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kpete

(71,991 posts)
Wed Jun 24, 2020, 09:55 AM Jun 2020

We need Joe Biden. We need a mensch. From Rabbi Michael Beals of Delaware :

"The story I’m about to share with you about Joe Biden is special -- in fact, I’m fairly certain I’m the only living person left who actually witnessed it firsthand.

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It was about 16 years ago, and I was a young rabbi, brand-new to Delaware, on my way to lead a shiva minyan -- a worship service following a death of a Jewish person. I was from California. Back then, I didn’t know Claymont, Delaware from Scranton, Pennsylvania.

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Quick bit of background: When someone passes away in the Jewish faith, we observe seven days of mourning, called shiva. We gather a group of ten Jewish adults together to say the Mourners’ Kaddish. It usually happens in a person’s home -- somewhere intimate.

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In this case, the deceased individual -- her name was Mrs. Greenhouse, of blessed memory -- had not been a person of means. She had lived in rent-controlled senior housing in a tall high-rise building off of Namaans Road.

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Her apartment was too small to fit everyone into, so we conducted our worship service in the building’s communal laundry room, in the basement of the high-rise.

We assembled the 10 elders together, and it was in this most humble of places that I began to lead kaddish.

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Toward the end of the service, a door at the back of the laundry room opened; who walks in but Sen. Joe Biden, head lowered, all by himself.

I nearly dropped my prayer book in shock.

Senator Biden stood quietly in the back of the room for the duration of the service.

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At the close of the kaddish, I walked over to him and asked the same question that must have been on everyone else’s mind: “Sen. Biden -- what are you doing here?”

He said to me: “Back in 1972, when I first ran for Senate, Mrs. Greenhouse gave $18 to my first campaign.

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Because that’s what she could afford. And every six years, when I’d run for reelection, she’d give another $18. She did it her whole life. I’m here to show my respect and gratitude.”

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Now, the number 18 is significant in the Jewish faith -- its numbers spell out the Hebrew word chai, as in “to life, to life, l’chayim!” But it’s also a humble amount. Joe Biden knew that. And he respected that.

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There were no news outlets at our service that day -- no Jewish reporters or important dignitaries. Just a few elderly mourners in a basement laundry room.

Joe Biden didn’t come to that service for political gain. He came to that service because he has character.

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He came to that service because he’s a mensch.

And if we need anything right now when it comes to the leadership of our country -- we need a mensch.

I know this is such a simple, small story. But I tell it to as many people as will listen to me.

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Because I think that, in their heart of hearts, when people are trying to think about the decision they’ll make this year -- this is the kind of story that matters.

Joe Biden is a mensch. We need a mensch."

Thank you, Rabbi Beals. You're a bit of a mensch yourself.

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We need Joe Biden. We need a mensch. From Rabbi Michael Beals of Delaware : (Original Post) kpete Jun 2020 OP
Here is a definition of the word "mensch"....... is a kind, generous, careing person who gives Stuart G Jun 2020 #1
Crass question - can we get this guy to cut an ad? lagomorph777 Jun 2020 #2
He probably would. He's mostly leftie. MurrayDelph Jun 2020 #4
I saw this story several months ago Gothmog Jun 2020 #3

Stuart G

(38,424 posts)
1. Here is a definition of the word "mensch"....... is a kind, generous, careing person who gives
Wed Jun 24, 2020, 10:08 AM
Jun 2020

and wants nothing in return.................................. (definition is mine, not dictionary)

In Hebrew & Yiddish .....that word is one of the greatest compliments that can be paid to anyone at anytime...

To be called a "mensch" is much more than a leader, it is like a............................

...A very kind, generous, and giving leader who wants to give, and genuinely cares about people....& wants nothing in return....

I would say that it is an incredible compliment to Joe Biden...

MurrayDelph

(5,294 posts)
4. He probably would. He's mostly leftie.
Wed Jun 24, 2020, 11:32 AM
Jun 2020

Back in 1998, when my mother passed away, he was the rabbi who performed "last rites" at her hospital bed, and officiated at her funeral. At the time he was the rabbi at a temple near LAX, and timing was such that we had two Friday nights in our mourning period. His sermons definitely had a leftist bent.

When my sister died ten months later, we had him officiate for hers also, as she had liked him. But he lost points with me because in the intervening period I'd become engaged, and he refused my invitation to attend, not as the officiator (we'd already arranged to have a friend who was the official Marrying Sam of LA science fiction fandom), but as a friend of the family, but he refused because my fiancee (now wife of 21 years, plus a couple weeks) isn't Jewish.*


*Ironically, one of the younger attendees at the wedding grew up to be a Hasidic rabbi.

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