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...against Black Lives Matter protester (this is the "I'm going to fucking kill you" woman)
<...> Carrie Maxwell said she had seen news coverage of protests turning into riots and, on Friday, heard protesters gathering and loudly chanting profanities near her home in northwest Bakersfield, California. She became overwhelmed with anxiety and fear, she said, and after being told by police that there was nothing they could do she went out to ask the protesters to move away. <...>
Every man, woman and child deserves to be treated with dignity, compassion and equality, regardless of the color of their skin, and every person deserves to live a life free of fear, Maxwell said.
Humphrey said the video is not reflective of the type of person Maxwell is. Shes been a dedicated teacher for a dozen years and works with each child to make sure everyone gets equal time from her and is treated the same.
She clearly made a bad choice, Humphrey said, but there was no fear or perceived threat as a result of what she said. The attorney said the video didnt capture the entire confrontation and the back-and-forth that occurred before the protester began filming.
The Bakersfield City School District Superintendent Doc Ervin issued the following statement about the incident:
The Bakersfield City School District strives to be a model of inclusion and equity for our students, staff, families and community members. The District is aware of the incident that occurred on June 5 involving an employee. We do not condone nor endorse the action and behavior captured on the video. The district is currently conducting an investigation into the incident.
Full statement from Maxwells attorney:
The Law Offices of Kyle J. Humphrey as representatives for Carrie Maxwell are providing this response from Ms. Maxwell to the partial video circulating on social media involving a confrontation between Ms. Maxwell and a protester:
I want to offer my sincerest apology to anyone who was hurt by my behavior in that video.
My behavior was never intended in any way to diminish this important time in the life of our country. Like everyone else, I was horrified by the video of the murder of George Floyd. every man, woman, and child deserves to be treated with dignity, compassion, and equality, regardless of the color of their skin, and every person deserves to live a life free of fear.
What you saw in that video was a captured moment of my anxiety, frustration, and panic for the safety of my family. I am the caretaker for my 18-year-old autistic son and my elderly mother who has COPD and is extremely vulnerable to health complications. I had seen news coverage of the protests turning into riots across the country and was aware that the protest near my home had turned to confrontation the day before. When I heard protesters gathering near my home, loudly chanting profanities, I became overwhelmed with anxiety and fear. I called the police and was told there was nothing they could do. I went out to ask the protesters to move the protest away from my home. This was not shown on the video that was posted. there was a woman who became confrontational and I responded in a inappropriate manner. I never intended to cause fear. i never spoke to or threatened this womans daughter. I have never even been in a physical altercation in my life.
I am humiliated by my actions.
I am heartbroken to think that any of my students or their parents might see that video and believe that it is in any way reflective of my values or views regarding race or inclusivity.
My family and my students are my greatest joys in life. I take pride in creating a classroom environment that is welcoming and safe for all my students, regardless of their race. In my twelve years of teaching, I have predominantly taught students of color. I have always been and will continue to be passionately protective of my students well-being. I work every day to ensure that my students are afforded every opportunity for success. As teachers, we are not only educators, but also counselors, social workers, guardian, and friends. I take pride in the relationships I have cultivated with my students and their parents. In the future I will continue to support and uplift my students and stand against inequality of all types.
https://www.wjtv.com/news/woman-apologizes-for-moment-of-anxiety-frustration-and-panic-in-outburst-against-black-lives-matter-protester/
hatrack
(59,584 posts)Whatever . . . .
Javaman
(62,521 posts)Apology not accepted.
This is the woman who said, "I'll F'in Kill you" to the woman in front of her 8 yo daughter on camera.
I would never let one of my kids attend school where she works.
CincyDem
(6,355 posts)People saw what she is, that"s what bothers her. She should be fired.
Tipperary
(6,930 posts)No way.
MrsCoffee
(5,801 posts)When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.
MaryMagdaline
(6,854 posts)Parents will not want their kids anywhere near her
tishaLA
(14,176 posts)she for sure has lots of Latino students in her classes
no_hypocrisy
(46,094 posts)I substitute teach kids pre-school to Grade 9 in a district with majority African-American, Arab, and Hispanic students. You bet I'm careful with every word I speak, especially in situations involving discipline or provocation. I'm working from a presumed white privilege venue and I want the kids to listen to me for my help in education, self-control, and behavior.
I've only "lost it" once in my 40 years of teaching. I screamed at seventh grade boys who were at a private (expensive) school. While the provocateur deserved my unabridged outrage, I'm sorry to this day I lost my composure.
Ohiogal
(31,989 posts)Was appalled. He said she should be fired. I agree.
Mariana
(14,856 posts)It's illegal to threaten to kill someone. In most places, it's a felony.
mercuryblues
(14,531 posts)not speaking to or threatening to a person?
No, there is nothing the police can do when a woman and her child is walking down the street peacefully. She sounds more upset that she wasn't granted superior privilege over an African American.
Just by that she has shown that she is the one who can not be trusted in the classroom. I would love to see an audit of who she sends to the office for discipline.
quaint
(2,563 posts)I fucked your daughter mister but I'm sorry?
soothsayer
(38,601 posts)Or was that a different racist freak out?
tishaLA
(14,176 posts)has to drag her away
stillcool
(32,626 posts)in Arizona. Sorry about the NY Post link, but I didn't want to hunt.
https://nypost.com/2020/06/09/tamara-harrians-husband-blames-mental-illness-for-arizona-incident/
Crunchy Frog
(26,579 posts)tishaLA
(14,176 posts)Crunchy Frog
(26,579 posts)as she was.
phylny
(8,380 posts)Nope nope nope.
She was so anxious that she said she was going to kill someone, in front of a little girl. If I were anxious about protesters outside of my house, I think that the most rational thing for me to do would be to go to or stay in my house, lock the door, and stay quiet.
Olafjoy
(937 posts)You let everyone know who you really are And now you are terrified of losing your job. You are a teacher and you should lose your job and I hope you do!!!
Not forgiven.
Goodheart
(5,321 posts)How about "I'm sorry. What I did was totally unjustified. I promise to work on myself."
lunasun
(21,646 posts)dalton99a
(81,475 posts)Besides, lots of people have family members who have autism or COPD
DenverJared
(457 posts)The MAGA types have become totally unhinged.
I would not accept her apology and let her fry. There was no reason to have panic, anxiety and frustration from the protests. If she stayed at home, she wouldn't have been bothered.
Ilsa
(61,695 posts)If she's this stressed, then she needs a relief valve, or medication, counseling, etc. Not that I'm excusing her behavior or that she needs a stronger punishment, but counseling is a good start.
Ms. Toad
(34,069 posts)And the best way to protect the two at-risk people you care for from COVID 19 is run out and get in the face of people who potentially have COVID 19?