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FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 10:19 PM Jul 2020

Monitoring my daughter tonight thru the night to see if we need to go to ER (covid?)

She cried on the way to work this morning, too many tourists and no body following precautions. She works outside at a beach, but has to run credit cards and ghet close enough to put a wristband on people...

They sent her home early, she having pressure on her chest, can't breathe deep, has a lowered temp, and muscle cramps but not all over aches....nausea, diarheea for two days, and that fuzzy-headed feeling...she says some of her smell is "off" but taste seems ok...

Im trying to tell myself she's just freaking herself out.

If she gets worse we're driving to the er at midnight...otherwise first thing in the morning.

She's 18

I'm 50 with autoimmune stuff and have been driving her everywhere, also had a bit of a scratchy throat today...



Edit: we live in Lake Tahoe, which is a super hot spot and NOBODY is doing shit! Only 10 beds left in the hospital and cases jumped from 10 a day to 20 a day and we still have like an almost 2 week lapse on testing

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Monitoring my daughter tonight thru the night to see if we need to go to ER (covid?) (Original Post) FirstLight Jul 2020 OP
Oh my God drray23 Jul 2020 #1
Sending healing thoughts your way DUgosh Jul 2020 #2
Vibes from Canada. Wear a mask around each other. nt applegrove Jul 2020 #3
I can only imagine what you are going through at this mement. OAITW r.2.0 Jul 2020 #4
I'm so sorry. Please let us know how it goes. Phoenix61 Jul 2020 #5
Sending positive vibes your way, FirstLight. sheshe2 Jul 2020 #6
Seriously, Dan Jul 2020 #7
Not minimizing this at all, and deeply and seriously holding her and you and your family in prayer, mahina Jul 2020 #8
She could be freaking herself out, that's always possible. Dem2theMax Jul 2020 #9
Seems to me you should both be on the way to a hospital. Lochloosa Jul 2020 #10
the hospital is the LAST place to go unless it's dire IMO FirstLight Jul 2020 #13
Be careful.... Happy Hoosier Jul 2020 #32
take care... be on the safe side handmade34 Jul 2020 #11
Best hopes, keep us updated irisblue Jul 2020 #12
Demand a test for both of you. blogslut Jul 2020 #14
yes, and while the public testing facility is lagging by a week or more FirstLight Jul 2020 #15
Stand firm blogslut Jul 2020 #16
Oh great god how terrifying CanonRay Jul 2020 #17
im trying not to cry and to not ask her how she is every 30 mins FirstLight Jul 2020 #19
+1. Not fun not fun. Why so many of us are not going out there. None of it is fun. LizBeth Jul 2020 #24
prepare for the worst, hope for the best, what are homemade treatments, get zinc, soups, vitamin C, Demonaut Jul 2020 #18
cleaning bigtime tomorrow FirstLight Jul 2020 #20
Vit D too. High dosage both C and D LizBeth Jul 2020 #25
Please. If she can not breathe deeply and has pain when breathing that is dyspnea hlthe2b Jul 2020 #21
I have heard a lot of scary with the breathing thing escalating quickly. LizBeth Jul 2020 #27
Exactly. Breathing problem is the immediate danger and can escalate fast. Midnight Writer Jul 2020 #35
So sorry to hear this! Desert grandma Jul 2020 #22
Sending good thoughts your way. Please keep yourselves safe. cayugafalls Jul 2020 #23
If she can't breathe deeply I don't think that should wait. Liberty Belle Jul 2020 #26
Oh no MustLoveBeagles Jul 2020 #28
Prayers said for your daughter and you. hamsterjill Jul 2020 #29
Hopefully its a panic attack and not.covid Demovictory9 Jul 2020 #30
Agreed Dem2 Jul 2020 #34
Is there an urgent care nearby? They might have testing capabilities. Nevilledog Jul 2020 #31
I'm so sorry, FirstLight. Prayers and healing vibes for both of you. highplainsdem Jul 2020 #33
You say her fever is lowered? Fever is a Covid indicator in 85% of cases. Midnight Writer Jul 2020 #36
Have you counted her respirations? It's an easy way to assess her. littlemissmartypants Jul 2020 #37
thank you I will pass this on to her and her roommates FirstLight Jul 2020 #40
I've been thinking about you and your daughter Evergreen Emerald Jul 2020 #38
thanks updated below... FirstLight Jul 2020 #41
UPDATE - FirstLight Jul 2020 #39
Hope you're both OK malaise Jul 2020 #42
Thanks!...all I can do is try and get a test and wait it out... FirstLight Jul 2020 #43
All the best malaise Jul 2020 #44
Thank you for updating us. Nevilledog Jul 2020 #46
Sending healing cally Jul 2020 #45
Drink lots of water, prone position, Tylenol not ibuprofen, scipan Jul 2020 #47
I just got the appt for testing - JULY 25TH!!! FirstLight Jul 2020 #48
Keep us posted blogslut Jul 2020 #49

OAITW r.2.0

(24,467 posts)
4. I can only imagine what you are going through at this mement.
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 10:25 PM
Jul 2020

I can't imagine what all parents are going through with their school-age children now. Positive vibes!

Phoenix61

(17,003 posts)
5. I'm so sorry. Please let us know how it goes.
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 10:26 PM
Jul 2020

People do still get colds but yeah, definitely get it checked out.

mahina

(17,648 posts)
8. Not minimizing this at all, and deeply and seriously holding her and you and your family in prayer,
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 10:27 PM
Jul 2020

but also, my son had those exact symptoms and was feeling really crappy for a week, and then was fine. We live very close and I am fine too. So telling you this to ease your worries until you know what is up.

Good luck!

Dem2theMax

(9,651 posts)
9. She could be freaking herself out, that's always possible.
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 10:27 PM
Jul 2020

It could be a regular flu. Only one way to find out.

I had COVID-19 at the beginning of March. I don't think it follows any set patterns. If you think she's that sick, don't wait till morning. Better to be safe. Wishing you and your daughter all good luck and sending positive thoughts

FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
13. the hospital is the LAST place to go unless it's dire IMO
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 10:36 PM
Jul 2020

it's a petri dish, and almost full right now

Happy Hoosier

(7,295 posts)
32. Be careful....
Sat Jul 18, 2020, 12:11 AM
Jul 2020

There are plenty of folks who wait too long to get help because of that fear. Sounds to me like she needs to be checked out.

FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
15. yes, and while the public testing facility is lagging by a week or more
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 10:38 PM
Jul 2020

hopefully the hospital will be faster?

FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
19. im trying not to cry and to not ask her how she is every 30 mins
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 10:54 PM
Jul 2020

and everytime I feel a little pain in my ribs or shoulder or chest I am freaking out too

LizBeth

(9,952 posts)
24. +1. Not fun not fun. Why so many of us are not going out there. None of it is fun.
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 11:06 PM
Jul 2020

I am sorry you nad daughter are experiencing this. Let us know how it is going. Doctors are pretty good at recognizing before testing gets back.

Again, sorry.

Demonaut

(8,914 posts)
18. prepare for the worst, hope for the best, what are homemade treatments, get zinc, soups, vitamin C,
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 10:54 PM
Jul 2020

potassium, tylenol and clean

hlthe2b

(102,236 posts)
21. Please. If she can not breathe deeply and has pain when breathing that is dyspnea
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 10:56 PM
Jul 2020

and she needs to be seen without delay. Her symptoms are most certainly consistent and troublesome. Please go.

Desert grandma

(804 posts)
22. So sorry to hear this!
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 10:57 PM
Jul 2020

I hope you will get tested as soon as possible. Hopefully it will ease your worries. Do any urgent care facilities do testing where you are? Here in NM most urgent cares can do the testing and it takes 3-5 days to get results. The usual time is 48 -72 hours unless a weekend is involved. Then it's 3-5 days. Praying for you and your family.

Liberty Belle

(9,535 posts)
26. If she can't breathe deeply I don't think that should wait.
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 11:07 PM
Jul 2020

I would take her to a hospital or urgent care center ASAP, unless you have a way to get her to be able to open up her airways at home (ie, with an asthma inhaler perhaps. A drink with caffeine can help temporarily open airways for asthma but I don't know if it does so with COVID. Get her seen right away, please. When breathing troubles come on they can progress very quickly with this virus.

hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
29. Prayers said for your daughter and you.
Sat Jul 18, 2020, 12:01 AM
Jul 2020

I’m so sorry. Please keep us posted and know that we are all thinking of you both.

littlemissmartypants

(22,644 posts)
37. Have you counted her respirations? It's an easy way to assess her.
Sat Jul 18, 2020, 03:04 AM
Jul 2020

In adults, the cut-off is usually considered a rate over 20 breaths per minute, with a rate of over 24 breaths per minute indicating a very serious condition (when it is related to a physical condition rather than a psychological condition such as a panic attack).

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Respiratory_rate

❤lmsp

FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
40. thank you I will pass this on to her and her roommates
Sat Jul 18, 2020, 03:04 PM
Jul 2020

yeah, she lives across town so I didn't even have her here at home to coddle and fuss over...

FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
39. UPDATE -
Sat Jul 18, 2020, 03:03 PM
Jul 2020

She did the thing where you lay with your lower chest elevated and said it helped a LOT last night.

Still tired, chest a bit tight but not like last night...throat a little scratchy and achey but no fever and she's insisting she's fine. I'm wondering if it was also anxiety related.

We're avoiding the hot-spot hospital for now and both of us are signing up to get tested at the public college this week.

I still have a scratchy throat, tired, and achey, but then again it could be my arthritis/injuries just acting up.

Today is declared nap-day... much water and vitamins and rest and I'm sgining up right now online for testing.

FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
43. Thanks!...all I can do is try and get a test and wait it out...
Sat Jul 18, 2020, 03:16 PM
Jul 2020

if things get narly we go to the ER there's really no other prevention or remedy at this point

it's the not knowing that scares me

..and the fact that the symptoms are so different for others with autoimmune stuff (I take immune suppressants, could that be good or bad I have no idea) My daughter has other health issues too, so we could be sick and just having milder symptoms for now...
I've also heard that some folks are sick low level for a while then take a drastic turn..

it's scary for sure

scipan

(2,350 posts)
47. Drink lots of water, prone position, Tylenol not ibuprofen,
Sat Jul 18, 2020, 03:45 PM
Jul 2020

Expectorant, vit d and c, turn on hot shower to get steam.

Most of these are to thin the mucous and get more oxygen. Ibuprofen is an anti-inflammatory which is not good in the initial stage where your body is fighting the (possible) virus.

Remember most covid19 cases don't need hospitalization. Monitor your oxygen level any way you can, either with an oximeter ($30) or number of breaths per minute. See if you can talk via phone with your doctor.

Please keep us updated. We are here for you .

FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
48. I just got the appt for testing - JULY 25TH!!!
Sat Jul 18, 2020, 04:04 PM
Jul 2020

...and my sone got tested 2 WEEKS ago and we still have no results!

So that goes to show you the numbers are WAAYYYY off!

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