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Bayard

(22,061 posts)
Mon May 18, 2020, 01:26 PM May 2020

Kentucky Garbage Man Hadn't Seen Elderly Woman's Trash Can Out

Kentucky Garbage Man Hadn't Seen Elderly Woman's Trash Can Out, Rightly Felt Something Was Amiss.

Jake Bland has dual roles at his job at Hometown Hauling, a refuse collection company in Louisville, Kentucky.

He’s the operations manager and he’s also on the truck picking up his customers trash.

He noticed that one of those on his route, an elderly single woman, hadn’t put out her trash for two weeks...he felt...he knew...that something just wasn’t right. So instead of just moving along without a second thought, he called his dispatcher, Bernice Arthur, and voiced his concerns.

She called the 90 year old customer and was relieved that she answered the phone, but was heartbroken when she found out why she hadn’t taken out her trash.

She didn’t have any.

Said Bernice, "She just didn't have anything to eat….and that's why she had no trash to put out there."

For over two weeks, because her caregiver quit over pandemic fears, she had no way to get food or even leave the house, as she is wheelchair bound.

And she ran out of food.

Ten days before.

https://www.dailykos.com/stories/2020/5/16/1945402/-Kentucky-Garbage-Man-Hadn-t-Seen-Elderly-Woman-s-Trash-Can-Out-Rightly-Felt-Something-Was-Amiss?utm_campaign=trending

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Kentucky Garbage Man Hadn't Seen Elderly Woman's Trash Can Out (Original Post) Bayard May 2020 OP
Her caregiver quit. PoindexterOglethorpe May 2020 #1
Her "caregiver" had a duty to make sure this vulnerable person was Maru Kitteh May 2020 #4
I would say if there was a company hold the company liable dsc May 2020 #5
I agree with this assessment Skittles May 2020 #7
The caregiver was more than likely worried that the lady who could not leave the house LiberalArkie May 2020 #18
If this caregiver quit, that was not their decision to make. They had a duty Maru Kitteh May 2020 #20
Yes, this was patient abandonment, IMO. nt Ilsa May 2020 #38
Id urge caution before condemnation quakerboy May 2020 #43
Or picked up by ICE. meadowlander May 2020 #44
K & R...for visibility...nt Wounded Bear May 2020 #2
K&R redstatebluegirl May 2020 #3
... Faux pas May 2020 #6
+1 UpInArms May 2020 #10
Me too LittleGirl May 2020 #33
My god...my heart cannot keep breaking into smaller pieces...I fear there will be nothing left... Moostache May 2020 #8
You are most certainly not alone. I, for one, feel the same as you. Maru Kitteh May 2020 #21
You speak for me too lunatica May 2020 #22
I cannot recommend this youtube channel enough. barbtries May 2020 #25
barbtries.....Yes! I have been recommending Some Good News Upthevibe May 2020 #48
you're very welcome. barbtries May 2020 #49
There are a lot of good people out there whose acts do not make the news. Hermit-The-Prog May 2020 #35
Is Meals on Wheels working these days IronLionZion May 2020 #9
Dunno. My brother up in Oregon got signed up, & it was 2 meals a week. Hekate May 2020 #11
So far Meals On Wheels is working for my neighbor. They drop off 5 meals once a week. ancianita May 2020 #12
It varies from place to place. zeusdogmom May 2020 #24
Yet billionaires get trillions. I_UndergroundPanther May 2020 #40
Home Delivered Meals Pugee May 2020 #37
Less than 1% of MOW's revenue comes in the form melm00se May 2020 #47
That's so touching. Good people, no matter whom they voted for. nt tblue37 May 2020 #13
KNR N_E_1 for Tennis May 2020 #14
My Mom's postal carrier has "adopted" her and checks on her SharonClark May 2020 #15
The real saints among us. They're out there. LuckyLib May 2020 #32
Thank goodness someone came to her rescue. crickets May 2020 #16
... Lucinda May 2020 #17
What a story, glad the woman was contacted and ok, but appalachiablue May 2020 #19
We are all our brothers and sisters keepers. warmfeet May 2020 #23
USPS workers also encounter such situations and act with compassion diva77 May 2020 #26
Fortunately there are many kindnesses like DeminPennswoods May 2020 #27
That story was heart wrenching in the extreme. SoonerPride May 2020 #28
Essential worker. Hedge fund managers can go F... themselves. kairos12 May 2020 #29
Jake, you did good! Duppers May 2020 #30
A p.s. Duppers May 2020 #31
Damn. jeffreyi May 2020 #34
My god... onecaliberal May 2020 #36
Check on your neighbors everybody stopwastingmymoney May 2020 #39
Just in my little circle, we all have people we check on, text, or call every day. And we check in niyad May 2020 #41
Heartfelt KNR. Blessings to Jake, blessings to Bernice. And may that caregiver get exactly niyad May 2020 #42
Jake Is A Good Guy! ProfessorGAC May 2020 #45
OTOH, I choose to celebrate Jake Bland. YES, he puts #truth to the adage: MFGsunny May 2020 #46

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,848 posts)
1. Her caregiver quit.
Mon May 18, 2020, 01:30 PM
May 2020

And clearly there was no one else to take care of her.

We're going to hear a lot more stories like this.

So glad Jake was paying attention and did the right thing.

Maru Kitteh

(28,339 posts)
4. Her "caregiver" had a duty to make sure this vulnerable person was
Mon May 18, 2020, 01:33 PM
May 2020

taken over by some other responsible party. That caregiver should be up on charges.



dsc

(52,155 posts)
5. I would say if there was a company hold the company liable
Mon May 18, 2020, 01:36 PM
May 2020

but if she was a private one, then yes, hold her accountable.

LiberalArkie

(15,713 posts)
18. The caregiver was more than likely worried that the lady who could not leave the house
Mon May 18, 2020, 02:18 PM
May 2020

would catch the Covid from one of the care givers that are out and about seeing to many other people.

Maru Kitteh

(28,339 posts)
20. If this caregiver quit, that was not their decision to make. They had a duty
Mon May 18, 2020, 02:41 PM
May 2020

and should face consequences. There is no excuse for this from a "caregiver."

quakerboy

(13,919 posts)
43. Id urge caution before condemnation
Tue May 19, 2020, 02:50 AM
May 2020

Caregivers have to quit or move on regularly. They are usually poorly paid, often people with significant lack of privilege, barely making due. People who are barely making it. A kid out of school? A partner loses a job? a car dies, or they get the flu, etc, they move on because they have to.

Caregivers are rarely if ever expected to find their own replacement. You're lucky if you get a couple weeks notice to try and find a replacement. More often you get a call that AM stating they will not be able to come back.

meadowlander

(4,394 posts)
44. Or picked up by ICE.
Tue May 19, 2020, 03:01 AM
May 2020

In a perfect world, yes we would all have spare capacity to worry about making sure our duties are covered after we quit our job but I don't think it's a moral obligation to keep working after we are no longer being paid to do a job.

She owed some notice and a call to social services if the woman had no family to look after her. But we don't know the circumstances she left under or what the situation was.

Moostache

(9,895 posts)
8. My god...my heart cannot keep breaking into smaller pieces...I fear there will be nothing left...
Mon May 18, 2020, 01:45 PM
May 2020

Thank god for men like Jake Bland, for empathy and kindness and an example that we can cling to in a sea of greed, anger and hate.

I feel so overwhelmed most of the time these days, I have since this all started. My life at work has gone on virtually unchanged while the entire world around me has been shattered and splintered and turned into an unrecognizable mash. Mortality and morality collide and it feels at times like I'm just lost. Pieces of my soul are split off every time I read another story of a shooting for senseless reasons, tales of science and nursing and doctors being attacked as fakers and frauds while the snakeoil salesmen go on and on and on...

Stories of kindness and love are never the biggest or flashiest, but I need them all now...and I am sure I can't be alone.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
22. You speak for me too
Mon May 18, 2020, 02:55 PM
May 2020

I cry in grief all the time Now. Even when something good happens out of the kindness of people’s unselfish acts to help others. Even when I’m not actively crying, the tears are there just under the surface.

Yet at the same time I feel I need to pay attention and bear witness to all of it. I’ve used the stimulus money to help with donations where I can. Especially donating to food banks because I can't stand that anyone should go hungry. It is the most basic human need. Nothing else matters if you go hungry. I haven’t spent it all because I want to continue to help in the future because the problems are not going away anytime soon.

barbtries

(28,787 posts)
25. I cannot recommend this youtube channel enough.
Mon May 18, 2020, 03:08 PM
May 2020

I cry and cry when I watch, but it's a good cry.

it's SomeGoodNews, or SGN with John Krasinski. He just started this channel during the quarantine. It's the most heartening and heartwarming thing.

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOe_y6KKvS3PdIfb9q9pGug


we live in unprecedented times, and it is hard. SGN reminds me that there actually are absolutely fabulous, wonderful people all over the world, and they care about each other and everyone just as you do.

Upthevibe

(8,038 posts)
48. barbtries.....Yes! I have been recommending Some Good News
Tue May 19, 2020, 12:11 PM
May 2020

to everyone! John Krasinski stole my heart in The Office and people have raved about his movie, (I missed it at the theatre but it's definitely on my list to stream) A Quiet Place, in which John stars, directs, and co-wrote.

SGN is in my rotation of must sees every week. Thank you so much for your post....

barbtries

(28,787 posts)
49. you're very welcome.
Tue May 19, 2020, 12:18 PM
May 2020

i've also shared it on fb and talked about it to several people. it's so uplifting, I love it.

IronLionZion

(45,427 posts)
9. Is Meals on Wheels working these days
Mon May 18, 2020, 01:50 PM
May 2020

or did GOP find some "efficiencies" by "cutting waste and fraud" from the budget?

It's very nice of Jake Bland to do this, but there must be some services for the other elderly in similar situations out there.

Hekate

(90,645 posts)
11. Dunno. My brother up in Oregon got signed up, & it was 2 meals a week.
Mon May 18, 2020, 01:57 PM
May 2020

I don't know how things stand now -- my other brother in California has been on the case.

ancianita

(36,023 posts)
12. So far Meals On Wheels is working for my neighbor. They drop off 5 meals once a week.
Mon May 18, 2020, 02:00 PM
May 2020

I'm in FL, the other weird state.

zeusdogmom

(990 posts)
24. It varies from place to place.
Mon May 18, 2020, 02:58 PM
May 2020

Many areas have a very long waiting list because of limited budgets. I know here in the Columbus Ohio area, there was room a couple of weeks ago for additional clients because of some very generous corporate/private funding.

Like any safety net program, Meals on Wheels is dependent on funding from various places and there are seldom enough dollars to go around. Sadly that situation is not going to improve anytime soon.

Pugee

(346 posts)
37. Home Delivered Meals
Mon May 18, 2020, 05:46 PM
May 2020

Our senior center is still delivering, although the senior center is closed and people cant just drop in and hang our or eat there anymore. I wanted to donate part of my stimulus check and that is where I choose to donate. They are still feeding hundreds of elderly in my area daily and checking up on them.

SharonClark

(10,014 posts)
15. My Mom's postal carrier has "adopted" her and checks on her
Mon May 18, 2020, 02:11 PM
May 2020

Brings her mail to the door, wheels her garbage bins back to the garage, waves and calls out to her when she's outside.
He's a sweet young man.

crickets

(25,962 posts)
16. Thank goodness someone came to her rescue.
Mon May 18, 2020, 02:12 PM
May 2020

She would have died. We all need to keep an eye out for our neighbors. You never know.

appalachiablue

(41,127 posts)
19. What a story, glad the woman was contacted and ok, but
Mon May 18, 2020, 02:32 PM
May 2020

since she's in a wheelchair there must still be a need for a daily care worker to assist with other tasks.

My heart goes out to this lady and all of the people in similar situations.

~ There but for the grace of God, go I.

diva77

(7,640 posts)
26. USPS workers also encounter such situations and act with compassion
Mon May 18, 2020, 03:13 PM
May 2020

-- yet another reason to support & strengthen the USPS.

K&R

Duppers

(28,120 posts)
30. Jake, you did good!
Mon May 18, 2020, 03:55 PM
May 2020

Poor Bernice, her caregiver let her down and I bet she has a touch of dementia at age 90 and didn't know where to turn for help.

It's troubling to think how many more Bernice's there are out there.




Thanks for posting this, Bayard.


Duppers

(28,120 posts)
31. A p.s.
Mon May 18, 2020, 04:05 PM
May 2020

I hope they don't place her in a nursing home but they might. Nursing homes are petri dishes these days. Sigh.

niyad

(113,259 posts)
41. Just in my little circle, we all have people we check on, text, or call every day. And we check in
Mon May 18, 2020, 11:09 PM
May 2020

with each other.

niyad

(113,259 posts)
42. Heartfelt KNR. Blessings to Jake, blessings to Bernice. And may that caregiver get exactly
Mon May 18, 2020, 11:11 PM
May 2020

What she deserves.

MFGsunny

(2,356 posts)
46. OTOH, I choose to celebrate Jake Bland. YES, he puts #truth to the adage:
Tue May 19, 2020, 08:41 AM
May 2020

to the adage:

"There are angels walking among us, dressed as people."

Who may also be an operations manager for trash hauling.

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