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Matt Gaetz referring to his "son" as his "helper": (Original Post) George II Jun 2020 OP
that is some tackyass furniture. CurtEastPoint Jun 2020 #1
All it's missing is the clear plastic slip covers. Mrs. Constanza, can you do something about that? George II Jun 2020 #4
My gaydar went off seeing this picture. kimbutgar Jun 2020 #2
+1 dalton99a Jun 2020 #8
That would be disgusting. He says he has known him since he was 7 yrs old - Gay Daddy?disgusting tulipsandroses Jun 2020 #11
Actually he said he came to the US when he was 12 (7 years ago), which is another lie. George II Jun 2020 #12
Thank for the clarification tulipsandroses Jun 2020 #14
Yes, the whole thing is bizarre, in fact trumpian. In fact Nestor (too bad he got dragged into this) George II Jun 2020 #15
I'm pretty sure that's called a nephew.... FM123 Jun 2020 #16
I understood that it was the kid's actual sister who had custody. Nevilledog Jun 2020 #17
That's what I heard, too. But then Gaetz' sister adopted him. Yes, it's SO confusing, but... George II Jun 2020 #18
Haven't read anything about Gaetz' sister being involved. Nevilledog Jun 2020 #19
You got it all wrong. LisaL Jun 2020 #32
No, he was not adopted by Gaetz sister. LisaL Jun 2020 #33
Merry Christmas, Matt. TheCowsCameHome Jun 2020 #3
That whole ".. Nestor is his kid.. " thing is gaetz Cha Jun 2020 #5
Someone posted that the ONLY recorded Cuban adoption in the last ten years was a female.... George II Jun 2020 #7
It would be shocking that Gaetz would LIE About such a thing!! Cha Jun 2020 #9
Unmarried. Has previous unknown "adopted son." M'kay struggle4progress Jun 2020 #6
Sounds like unknown "son" became known "son". Cracklin Charlie Jun 2020 #20
I smell fish. LiberalFighter Jun 2020 #10
He also refers to him as "local student" (2nd tweet): tblue37 Jun 2020 #13
HAHAHAHHAHA, Based on this I have a bunch of sons and daughters and mothers and fathers JI7 Jun 2020 #21
Legally adopted? By whom? Is he a citizen yet? keithbvadu2 Jun 2020 #22
Not legally adopted - Ms. Toad Jun 2020 #24
I wonder if Nestor identifies as white. Ms. Toad Jun 2020 #23
All the Cubans I've known over the years consider themselves "white", descendants from Europeans. George II Jun 2020 #28
fox article says the kid is "adopted" orleans Jun 2020 #25
In 'People', he says he never adopted him muriel_volestrangler Jun 2020 #30
It doesn't appear any legal sort of adoption. LisaL Jun 2020 #31
a tweet orleans Jun 2020 #26
Do we know if Nestor is a Dreamer ? OnDoutside Jun 2020 #27
Cubans are granted automatic refugee status grantcart Jun 2020 #29
Thanks. OnDoutside Jun 2020 #35
I am imagining ANY Dem pol at any level doing this same thing obamanut2012 Jun 2020 #34

tulipsandroses

(5,122 posts)
11. That would be disgusting. He says he has known him since he was 7 yrs old - Gay Daddy?disgusting
Thu Jun 18, 2020, 10:18 PM
Jun 2020

A "gay daddy" is a thing. Sometimes its exploitive.

George II

(67,782 posts)
15. Yes, the whole thing is bizarre, in fact trumpian. In fact Nestor (too bad he got dragged into this)
Thu Jun 18, 2020, 10:32 PM
Jun 2020

was adopted by Gaetz' sister, not Matt Gaetz himself. She claims that Matt "raised him like a son". That is NOT raising a black son in America.

Nevilledog

(51,057 posts)
17. I understood that it was the kid's actual sister who had custody.
Thu Jun 18, 2020, 10:45 PM
Jun 2020

That sister used to date Gaetz.

Confusing fucking story.

George II

(67,782 posts)
18. That's what I heard, too. But then Gaetz' sister adopted him. Yes, it's SO confusing, but...
Thu Jun 18, 2020, 10:51 PM
Jun 2020

...the bottom line is that poor man is NOT Matt Gaetz' son, and it's a shame that he was dragged into all of this.

The second bottom line, to Cedric Richmond's point, is that few, Gaetz included, do not know what it's like to raise a BLACK child in America.

Nevilledog

(51,057 posts)
19. Haven't read anything about Gaetz' sister being involved.
Thu Jun 18, 2020, 10:57 PM
Jun 2020

The adoption records examined don't show sister adored him either.

Bottom line.... I'm calling bullshit on the mere idea that Gaetz gives a fuck about anyone else. If true, he would have explored thud kid's existence from day one.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
33. No, he was not adopted by Gaetz sister.
Fri Jun 19, 2020, 09:31 AM
Jun 2020

Gaetz was dating Nestor's sister. Nestor then moved in with Gaetz and his sister. Gaetz never legally adopted Nestor.

Cha

(297,029 posts)
5. That whole ".. Nestor is his kid.. " thing is gaetz
Thu Jun 18, 2020, 09:53 PM
Jun 2020

trying to distract from the killing of George Floyd by Derek Gauvin & #BLM


George II

(67,782 posts)
7. Someone posted that the ONLY recorded Cuban adoption in the last ten years was a female....
Thu Jun 18, 2020, 09:59 PM
Jun 2020

...and not adopted by an American couple (much less a Floridian drunk racist)


Cracklin Charlie

(12,904 posts)
20. Sounds like unknown "son" became known "son".
Thu Jun 18, 2020, 11:34 PM
Jun 2020

Matt had to get out in front of this story real quick.

It smells fishy.

JI7

(89,244 posts)
21. HAHAHAHHAHA, Based on this I have a bunch of sons and daughters and mothers and fathers
Fri Jun 19, 2020, 12:02 AM
Jun 2020

HAHAHHAHAHA

keithbvadu2

(36,724 posts)
22. Legally adopted? By whom? Is he a citizen yet?
Fri Jun 19, 2020, 12:09 AM
Jun 2020

Legally adopted?

By whom?

Is he a citizen yet?

He should be by now.

Ms. Toad

(34,056 posts)
24. Not legally adopted -
Fri Jun 19, 2020, 12:21 AM
Jun 2020

Theoretically legally here, but I'm not sure how.

Mom died of breast cancer, Gaetz acquired his "helper" while he was dating Nestor's sister.

https://people.com/politics/matt-gaetz-tells-story-boy-he-raised-as-a-son/

Ms. Toad

(34,056 posts)
23. I wonder if Nestor identifies as white.
Fri Jun 19, 2020, 12:19 AM
Jun 2020

I would not necessarily have identified him as non-white, and more than half of all Cubans identify as white.

- since the trigger for this disclosure was Gaetz's claim to have raised a non-white son.

orleans

(34,043 posts)
25. fox article says the kid is "adopted"
Fri Jun 19, 2020, 03:16 AM
Jun 2020

"Rep. Matt Gaetz, R-Fla., surprised social media users Thursday by revealing he has an adopted Cuban son "

headline: "GOP Rep. Gaetz reveals adopted Cuban son on Twitter after clash with Dem congressman"

https://www.foxnews.com/politics/gaetz-reveals-adopted-cuban-son-clash-richmond

muriel_volestrangler

(101,295 posts)
30. In 'People', he says he never adopted him
Fri Jun 19, 2020, 09:14 AM
Jun 2020
Nestor Galban was 12 and had just arrived from Cuba, where he’d grown up and where his mother had recently died of breast cancer, Gaetz says. Then a state legislator, Gaetz was dating Nestor’s older sister.

And so Nestor moved in with them — “a modern family,” Gaetz says now.

He says that, except for an interruption during Nestor’s junior year after Gaetz and Nestor’s sister broke up, Nestor has basically lived with him since moving from Cuba.
...
Gaetz did not formally adopt Nestor (and he declines to discuss Nestor’s relationship with his biological family now). He re-frames the matter, saying, “Our relationship as a family is defined by our love for each other, not by any paperwork.”
...
Detailing the timeline, Gaetz tells PEOPLE Nestor lived with him for around four years after first arriving in Cuba before going to Miami for his junior year and living with his biological father: “Then he turned 18 it was easier for him to just move back with me.” (Gaetz declines to specify when exactly he and Nestor's older sister broke up.)

Elsewhere in the interview, he describes the sequence of events this way: “There was a time period at the beginning of my service in Congress where, based on his age and other circumstances, it was not tenable for him to live with me."

https://people.com/politics/matt-gaetz-tells-story-boy-he-raised-as-a-son/

It's unclear if the ex-girlfriend formally adopted him (can you formally adopt your own brother?), or just had some form of guardianship, though I'd guess the latter if he didn't stay with her when she and Gaetz broke up.

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
29. Cubans are granted automatic refugee status
Fri Jun 19, 2020, 08:59 AM
Jun 2020

Under the Republican drafted "work around" a policy called dry foot/wet foot means that if a refugee lands on US soil they are given automatic refugee status, for that reason there are no dreamers from Cuba.

Refugees that are captured in the water are automatically denied refugee status.

IMO it is a disastrous policy. I support an expansive migrant/ refugee migration policy but we should have good screening and not accept the 1% that have a violent and/or criminal past.

obamanut2012

(26,063 posts)
34. I am imagining ANY Dem pol at any level doing this same thing
Fri Jun 19, 2020, 09:44 AM
Jun 2020

Fucking Pizzagate over nothing, but THIS is okay??????

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