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darkangel218

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Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:14 PM Sep 2012

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Adopt a pet. RagAss Sep 2012 #1
Agree! nt avebury Sep 2012 #9
You said it. Huge mistake. CurtEastPoint Sep 2012 #2
Is he good to you Fresh_Start Sep 2012 #3
Even IF he is "Good to" Her she should leave and don't look back. diabeticman Sep 2012 #11
I was able to flip my rw fundie talking in tongues gf into a lib otherone Sep 2012 #4
If he is good to you and others jpbollma Sep 2012 #6
You need to write a guide. Hoyt Sep 2012 #7
"Deprogramming Dipshits for Fun & Profit"? n/t csziggy Sep 2012 #14
How'd you do that? SpartanDem Sep 2012 #10
It was pretty easy otherone Sep 2012 #17
Hi! Democrat guys are better! Lint Head Sep 2012 #5
Oh, dear Canuckistanian Sep 2012 #8
Maybe this will help ;^) JaneyVee Sep 2012 #12
You deserve better. Blue Idaho Sep 2012 #13
Quit him NOW! burrowowl Sep 2012 #15
I WAS married to a republican. Omg - when Obamacare passed, he was so mad. jillan Sep 2012 #16
I wouldn't be able to do it either proud patriot Sep 2012 #18
Sorry. n/t porphyrian Sep 2012 #19
It's "The Stupid" that would be the deal breaker for me. IdaBriggs Sep 2012 #20
Girl, I don't know how you do it. I couldn't date a guy like this. Good luck! ;) Liberal_Stalwart71 Sep 2012 #21
You deserve so much better. Doremus Sep 2012 #22
Honey, that is why, gleannfia Sep 2012 #23
There are people like that, lots of them. I couldn't stand it either. n/t RKP5637 Sep 2012 #24
Tell your stupid ass BF Panasonic Sep 2012 #25
Honey, that is why, gleannfia Sep 2012 #26

RagAss

(13,832 posts)
1. Adopt a pet.
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:15 PM
Sep 2012

avebury

(11,201 posts)
9. Agree! nt
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:21 PM
Sep 2012

CurtEastPoint

(20,096 posts)
2. You said it. Huge mistake.
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:16 PM
Sep 2012

Time to let this one go. You deserve better. And he needs help.

Fresh_Start

(11,367 posts)
3. Is he good to you
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:17 PM
Sep 2012

if not, you should leave and not look back.
You deserve better.
Watch how he treats other people, if he's a dick to them....
he'll be a dick to you in the future..

diabeticman

(3,121 posts)
11. Even IF he is "Good to" Her she should leave and don't look back.
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:22 PM
Sep 2012

What he is doing is mental abuse besides no one needs this looser.

otherone

(973 posts)
4. I was able to flip my rw fundie talking in tongues gf into a lib
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:17 PM
Sep 2012

She went from fundie to catholic worker.. Still religious..

jpbollma

(552 posts)
6. If he is good to you and others
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:18 PM
Sep 2012

maybe he just needs some help or doesn't realize what he is saying. Maybe you could get him in situations to see the other side of things. If he is generally a dick and selfish kick him to the curb.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
7. You need to write a guide.
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:20 PM
Sep 2012

csziggy

(34,189 posts)
14. "Deprogramming Dipshits for Fun & Profit"? n/t
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:23 PM
Sep 2012

SpartanDem

(4,533 posts)
10. How'd you do that?
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:22 PM
Sep 2012

otherone

(973 posts)
17. It was pretty easy
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:25 PM
Sep 2012

The Catholic Worker Movement was religious enough for her, and I pointed out how fighting condoms or abortion didn't do the work of Jesus (she thinks Jesus healed the sick, preached peace, reduced poverty).

Plus, I introduced her to gay people. She had never met gay people, and were shocked at how decent they all are.

So poverty reduction and the gay agenda.. Ah, Gods work.

Lint Head

(15,064 posts)
5. Hi! Democrat guys are better!
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:18 PM
Sep 2012

Canuckistanian

(42,290 posts)
8. Oh, dear
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:21 PM
Sep 2012

Lack of compassion for others in the face of irrefutable evidence is a sign of one of two things:

1) Absolute denial

or

2) Sociopathy - he just doesn't care about others

Either way, if you've spent so much time with him and you didn't realize these views of his, I'm so sorry for you.

 

JaneyVee

(19,877 posts)
12. Maybe this will help ;^)
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:23 PM
Sep 2012

Blue Idaho

(5,500 posts)
13. You deserve better.
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:23 PM
Sep 2012

Much Better.

burrowowl

(18,494 posts)
15. Quit him NOW!
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:24 PM
Sep 2012

It is not love you have but hormones!

jillan

(39,451 posts)
16. I WAS married to a republican. Omg - when Obamacare passed, he was so mad.
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:24 PM
Sep 2012

"People need to get off their lazy asses and go get healthcare and not expect me to pay it."


What was laughable about that is he was a gov't worker that was anti-Union even tho Unions saved his ass on several occasions.

Face it - we're too good for them!!

proud patriot

(102,568 posts)
18. I wouldn't be able to do it either
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:27 PM
Sep 2012
 

porphyrian

(18,530 posts)
19. Sorry. n/t
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:29 PM
Sep 2012
 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
20. It's "The Stupid" that would be the deal breaker for me.
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:30 PM
Sep 2012

He thinks you are going to be so special that these assinine laws designed to insure the death of women by denying them access to medical care by making it illegal or impossible to get are simply not going to affect you or any other woman he cares about?

Because the magic bubble of "oh, I didn't get they meant people I cared about instead of the ones I don't give a crap about?"

As Dan Savage says, DTMFA. You don't want to chance adding that level of Stupid Asshole into the gene pool.

 

Liberal_Stalwart71

(20,450 posts)
21. Girl, I don't know how you do it. I couldn't date a guy like this. Good luck! ;)
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:31 PM
Sep 2012

Doremus

(7,273 posts)
22. You deserve so much better.
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:31 PM
Sep 2012

Kick that cretin to the curb for good and never look back.

You are light years ahead of him in all meaningful measures and don't deserve to have that lump of negative energy weighing you down. Let go and move on!


 

gleannfia

(66 posts)
23. Honey, that is why,
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:33 PM
Sep 2012

with rare exception, I do not date conservative men. Although I delight in giving them a case of blue balls now and then. Because, now matter how religious they are, they are horny as hell, especially the Catholic ones. ( I am a recovering Catholic.)

RKP5637

(67,112 posts)
24. There are people like that, lots of them. I couldn't stand it either. n/t
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:33 PM
Sep 2012
 

Panasonic

(2,921 posts)
25. Tell your stupid ass BF
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:34 PM
Sep 2012

It's either me or the right-wing fucknuts.

 

gleannfia

(66 posts)
26. Honey, that is why,
Tue Sep 18, 2012, 10:34 PM
Sep 2012

with rare exception, I do not date conservative men. Although I delight in giving them a case of blue balls now and then. Because, now matter how religious they are, they are horny as hell, especially the Catholic ones. ( I am a recovering Catholic.)

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