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Demovictory9

(32,454 posts)
Tue May 26, 2020, 02:24 PM May 2020

wedding videography Company to Fiance After Fatal Crash: Hope You 'Cry All Day' "Life is a b----"

Company to Fiance After Fatal Crash: Hope You 'Cry All Day'
Videography company denies refund after bride-to-be is killed before wedding day

https://www.newser.com/story/291405/his-fiancee-died-things-got-ugly-with-a-wedding-vendor.html?utm_source=part&utm_medium=uol&utm_campaign=rss_top

Few company-customer disputes reach this level of personal. As the Denver Channel reports, the controversy revolves around the death of a bride-to-be, the videography company that was hired to film her wedding, and the company's refusal to issue a refund in the wake of her death. In February, Alexis Wyatt of Colorado Springs was killed in a car crash. Fiance Justin Montney then reached out to Copper Stallion Media to request a refund of the $1,800 he paid ahead of their May wedding. The company offered its condolences but said the contract was non-refundable. Montney tells WRDO that, yes, he knows the contract he signed was non-refundable, but he thought the company would give him a break under the circumstances. When the company refused to budge, he took his story public, and Copper Stallion has responded in remarkably blunt fashion.

Montney "admits that the contract was non-refundable but says we should give the money back due to the circumstance," says the company. "Life is a b----, Justin." This is on a website called JustinMontney.com created by the company expressly to present its side of the story.

The site, which includes the company's correspondence with Montley, states that the couple booked two videographers who blocked off the day. "Now, we have two shooters who cannot film that day and lose out on that income," it explains. "Nonrefundable deposits are the industry standard."

A since-deleted online post went further. The company posted an image of the couple on May 23 and wrote: "Today would have been the day where we would have filmed Justin and Alexis' wedding. After what Justin pulled with the media stunt to try and shake us down for a refund we hope you sob and cry all day for what would have been your wedding day."
The company did not respond to either Denver outlet.

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wedding videography Company to Fiance After Fatal Crash: Hope You 'Cry All Day' "Life is a b----" (Original Post) Demovictory9 May 2020 OP
America the beautiful? LakeArenal May 2020 #1
This message was self-deleted by its author jimfields33 May 2020 #6
The company should have remained professional in response but by getting personal they TeamPooka May 2020 #2
They also should have just given the money back coti May 2020 #57
I'd call that one bold faced challenge to Karma Siwsan May 2020 #3
Having been a wedding photographer for over 20 years, I cannot imagine being Ferrets are Cool May 2020 #4
I'm sitting here trying to figure out if it is real. Pacifist Patriot May 2020 #18
Same, this seems so over the top Hav May 2020 #24
It might be a one person company or one employee behaving outrageously Demovictory9 May 2020 #51
Wait the company made a website with the victims name? Historic NY May 2020 #5
The counter suit will he just as meaningful jimfields33 May 2020 #9
Counter-suit? Where did you get your law degree? Trump University? Progressive Law May 2020 #14
I guess you are not familiar with counter suits jimfields33 May 2020 #16
Restitution is a remedy against unjust enrichment. Yet, the fiance was not unjustly enriched... Progressive Law May 2020 #26
Yep, a Trump U law degree.. denbot May 2020 #28
So sad. I'm at a loss that you are so lost on the law. jimfields33 May 2020 #31
He's a troll. Just putting that out there. demmiblue May 2020 #44
Where did you get your law degree? The Velveteen Ocelot May 2020 #33
But the groom should not have slandered the guy on social media jimfields33 May 2020 #34
It's not slander if it's true. The Velveteen Ocelot May 2020 #36
Ok. Thanks. jimfields33 May 2020 #39
It's than, not then. littlemissmartypants May 2020 #50
Technically it would be libel, not slander. Pacifist Patriot May 2020 #58
Hope they go out of business and not because of the refund JI7 May 2020 #7
Thy ned to fire their PR person. Ms. Toad May 2020 #8
This is part and parcel of America's "transition into greatness" as Mike 03 May 2020 #10
Corporations are evil. Brainfodder May 2020 #11
Copper Stallion Media: dalton99a May 2020 #12
They used an employee's suicide from 2 years ago to smear Justin MagickMuffin May 2020 #20
that's fuckin' brutal man. Dyedinthewoolliberal May 2020 #22
If Copper Stallion Media is as busy as they claim to be... Mike 03 May 2020 #13
Thats because they are legally barred from engaging in videography FreeState May 2020 #42
He even looks like a complete slimeball! smirkymonkey May 2020 #43
Don't know much about wedding photography thucythucy May 2020 #15
Wow. I was in the wedding business for over ten years. Pacifist Patriot May 2020 #17
Big mistake, Copper Stallion. By the time public opinion is done with you, you'll be Copper Gelding Hekate May 2020 #19
Copper Stallion sounds like a porn outfit to me. LuvNewcastle May 2020 #56
WTF is up with wedding companies in Colorado? Initech May 2020 #21
Calling the news station covering the story "The Failing..."tells you everything g you need to know Pepsidog May 2020 #49
Pretty sure the soon-to-be Copper Gelding Media are Rumpers: musette_sf May 2020 #23
C-Springs... yup... asshole Trumpers most likely lapfog_1 May 2020 #30
Stupid business decision la-trucker May 2020 #25
Two things Javaman May 2020 #27
I don't think you'd have been such a jerk about it, though. The Velveteen Ocelot May 2020 #35
95% percent of the job was public relations aka dealing with the brides mom. LOL Javaman May 2020 #40
Twitter is not being kind.... KY_EnviroGuy May 2020 #29
might be a different person lapfog_1 May 2020 #32
Appears to be the same person and a rabid Trumpster. See replies at.... KY_EnviroGuy May 2020 #41
'Jesse John Francis Clark' is the same as Jesse J. Clark/John Francis/Michael Collins/Jaie Hart dalton99a May 2020 #53
+1. Jesse J. Clark aka John Francis aka Michael Collins aka Jaie Hart: dalton99a May 2020 #37
Not the most brilliant PR move. nt tblue37 May 2020 #38
Some internet trolls can no longer tell the difference between the internet and real life. Snake Plissken May 2020 #45
Imaine the positive exposure they would have received multiple times over had they chose otherwise? ffr May 2020 #46
Five bucks says they're MAGAts. OMGWTF May 2020 #47
A brief glance at his twitter feed linked above trc May 2020 #55
How very trump-like of them. Rural_Progressive May 2020 #48
Gotta be maliscious something or other bucolic_frolic May 2020 #52
Must have gone to the Martin Shkreli school of business. tclambert May 2020 #54
The wedding was scheduled for May 23, the bride was killed in early February. There's a strong coti May 2020 #59
+1 dalton99a May 2020 #60
Good business move on their part. Crunchy Frog May 2020 #61

Response to LakeArenal (Reply #1)

TeamPooka

(24,223 posts)
2. The company should have remained professional in response but by getting personal they
Tue May 26, 2020, 02:28 PM
May 2020

have probably destroyed their business.

coti

(4,612 posts)
57. They also should have just given the money back
Tue May 26, 2020, 05:55 PM
May 2020

and booked someone else for that day. Or, taken the day off.

Ferrets are Cool

(21,106 posts)
4. Having been a wedding photographer for over 20 years, I cannot imagine being
Tue May 26, 2020, 02:29 PM
May 2020

this heartless. Unfathomable, except in these times of orangeanus.

Pacifist Patriot

(24,653 posts)
18. I'm sitting here trying to figure out if it is real.
Tue May 26, 2020, 02:52 PM
May 2020

The behavior just seems so outrageous as to be a parody of Trump-ish callousness. I have never encountered a wedding professional that a) wouldn't have issued some sort of refund for a death, and b) would risk their reputation in a disgusting spat like this. Reputation is everything in the wedding business.

Hav

(5,969 posts)
24. Same, this seems so over the top
Tue May 26, 2020, 03:05 PM
May 2020

It would be absolutely inhuman to react that way. If it's real, I hope karma is coming for them.

Historic NY

(37,449 posts)
5. Wait the company made a website with the victims name?
Tue May 26, 2020, 02:30 PM
May 2020

Ah, I don't play a lawyer but I'd bet that a good lawyer could make that work.

jimfields33

(15,793 posts)
9. The counter suit will he just as meaningful
Tue May 26, 2020, 02:33 PM
May 2020

The groom put the company name on blast disregarding the company policy.

jimfields33

(15,793 posts)
16. I guess you are not familiar with counter suits
Tue May 26, 2020, 02:40 PM
May 2020

It is a legal form of restitution. It happens often. Not sure why you find this so shocking. They happen daily. Open a book.

 

Progressive Law

(617 posts)
26. Restitution is a remedy against unjust enrichment. Yet, the fiance was not unjustly enriched...
Tue May 26, 2020, 03:07 PM
May 2020

...looks like I was right with my suspicion of your law degree.

jimfields33

(15,793 posts)
31. So sad. I'm at a loss that you are so lost on the law.
Tue May 26, 2020, 03:39 PM
May 2020

Hopefully you never face it. You’d be in deep trouble.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,683 posts)
33. Where did you get your law degree?
Tue May 26, 2020, 03:45 PM
May 2020

A countersuit is like any other lawsuit; you need a cognizable cause of action. There is no recognized cause of action based on merely publicly complaining about something a business did as long as the complaint is factual. The videographer already has the groom's money. If the groom sued them to get his money back he probably would lose if the contract states the payment is non-refundable with no exceptions. However, the videographer has no valid counterclaim against the groom because he (the groom) didn't do anything tortious or unlawful; posting information about a business on social media or a website doesn't create a cause of action if it isn't an injurious falsehood or doesn't wrongly interfere with other contracts or business relationships.

jimfields33

(15,793 posts)
34. But the groom should not have slandered the guy on social media
Tue May 26, 2020, 03:47 PM
May 2020

That’s all I’m saying. It could cause a counter suit. The company was following the rules of the contract.

littlemissmartypants

(22,655 posts)
50. It's than, not then.
Tue May 26, 2020, 05:21 PM
May 2020
The way to keep the pair straight is to focus on this basic difference: than is used when you're talking about comparisons; then is used when you're talking about something relating to time. Than is the word to choose in phrases like smaller than, smoother than, and further than.


https://www.merriam-webster.com/words-at-play/when-to-use-then-and-than

Ms. Toad

(34,069 posts)
8. Thy ned to fire their PR person.
Tue May 26, 2020, 02:33 PM
May 2020

And if the owner is their PR person, they deserve the loss of business that will almost certainly lose. Had thy handled it differently, it would have brought them more business.

ETA: In most states, their creation of a website using the customer's name and likeness without his consent for commercial purposes is a gift to Jason, should he decide he wants legal revenge.

Mike 03

(16,616 posts)
10. This is part and parcel of America's "transition into greatness" as
Tue May 26, 2020, 02:33 PM
May 2020

we really pull together in our hour of crisis.

Brainfodder

(6,423 posts)
11. Corporations are evil.
Tue May 26, 2020, 02:34 PM
May 2020

More proof....

People using "corporations" to hide their cowardice.

Scamming the big bucks, happens every day, how else do they afford their overhead and golden parachutes?


MagickMuffin

(15,937 posts)
20. They used an employee's suicide from 2 years ago to smear Justin
Tue May 26, 2020, 02:56 PM
May 2020

In the midst of all of this, Copper Stallion wrote that an employee, Allison Davis, had committed suicide in a now-deleted Facebook post. The post was captured in screenshots before it was deleted. The screenshot reads:

It is with great sadness that we inform you of the passing of our client experience manager, Allison Davis. Allison took her own life earlier this morning. She had been a valued member of our team for the past two years and will be missed. Allison was a wife, mother, sister, and daughter.

On May 20, 2020, our company was subject to an online smear campaign for not refunding a client who died in a car accident. The client signed a non-refundable contract. As a result, friends, family, and strangers have emailed, called, and left reviews of our company on social media. Online bullying is real.

We are in contact with local authorities to see what can be done in terms of criminal charges. We are also reaching out to legal counsel to see what legal action we can take to obtain a judgment for damages. No company should have to go through this…

An additional screenshot raises doubts about the timing of the death of Allison Davis. This screenshot suggests that Cooper Stallion first posted about her death in 2018 and that the company falsely implied that Davis committed suicide because of public outrage in recent days. The details and veracity of these posts have not been confirmed.


Dyedinthewoolliberal

(15,574 posts)
22. that's fuckin' brutal man.
Tue May 26, 2020, 02:59 PM
May 2020

if I'm the customer, I'm sharing this all over the place. Even if they have legal standing to not refund the money, there is no call for this kind of behavior. No class whatsoever.

Mike 03

(16,616 posts)
13. If Copper Stallion Media is as busy as they claim to be...
Tue May 26, 2020, 02:36 PM
May 2020
We currently are fully committed until January 1, 2022, and are no longer accepting new clients at this time.


it seems like they could show some class in a situation like this. Even if they didn't refund this person, they could at least be civilized.

EDIT: Here's the link: https://www.copperstallionmedia.com/

FreeState

(10,572 posts)
42. Thats because they are legally barred from engaging in videography
Tue May 26, 2020, 04:54 PM
May 2020

It's all spin:

In January, Suffolk Superior Court Judge Judith Fabricant granted an injunction against Mr. Clark and his employee, Keith Morin, prohibiting them from engaging in videography or wedding-related services and from accepting consumer depositors for any kind of business in the future.



?s=20

His skipped his court date as well:

https://www.telegram.com/article/20130226/NEWS/130229727

thucythucy

(8,050 posts)
15. Don't know much about wedding photography
Tue May 26, 2020, 02:39 PM
May 2020

but if he notified them in February about missing a date at the end of May, the claim that "we have two shooters who cannot film on that day" is BS.

It might be that weddings have dropped off because of the virus, in which case this company is in the same boat as hundreds of thousands of other businesses. But this doesn't justify its gratuitous cruelty.

It's like the entire nation is taking its cue from the spoiled toddler in the White House.

Pacifist Patriot

(24,653 posts)
17. Wow. I was in the wedding business for over ten years.
Tue May 26, 2020, 02:46 PM
May 2020

I can't think of a single vendor I interacted with on any wedding that would have responded in this manner.

I can understand a partial refund the closer it gets to the wedding date because of expenses incurred and lost replacement business, but there is no reason to keep all of their money. Yes, there are labor hours during the ceremony, but the bulk of work associated with wedding photography and videography is in the editing phase afterwards.

Even so, I wouldn't have kept a dime even if I had incurred some expenses related to my services at that point.

Just wow.

Hekate

(90,674 posts)
19. Big mistake, Copper Stallion. By the time public opinion is done with you, you'll be Copper Gelding
Tue May 26, 2020, 02:53 PM
May 2020

Last edited Wed May 27, 2020, 02:42 AM - Edit history (1)

LuvNewcastle

(16,844 posts)
56. Copper Stallion sounds like a porn outfit to me.
Tue May 26, 2020, 05:50 PM
May 2020

I doubt I would hire any company with a name like that.

Initech

(100,068 posts)
21. WTF is up with wedding companies in Colorado?
Tue May 26, 2020, 02:57 PM
May 2020

First there was that baker who repeatedly refused to bake a cake for a wedding, and now these assholes. God this is the worst story ever and I hope they go under for it.

Pepsidog

(6,254 posts)
49. Calling the news station covering the story "The Failing..."tells you everything g you need to know
Tue May 26, 2020, 05:13 PM
May 2020

about them. Plus, from a legal perspective, they had a duty's to mitigate their damages and try and book another wedding for the same day. Also, liquidated damages must be real damages, not speculative or punitive and the law abhors a forfeiture.

musette_sf

(10,200 posts)
23. Pretty sure the soon-to-be Copper Gelding Media are Rumpers:
Tue May 26, 2020, 03:04 PM
May 2020

from the website these pigs put up to harass that poor young man:

Justin Montney then contacted the failing news station, KRDO in Colorado Springs, CO to tell his story.

(empasis mine)

lapfog_1

(29,199 posts)
30. C-Springs... yup... asshole Trumpers most likely
Tue May 26, 2020, 03:23 PM
May 2020

having lived in CO for 8 years, working in C-Springs for 1 but never lived there (for a reason!)... C-springs is full of fundy assholes.

I hope Copper Stalion goes out of business, but it is likely a small operation and the owners will likely pop back up as something else.

 

la-trucker

(283 posts)
25. Stupid business decision
Tue May 26, 2020, 03:06 PM
May 2020

When you piss off one customer, you end up pissing off hundreds.

They should have refunded some portion back and eaten the loss because the goodwill generated by it would have been worth thousands more.

Javaman

(62,528 posts)
27. Two things
Tue May 26, 2020, 03:07 PM
May 2020

1) the videographer, if he or she said those things, is a heartless fuck.

That said

2) I had a wedding video company. I had the people to be married sign a contract and put up half the amount as non-refundable in the event the wedding is canceled. I also would not have given the money back either. I would be booked months in advance to video a wedding on a particular date. That date would be locked in. Meaning I would take no other job. I would get people calling me for that date and I would have to turn them down. This was what I did for a living, I had no other income. If the people who wanted to hire me, didn’t sign the contract, I wouldn’t lock in the day or confirm that I would be there. I would record that confirmation and have them acknowledge it. I’ve had cancellations and I’ve kept the deposit. And if they threatened to sue, I would remind them of the contact.

That said, in this case depending on my prevailing financial situation at that moment, I might have refunded a portion of the deposit but certainly not all.

It is horrible that someone died, but at the end of the day, I still have bills to pay and mouths to feed.

The video company could and should have handled this better. But as I like to say,”live and burn”

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,683 posts)
35. I don't think you'd have been such a jerk about it, though.
Tue May 26, 2020, 03:49 PM
May 2020

I get why a fee or part of it would be non-refundable, but it's one thing to say sorry, we have a contract and that's the deal; something else to mock someone about crying on their planned wedding day. That's just vicious and completely unnecessary.

Javaman

(62,528 posts)
40. 95% percent of the job was public relations aka dealing with the brides mom. LOL
Tue May 26, 2020, 04:06 PM
May 2020

always a fine line on how to tell them what shot they think I got to what shot I actually got. LOL.

The video company that made this remark, if true, are either amateurs or just plain old dickheads.

KY_EnviroGuy

(14,490 posts)
29. Twitter is not being kind....
Tue May 26, 2020, 03:19 PM
May 2020


and....


If true, this guy surely must be Pharma Bro Martin Shkreli's brother. He's also a Trumpster.

No professional worth his/her salt would respond to a grieving customer with nasty, cruel comments....

lapfog_1

(29,199 posts)
32. might be a different person
Tue May 26, 2020, 03:42 PM
May 2020

twitter account says he is not associated with the controversy

Google link is about a Jesse Francis Clark (and aliases) from Worcester Mass.

So it's possible that there are two Jesse Clarks who run wedding video companies.

This on on twitter is fully "Trump Nuts".

On the other hand, the linked twitter account also claims he is:
"Serial Entrepreneur, Intellectual, Speaker, Scholar, Soon to Be Author."

KY_EnviroGuy

(14,490 posts)
41. Appears to be the same person and a rabid Trumpster. See replies at....
Tue May 26, 2020, 04:17 PM
May 2020





Difficult to know for sure considering social media is involved......

dalton99a

(81,485 posts)
37. +1. Jesse J. Clark aka John Francis aka Michael Collins aka Jaie Hart:
Tue May 26, 2020, 03:53 PM
May 2020
https://www.telegram.com/article/20130426/NEWS/104269782



Jesse J. Clark, the wedding videographer accused of scamming more than 90 couples out of payments for wedding videos he never delivered, has run online wedding businesses during the past year despite several jail sentences and probation periods and a Suffolk Superior Court injunction.

Lawyer Nicholas Frye, who represents several couples who have won civil judgments against Mr. Clark, made the allegation Thursday. He was present in Dudley District Court as Mr. Clark was sentenced to two months in jail in an assault case.

Mr. Clark formerly operated SureShot Videography and SureShot Portraits LLC in the Shoppes at Blackstone Valley in Millbury. The studio abruptly closed in June after couples demanded their undelivered videos.

Since then Mr. Clark has also operated Magnolia Wedding Films and InFocus Wedding Films, under the alias John Francis; Wedding Avenue, under the alias Michael Collins; and most recently Wedding Filmology, under the alias Jaie Hart, Mr. Frye said.

Snake Plissken

(4,103 posts)
45. Some internet trolls can no longer tell the difference between the internet and real life.
Tue May 26, 2020, 05:07 PM
May 2020

We currently have one of those in the White House right now.

ffr

(22,669 posts)
46. Imaine the positive exposure they would have received multiple times over had they chose otherwise?
Tue May 26, 2020, 05:08 PM
May 2020

I hope they are one of those businesses their competitors drown out.

trc

(823 posts)
55. A brief glance at his twitter feed linked above
Tue May 26, 2020, 05:35 PM
May 2020

confirms he is a serious magat (and a serious maggot).

bucolic_frolic

(43,153 posts)
52. Gotta be maliscious something or other
Tue May 26, 2020, 05:23 PM
May 2020

"we hope you sob and cry all day for what would have been your wedding day."

Seriously?

coti

(4,612 posts)
59. The wedding was scheduled for May 23, the bride was killed in early February. There's a strong
Tue May 26, 2020, 06:04 PM
May 2020

argument in equity that the videographers had a duty to mitigate their own damage from the contract falling apart by rebooking the date, since they had 3 1/2 months to do it. In all practicality- not to mention out of a sense of compassion- they should have just given the money back. It's not like the date was canceled the week or day before.

Sounds to me like the videographers just wanted the cash without having to do the work. Bad people.

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