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onecaliberal

(32,854 posts)
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 09:20 AM Jun 2020

UPDATE: Had a good day, resting comfortably. My brother collapsed on Sunday.

Last edited Sat Jun 13, 2020, 10:19 PM - Edit history (3)

Long story short, he had a massive heart attack and is having open heart surgery this morning, if you can spare a good vibe, positive healing thought, or prayer it would be much appreciated.

He’s up walking every few hours. He ended up only needing quadruple bypass.

I can’t express how grateful I am for all of the prayer and thoughts and vibes. I don’t know what I would do without you all. 💕🙌

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UPDATE: Had a good day, resting comfortably. My brother collapsed on Sunday. (Original Post) onecaliberal Jun 2020 OP
Sending good vibes malaise Jun 2020 #1
Good thoughts good vibes MaryMagdaline Jun 2020 #2
Best of luck! dawg day Jun 2020 #3
None of us can be with him. He was on a vent until Tuesday. onecaliberal Jun 2020 #7
IT must be difficult not to be there for him. dawg day Jun 2020 #25
They told us to prepare for at least 4 hours. onecaliberal Jun 2020 #29
Best wishes on their way, Scarsdale Jun 2020 #58
Will Do IADEMO2004 Jun 2020 #4
Vibes sent soothsayer Jun 2020 #5
Positive thoughts and good vibes UpInArms Jun 2020 #6
Love to him and you and all who love him. redwitch Jun 2020 #8
❤️ onecaliberal Jun 2020 #32
Good luck to your brother. I have known many people who survived this well. n/t. NNadir Jun 2020 #9
Sending healing thoughts to your brother. CottonBear Jun 2020 #10
Sending strength democrank Jun 2020 #11
Prayers for healing on their way to your brother, pazzyanne Jun 2020 #12
DU is a wellspring of good vibes. You've come to the right place. marble falls Jun 2020 #13
... spanone Jun 2020 #14
Good vibes to your brother TristanIsolde Jun 2020 #15
Healing vibes headed his, and your way. lillypaddle Jun 2020 #16
We are praying for his recovery. Looking foward to hearing good news. oasis Jun 2020 #17
It's awesome that he survived the heart attack FakeNoose Jun 2020 #18
Thank you for inspiration. My brother is having quintuple bypass also. onecaliberal Jun 2020 #20
Prayers for him and for you & family FakeNoose Jun 2020 #31
He'll need lots of rehab and may fight depression..... KY_EnviroGuy Jun 2020 #33
Sending prayers for your brother. femmocrat Jun 2020 #19
Good luck seta1950 Jun 2020 #21
Sending all my good vibes. My uncle collapsed on octoberlib Jun 2020 #22
Sending healing vibes and prayers. bronxiteforever Jun 2020 #23
Positivity!!! PCIntern Jun 2020 #24
{{{{{vibes}}}}} for your brother! The Velveteen Ocelot Jun 2020 #26
Sending vibes!! bluestarone Jun 2020 #27
Sending good thoughts and healing wishes. benfranklin1776 Jun 2020 #28
Sending all kinds of Alliepoo Jun 2020 #30
Sending healing thoughts! CaptainTruth Jun 2020 #34
Sending healing vibes. sheshe2 Jun 2020 #35
Prayers & Positive Vibrations. H2O Man Jun 2020 #36
Best wishes to you and him BillyBobBrilliant Jun 2020 #37
Sending all positive healing powers, and love. a kennedy Jun 2020 #38
Sending you good vibes, positive healing thoughts, and prayers.... TruthAlwaysWins Jun 2020 #39
I will update the original thread as soon as I know anything. onecaliberal Jun 2020 #60
Send light and healing vibes Dream Girl Jun 2020 #40
Sending good and healing thoughts out to your brother. Fla Dem Jun 2020 #41
Sending Positive Energy ⚡️ Both His & Your Way! TheBlackAdder Jun 2020 #42
Sending prayers samplegirl Jun 2020 #43
Sending healing thoughts and hope for a great recovery sdfernando Jun 2020 #44
Healing vibes and energy headed his way. Hugs for you. Remember, your DU family is niyad Jun 2020 #45
Holding you and your family in my heart. Healing happens! n/t TygrBright Jun 2020 #46
Thoughts of healing hands xxqqqzme Jun 2020 #47
Sending prayers and healing thoughts. murielm99 Jun 2020 #48
Sending prayers and healing thoughts. Stuart G Jun 2020 #49
Sending thoughts and good juju for your bro! MojoWrkn Jun 2020 #50
Healing energy from my heart MontanaMama Jun 2020 #51
Good luck...my brother had sort of the same thing but it wasn't a heart attack...blood clots in the Demsrule86 Jun 2020 #52
Sending prayers. cayugafalls Jun 2020 #53
💕💕💕💕💕💕💕sending love and healing onecaliberal. MLAA Jun 2020 #54
Good vibes angstlessk Jun 2020 #55
I'll pray he should have a full and speedy recovery. EllieBC Jun 2020 #56
Sending good vibes in his and your direction. wendyb-NC Jun 2020 #57
Virtual healing vibes sent...... Heartstrings Jun 2020 #59
Wishing him, you and yours faith & strength appalachiablue Jun 2020 #61
Sending prayers and healing hugs to your brother. gademocrat7 Jun 2020 #62
Sending healing vibes and energy. Niagara Jun 2020 #63
More prayers coming your way!!! onecent Jun 2020 #64
Of course my best for your brother's full and quick recovery. Also, take care of yourselves too. SWBTATTReg Jun 2020 #65
May he heal fast and get all he needs. nolabear Jun 2020 #66
🙏 LiberalLoner Jun 2020 #67
Prayers up. ❤ nt littlemissmartypants Jun 2020 #68
Vibes and good thoughts on the way. sarge43 Jun 2020 #69
Sending all good vibes to you and your family, secondwind Jun 2020 #70
Sending thoughts, good vibes, and prayers your way mvd Jun 2020 #71
Sending mucho good vibes a su hermano y familia. Paz RestoreAmerica2020 Jun 2020 #72
Gosh, you all are so fortunate that you didn't lose him and he has a second chance...that was close! Karadeniz Jun 2020 #73
I hope he is ok sellitman Jun 2020 #74
That is wonderful news. Continued healing energies. And remember, we are here for you. niyad Jun 2020 #75
vibes of - KT2000 Jun 2020 #76
So glad to hear your brother is out of surgery & doing well diva77 Jun 2020 #77
... Solomon Jun 2020 #78
A Servant of the Secret Fire and Wielder of the Flame sends healing rays. Ligyron Jun 2020 #79
Of course, onecaliliberal Cha Jun 2020 #80
My thoughts are with your brother, you, and your family. Doreen Jun 2020 #81
we are here for you Skittles Jun 2020 #82
Thank you. I will. 💕 onecaliberal Jun 2020 #85
Sending positive thoughts and good vibes. (eom) StevieM Jun 2020 #83
Glad to hear it Marthe48 Jun 2020 #84
More healing prayers are on their way to you, your brother , and your family. pazzyanne Jun 2020 #86
They can do fabulous things with heart surgery. I hope all goes well... Frustratedlady Jun 2020 #87
When they tell him to start walking - make sure he does it.. I had a quad bypass when I was 53 LiberalArkie Jun 2020 #88
They make everyone get up about 4 hours after surgery. onecaliberal Jun 2020 #89
OH, I mean when he gets home and the doc tells him to start walking around the block.. LiberalArkie Jun 2020 #90
Oh yeah... he will do whatever he needs to do keep himself healthy. onecaliberal Jun 2020 #93
Best Wishes To Your Brother COL Mustard Jun 2020 #91
Vibes to you, brother & family SheltieLover Jun 2020 #92
Oh, that's wonderful to hear! secondwind Jun 2020 #94
(((((Good Vibes))))) SouthernCal_Dem Jun 2020 #95
Thanks for the update, so glad to hear he's doing well! Rhiannon12866 Jun 2020 #96
Definitely rooting for him !! DFW Jun 2020 #97
White Light and Healing Vibes... electric_blue68 Jun 2020 #98

dawg day

(7,947 posts)
3. Best of luck!
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 09:22 AM
Jun 2020

I'm glad that in the middle of this crisis, they are able to get him into surgery. Best wishes that he'll be on the road to recovery tomorrow!
It must be so difficult when the shutdown restrictions will probably make it hard for family to visit him.

onecaliberal

(32,854 posts)
7. None of us can be with him. He was on a vent until Tuesday.
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 09:26 AM
Jun 2020

The blockage is significant, but he’s only 55 and strong. Thank you for sparing a thought for him.

dawg day

(7,947 posts)
25. IT must be difficult not to be there for him.
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 10:00 AM
Jun 2020

I hope very soon the nurses will be setting up Facetime for him so that you can see he's out of surgery and awake!

onecaliberal

(32,854 posts)
29. They told us to prepare for at least 4 hours.
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 10:08 AM
Jun 2020

Surgery starting very soon. We all talked to him last night.

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
58. Best wishes on their way,
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 11:46 AM
Jun 2020

both to him, you and the rest of the family. He is in good hands, and only being 55, he has a great shot at recovery.

redwitch

(14,944 posts)
8. Love to him and you and all who love him.
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 09:27 AM
Jun 2020

May the surgeon’s hands be sure and strong and return him to health.

CottonBear

(21,596 posts)
10. Sending healing thoughts to your brother.
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 09:28 AM
Jun 2020

I know this is a scary time for him and for your family.
Please keep us updated.

pazzyanne

(6,552 posts)
12. Prayers for healing on their way to your brother,
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 09:31 AM
Jun 2020

and prayers for you and your family will continue. Take care of yourself and do good things to keep you in a positive frame of mine. You have many people who support you here at DU.

FakeNoose

(32,639 posts)
18. It's awesome that he survived the heart attack
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 09:51 AM
Jun 2020

The fact that he survived and he's strong enough to get the surgery is a good sign.

My friend Mark had quintuple bypass surgery 10 years ago, and he's healthier now than ever before, and doing great. Mark had a complete change of lifestyle after his surgery, and so will your brother. He'll need a regular schedule of pills and medications, checking his blood pressure, better diet etc. Hopefully your brother will listen to his loved ones AND his doctors, and he can expect to enjoy life for many years more!

onecaliberal

(32,854 posts)
20. Thank you for inspiration. My brother is having quintuple bypass also.
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 09:54 AM
Jun 2020

He has a good attitude and has committed to changing his lifestyle. This gives me so much hope. Thank you!

FakeNoose

(32,639 posts)
31. Prayers for him and for you & family
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 10:08 AM
Jun 2020

Good luck dear! Let us know how your brother does.

One more thing I forgot to mention about my friend Mark. He was 59 when he got the bypass surgery. His own father had died of a massive heart attack at age 60. Now Mark is happy and healthy at 69, following all the doctors' rules. Your brother can hope for the same.


KY_EnviroGuy

(14,490 posts)
33. He'll need lots of rehab and may fight depression.....
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 10:11 AM
Jun 2020

so he will need lots of support and encouragement. I know you're up to the task! Us men are prone to hide our weaknesses.

I've had some friends go through it and for some, the depression prevented them from following up with rehab and then regular exercise. It is a continuing battle for many.

Best wishes and love to you and bro' from the Bluegrass State........

octoberlib

(14,971 posts)
22. Sending all my good vibes. My uncle collapsed on
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 09:58 AM
Jun 2020

a golf course years ago from a massive heart attack . He’s 83 and doing just fine.

TruthAlwaysWins

(32 posts)
39. Sending you good vibes, positive healing thoughts, and prayers....
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 10:28 AM
Jun 2020

for YOU as well as for your brother. Keep us updated, onecaliberal.

Fla Dem

(23,666 posts)
41. Sending good and healing thoughts out to your brother.
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 10:31 AM
Jun 2020

I hope all goes well with your brother's surgery and he will be on the road to full recovery very soon.

sdfernando

(4,935 posts)
44. Sending healing thoughts and hope for a great recovery
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 10:42 AM
Jun 2020

Must be a pretty significant blockage to warrant open heart surgery. Stents are way less intrusive and the results are amazing but also have a downside.

MontanaMama

(23,314 posts)
51. Healing energy from my heart
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 11:03 AM
Jun 2020

to you and your dear brother. I wish him a full recovery and a long healthy life.

Demsrule86

(68,565 posts)
52. Good luck...my brother had sort of the same thing but it wasn't a heart attack...blood clots in the
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 11:07 AM
Jun 2020

lung from Covid. I am so sorry good vibes prayers...

EllieBC

(3,014 posts)
56. I'll pray he should have a full and speedy recovery.
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 11:44 AM
Jun 2020

And that his surgery be successful and without complications.

appalachiablue

(41,131 posts)
61. Wishing him, you and yours faith & strength
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 12:00 PM
Jun 2020

during this traumatic time. As noted, your brother's young, being cared for now & has you & family .

Many people (not only Bill C. & Cheney) have survived and recovered extremely well.

~ All the best ~

SWBTATTReg

(22,118 posts)
65. Of course my best for your brother's full and quick recovery. Also, take care of yourselves too.
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 12:22 PM
Jun 2020

Get plenty of rest and sleep, get properly, etc. Sometimes the stress of the moment gets everyone thinking about other things, and thus, not about eating right, getting plenty of rest, etc.

secondwind

(16,903 posts)
70. Sending all good vibes to you and your family,
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 03:02 PM
Jun 2020

hoping your brother pulls through, this happens every day!!

Karadeniz

(22,513 posts)
73. Gosh, you all are so fortunate that you didn't lose him and he has a second chance...that was close!
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 03:22 PM
Jun 2020

Sending good thoughts to him. All the best!❤nn

Ligyron

(7,632 posts)
79. A Servant of the Secret Fire and Wielder of the Flame sends healing rays.
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 04:15 PM
Jun 2020

The Dark Fire shall not prevail you, sending it back to the shadows...

LiberalArkie

(15,715 posts)
88. When they tell him to start walking - make sure he does it.. I had a quad bypass when I was 53
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 08:11 PM
Jun 2020

I am 72 now and walking and exercise was the secret for me..

onecaliberal

(32,854 posts)
89. They make everyone get up about 4 hours after surgery.
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 09:09 PM
Jun 2020

When the doctor talked with us, they said he would be up walking later.

onecaliberal

(32,854 posts)
93. Oh yeah... he will do whatever he needs to do keep himself healthy.
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 09:52 PM
Jun 2020

He knows how lucky he is to be alive. He has a lot to look forward to.

Rhiannon12866

(205,320 posts)
96. Thanks for the update, so glad to hear he's doing well!
Sat Jun 13, 2020, 02:06 AM
Jun 2020

Heart surgery has come so far in the past few years. My uncle was scheduled for a quadruple bypass a few years back and when I went to see him the previous day, I was not optimistic. Given his age and he looked so frail, I left there feeling scared - but he not only did just fine, he recovered ahead of schedule! So I have every hope for your brother, especially with powerful DU vibes to support him - please let us know how you're both doing.

DFW

(54,372 posts)
97. Definitely rooting for him !!
Sat Jun 13, 2020, 02:13 AM
Jun 2020

Some day, that'll be me. If cancer doesn't get me first.

I ALWAYS like to hear it when people survive these episodes!

electric_blue68

(14,891 posts)
98. White Light and Healing Vibes...
Sat Jun 13, 2020, 02:54 AM
Jun 2020

... on their way to your brother. ********

And remember to find a quite spot yourself and do some slow deep belly breathing to strengthen yourself.

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