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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsIn light of yesterday's hearing in Georgia where sickening details
Of the Ahmaud Arbery investigation came out. Three white rednecks in pickups chase a black man down. We cant ask James Byrd Jr. how a black man should react to that terror since he was murdered when he was dragged behind their truck until his arm and head were severed.
Scarsdale
(9,426 posts)with this type of hatred. It is learned at home. It is disgusting that any parent would want their offspring to hate another human so much. Surely, these white people attended schools alongside black students. Did they not see that we are all alike, beneath the skin?
bluescribbler
(2,116 posts)Sucha NastyWoman
(2,748 posts)But I remember my mother telling me they smell. She is still alive at 90 years old, and as racist as ever. But she would swear she is not. When I call her on it, she says What happened to you?
Even worse, she got religion to atone for all her sins about 20 years ago, and is now very pious, always looking for a way to work it into the conversation. And shes a Trump lover.
Wawannabe
(5,644 posts)You have done better than the previous generation it sounds like. My father was a complete racist. I turned my back on that shit but he raised us to use those slurs on many races not just blacks and then I found out what they meant and I was horrified.
I was using the word g**k by the time I was three as my father had just returned from Vietnam before I was born. There are many other slurs I grew up with too. Its most embarrassing actually.
I would let lose on him if he dared use them in front of me as a teenager and beyond. Eventually, we did not speak. He was one mean son of a bitch!
gordianot
(15,237 posts)He was not the blue eyed tall flowing reddish hair Caucasian pictured in centuries of literature if he ever lived. I use this only with relatives making similar statements and it shuts the up every time. If the Roman soldiers in the garden could not recognize a tall European Caucasian he must have looked like everyone else. I keep an anthropological reconstruction of the appearance an average Jew from that time. Have used it twice to good effect.
LastDemocratInSC
(3,647 posts)The fact is that he was a brown skinned Palestinian Jew and would be disliked by most Americans if he returned today.
yellowdogintexas
(22,250 posts)I thought it was a horrible word from the time I was 9 or 10, and it was used very casually all around us. She expected us to treat everyone equally. I do not recall my father actually using that word, but he would have a fit if we did not treat older black persons with the respect due to age and the utmost politeness. (talk about your mixed messages) Oh yes, 'older' applied to anyone 10 years or more older than we were. I was in high school before I realized just how unique my parents were, and I am so grateful that my "carefully taught" was the opposite of what the norm was in our area.
Rural Kentucky in the 1950s & 60s was every stereotype you can think of. Looking back I am appalled at some of the things my other relatives and most of my friends and their parents said and did. I am appalled at myself for "going with the flow" somewhat when I was in school, in the social aspects of high school life particularly. I'm glad I grew out of it
StarfishSaver
(18,486 posts)took months for the murderer to be arrested and charged - and they wonder why black folk are mad.
jaxexpat
(6,818 posts)And replaces it with negativity.
Too many people. So well connected, networked. The ancient falsehoods collapsing. Fantasy not accepted, only Visa or bank card. Sorry, lots of ugly in the future.
panader0
(25,816 posts)are still not arrested!?
Moostache
(9,895 posts)But white evangelicals will never accept it...and let's be honest, if you believe in the Cosmic Jewish Zombie to begin with, then its a very minor step to believing that Jeebus looks exactly however they want him to...i.e. - just like them.
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keithbvadu2
(36,775 posts)What does Jesus look like?
It depends on whose living room wall his portrait hangs.
Sucha NastyWoman
(2,748 posts)I realized if I were born in Israel, I might believe what a Jew believes, and if I were born in India I might believe in the Hindu religion. And if I were born in Iran I might believe what Muslims believe and if I were born in Italy Id probably be a Catholic.
Seems to me that what you believe depends more on where you were born than what your heart deems to be true.