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Tace

(6,800 posts)
Sun May 17, 2020, 12:48 PM May 2020

I haven't been touched in more than 2 months... - Mickey Z.


Photo credit: Mickey Z.

Mickey Z. -- World News Trust

May 16, 2020

On Sunday, March 8, as I was leaving a personal training client’s home, she gave me a hug. Four days later, I had a dental appointment that ended with a quick elbow bump between myself and my dentist.

Then, in a flash, everything changed -- especially in my hometown of New York City. I live alone in the era of social distancing. Hence, I haven’t been touched since.



Don’t get me wrong, I’m super grateful that (so far) I’ve remained healthy and (relatively) stable in financial terms. But that doesn’t change the fact that I -- like all of us -- require something we may have been taking for granted: human touch. With this basic need being denied during the pandemic, we may be creating a ticking global time bomb of mental health issues.

https://www.webmd.com/lung/news/20200508/mental-health-emerging-crisis-of-covid-pandemic

Physical Touch 101

Whenever you’re touched by someone you trust, this welcome physical contact activates pressure receptors below the skin -- thus setting off an incredible, healing process. Your Pacinian corpuscles send a message to your vagus nerve which, in turn, slows down your nervous system by:

Lowering your blood pressure and heart rate
Decreasing the level of stress hormones like cortisol



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https://worldnewstrust.com/i-haven-t-been-touched-in-more-than-2-months-mickey-z
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I haven't been touched in more than 2 months... - Mickey Z. (Original Post) Tace May 2020 OP
Thus the intense importance and value of our pets... Their touch conveys similar hormonal benefits hlthe2b May 2020 #1
Been hugging my kids more... FirstLight May 2020 #2
Nope, me either. tavernier May 2020 #3
Captain Kirk! Never thought of that. : ) Tace May 2020 #4

hlthe2b

(102,229 posts)
1. Thus the intense importance and value of our pets... Their touch conveys similar hormonal benefits
Sun May 17, 2020, 12:50 PM
May 2020

FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
2. Been hugging my kids more...
Sun May 17, 2020, 01:06 PM
May 2020

I miss hugging my mom & dad.

Have a friend/dating interest and our last date was actually in Feb...we were texting about all the things we miss and he said "making out" I seriously almost cried...

tavernier

(12,381 posts)
3. Nope, me either.
Sun May 17, 2020, 01:16 PM
May 2020

But when I go to bed at night, I curl up and hug myself and pretend it’s my parted hubby... or someone else. Long list of possibilities... I do love Bruno Mars, or Rami Malek. Or Chris Pine... yeah, Captain Kirk!

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