Haircuts would be a no-go, at this stage.

CTyankee

(68,154 posts)
46. I was getting a bit antsy about my toenails growing uncomforably up against my shoes so I was
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:18 PM
May 2020

able to go to a podiatrist (who was gloved and masked and in a sterile, medical setting) for that. Food trips would invariably involve many more people.

The hair thing doesn't mean that much to me. I think it is a stand in for "life as normal I can get it safely."

And what I am talking about is after CT is opened, if it is opened (not sure it will happen).

Ms. Toad

(38,578 posts)
47. It will open eventually -
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:26 PM
May 2020

and that's the way my grandmother (who lived through the 1918 pandemic) handled her toenails when my mother wasn't available.

It's hard. My parents (in their 80s) are in an extended care community that has been split into three communities as a result of the pandemic. They have no cases so far - but my parents (still living independently within the community) are cut off from friends they were encouraged to help care for - and my mother is cut off from swimming (a lifeline for her). We haven't seen them since the end of February (just before Kendal closed the campus). My father has stopped talking about when this passes, and has resigned himself to living with this threat fort the rest of his life.

On the bright side, they let my mother return to campus after an eye injection (the nearly immediate rule was if you leave campus you can't come back). So she is happy for a teeny tiny bit of freedom.

It's maybe a new normal - but do you have folks you can zoom-chat with?

Demsrule86

(71,542 posts)
51. My nail salon is very good ...doing the social distincing and masked gloved etc...
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:30 PM
May 2020

They are only letting in a few at a time...I made an appt...can't do my own nails easily...and it costs a fortune with my insurance for a podiatrist ...and I don't want to go near the Cleveland clinic right now .

CTyankee

(68,154 posts)
55. our nail salons aren't opening just yet. Hair first.
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:37 PM
May 2020

I don't know the reasoning for that but since my podiatrist takes Medicare I am covered.

Demsrule86

(71,542 posts)
61. Nice. I have been doing my own hair but boy I do need some work...we shall see.
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:50 PM
May 2020

CTyankee

(68,154 posts)
63. I don't pay attention to my hair much. I like the gray and I kinda wish I had more gray...I use
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:54 PM
May 2020

purple shampoo and conditioner (I call it my Purple Nurple) to keep it from yellowing. Then I just comb it out and let it air dry.

Demsrule86

(71,542 posts)
82. I don't have grey but I put highlights and such in my hair.
Sun May 10, 2020, 07:35 PM
May 2020

sheshe2

(97,441 posts)
14. Hey, CT.
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:41 PM
May 2020

I don't know how to advise you.

For me I don't want someone that close to me breathing in my face. I have no clue what their social distancing has been. I don't get that close to my own family that is doing all they can to protect themselves. I am also doing homecare for a 93 year old. It is not worth the risk, at least not for me.

 

Drunken Irishman

(34,857 posts)
19. That's the risk - plus, you don't know what the social distancing has been for their other clients.
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:48 PM
May 2020

All it takes is for this person to cut the hair of someone who is infected and there's a good chance the virus will be passed on, even with these precautions, because of the close proximity, the fact it's not a quick interaction and the fact face masks only cut down on the risk, not eliminate it.

If this hairdresser sees 10 clients a day, at minimum, that's 50 in a week - you've got to decide if you're okay with that amount of people coming into contact with someone who'll be very close to you.

tblue37

(68,422 posts)
36. Remember during the first years of the AIDS epidemic, when we were warned that we would
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:01 PM
May 2020

he essentially having sex with anyone our sexual partner had had sex with?

Not a bad principle to keep in mind with cv-19.

AirmensMom

(15,102 posts)
64. That's exactly what I've been saying.
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:54 PM
May 2020

I hear my family whining about needing haircuts, going stir crazy, etc. I just don't get it. I'm sending my hairdresser a check every month until we can go back, but I won't go back until it's a whole lot safer than it is now. And how can I wear a mask while she's cutting my hair? How can she be 6 feet away from me? I do consider how busy she's been since she went back to work last week and can't even imagine the number of people. Just like with AIDS, I'd be in contact with everyone she's been in contact with. No thanks. I might look ragged, but at least I'm not sick yet.

tblue37

(68,422 posts)
75. Besides, who's gonna see me? nt
Sun May 10, 2020, 07:15 PM
May 2020

AirmensMom

(15,102 posts)
76. There is that.
Sun May 10, 2020, 07:16 PM
May 2020

sheshe2

(97,441 posts)
38. I can't risk my mother.
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:04 PM
May 2020

I won't risk others. My niece is also an ICU nurse working with limited PPE. I have seen her a few times from a distance, she shops for us when she can. No one other than my sister and I are allowed in the house.

Stay safe, DI.

womanofthehills

(10,988 posts)
93. Agree - so my Republican cousin tells me his barber is seeing clients in his home
Sun May 10, 2020, 11:01 PM
May 2020
So my cousin calls to get an apt and it takes the guy 5 days to get back to him because he caught the virus from a client and just got out of the hospital.

CTyankee

(68,154 posts)
27. I guess it depends on one's own level of personal safety.
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:52 PM
May 2020

For instance, has your 93 year old client come into contact with anyone else? I assume you take care of her/his laundry and cleaning (we have a homecare person also every other week -- she works for a nonprofit, licensed agency devoted to getting homecare (nonmedical) to elderly people.). Are we lulled into a false sense of security since it is (in home not out)?

sheshe2

(97,441 posts)
48. The 'client' is my mother.
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:26 PM
May 2020

My sister and I have been doing homecare for her for over two years now. She has not left the house in over 18 months. Since early March when the shit hit the fan we let go all hospice and home care aides go. We could not take the chance of her being infected. Since March, no one and I mean no one including family have been allowed in the house. My sister and I are 24/7 homecare for her. We are the front line now. There is no one else.

Home Care Agencies And Workers Are The Next Ground Zero For COVID-19

https://www.forbes.com/sites/howardgleckman/2020/04/16/home-care-agencies-and-workers-are-the-next-ground-zero-for-covid-19/#40bb6d236f05

Nursing homes and other senior living facilities are not the only places where COVID-19 is creating a health care crisis for frail older adults and their care providers. The other setting at risk: private homes, where the vast majority of older adults get both personal and post-acute care. And the pandemic is creating enormous challenges for those seniors, their families, and the workers and home care agencies that provide those critical services.

snip

The plight of these home care agencies threatens to ripple through the health system. It limits their ability to provide care at home for many COVID-19 patients who have been discharged from the hospital—a potentially safer alternative than skilled nursing facilities. It makes it harder to rehab non-COVID patients at home. And it reduces the supply of paid support for the 85 percent of frail older adults with chronic illness already getting their care at home.

These firms may be struggling even more than nursing homes to find personal protective equipment for their staffs. They have too few coronavirus test kits for either staff or clients. Many are reporting high rates of staff absenteeism. Some staff are sick with COVID-19. Others fear they will become sick. And many are staying home to care for their children whose schools are closed.

 

Drunken Irishman

(34,857 posts)
17. None of these precautions matter.
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:46 PM
May 2020

If they have it, or one of their clients has it, it's very possible they spread it regardless of all the precautions.

The precautions make it HARDER to pass it - but if you're getting your hair cut, with their face likely close to yours, for at least 20+ minutes, there's a good chance it will be passed to you.

So, the question you should be asking: is getting my hair cut worth the potential of getting COVID?

CTyankee

(68,154 posts)
31. thank you. that makes sense, except for the face thing. Why do we wear face masks anyway if
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:54 PM
May 2020

such risks are immanent?

 

Drunken Irishman

(34,857 posts)
35. Face masks can limit its spread...
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:58 PM
May 2020

But it's not a guarantee to stop the spread. Especially if you're in close contact with a person for a significant amount of time.

Let's say the person doing your hair turns out to be positive. It's possible those precautions are enough to not allow for transmission.

But it's certainly not a guarantee.

From my perspective, even if transmission was 10%, that's still fairly high and not what I'd want to risk just to get my hair cut.

Ms. Toad

(38,578 posts)
44. Ohio's doctor Acton puts it this way:
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:17 PM
May 2020

It's like layering swiss cheese.

Social distancing is helpful - but that layer has holes because even 6' is not necessarily safe because of lingering droplets & surfaces
Exposure to smaller crowds is helpful, but because even smaller crowds can include infected people that's another layer with a hole
Fewer exposures are helpful - so limit the number of times you to out - but each time is a potential exposure, so that's another layer with a hole
Masks help - but those (literally) are one or more layers with holes.

But when you layer each of these on top of each other, the holes aren't likely to line up - making it harder for the virus to reach you.

Each layer you remove (like removing the social distancing inherent in personal services) makes it more likely the holes will line up an the virus will find its way through to you.

uponit7771

(93,532 posts)
72. +1
Sun May 10, 2020, 07:12 PM
May 2020

essme

(1,207 posts)
53. Mine is in a shop by herself
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:33 PM
May 2020

I am going with wet, washed hair, and just getting a cut. No blow-dry, style...nothing. I'll pay her for the works, but I want in and out fast.

I can do my own color (temporary-- Clairol Mousy Brown #6), root touch up, etc.

 

Drunken Irishman

(34,857 posts)
56. So, she only sees you?
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:38 PM
May 2020
 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
69. Biased inferences illustrate little...
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:59 PM
May 2020

other than our own biases.

 

Drunken Irishman

(34,857 posts)
73. lol
Sun May 10, 2020, 07:12 PM
May 2020

It doesn't matter if they run their salon out of their bathroom and only can fit one person in at a time. If the hairdresser sees 10+ people a day for a week, she's coming into contact with 50ish people, which raises the potential of coming into contact with someone who's positive. Pointing out that she only will have one person in her area at a time is not a sufficient enough way to limit exposure options when multiple people will be coming into that area per day.

uponit7771

(93,532 posts)
71. +1, Time + distance + space + ventilation in this is not good.
Sun May 10, 2020, 07:11 PM
May 2020

True Blue American

(18,579 posts)
20. I had a hair cut
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:48 PM
May 2020

And finish last Thursday. Take your temperature, one person allowed at a time.

Shop was all sanitized, washed my hair without getting my mask wet. The rules are very strict.

I also used my sanitizer when I left.

Squinch

(59,444 posts)
21. It just really isn't worth your life.
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:49 PM
May 2020

You're 80. If you get sick, your odds are awful.

Please, just don't do it. Buy a gift certificate to give to a friend for Christmas so the salon gets the money and have them mail it to you.

CTyankee

(68,154 posts)
34. Would you say the same about home aides for elderly clients?
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:58 PM
May 2020

We need laundry done and house cleaning bimonthly. Our worker is sent by a nonprofit agency for the elderly living at home. thank god we never went into assisted living!

Squinch

(59,444 posts)
37. Are your aides well trained? Do you see them practicing
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:03 PM
May 2020

the correct preventative measures? Washing hands on entering, removing shoes, not sitting on upholstered furniture, wiping down any surfaces they have sat on with disinfectant. Keeping any of their personal possessions sequestered near the front door in a spot that you can disinfect when they leave.

You mask, the aide masks, stay in different rooms, make sure they use disinfecting cleaning products.

I'd love to see them put on some kind of long sleeved smock you know is clean when they enter your home, too.

Those measures should do it.

The problem with the salon is you can't maintain distance, and you don't have control over the surfaces that you have to touch.

Skittles

(171,564 posts)
85. some services are necessary
Sun May 10, 2020, 07:39 PM
May 2020

haircut? not so much

BigmanPigman

(55,099 posts)
22. A combo of the above replies is my advice...
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:50 PM
May 2020

Is your hair worth the risk of dying?

You said you don't really need the haircut but are doing it to support the business of an acquaintance. Pay her for a haircut via the mail but do not go and get a cut, a friend would understand and be grateful.

SCantiGOP

(14,714 posts)
30. Next week
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:53 PM
May 2020

We re-open the kissing booth at the State Fair.

 

Tenngal

(19 posts)
29. Active cases.
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:52 PM
May 2020

How many active cases in your neighborhood? That is what I think about before going somewhere.

Squinch

(59,444 posts)
32. You don't know how many active cases there are in your neighborhood.
Sun May 10, 2020, 05:55 PM
May 2020

No one does.

ProfessorGAC

(76,622 posts)
52. We Can Find Out Positive Tests by Zipcode Here In IL
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:30 PM
May 2020

You're correct in that nobody knows the cases in their neighborhood.
Here in IL, the department of public health website updates daily.
If deaths are <5, the chart shows N/A.
Now, I live in a city of 5700, with the zip having about 7,500. Of course, I know nowhere close to 7,500 other people.
So if I see 7 cases, (we live almost dead center of town), those people are somewhere a mile to a mile in a half in all directions. Not exactly our "neighborhood"!
And, there's no way to know how many infections exist, symptomatic or asymptomatic, if those people haven't been tested.
Not even sure it's reasonable to extrapolate from state figures, because we have no high rises, no large apartment building complexes, no mass transit. But, we're not the very low population density of central or southern Illinois.
Any number I tried to come up with would be a guess, than to granulate to our neighborhood would be a terrible guess!

edhopper

(37,339 posts)
42. You can wait another month or so to see how things
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:13 PM
May 2020

shake out.

Not worth the risk.

Another option is to have someone come to your home.

 

Baclava

(12,047 posts)
43. No vanity trips for me in times like these, I'll be a hippie again first! lol
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:16 PM
May 2020

Politicub

(12,327 posts)
57. I bought a can of Aquanet. I'm just keeping my hair from
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:39 PM
May 2020

failing in front of my eyes. While Georgia is allowing haircuts, it is not an essential service for me.

hlthe2b

(113,824 posts)
67. I wouldn't do it. That said, are all clients required to mask and disinfect hands upon entering?
Sun May 10, 2020, 06:59 PM
May 2020

Do they require clients to leave all large bags, packages, and other potentially contaminated items out in the car rather than bringing inside with them? Do they question clients for a full range of symptoms the day the appointment is made AND again when they arrive for the appointment and exclude those with compatible symptoms from entering? Is there cross-ventilation set up in the facility (could be anything from a standing fan forcing air back out an open window or door to keep air from stagnating/concentrating)? Can you wash your hair ahead of time so that they can merely wet it down to make for a quick hair cut? If the latter is possible, can they cut your hair while sitting outside?

My biggest fear for a cause of death is suffocation. I have no problem doing WHATEVER I have to do, no matter how inconvenient to lower my risk of ending up on a ventilator and facing my worst nightmare. I am a HCW and I can not avoid some of these exposures, but I sure as hell would not add to them.

Good luck.

sueunderh

(26 posts)
77. I wouldn't chance it!
Sun May 10, 2020, 07:19 PM
May 2020

My hair looks like crap. I will soon find out just how much grey I have. Lots! Even though I am in Maine, a low infection state, I live in Cumberland County, which has community spread. I just don't think it's worth it. I guess I will see how things are in a couple of months. Meanwhile, I may be cutting my own bangs soon. 😋

JI7

(93,561 posts)
79. Buy a gift card/certificate or any products they might be selling at the salon
Sun May 10, 2020, 07:22 PM
May 2020

but don't get the cut

WhiteTara

(31,257 posts)
80. I hear the virus ponytail will be
Sun May 10, 2020, 07:30 PM
May 2020

a badge of honor for staying home. I'm personally staying home, I mean, really, who's going to see me?

Marrah_Goodman

(1,587 posts)
81. I would tell my mother, who is 86 and in excellent health..
Sun May 10, 2020, 07:33 PM
May 2020

... That it is just not worth taking the chance. I would rather see her without her hair just so, then not see her at all.

We are in Mass, with high percentages on deaths, just like Conn.

LiberalArkie

(19,756 posts)
84. Just dress appropriately
Sun May 10, 2020, 07:39 PM
May 2020

phylny

(8,818 posts)
86. I am going in Virginia on Saturday. It's by appointment with distance from other customers.
Sun May 10, 2020, 07:46 PM
May 2020

Everyone has to wear a mask.

I've already decided to arrive with a wet head, wear my mask, wear my gloves, get my hair cut, and walk out. I'll pay her for shampoo, cut, and blow dry, but I'm going to minimize the airflow, etc. and just get it cut.

ETA: I like the idea of my own cape, and will get one.

womanofthehills

(10,988 posts)
94. Not one of my friends would risk getting a hair cut - so
Sun May 10, 2020, 11:09 PM
May 2020

It would be safe to assume that those risking getting their hair cut are probably taking other risks making the risk greater.

OhioChick

(23,218 posts)
88. Ventilation and goggles to begin with...
Sun May 10, 2020, 10:00 PM
May 2020

Stay home and cut your hair like everyone else.

We are in a pandemic, your health should be more important than your hair.

Meowmee

(9,212 posts)
90. How about masks and gloves? And goggles etc.
Sun May 10, 2020, 10:31 PM
May 2020

I went through a period where I cut my own hair for about eight months so I think I’m just gonna do that until I get a vaccine. Although I think I am now finally at the end of covid pneumonia, I don’t think I’m even going to trust that to protect me at this point for sure.

When I did start going back to a hairdresser again she said she could not tell that I had been cutting it myself LOL.

LAS14

(15,505 posts)
91. How many other customers come and go in that enclosed space?
Sun May 10, 2020, 10:35 PM
May 2020

If you wait long enough, guaranteed you can wear a pony tail.

clutterbox1830

(456 posts)
96. Oddly enough. I have gotten used to cutting my own hair.
Mon May 11, 2020, 01:50 AM
May 2020

I actually look forward to do it now since I'm not afraid to experiment. I even cut my dad's hair and found it quite fun.

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