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(86,345 posts)stopbush
(24,393 posts)Ageism is OK now?
FreeState
(10,570 posts)replying to hate with hate is not the way.
BannonsLiver
(16,313 posts)Loaded with misogyny and hate.
Drunken Irishman
(34,857 posts)Is that there is a lot of white folks isolated from this reality, so, their first instinct is to suggest they ignore the blatant racism they are constantly forced to experience.
It's easy to say, "don't respond to hate with hate" when you don't have to face that hate every single day.
You're just seeing people fed up with stuff that they were forced to accept FOR DECADES. It's without fail, whenever there is a video of some racist person being told off, that a DUer will comment about how their response was equally bad.
It's another aspect of white privilege.
Sitting there and judging someone for finally blowing up to the racism they experience every day - and doing it from a life experience so removed from theirs that they can't seem to comprehend the anger of it. And why? Because as a white person, they're not experiencing it. Ever.
FreeState
(10,570 posts)However your asset of me is incorrect.
Regardless I dont believe we should encourage people blowing up at people. The most movement I have seen when dealing with bigots is by approaching them with stern truth and kindness (and yes Ive personally tried both methods many times). We all have different approaches though.
Drunken Irishman
(34,857 posts)I don't know where it comes from. Bit I suspect this isn't the first time this guy has been told to go back to Oakland.
Bluepinky
(2,265 posts)The elderly should be called out on racism too.
She was wrong for telling him to go back to Oakland. No matter what her age is, she should feel ashamed.
Baitball Blogger
(46,684 posts)So tired of people offering irrelevant reasons to expect a pass for their bad behavior.
Why would it be okay for someone to think that being over 80 is a reason to make racists comments? What it tells the rest of us, is that your time and your era is over. Don't ask for us to adhere to social norms of a day gone by, during a time where people are no longer going to accept the inequities that those behaviors have created for them in present time.
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,309 posts)"I'm 80 years old."
"Then act like you're 80-some years old!"
PTWB
(4,131 posts)I cant believe we have racism apologists and whataboutisms. PLEASE reconsider your post.
Bluepinky
(2,265 posts)irisblue
(32,932 posts)That guy was beyond ready
dalton99a
(81,406 posts)nsd
(2,406 posts)Without context, it just sounds like some weird dude berating (in an ageist way) a woman dressed in a weird getup.
Just labeling something with the word "Karen" isn't enough. You have to actually explain what we're looking at.
Otherwise, your post is useless.
See my response below yours. Her age is irrelevant. If she can dish it out, she better be able to take it.
What are we looking at? What is the relationship between these two people? What happened before the video started? What is the source of conflict between these two? Why is the woman dressed like that?
Who? What? Where? Why? When?
Basic questions you have to answer before anyone can understand this video.
I reiterate: Posting a video like this - and slapping on the label "Karen" -- is totally worthless.
stopdiggin
(11,250 posts)--- -- -- ---
dixiechiken1
(2,113 posts)He said it at the beginning of the video.
PTWB
(4,131 posts)She told him to go back to Oakland. Because hes black.
tblue37
(65,227 posts)shanti
(21,675 posts)and he gave her a royal chewing out.
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,309 posts)"You told me to go back to Oakland, right? Let me tell your dirty, dusty, mannequin-built ass up, you don't tell me where the fuck to go, when you tell me, when you leave your house, you ol' stanky-ass --"
She says something that's unintelligible but includes the word "respectful," as he says, "when you leave your house, you are in the world, and you can't tell me where to go."
It continues on in this vein, with him talking over her in a forceful but righteous (and creatively insulting) way, as she says things like, "Relax," and so on, then offering that "I'm 80 years old," as if that's a defense, and he tells her to act like she's 80-something years old.
It's a pleasure to watch because he doesn't quit.
tblue37
(65,227 posts)MontanaMama
(23,296 posts)I'm not gonna lie, I had to listen a few times through it to get it all but it was righteous and wonderful to listen to. She isn't 80 years old imho. I peg her for around 50 but it's hard to tell in her Covid 19 outfit.
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trueblue2007
(17,194 posts)stopdiggin
(11,250 posts)OK. Your post. -- --
Doremus
(7,261 posts)The racist bitch deserved every bit of that tongue lashing. Good on him.
When he told her she had senior citizen spit on her sweater I almost put some on my own, lololo.
shanti
(21,675 posts)Some people seem to be willfully obtuse....or something. I live in NorCal, and knew exactly what she was saying by 'go back to Oakland'.
ProfessorGAC
(64,877 posts)I don't think so.
She just made up a number there.
She's a racist punk AND a liar!
Tipperary
(6,930 posts)This is amazing.
GoneOffShore
(17,337 posts)uponit7771
(90,304 posts)onecaliberal
(32,786 posts)I knew they were stupid and mean, but never realized my neighbors are fascists. It's awful.
As far as Alameda Karen, she got what she had coming.
Sloumeau
(2,657 posts)Love it
NoMoreRepugs
(9,374 posts)get back to Oakland I suggest you put yourselves into his shoes for YOUR ENTIRE LIFE and now comment on the appropriateness of his response.
Maraya1969
(22,464 posts)Oakland" which is open code for, "We don't want you black people around here"
After that he can say whatthefuckever he wants imo.
I am a pasty white lady, 62. I was in this redneck bar several months ago and I was talking about how the Trump tariffs were actually taxes and some guy tells me to leave the country.
I was furious! I was actually surprised at how mad I got and how I responded to him.
We all have a right to be here. And saying that to someone because of their race is particularly odious.
So he went off on her supposed age. I don't care. Good. He fucked her up and I'm glad about it.
dixiechiken1
(2,113 posts)That he did. And I'm glad about it, too.
You rock, Maraya.
uponit7771
(90,304 posts)Codeine
(25,586 posts)This place is ridiculous sometimes.
FuzzyRabbit
(1,967 posts)She deserved that and more.
tom_kelly
(957 posts)Schmice3
(294 posts)Roc2020
(1,613 posts)people are not taking the passive racism anymore and lashing out.
uponit7771
(90,304 posts)Talitha
(6,564 posts)I'm glad he opened up a BIG can of whoop-ass on her, she needed it.
roamer65
(36,744 posts)No one wants to hear it.
She doesnt matter.