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revmclaren

(2,515 posts)
Thu Jul 2, 2020, 05:59 PM Jul 2020

My sister, who is 62, is being admitted to the hospital this afternoon.

Last edited Sat Jul 4, 2020, 12:47 PM - Edit history (4)

She has been running a fever for the past 2 days and she started dialysis about 2 weeks ago. She had some post surgery pain in the port put into her neck and they think it may have gotten infected.

They are also testing for covid19. The household has been on self quarantine since March because my sister, my daughter and I are high risk but with grocery shopping and her Drs appointments, who knows.

Waiting for results on that.

Extremely worried right now and I can't even visit her.

Please send positive vibes. I'll keep you all in the loop.

Update 1: As of 9:30pm my sister is still waiting for a room to become available. She is trying to rest as well as she can in the emergency room. She had dialysis done there at the hospital and a blood clot was found by the machine during. I guess it's the one positive thing about going to the hospital. She didn't have any symptoms of a clot.

Update 2: Not a lot of new information. They are still running tests but she got a room and got some sleep. They are talking about maybe sending her home tonight if fever gone and no other issues (a big maybe). The blood clot it seems could have been from the dialysis itself as clots can form during the procedure (scary in itself).

Update 3: My sister is coming home this afternoon after dialysis. Turns out she has a bad kidney infection and will be on antibiotics. Some additional tests are pending but I'm glad she will be home. A hospital isn't the safest place right now with the rise in covid19 cases in our county.

P.S. Although I'm trying to respond to each of you in person, if I miss anyone, my love and appreciation is still there. Thank you.


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My sister, who is 62, is being admitted to the hospital this afternoon. (Original Post) revmclaren Jul 2020 OP
Sending good vibes! soothsayer Jul 2020 #1
... revmclaren Jul 2020 #22
Positive vibes on the way. sheshe2 Jul 2020 #2
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #23
Wishing for her the best of health soon and whatever is causing the fever gets treated lunasun Jul 2020 #3
... revmclaren Jul 2020 #24
... alwaysinasnit Jul 2020 #4
... revmclaren Jul 2020 #25
Positive vibes coming your way mercuryblues Jul 2020 #5
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #28
Good vibrations to you and your family MaryMagdaline Jul 2020 #6
Thanks revmclaren Jul 2020 #29
Mahalo for telling us, Rev.. Best of Healing Vibes Cha Jul 2020 #7
Thank you. All healing is welcome. revmclaren Jul 2020 #30
All the positive vibes I can muster on the way. Nevilledog Jul 2020 #8
... revmclaren Jul 2020 #32
Oceans of good vibes. Zoonart Jul 2020 #9
.. revmclaren Jul 2020 #34
Good vibes for you... Maxheader Jul 2020 #10
Thank you so much. revmclaren Jul 2020 #35
Sending a prayer 🙏🏽 up nt live love laugh Jul 2020 #11
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #37
Prayers for her recovery and Ilsa Jul 2020 #12
Thank you. All positive energy is appreciated. revmclaren Jul 2020 #39
Sending good vibes malaise Jul 2020 #13
Thank you so much. revmclaren Jul 2020 #40
... handmade34 Jul 2020 #14
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #124
Best wishes! Buckeye_Democrat Jul 2020 #15
... revmclaren Jul 2020 #41
Healing vibes headed your way. Know that your DU family is here for you. niyad Jul 2020 #16
... revmclaren Jul 2020 #42
Sending positive vibes and love to you all! nt zbird Jul 2020 #17
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #43
Lots and lots of positive vibes.... Demsrule86 Jul 2020 #18
Appreciated revmclaren Jul 2020 #44
Any news? Demsrule86 Jul 2020 #136
So sorry, Rev. BComplex Jul 2020 #19
I will. Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #45
Wishing her all the best canetoad Jul 2020 #20
... revmclaren Jul 2020 #46
Love mac56 Jul 2020 #21
... revmclaren Jul 2020 #47
Holding you and your family in the Light. Be strong, you are not alone. n/t TygrBright Jul 2020 #26
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #48
I understand your concerns... FarPoint Jul 2020 #27
Yes it's very worry some. revmclaren Jul 2020 #50
I'm always here... FarPoint Jul 2020 #63
I appreciate that. revmclaren Jul 2020 #65
Sending healing vibes to your sister. Hope she is better soon. skylucy Jul 2020 #31
... revmclaren Jul 2020 #51
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #99
Positive vibes and hope for her AND you, stay strong. a kennedy Jul 2020 #33
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #52
Keeping my fingers crossed for you all. Lonestarblue Jul 2020 #36
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #53
Sending 💕💕💕💕💖💖💖 MLAA Jul 2020 #38
Thank you so much. revmclaren Jul 2020 #54
Blessings marieo1 Jul 2020 #49
Thank you for the blessings. revmclaren Jul 2020 #56
Sending positive vibes. qwlauren35 Jul 2020 #55
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #57
Absolutely. warmfeet Jul 2020 #58
... revmclaren Jul 2020 #67
... revmclaren Jul 2020 #160
All best wishes for your family Hekate Jul 2020 #59
... revmclaren Jul 2020 #68
Peace and strength to you. kairos12 Jul 2020 #60
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #69
Hope all goes well mcar Jul 2020 #61
... revmclaren Jul 2020 #71
Keeping all of you in my thoughts. Dem2theMax Jul 2020 #62
I will. Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #72
May she be ok and you too Miigwech Jul 2020 #64
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #73
Sending positive vibes and hugs! gademocrat7 Jul 2020 #66
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #74
Yikes! Positive vibes being sent! Right now! calimary Jul 2020 #70
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #75
My best wishes to your sister. It's probably side effects from the surgery she had on her totodeinhere Jul 2020 #76
They are testing for covid19 revmclaren Jul 2020 #77
All positive wishes Scarsdale Jul 2020 #78
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #98
Thank you. Take care as well. revmclaren Jul 2020 #159
Warm thoughts and positive vibes coming your way! DesertRat Jul 2020 #79
... revmclaren Jul 2020 #104
You have all the vibes I can send you!!! I hope everything turns onecent Jul 2020 #80
" with grocery shopping " left-of-center2012 Jul 2020 #81
She does get groceries delivered revmclaren Jul 2020 #108
Positive vibes incoming! Cracklin Charlie Jul 2020 #82
Thanks. revmclaren Jul 2020 #113
Sending prayers, vibes and good thoughts. hamsterjill Jul 2020 #83
Very trying. revmclaren Jul 2020 #114
... mia Jul 2020 #84
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #115
You're welcome! mia Jul 2020 #132
Sending positive healing vibes. onecaliberal Jul 2020 #85
... revmclaren Jul 2020 #116
I'm so sorry. StarryNite Jul 2020 #86
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #117
Sending tons of good vibes your way... diva77 Jul 2020 #87
Thank you so much. revmclaren Jul 2020 #118
Sending only positive good wishes your way UpInArms Jul 2020 #88
... revmclaren Jul 2020 #119
Sending you all positive vibes. iluvtennis Jul 2020 #89
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #121
Wishes for good health for you and your family and prayers for healing. pazzyanne Jul 2020 #90
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #122
I'm so sorry to hear that revmclaren. smirkymonkey Jul 2020 #91
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #123
I hope she will get well soon. raging moderate Jul 2020 #92
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #112
Sending positive thoughts democrank Jul 2020 #93
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #105
Healing vibes on the way! P💓💓💓 SheltieLover Jul 2020 #94
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #103
You are most welcome! SheltieLover Jul 2020 #125
Healing prayers to her and family as i sit here with a port in my neck. nt bonniebgood Jul 2020 #95
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #102
Vibes going out volstork Jul 2020 #96
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #101
Sending love to your sister and your family. Maraya1969 Jul 2020 #97
... revmclaren Jul 2020 #100
Thank you so much. revmclaren Jul 2020 #158
Sending hugs to you and your sister MustLoveBeagles Jul 2020 #106
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #120
}}}*healing vibes*{{{ for your sister. Health to u & fam electric_blue68 Jul 2020 #107
Thank you so much. revmclaren Jul 2020 #111
I have a sister who I love very much.... electric_blue68 Jul 2020 #128
It's after midnight now, and she's probably already feeling better Hortensis Jul 2020 #109
Unfortunately, she is still waiting for a bed to become available. revmclaren Jul 2020 #110
And you're waiting also. I'm very sorry to hear this. Hortensis Jul 2020 #126
Best of luck to your sister. ProcureTheReceptacle Jul 2020 #127
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #151
Good, healing vibes sent to you and your family..... Heartstrings Jul 2020 #129
Thank you so much. revmclaren Jul 2020 #152
Many heartfelt thoughts to you and yours during appalachiablue Jul 2020 #130
My sister kept herself at a certain revmclaren Jul 2020 #153
Good for your sister, she showed real determination appalachiablue Jul 2020 #161
Sending cate94 Jul 2020 #131
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #154
My brother had covid and had blood clots...the first test for covid was negative...often is- Demsrule86 Jul 2020 #133
The clots may have been caused by revmclaren Jul 2020 #155
Oh, so sorry she and you and the family are experiencing this. lark Jul 2020 #134
We have been self quarantining for months now revmclaren Jul 2020 #156
Sorry, I meant to say - best wishes and healthy thoughts going to your sister & you. n/t lark Jul 2020 #135
... revmclaren Jul 2020 #149
Sounds like symptoms of an infection, tavernier Jul 2020 #137
They think it may very well be revmclaren Jul 2020 #150
Sending healing thought and positive vibes. sdfernando Jul 2020 #138
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #148
Sending my good thoughts and prayers your way. cayugafalls Jul 2020 #139
Thank you. She did get a room revmclaren Jul 2020 #147
A virtual hug to you and your sister. So sorry that anyone here at DU must go through this stuff. KPN Jul 2020 #140
Thank you so much. revmclaren Jul 2020 #146
... Lucinda Jul 2020 #141
... revmclaren Jul 2020 #145
Hoping for a speedy recovery nt Nululu Jul 2020 #142
Thank you. revmclaren Jul 2020 #144
Keep hanging in there. sheshe2 Jul 2020 #143
We will. revmclaren Jul 2020 #157

Cha

(297,137 posts)
7. Mahalo for telling us, Rev.. Best of Healing Vibes
Thu Jul 2, 2020, 06:05 PM
Jul 2020

for your sister. I can imagine how worried you are.

And, yes, please keep us updated.

FarPoint

(12,336 posts)
27. I understand your concerns...
Thu Jul 2, 2020, 06:25 PM
Jul 2020

Sounds serious....especially already having kidney disease....antibiotics can be hard on the kidneys....I sense they may need to put a fresh line in...Keep us posted... and sincere prayers.

calimary

(81,212 posts)
70. Yikes! Positive vibes being sent! Right now!
Thu Jul 2, 2020, 06:58 PM
Jul 2020

Please keep us posted, and YOU - you go easy on yourself right now, too, revmclaren.

totodeinhere

(13,058 posts)
76. My best wishes to your sister. It's probably side effects from the surgery she had on her
Thu Jul 2, 2020, 07:01 PM
Jul 2020

neck. I think the odds are that she will recover after a few days. They will keep a close eye on her to make sure that she does not get an infection and she may be given antibiotics. Of course it is also prudent to test for Covid-19.

revmclaren

(2,515 posts)
77. They are testing for covid19
Thu Jul 2, 2020, 07:10 PM
Jul 2020

but they have to send out for the results. She missed her dialysis yesterday because of the infection so they are giving her it in the hospital.

Thank you for your good wishes.

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
78. All positive wishes
Thu Jul 2, 2020, 07:14 PM
Jul 2020

being sent your way. So very stressful, everything combined. Hopefully, things will turn out alright. Take care of yourself and loved ones in the meanwhile.

onecent

(6,096 posts)
80. You have all the vibes I can send you!!! I hope everything turns
Thu Jul 2, 2020, 07:28 PM
Jul 2020

out VERY WELL. I am 75 and this worries me....ALL OF IT....I'm am so sick of all this hardship and
what I always have to do. At least I'm still living by myself in my husbands (deceased) and my home.

I will say an extra prayer for your sister and others in your family.

left-of-center2012

(34,195 posts)
81. " with grocery shopping "
Thu Jul 2, 2020, 07:39 PM
Jul 2020

I've had groceries delivered for about 7 months now.

Walmart, Kroger and their affiliated stores, Amazon Pantry, Target, Whole Foods, Sprouts, many independent grocers, etc deliver.
You order online, charge a credit card (and even food stamps in some cases) and then deliver 'no contact' to your door.

Google 'grocery delivery'.

revmclaren

(2,515 posts)
108. She does get groceries delivered
Fri Jul 3, 2020, 12:14 AM
Jul 2020

But until just recently she had to take Ubers or lifts to her Drs appointments since we don't have a car in the household and with my daughter and I out of work, won't be one in the near future.

She does now get medical transport to and from dialysis.

hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
83. Sending prayers, vibes and good thoughts.
Thu Jul 2, 2020, 07:42 PM
Jul 2020

Trying times, aren’t they? I hope she recovers quickly.

Peace and comfort to you and your family.

pazzyanne

(6,547 posts)
90. Wishes for good health for you and your family and prayers for healing.
Thu Jul 2, 2020, 07:53 PM
Jul 2020

Take good care of yourself and continue to take care of your family,

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
91. I'm so sorry to hear that revmclaren.
Thu Jul 2, 2020, 07:55 PM
Jul 2020

Sending you and your sister good vibes and hoping for the best for you and your family!

electric_blue68

(14,870 posts)
128. I have a sister who I love very much....
Fri Jul 3, 2020, 01:56 AM
Jul 2020

(and my only sibling)
so I feel your pain. She's 63, I'm 67.

Again, my she recover well! .
And try give yourself a few mins to look at beautiful things, photos. Listen to beautiful music. It'll help your mental strength, and immune system.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
109. It's after midnight now, and she's probably already feeling better
Fri Jul 3, 2020, 12:15 AM
Jul 2020

under hospital care. Emotionally also. That port line has to be protected of course.

I have a photo I took over a month ago, when I was being ruled out in a Covid ward, of two very nice and wonderful nurses who look like aliens in their masks and shields. That photo is guaranteed to make me smile, but it was taken about 2:30 in the morning as they were busy doing their thing, so I'm guessing your sister won't be sleeping all through the night no matter how well she's feeling. But hopefully you are.

revmclaren

(2,515 posts)
110. Unfortunately, she is still waiting for a bed to become available.
Fri Jul 3, 2020, 12:21 AM
Jul 2020

Over 12 hours now. She had dialysis done at the hospital but her blood pressure crashed (she's been having problems with it being low) and they had to stabilize it as well. They are talking about at least 2 days in the hospital but this could change at any time.

Thank you for your kind words.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
126. And you're waiting also. I'm very sorry to hear this.
Fri Jul 3, 2020, 12:54 AM
Jul 2020

That BP crash! Thank goodness she's at the hospital.

Tomorrow.

appalachiablue

(41,126 posts)
130. Many heartfelt thoughts to you and yours during
Fri Jul 3, 2020, 03:22 AM
Jul 2020

this stressful time. It's good your sister's in hospital and monitored. Please keep us posted and try to get some rest.
---------

A sister had stage 2-3 esophageal cancer (non-smoker & non drinker) but had many colds, flu and bronchitis hell bouts after years of teaching young kids. Three times she went to the ER for severe pneumonia and was put on respirators.

She made it through those crises, endured treatment and chemo and is doing well, three years later. Fortunately she had an excellent team of doctors.

The woman was always a fighter, a real 'mountaineer' ha! and still is..

revmclaren

(2,515 posts)
153. My sister kept herself at a certain
Fri Jul 3, 2020, 02:18 PM
Jul 2020

kidney function level for years after being diagnosed with kidney disease.

She regulated her diet ...salt intake, potassium, etc so kept herself from dialysis for over 5 years past when they said it would be needed.

She's a fighter as well.

Thank you for your kindness ❤️.

appalachiablue

(41,126 posts)
161. Good for your sister, she showed real determination
Sun Jul 5, 2020, 06:15 PM
Jul 2020

and willpower to hold off dialysis that long. An excellent sign, she is courageous and a fighter.

Again, all the best to your sister, you and family in this very difficult time. Many positive thoughts to you all.



Demsrule86

(68,543 posts)
133. My brother had covid and had blood clots...the first test for covid was negative...often is-
Fri Jul 3, 2020, 08:58 AM
Jul 2020

The second test was positive....sending more positive vibes.

revmclaren

(2,515 posts)
155. The clots may have been caused by
Fri Jul 3, 2020, 02:21 PM
Jul 2020

the dialysis machine itself but I'm still very worried.

Thank you for caring.

lark

(23,091 posts)
134. Oh, so sorry she and you and the family are experiencing this.
Fri Jul 3, 2020, 09:11 AM
Jul 2020

I have a 65 year old sister who has really bad lungs and is type A so at a very high risk and I know how sad and worried we'd be if this was her.

Any sickness these days is such cause for worries. My 32 year old daughter called me, she'd had a low grade fever with cough and headache 2 days ago, got a rapid test and it was negative. She isn't running a fever now, and no coughs but now her husband has a 102 degree fever with severe headaches & coughing & really sick. He also tested negative, but both are going to get the nasal swab today because they are worried with CV spiking badly in FL. It seems like it's just a regular (non-CV19) sickness, but they are quarantining now. They haven't been around us in 2 weeks, when we had a family dinner with all 7 of us, and none of the rest of us are sick, but we are now worried. 4th of July is going to be strange with just my husband and I, but it's necessary this year.

revmclaren

(2,515 posts)
156. We have been self quarantining for months now
Fri Jul 3, 2020, 02:28 PM
Jul 2020

and taking precautions but that chance of something slipping though is always there.

Really hate all this and hate that so many are suffering because of the inaction of an evil man-thing and his minions.

Thank you so much for caring.

tavernier

(12,377 posts)
137. Sounds like symptoms of an infection,
Fri Jul 3, 2020, 10:39 AM
Jul 2020

and because of your careful masking, isolation and hand washing, a lesser chance of Covid. Yes I’m a retired nurse so I have some medical knowledge and background if that helps, but I’m not diagnosing, just opinionating.
Hope she’s home soon and doing better.

revmclaren

(2,515 posts)
150. They think it may very well be
Fri Jul 3, 2020, 02:09 PM
Jul 2020

an infection.

Another possibility that came up was our cat Taz scratched her ankle deeply about a week ago and it was still very red. I had asked her about it a couple days ago and she said it was still painful but said it was nothing. But she doesn't heal quickly any longer. The doctor said it was a possible source of an infection.

Who would have thought it could be actual 'cat scratch fever'.

Thank you for your well wishes.

cayugafalls

(5,640 posts)
139. Sending my good thoughts and prayers your way.
Fri Jul 3, 2020, 11:22 AM
Jul 2020

I hope she was able to get in a room. I know how hard that wait can be. I went through that with my mom.

I hope you got some rest.

Stay well!

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