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Alameda Karen (Original Post) shanti Jun 2020 OP
That's how I handle those assholes. 2naSalit Jun 2020 #1
How is berating somebody for "acting like you're 87 years old" awesome? stopbush Jun 2020 #2
Exactly FreeState Jun 2020 #4
You should see the thread about the female cop who had a breakdown BannonsLiver Jun 2020 #21
One thing I've learned about DU... Drunken Irishman Jun 2020 #32
I agree with that FreeState Jun 2020 #38
I think I can't comment on their anger. Drunken Irishman Jun 2020 #43
He told her her age doesn't matter after she said she's 87. Bluepinky Jun 2020 #6
Agree. She opened the door. Baitball Blogger Jun 2020 #22
She volunteered her age, he told her to act her age. WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2020 #10
THIS IS YOUR TAKEAWAY? PTWB Jun 2020 #36
Good for him! Bluepinky Jun 2020 #3
He missed bug eyed sunglasses. irisblue Jun 2020 #5
Great job. dalton99a Jun 2020 #7
What are we supposed to take away from this? nsd Jun 2020 #8
Really? shanti Jun 2020 #12
Yes, really. nsd Jun 2020 #17
+1 -- Yeah, stick the label "Karen" on it. Then we're good. stopdiggin Jun 2020 #14
She told him to "go back to Oakland"... dixiechiken1 Jun 2020 #30
Did you watch the video? PTWB Jun 2020 #37
Could you provide a brief summary for us deafies? nt tblue37 Jun 2020 #9
She told him to go back to Oakland shanti Jun 2020 #11
A fed-up man's voice is speaking forcefully to the woman in the video. WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2020 #13
Thank you! nt tblue37 Jun 2020 #15
It wa AWESOME! MontanaMama Jun 2020 #25
This message was self-deleted by its author Drunken Irishman Jun 2020 #31
SHE IS HORRIBLE. He is an okay guy!! trueblue2007 Jun 2020 #16
this is awesome ?? stopdiggin Jun 2020 #18
She told him to go back to Oakland because there are more white people in Alameda. Doremus Jun 2020 #19
Thank you! shanti Jun 2020 #34
She's 80? ProfessorGAC Jun 2020 #20
California again? Tipperary Jun 2020 #23
Bits of California are almost Florida. GoneOffShore Jun 2020 #26
WORSE !!! Central Valley still has a lot of Hispanic people who vote Republican after 187 uponit7771 Jun 2020 #46
I live in CA22 traitor Nuns district. This is something one of my neighbors would say. onecaliberal Jun 2020 #39
LOL, that was so funny. :) nt Sloumeau Jun 2020 #24
Bravo seta1950 Jun 2020 #27
To those here having a problem with how he responded to her NoMoreRepugs Jun 2020 #28
To the ones bitching about ageism please give us a break. The woman told him to "Go back to Maraya1969 Jun 2020 #29
"He fucked her up..." dixiechiken1 Jun 2020 #33
+1 uponit7771 Jun 2020 #45
You tell 'em! Codeine Jun 2020 #49
Good for him! FuzzyRabbit Jun 2020 #35
The man is fed up. As he should be n/t tom_kelly Jun 2020 #40
(APPLAUSE)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! n/t Schmice3 Jun 2020 #41
Whatever the cost Roc2020 Jun 2020 #42
LOFL !!! "...You need to control yo azz cuz it stank..." uponit7771 Jun 2020 #44
Phhht... here's another one that thinks she owns the world. Talitha Jun 2020 #47
She should just keep her racist opinion to herself. roamer65 Jun 2020 #48
 

Drunken Irishman

(34,857 posts)
32. One thing I've learned about DU...
Wed Jun 17, 2020, 04:49 PM
Jun 2020

Is that there is a lot of white folks isolated from this reality, so, their first instinct is to suggest they ignore the blatant racism they are constantly forced to experience.

It's easy to say, "don't respond to hate with hate" when you don't have to face that hate every single day.

You're just seeing people fed up with stuff that they were forced to accept FOR DECADES. It's without fail, whenever there is a video of some racist person being told off, that a DUer will comment about how their response was equally bad.

It's another aspect of white privilege.

Sitting there and judging someone for finally blowing up to the racism they experience every day - and doing it from a life experience so removed from theirs that they can't seem to comprehend the anger of it. And why? Because as a white person, they're not experiencing it. Ever.

FreeState

(10,570 posts)
38. I agree with that
Wed Jun 17, 2020, 05:05 PM
Jun 2020

However your asset of me is incorrect.

Regardless I don’t believe we should encourage people blowing up at people. The most movement I have seen when dealing with bigots is by approaching them with stern truth and kindness (and yes I’ve personally tried both methods many times). We all have different approaches though.

 

Drunken Irishman

(34,857 posts)
43. I think I can't comment on their anger.
Wed Jun 17, 2020, 05:15 PM
Jun 2020

I don't know where it comes from. Bit I suspect this isn't the first time this guy has been told to go back to Oakland.

Bluepinky

(2,265 posts)
6. He told her her age doesn't matter after she said she's 87.
Wed Jun 17, 2020, 02:26 PM
Jun 2020

The elderly should be called out on racism too.

She was wrong for telling him to go back to Oakland. No matter what her age is, she should feel ashamed.

Baitball Blogger

(46,684 posts)
22. Agree. She opened the door.
Wed Jun 17, 2020, 03:25 PM
Jun 2020

So tired of people offering irrelevant reasons to expect a pass for their bad behavior.

Why would it be okay for someone to think that being over 80 is a reason to make racists comments? What it tells the rest of us, is that your time and your era is over. Don't ask for us to adhere to social norms of a day gone by, during a time where people are no longer going to accept the inequities that those behaviors have created for them in present time.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,309 posts)
10. She volunteered her age, he told her to act her age.
Wed Jun 17, 2020, 02:29 PM
Jun 2020

"I'm 80 years old."

"Then act like you're 80-some years old!"

 

PTWB

(4,131 posts)
36. THIS IS YOUR TAKEAWAY?
Wed Jun 17, 2020, 05:04 PM
Jun 2020

I can’t believe we have racism apologists and whataboutisms. PLEASE reconsider your post.

nsd

(2,406 posts)
8. What are we supposed to take away from this?
Wed Jun 17, 2020, 02:28 PM
Jun 2020

Without context, it just sounds like some weird dude berating (in an ageist way) a woman dressed in a weird getup.

Just labeling something with the word "Karen" isn't enough. You have to actually explain what we're looking at.

Otherwise, your post is useless.

shanti

(21,675 posts)
12. Really?
Wed Jun 17, 2020, 02:33 PM
Jun 2020

See my response below yours. Her age is irrelevant. If she can dish it out, she better be able to take it.

nsd

(2,406 posts)
17. Yes, really.
Wed Jun 17, 2020, 02:41 PM
Jun 2020

What are we looking at? What is the relationship between these two people? What happened before the video started? What is the source of conflict between these two? Why is the woman dressed like that?

Who? What? Where? Why? When?

Basic questions you have to answer before anyone can understand this video.

I reiterate: Posting a video like this - and slapping on the label "Karen" -- is totally worthless.


WhiskeyGrinder

(22,309 posts)
13. A fed-up man's voice is speaking forcefully to the woman in the video.
Wed Jun 17, 2020, 02:35 PM
Jun 2020

"You told me to go back to Oakland, right? Let me tell your dirty, dusty, mannequin-built ass up, you don't tell me where the fuck to go, when you tell me, when you leave your house, you ol' stanky-ass --"

She says something that's unintelligible but includes the word "respectful," as he says, "when you leave your house, you are in the world, and you can't tell me where to go."

It continues on in this vein, with him talking over her in a forceful but righteous (and creatively insulting) way, as she says things like, "Relax," and so on, then offering that "I'm 80 years old," as if that's a defense, and he tells her to act like she's 80-something years old.

It's a pleasure to watch because he doesn't quit.

MontanaMama

(23,296 posts)
25. It wa AWESOME!
Wed Jun 17, 2020, 04:11 PM
Jun 2020

I'm not gonna lie, I had to listen a few times through it to get it all but it was righteous and wonderful to listen to. She isn't 80 years old imho. I peg her for around 50 but it's hard to tell in her Covid 19 outfit.

Response to tblue37 (Reply #9)

Doremus

(7,261 posts)
19. She told him to go back to Oakland because there are more white people in Alameda.
Wed Jun 17, 2020, 02:42 PM
Jun 2020

The racist bitch deserved every bit of that tongue lashing. Good on him.

When he told her she had senior citizen spit on her sweater I almost put some on my own, lololo.

shanti

(21,675 posts)
34. Thank you!
Wed Jun 17, 2020, 04:55 PM
Jun 2020

Some people seem to be willfully obtuse....or something. I live in NorCal, and knew exactly what she was saying by 'go back to Oakland'.

onecaliberal

(32,786 posts)
39. I live in CA22 traitor Nuns district. This is something one of my neighbors would say.
Wed Jun 17, 2020, 05:05 PM
Jun 2020

I knew they were stupid and mean, but never realized my neighbors are fascists. It's awful.

As far as Alameda Karen, she got what she had coming.

NoMoreRepugs

(9,374 posts)
28. To those here having a problem with how he responded to her
Wed Jun 17, 2020, 04:30 PM
Jun 2020

“get back to Oakland” I suggest you put yourselves into his shoes for YOUR ENTIRE LIFE and now comment on the appropriateness of his response.

Maraya1969

(22,464 posts)
29. To the ones bitching about ageism please give us a break. The woman told him to "Go back to
Wed Jun 17, 2020, 04:38 PM
Jun 2020

Oakland" which is open code for, "We don't want you black people around here"

After that he can say whatthefuckever he wants imo.

I am a pasty white lady, 62. I was in this redneck bar several months ago and I was talking about how the Trump tariffs were actually taxes and some guy tells me to leave the country.

I was furious! I was actually surprised at how mad I got and how I responded to him.

We all have a right to be here. And saying that to someone because of their race is particularly odious.

So he went off on her supposed age. I don't care. Good. He fucked her up and I'm glad about it.

Talitha

(6,564 posts)
47. Phhht... here's another one that thinks she owns the world.
Wed Jun 17, 2020, 05:28 PM
Jun 2020

I'm glad he opened up a BIG can of whoop-ass on her, she needed it.

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