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RandySF

(58,511 posts)
Mon May 11, 2020, 11:20 AM May 2020

Massachusetts shop says employee quit after reopening over lack of social distancing, harassment

A Massachusetts ice cream shop said it was forced to shutter a day after it reopened after customers used profanity with workers over social distancing guidelines.

Polar Ice Cream Parlour owner Mark Lawrence told CNN affiliate WFXT that one worker quit her job at the Mashpee business on the first day of reopening.

"One of my best workers quit yesterday at the end of her shift. She stuck it through her shift," Lawrence said. "But the words she was called and the language, you wouldn't even say in a men's locker room. And to say it to a 17-year-old kid, they should be ashamed of themselves."

Lawrence told the outlet that when the shop reopened, it asked customers to place orders an hour in advance, but that the request was largely ignored by customers who took their frustration out on staff.

"People have forgotten how to treat other human beings in the six or seven weeks that they've been confined to their homes,” he said. “They have no clue how to respect other human beings."



https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/news/497108-massachusetts-shop-says-employee-quit-after-reopening-over-lack

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Massachusetts shop says employee quit after reopening over lack of social distancing, harassment (Original Post) RandySF May 2020 OP
The OPEN EVERYTHING crowd sure loves the free market, don't they? RhodeIslandOne May 2020 #1
This message was self-deleted by its author irisblue May 2020 #2
People who proudly defy a medical quarantine order are self centered jerks DBoon May 2020 #3
"...they should be ashamed of themselves." SMC22307 May 2020 #4
I agree. Harker May 2020 #9
I find this really shocking Marrah_Goodman May 2020 #5
Cautious, civil people stay home. Got it. bucolic_frolic May 2020 #6
They also DownriverDem May 2020 #7
I use that one as well as... 2naSalit May 2020 #15
Sounds like some MAGAts wanted some ice cream. C Moon May 2020 #8
The rugged individual, eat what they grow stuff got old, I guess. nt Blue_true May 2020 #26
I can clearly imagine the customer who said those things MineralMan May 2020 #10
'People have forgotten how to treat other human beings...' yonder May 2020 #11
The Trump Effect DanieRains May 2020 #12
In Arkansas, a friend of our daughter was asked if he was a Democrat Hortensis May 2020 #13
Righties DownriverDem May 2020 #14
assholes will not stand by idly when they are denied their god given right to ice cream. Javaman May 2020 #16
Sounds like Mark Lawrence didn't do a very good job of re-opening gratuitous May 2020 #17
security at the door of an ice cream shop? stopdiggin May 2020 #20
I didn't say "security," but somebody should have been there gratuitous May 2020 #21
thank you for your clarification stopdiggin May 2020 #23
Sorry you think "business as usual" is a light switch gratuitous May 2020 #24
The only good to come from all of this, if you can call it good is... patphil May 2020 #18
How about recording those jerks and posting it all over PoindexterOglethorpe May 2020 #19
this is why we can't have nice things 0rganism May 2020 #22
And Ice Cream eaters.. shame on them. Couldn't Cha May 2020 #25
Maybe the owner was opening up before the state allowed. Blue_true May 2020 #27
 

RhodeIslandOne

(5,042 posts)
1. The OPEN EVERYTHING crowd sure loves the free market, don't they?
Mon May 11, 2020, 11:29 AM
May 2020

Businesses have every right to request customers follow their rules, seeing as these cocksuckers are so obsessed with stuffing their maw with shit they've had "stolen from them by the gubmint". Either follow the fucking rules or you WILL STAY HOME.

Response to RhodeIslandOne (Reply #1)

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
4. "...they should be ashamed of themselves."
Mon May 11, 2020, 12:13 PM
May 2020

We need to be hearing a lot more ot this, especially from Democratic leaders and the religious left. Target the re-open assholes and how they're harassing nurses, service workers, etc... I think a new Biden ad does just that. Focus on civility. I remember a poll from way back, maybe the Bush years, that showed Americans distressed about the lack of civility in this country. And it's only gotten worse under Trump...

Harker

(13,981 posts)
9. I agree.
Mon May 11, 2020, 12:59 PM
May 2020

Shamelessness has had its run.

When I was verbally abused and threatened at work, I said, "that's not a nice thing to say", but "you should be ashamed of yourself" has a nice, solid, retro ring to it.

Marrah_Goodman

(1,586 posts)
5. I find this really shocking
Mon May 11, 2020, 12:19 PM
May 2020

My folks live in Mashpee. They live in a very large retirement community there and they are still isolating, as are there neighbors. having spent a lot of time there, I never would have thought this behavior would happen there. I would expect that type of behavior more in the area I am in.

Guess there are assholes everywhere.

2naSalit

(86,332 posts)
15. I use that one as well as...
Mon May 11, 2020, 01:39 PM
May 2020

"Hurry up and get raptured, will ya? We need to get on with trying to have peace on earth." The bible thumpers really get stopped in their tracks with that one.

And if I'm serving food, especially to go, I give them a really big, I hope you choke on it smile so they think maybe someone might have spit in it.

I don't do service with a smile very well so I tried to avoid that kind of work but in troubled times I had to resort to what work I could find.

MineralMan

(146,262 posts)
10. I can clearly imagine the customer who said those things
Mon May 11, 2020, 01:02 PM
May 2020

to that 17-year-old ice cream store worker. I can even see the disgusting expression on his face as he said it.

NO ICE CREAM FOR YOU!

yonder

(9,657 posts)
11. 'People have forgotten how to treat other human beings...'
Mon May 11, 2020, 01:05 PM
May 2020

Memory aside, some never knew how except for getting their necessary 'wants'. Throw a wrench into their system, they fall apart.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
13. In Arkansas, a friend of our daughter was asked if he was a Democrat
Mon May 11, 2020, 01:08 PM
May 2020

by a stranger -- because he was wearing a mask as he walked across a parking lot.

I don't think she said what he answered, but doesn't matter. Not everyone on the right ascribes to this particularly insane aspect of their massive social pathology, to put it mildly.

DownriverDem

(6,226 posts)
14. Righties
Mon May 11, 2020, 01:09 PM
May 2020

repubs have made them that way. We need to defeat them big time in November. That means we need big wins in the House and Senate or we change nothing.

Javaman

(62,504 posts)
16. assholes will not stand by idly when they are denied their god given right to ice cream.
Mon May 11, 2020, 02:07 PM
May 2020

"damn it! I'm entitled as a 'merikan to get all up in your biznatch!!! Now give me my god flavored ice cream!!!!"

all over a mask and asked to stand back a few feet.

morons.

gratuitous

(82,849 posts)
17. Sounds like Mark Lawrence didn't do a very good job of re-opening
Mon May 11, 2020, 02:16 PM
May 2020

One of his best workers is a 17-year-old kid, and it sounds like he didn't do anything to police the folks coming in to his little emporium and didn't do anything to protect his staff. Too busy ringing up sales to notice anything else, Mr. Lawrence? Why wasn't there anyone at the door stopping people from coming in if they hadn't pre-ordered? Does your half-assed job of re-opening that depended so heavily on a 17-year-old kid being the responsible person in all this show any respect to her? If you truly think so, please explain as fully as you can.

stopdiggin

(11,248 posts)
20. security at the door of an ice cream shop?
Mon May 11, 2020, 02:41 PM
May 2020

WOW! Glad you put the onus where it belongs here.
Hope you're feeling better.
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gratuitous

(82,849 posts)
21. I didn't say "security," but somebody should have been there
Mon May 11, 2020, 02:56 PM
May 2020

Instead, the owner made the decision - either affirmatively or through omission - to let the 17-year-old behind the counter decide how to deal with customers who weren't following the rule Mark Lawrence supposedly laid down, that customers send in their orders an hour before coming to the store.

Unless Mr. Lawrence has been living under a rock for the last two months, he should have known that tensions are running pretty high in the country. I don't know why it didn't occur to him that a lot of people would just show up at his emporium without calling or e-mailing ahead, but it should have. Instead, he let one of his best workers, a 17-year-old kid, handle the angry customers who crashed the door. Yeah, I put the onus on the owner who didn't think this through very well, if at all. I blame him in the same way I blame Black Friday stores that don't prepare for the door-buster crowds.

stopdiggin

(11,248 posts)
23. thank you for your clarification
Mon May 11, 2020, 05:47 PM
May 2020

and you're right .. ALL the ice cream shop owners fault. Should have KNOWN he had a Black Friday crowd .. and behavior on his hands. What was that small business owner THINKING?

Still hopin' you feel better.
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gratuitous

(82,849 posts)
24. Sorry you think "business as usual" is a light switch
Mon May 11, 2020, 06:37 PM
May 2020

There isn't just an on/off deal here. And business owners who think they're just going to go back to how it was BC are fooling themselves, and doing their employees a grave disservice. I don't know if Mr. Lawrence was on site when he reopened his shop, but he should have been. And if he sat idly by while his 17-year-old employee was taking that kind of abuse, then he's even more culpable. Later in the story, Lawrence concedes that "there is no road map to follow," but he didn't put an ounce of thought into what might happen when he re-opened.

He wasn't thinking about the weeks of angry mobs waving guns and demonstrating all across the country. He wasn't thinking about the people shooting up the local McDonald's because they weren't able to sit down with their Happy Meal. He wasn't thinking about his 17-year-old employee having to face any of that. In a back-handed way, he's lucky one of his best employees quit before she had a chance to get shot.

Finally, just as I never said anything about "security," I also never said it was ALL Lawrence's fault, so I'll decline your second attempt to stuff words in my posts. Your obtuseness can only be willful.

patphil

(6,150 posts)
18. The only good to come from all of this, if you can call it good is...
Mon May 11, 2020, 02:20 PM
May 2020

that we now have a pretty clear idea of how many mean spirited, angry, hate-filled, violent people there are in America.
It's a lot more than expected; a whole lot more.
Fear, and a President who is the chief enabler of this behavior, have given a whole segment of this nation's citizens an opportunity to show how bad things really are in this country.

It's an ugly truth, that I never expected to see in such a large number of Americans.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
27. Maybe the owner was opening up before the state allowed.
Mon May 11, 2020, 07:22 PM
May 2020

A case like that is most likely going to attract the type of people that go to protests with big guns and confederate flags.

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