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MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 04:46 PM Jun 2020

Facebook, Schmacebook...

Facebook is whatever you make it. You can block stuff from your feed if you wish. You can limit your feed from being viewed by anyone but people you have friended. You don't have to read right-wing crap there.

I'm a member of several Facebook special interest groups. All of them ban anyone who posts about politics, since politics is not the subject of that group. I am also on a group of students at my old high school, but I automatically hide anyone who brings politics into that group.

Some of my groups are nostalgic groups of people who share parts of my life history. They all ban political postings. Others are groups about hobbies or avocations. Those, too, bar political postings. One of the groups is about at topic about which I have considerable expertise. On that group, I'm a giver of expert advice, which has helped many people solve problems they have with the topic of the group.

I visit Facebook once a day every morning and that's it. I spend maybe half an hour on it, commenting to friends or adding something to the feed of some group or another.

You know what I never do on Facebook? Write about politics. That's what DU is for. Facebook is for other things.

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Facebook, Schmacebook... (Original Post) MineralMan Jun 2020 OP
That's good for you. But it's my feeling that the overall effect of Facebook is negative and that's abqtommy Jun 2020 #1
I feel that most of this society is negative overall. MineralMan Jun 2020 #3
My problems are with Zuckerberg and overall problems with the company including their bias JonLP24 Jun 2020 #5
I've never seen Zuckerberg on Facebook. MineralMan Jun 2020 #12
Just because you have no problems JonLP24 Jun 2020 #15
Oh, dear... MineralMan Jun 2020 #19
Yeah it's too bad EllieBC Jun 2020 #7
Facebook was a life saver for me from March 2019 ChazII Jun 2020 #2
Yes. Facebook is full of groups where people are focused on MineralMan Jun 2020 #6
I call it FaceBorg Best_man23 Jun 2020 #4
OK. You don't use Facebook. MineralMan Jun 2020 #8
People (selfishly) justify their use of it, but it don't work. Dream Girl Jun 2020 #9
That's a great choice for you! EllieBC Jun 2020 #11
I wouldn't give you the sticker. You are well aware of wha is and what it does but you choose to use Dream Girl Jun 2020 #16
That I'm not a self righteous jerk! EllieBC Jun 2020 #20
Then you probably shouldn't use Facebook. MineralMan Jun 2020 #13
Did I tell you not to use it? I said that that people use it while be well aware of its use a tool Dream Girl Jun 2020 #21
There are so many groups on FB. EllieBC Jun 2020 #10
Your very presence there puts money in Zuckerberg's pocket. The Squinch Jun 2020 #14
No, actually it doesn't. MineralMan Jun 2020 #17
Your presence there increases the number of users. It is the number of Squinch Jun 2020 #18
I hear that a lot Skittles Jun 2020 #26
That's what you think Dream Girl Jun 2020 #27
yup Skittles Jun 2020 #29
I know. Meanwhile they are dismantling our Democracy. Squinch Jun 2020 #30
VERY MUCH SO Skittles Jun 2020 #31
There is no such thing a free on social media. They make money by your very presence there Dream Girl Jun 2020 #24
I don't need any new stalkers in my life. Buckeye_Democrat Jun 2020 #22
There have been some fairly serious privacy issues with FB over the years BannonsLiver Jun 2020 #28
You are supporting the rotter by your having an account. Simply being a user aids Fuckerburg. Celerity Jun 2020 #23
Facebook is a rightwing piece of shit hack site Skittles Jun 2020 #25

abqtommy

(14,118 posts)
1. That's good for you. But it's my feeling that the overall effect of Facebook is negative and that's
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 04:52 PM
Jun 2020

why I quit it years ago...to each their own.

MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
3. I feel that most of this society is negative overall.
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 04:56 PM
Jun 2020

That does not stop me from participating in it and trying to improve it.

If you're not trying, you're not actually helping, it seems to me. Instead, you're leaving things to those with whom you disagree. That doesn't seem like a great way to work for change, somehow.

I don't write about politics on Facebook. In fact, I argue against political posts on that venue. Many, many people agree with that position, so I'm not alone in trying to get people to leave politics off Facebook.

You quit it. I did not. I'm trying to change it. You are not.

You do you, but please don't try to tell others to do you. That trick never works.

JonLP24

(29,322 posts)
5. My problems are with Zuckerberg and overall problems with the company including their bias
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 05:00 PM
Jun 2020

In favor of conservatives. They are willing to bend TOS to give them a platform. We can't force Facebook to change but maybe Congress can.

Their own employees staged a virtual walkout over their Trump policies.

MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
12. I've never seen Zuckerberg on Facebook.
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 05:06 PM
Jun 2020

I don't know him. He's not one of my Facebook friends. So, I don't pay any attention to him. instead, I use the venue for my own purposes and use the tools provided to control my Facebook experience. Truly, I see no right-wing stuff there at all.

JonLP24

(29,322 posts)
15. Just because you have no problems
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 05:10 PM
Jun 2020

Doesn't mean Facebook doesn't have any problems or that Zuckerberg panders to Trump to avoid regulation. Cambridge Analytica swung the election for Trump using Facebook. Cambridge Analytica also swung Brexit as well using social media.

MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
19. Oh, dear...
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 05:15 PM
Jun 2020

Facebook is a site on the Internet that I use for my own purposes. I understand the site very well, just as I understand DU very well.

Cambridge Analytica has none of my data, because I don't engage with anything on Facebook except my own feed and a few small groups on the site.

Facebook did not influence my vote in any way.

If you don't use Facebook, you don't know how to use Facebook as a tool. I use it as a tool. It does not use me in any way at all.

EllieBC

(3,014 posts)
7. Yeah it's too bad
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 05:03 PM
Jun 2020

that you aren’t in charge of all content anyone sees or reads.

Look if I went by DU for everything I would have never left the house the last 3 months. However I listened to my provincial health minister who said go out and home, walk, run, bike. On FB.

ChazII

(6,204 posts)
2. Facebook was a life saver for me from March 2019
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 04:55 PM
Jun 2020

to March of this year. My son was diagnosed with a stage IV glioblastoma brain tumor. The type of tumor that took the lives of senators Kennedy and McCain and VP Biden's son. I joined two support groups for families and no politics were allowed. I also was a member of the Optune device which helped shrink the tumor.

I agree with you. Facebook is whatever we make it.

MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
6. Yes. Facebook is full of groups where people are focused on
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 05:01 PM
Jun 2020

something. On most of those groups, political posts are unwelcome and people are not shy about saying so.

The groups you joined were helpful to you because they were made up of people who understood your situation. There are thousands of groups like that on Facebook.

The venue offers opportunities for just about everything. It's up to everyone to use Facebook as they choose to use it.

Thank you for your reply.

I'm in a group about crystal radio receivers. Most of its members are just beginning to play with such things, but I'm an old hand at it, because I'm an old fart. I can answer questions. I can offer advice. I know where to get stuff they can use as they experiment. It's not necessarily crucial information, but I participate because I know stuff about historical radio equipment.

Best_man23

(4,898 posts)
4. I call it FaceBorg
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 04:58 PM
Jun 2020

I don't have an account, and don't go on there with my computer. I don't click any links to FaceBorg.

Mrs Best, however, is on FB and because she e-mails me from her system, I get ad popups on my non-FB system for stuff she searches for ON FB.

MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
8. OK. You don't use Facebook.
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 05:04 PM
Jun 2020

So, you don't know how to use Facebook to control your experience.

I'm not in any way suggesting that you join Facebook. Why would I bother to do that. Still, others here are telling me I should not use it. Do you not see the contradiction there. I don't take directions from people who do not know what they are talking about. I just don't.

 

Dream Girl

(5,111 posts)
9. People (selfishly) justify their use of it, but it don't work.
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 05:04 PM
Jun 2020

, you can rationalize all you want. It is a poisonous, toxic tool it is being used against America. I stopped using it years ago. I will never support it. I don’t care how “convenient” and “useful” others find it.

EllieBC

(3,014 posts)
11. That's a great choice for you!
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 05:05 PM
Jun 2020

And I’ll continue to use it. So we both get a self righteous sticker?

 

Dream Girl

(5,111 posts)
16. I wouldn't give you the sticker. You are well aware of wha is and what it does but you choose to use
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 05:11 PM
Jun 2020

It anyway. What does that say about you?

MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
13. Then you probably shouldn't use Facebook.
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 05:08 PM
Jun 2020

But, you probably should not tell others how to use the Internet, either.

You don't use it. I don't care. Instead, you are telling me what to do here on DU. Why? Nobody is suggesting that you sign up on Facebook, are they? So, why are you telling me to sign off?

You don't see the contradiction, do you?

 

Dream Girl

(5,111 posts)
21. Did I tell you not to use it? I said that that people use it while be well aware of its use a tool
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 05:20 PM
Jun 2020

Against against American democracy. You choose it use it with full knowledge of how dangerous it is. What does that say about you?

EllieBC

(3,014 posts)
10. There are so many groups on FB.
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 05:04 PM
Jun 2020

Some clearly political. And some ban any political chatter. Which is nice because if I want a good recipe I don’t want your political views. If I want your political views I don’t want pics of your dog.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
14. Your very presence there puts money in Zuckerberg's pocket. The
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 05:08 PM
Jun 2020

numbers of users are what gives Facebook its value and gives Zuckerberg his power. You are adding to that. And that power abuses the data of American citizens for the benefit of companies like Cambridge Analytica and the likes of Donald Trump.

But sure. Other than that, it's fine.

MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
17. No, actually it doesn't.
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 05:12 PM
Jun 2020

I give no money to Facebook. I click no ads on Facebook. Heck, I don't even see ads very often, since I am always hiding them. They've mostly stopped showing up, oddly enough.

I put no money whatsoever in Zuckerberg's pocket. I'm freeloading on his platform.

Facebook doesn't know I exist, really, because I never click on anything there, use any Facebook apps, or do anything but post there on my own feed and in the carefully selected groups I choose to join.

I don't even visit the DU page on Facebook. Why would I? I use DU on DU.

Bye, now...

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
18. Your presence there increases the number of users. It is the number of
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 05:14 PM
Jun 2020

users that gives Facebook it's value. It doesn't matter if you click ads or give money. You are one of the mass of people who give Facebook its numbers and influence.

If Facebook had no members, it would have no power. You are part of its power. Whether you give money or not. And whether you believe it or not. And whether you like it or not.

Bye, now...

Skittles

(153,160 posts)
29. yup
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 07:17 PM
Jun 2020

if you're gonna use that piece of shit site just fucking OWN IT already, enough with these pathetic, insulting excuses

 

Dream Girl

(5,111 posts)
24. There is no such thing a free on social media. They make money by your very presence there
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 05:29 PM
Jun 2020

They are not a nonprofit. As they say,“If your not paying, you’re the product.” I live and work in Silicon Valley...I know many people who have worked at FB and won’t go near I it. It is a very cushy place to work, yet people are kind of ashamed to work there at the folks i know in the Bay Area tech community.

Celerity

(43,339 posts)
23. You are supporting the rotter by your having an account. Simply being a user aids Fuckerburg.
Fri Jun 12, 2020, 05:22 PM
Jun 2020

SMDH at all the rationilisation hoops that people try and jump through all in order to justify their own usage of an incredibly dangerous and corrosive service that is helping destroy the union.

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