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Heartstrings

(7,349 posts)
Mon Jun 15, 2020, 11:50 AM Jun 2020

*Warning.....this is a rant*

My daughter could have written this, instead one of her friends beat her to it!

“I have been a restaurant server, bartender, and manager for fifteen years. None of these jobs is, or has ever been, essential.

Now, after months of an industry shutdown because dine-in full service restaurants were deemed too risky during a pandemic, we’re told that it’s okay to start up again. This is madness. Now. When cases in Alameda County, the state of California, and the entire country, not to mention the world, are rising.

I’ve gone from feeling nauseated to incredulous to disgusted to defeated and back through the cycle again every time I think about this. Because the truth of the matter is, there is no way to do this safely. None. And we are going to be forced into it anyway.

Masks are impractical when everyone is eating and drinking. And as we all know by now, wearing a mask is to protect those around you, not yourself. So if every guest is maskless, it doesn’t matter what I do—I won’t be protected.

Six feet of distance from guests is impossible if I’m dropping off drinks and dishes. I suppose taking orders could be done at a distance, if you don’t mind everyone constantly yelling. But in reality, there’s no way I will be able to stay six feet from every guest at all times.

The amount of extra time and work that will now be involved in serving guests is significant. Nothing can be reused—menus, salt & pepper shakers, tablecloths, silverware caddies, condiment bottles, check presenters—the list is endless. The heightened level of sanitization of every surface touched by any guest is another layer to consider. And what about bathrooms? In both restaurants I most recently worked at, each had two single occupancy bathrooms. How is it safe for not only employees, but every single guest who dines in, to use these very limited spaces with extremely limited airflow? It’s not practical or financially feasible to have an employee dedicated to sanitizing bathrooms after every use. There is no realistic way for them to be safe for anyone to use, but most especially staff, who will more than likely have to use them multiple times in a shift.

Have you ever been in a restaurant kitchen? Or behind a bar? Ninety-nine percent of the time they are extremely cramped spaces. Distancing is impossible. And you can’t run either with just one person. It takes a lot of people to run a restaurant with table service. Reservationist, host, server, busser, runner, bartender, barback, expo, line cook, dishwasher, manager. You’re asking every single one of those people to come into contact with each other and countless guests, exponentially increasing the chance that one person with the virus will spread it through multiple vectors, each one of them risking taking this virus home to their households, infecting their families.

Sure, guests can relax at their six-feet-apart tables outside with plenty of fresh air and feel comfortable and relatively confident that their risk is low. But for us, for the staff that’s stuck together in cramped spaces, coming into contact with dozens or even hundreds of people in a single shift over the course of god knows how many hours, maskless people sipping and chewing and laughing and talking, we’re the ones who are going to have to risk our health and our lives. The level of stress this puts on us as restaurant workers whose jobs were already pretty damn stressful, well, it makes zero sense to me. And for tipped employees who rely on volume, working in a restaurant operating at half or lower capacity makes zero financial sense as well.

So why should we be expected to put our lives, our health, our futures, our safety at risk, to make significantly less money than we used to make, while enduring more stress, just so that people can delude themselves into pretending that the world is going back to normal with a plate of french fries and a margarita? If I’m making half of what I made before, I will have to scramble more shifts together to make ends meet, thus increasing my risk of exposure to the virus. Does this sound like a good deal to anyone?

I am not expendable. My colleagues are not expendable. Dining in a restaurant is not an essential experience. It is a luxury. And it’s a luxury that no one should be indulging in right now when the harm it will cause to workers is so great. Show me data that says we’re safer now than we were before the shutdown. You can’t, because there isn’t any. The risk to our lives is the same. The only thing that’s changed is that now people don’t care.“

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*Warning.....this is a rant* (Original Post) Heartstrings Jun 2020 OP
I just had a t-shirt made up that says, I am not expendable. shockey80 Jun 2020 #1
Lots of people looking for work. cwydro Jun 2020 #8
Stay the fuck home. nt live love laugh Jun 2020 #2
Get some x95 masks - they will help protect you. jmg257 Jun 2020 #3
Bad advice while they are in short supply in hospitals Warpy Jun 2020 #12
True. Luckily I had some for a while. jmg257 Jun 2020 #19
In WI, there's a limited window Heartstrings Jun 2020 #22
This would be a good time to stop relying on tips Mosby Jun 2020 #4
With restaurants running at half capacity? Good luck with that. we can do it Jun 2020 #9
Thanks for sharing the owners viewpoint. Mosby Jun 2020 #16
The owners are people as well. And it isn't about profit right now. whopis01 Jun 2020 #25
The restaurants are losing huge amounts of money too lunatica Jun 2020 #15
It's because the rich want money I_UndergroundPanther Jun 2020 #5
The whole point of this open-er-up craze was to socialize the losses and deprive the workforce of... Hugin Jun 2020 #6
Is it safe? keithbvadu2 Jun 2020 #7
Or mgardener Jun 2020 #10
Dotard makes sure he gets a waiver. keithbvadu2 Jun 2020 #11
We may not have a chance in hell Traildogbob Jun 2020 #13
Slow. Clap. Brilliantly stated! OMGWTF Jun 2020 #14
Divisions! Traildogbob Jun 2020 #17
I was a waitress for years and your daughter is right on! lunatica Jun 2020 #18
I don't see the point of the letter... brooklynite Jun 2020 #20
It's a rant.... Heartstrings Jun 2020 #21
Some states have now been reopened for up to six weeks forthemiddle Jun 2020 #23
I agree with every single point made ibegurpard Jun 2020 #24
 

shockey80

(4,379 posts)
1. I just had a t-shirt made up that says, I am not expendable.
Mon Jun 15, 2020, 11:55 AM
Jun 2020

For the same reason. It was impossible to protect myself at my job. I'm not going back until the pandemic ends.

Warpy

(111,256 posts)
12. Bad advice while they are in short supply in hospitals
Mon Jun 15, 2020, 01:59 PM
Jun 2020

and other care settings where people have to be exposed to people who are known to be contagious.

Manufacturers are struggling to keep up with hospital demand as they operate 24/7.

Either restaurants have to be redesigned to accommodate outdoor dining, which reduces viral load, or they will have to be takeout, only.

I know mask making infrastructure is being increased. Once there is enough surplus to make them available to workers, restaurant and bar staff should be at the head of the line.

Heartstrings

(7,349 posts)
22. In WI, there's a limited window
Mon Jun 15, 2020, 07:11 PM
Jun 2020

for outdoor venues....also available space can be problematic if the restaurant is in an urban setting.

Mosby

(16,310 posts)
16. Thanks for sharing the owners viewpoint.
Mon Jun 15, 2020, 02:44 PM
Jun 2020

Maybe the owners shouldn't be worrying about profits right now, while we are in the midst of a pandemic.

whopis01

(3,513 posts)
25. The owners are people as well. And it isn't about profit right now.
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 06:25 AM
Jun 2020

A friend of mine owns a restaurant. For the past couple months she has had little to no income. Meanwhile she still has to pay the rent, the loans used to finance the equipment, and other fixed costs that haven’t gone away.

She was in tears the other day because she doesn’t know how she is going to keep paying her employees. Meanwhile she has maxed out all her personal credit trying to keep things afloat.

She is not worried about profit. Break even with no profit and no personal income would be a better position than what she is in right now.

And the paycheck protection program loan system is a joke. No response for well over a month. Those funds were exhausted within a couple weeks and most small businesses received none of it.

The dismissive attitude that people like her are only thinking about profits is disgusting.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
15. The restaurants are losing huge amounts of money too
Mon Jun 15, 2020, 02:40 PM
Jun 2020

The pickup chains are run by corporations but individual restaurants struggle.

I_UndergroundPanther

(12,470 posts)
5. It's because the rich want money
Mon Jun 15, 2020, 12:33 PM
Jun 2020

I agree this is bullshit.

There has got to be another way than godamn capitalism,to exchange things.

The Rich piggies want people to work to death.

Hugin

(33,140 posts)
6. The whole point of this open-er-up craze was to socialize the losses and deprive the workforce of...
Mon Jun 15, 2020, 12:54 PM
Jun 2020

the unemployment benefits they had rightfully earned.

There was no rationality or science involved. It was purely to reduce the unemployment claims to make the Tangeranus look good for re-election.

It goes like this... Open up long enough to get the workforce to quit when they realize 1) They have no protections at work from becoming ill with the disease. 2) At a 25% to 50% customer base in an industry where income is mostly gratuity based, due to the ridiculously low minimum wages paid. (Wages which haven't been increased to cover the new cleaning duties the employees haven't been properly trained to accomplish.) The number of customers is not sufficient to support a full staff.

The whole thing is a CF.

I feel so sorry for those in this position and I earnestly hope the next administration and legislature make creating a revised social safety-net their highest priority.

Traildogbob

(8,739 posts)
13. We may not have a chance in hell
Mon Jun 15, 2020, 02:17 PM
Jun 2020

Listening to Thom Hartmann today on Sirius XM 127 and a female caller from Tulsa called him screaming about “our poor abused but amazing president”. It was sickening, virus is a hoax, all lib lies, nobody is dying, ain’t gonna wear masks, ain’t gonna shut down, everything is lies against their savior,,,,,bible, Jesus, Evil Obama sold our country, Thom is stupid, hater of Amurkkka, blah blah blah blah, Fox, Fox, Fox, Fox spewing points, shouting, ignorant and representative of trumpism. Thom was magnificently calm, I am hoarse from screaming. These cultist are beyond stupid and brain dead. Stay the hell away from Tulsa and similar places. Our only hope is they mouth breath themselves in to their graves, and take out as few of us as possible. The 800,000 at a Tulsa KKKlan rally, in a 19,000 capacity facility, no masks allowed, is a good start.This is the world Fox, Rusty Limpballs, GOP and billionaires have created and are loving it. We may need 100 million dead before they even consider the facts. What a sick society the so called greatest country in the world Greed and Power has turned us into. Disgusting sub-species created by Bible+greed+illiteracy. Bravo Reagan billionaires you won, what now. Maybe stay away from your contagious fan club, you are not immune.

OMGWTF

(3,955 posts)
14. Slow. Clap. Brilliantly stated!
Mon Jun 15, 2020, 02:36 PM
Jun 2020

I heard that woman and had to turn it off. Thanks for listening so I didn't have to.

My "BFF" of 36 years is a staunch R and a MAGAt. We made it through the St. Raygun, GHWB, and GWB years without discussing politics but This Fking Guy is another creature who is murdering America. "BFF" is ghosting me now and scolding people on FB who object to anything Shitler does. I sent her a picture of my new grandson and -- crickets. MAGAts, at this point, are in a death cult and are irredeemable.

Everything Trump touches dies.

Traildogbob

(8,739 posts)
17. Divisions!
Mon Jun 15, 2020, 02:46 PM
Jun 2020

I had a Lowe’s guy come by to estimate porch windows. We quickly noticed each of us hate trump just from general conversation. Plus, I look and produce an air of liberalism. Serious tree hugger. Any way he made a profound statement explaining the depth of hate and division we now have. He said he remembered history stating the civil war created a hate and division of even brother against brother. Before trump he said he could not fathom that happening. Now it is becoming a common scenario. He and his sister no longer speak. Thank you Fox and Greedy God recruiters, you have brought that AmeriKKKa back.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
18. I was a waitress for years and your daughter is right on!
Mon Jun 15, 2020, 02:55 PM
Jun 2020

It won’t be safe for years. Maybe some smart young people can come up with a virus cleaner that is radiated or sprayed on every single person who walks into the restaurant whether they are customers or employees. Something like they do in the dangerous labs when they enter and exit.

It can be done, of course, but supposedly the day will come when the virus is no longer deadly and things like social gatherings aren’t death dispensers.

brooklynite

(94,547 posts)
20. I don't see the point of the letter...
Mon Jun 15, 2020, 05:15 PM
Jun 2020

I understand the risks, but not the economic argument. Unless the author is in an incredibly rare position, he/she wasn't getting paid during the shutdown, and will be in exactly the same situation if he/she refuses to be "forced" to go back to work. Is the theory here that the Government should indefinitely pay the equivalent salary for any job that requires public engagement and keep those industries closed?

Heartstrings

(7,349 posts)
21. It's a rant....
Mon Jun 15, 2020, 06:58 PM
Jun 2020

This rant points out the obvious health hazards those in the food service industry are trying to manage. Does it solve the issue? No, it is a venting mechanism. There is no easy solution and staff are all stressed. So, in the meantime, if you go out....be nice to staff and tip generously! Better yet, stay home and order out.

(My daughter was fortunate to be able to get UC from IL and is surviving on that for now. Most of her friends in Chicago and NYC are still waiting on UC. If this pandemic has taught her anything it’s that it’s time for a career change.)

forthemiddle

(1,379 posts)
23. Some states have now been reopened for up to six weeks
Mon Jun 15, 2020, 07:46 PM
Jun 2020

Has there been any statistics as to how many servers, or other restaurant workers have been infected at work during that time?

Indiana restaurants have been open at 50% for 4 weeks, but I haven’t heard any widespread incidents (that certainly doesn’t mean there hasn’t been any).

That would be very interesting information, I wonder if they trace that.

ibegurpard

(16,685 posts)
24. I agree with every single point made
Mon Jun 15, 2020, 07:55 PM
Jun 2020

But I'm not sure what the solution is. I don't see any way that we can safely return to these kinds of jobs for the forseeable future. Perhaps rescind the 1.75 trillion dollar tax cut of 2017 and use the revenue to supplement people who were employed in these types of jobs until the pandemic is past?

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