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Laxman

(2,419 posts)
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 04:42 PM Jul 2020

I've Crossed Paths With The Victim & The Shooter.....

in the incident involving the Federal Judge in New Jersey. When I saw the name of the victims released this morning I was taken aback. I told my wife I knew the attorney who was shot and so did she. We worked together in our first jobs as lawyers. We were young assistant prosecutors. It was a very social job-a lot of Friday night drinking for 20-somethings working in a high stress environment. My wife and I had spent several (or more) end of the week evenings with him and our co-workers. Mark was in the "class" of prosecutors the year after I started, although I didn't know until I read the article today he was 2 years older than I am, but he was my "junior" partner--we were assigned to the same court for about six months. Just a pleasant and decent human being. I haven't seen him in many years. While this entire incident is upsetting, it was very unnerving to find out it was someone I knew. Then...

I just read who the shooter was. I had a run-in with this nut job when I was working for the courts before I passed the bar. He was a law student-I think at Columbia or New York Law, although when I tell you about the case he was trying to bring you might think it hard to believe-as I did-that he ever set foot in a law school. There was a women's only-gym called (if I remember correctly) Lucille Roberts that had T.V. commercials all over the NY Metro stations. They offered the first 30-days free when you signed up. This dimwit decided he was going to sue Lucille Roberts because he had the brainstorm of all time-the free membership constituted an offer that he said they wouldn't make good on because he was a man. Therefore it was a breech of contract. He brought his application for membership with him that they refused to take. He wanted them to pay for a membership to a different health club that he could attend as damages. The look on the face of the woman from the gym's corporate office as he explained his "case" was priceless.

There was a mandatory mediation program and every case had to go through me before it could get a trial. I was the gatekeeper for limited trial time in New Jersey's busiest court. I told him he was crazy and he should get on the Path train back to NY and that I was recommending dismissal of his case. He went to complain to the presiding judge about me. The judge told me it was OK and that the only way she would have been mad at me would have been if I let that case hit her trial docket-although I got the feeling she would have liked to have ripped into him in court. About 5 or so years later I saw in the paper that he was billing himself as a "men's rights" attorney suing some night club for having a "ladies night". (Den Hollender isn't the kind of name you forget easily) I guess that was his next brainstorm. Every time I saw a Planet Fitness commercial I thought about this weirdo and what he must of thought would be his brilliant test case for his theories.

None of this really means anything-it's just strange to have a peripheral connection to two of the people involved. One thing is clear, this guy definitely had a problem with women that went way back. Now one oddball attorney with some lifelong axe to grind has taken a young man's life, gravely injured another man and forever changed the lives of Mark and his wife. We're definitely living in bizzaro world-and with all of the crazy videos of people freaking out, you never know who is really dangerous and who is just a crank. Be careful out there folks.

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I've Crossed Paths With The Victim & The Shooter..... (Original Post) Laxman Jul 2020 OP
That has to be a bit surreal for you. chowder66 Jul 2020 #1
And now we find out he spent a decade in Russia ZZenith Jul 2020 #2
Too true n/t Kitchari Jul 2020 #9
And, according to a post here on DU earlier today, his ex-wife was a mob prostitue niyad Jul 2020 #12
whoa, seriously? LymphocyteLover Jul 2020 #13
Yep. Dios Mio Jul 2020 #14
The judge had just been assigned to the Deutsche Bank. God forbid this ahole had killed her too.. Princess Turandot Jul 2020 #19
Assuming you are serious - ZZenith Jul 2020 #20
He also crossed paths/had connections to Roy Cohn and the Gambino and Managano crime families. woodsprite Jul 2020 #30
+1000. nt ecstatic Jul 2020 #25
I'm glad he didn't decide YOU were an enemy after you shut down his case- dawg day Jul 2020 #3
I've Come Across..... Laxman Jul 2020 #6
The authorities have made that connection too muriel_volestrangler Jul 2020 #8
That's a really good article Kitchari Jul 2020 #10
Fascinating malaise Jul 2020 #4
I've Just Been Lurking Lately... Laxman Jul 2020 #7
TrDump has brought the marginalized into the mainstream. magicarpet Jul 2020 #5
Speaking of the heinous Puppet for Putin.. I saw this.. Cha Jul 2020 #23
Stochastic terrorism central scrutinizer Jul 2020 #28
How bizarre Kitchari Jul 2020 #11
When I Saw The Name.... Laxman Jul 2020 #16
The takeaway for me, from the Trump era, and the last 10 years bucolic_frolic Jul 2020 #15
Interesting and not surprised that someone at DU had a personal connection grantcart Jul 2020 #17
Wow. n/t Liberal In Texas Jul 2020 #18
Are we sure it isn't an Oswald/Ruby thing? McCamy Taylor Jul 2020 #21
Strange times. NT warmfeet Jul 2020 #22
K&R smirkymonkey Jul 2020 #24
Thank you, Laxman, for sharing your personal Cha Jul 2020 #26
Did he really commit suicide, or did someone make it look that way? Lonestarblue Jul 2020 #29
I'm noticing his work in Russia. Wouldn't have taken much for him SharonAnn Jul 2020 #31
Turns out Hollander had a "serious cancer condition".. Cha Jul 2020 #33
It's a small world MustLoveBeagles Jul 2020 #27
Is this what an incel grows up to be? Sucha NastyWoman Jul 2020 #32

ZZenith

(4,121 posts)
2. And now we find out he spent a decade in Russia
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 04:47 PM
Jul 2020

and the judge had just been assigned to the Epstein/Deutsche Bank case.

More to it than just an aggrieved “men’s rights” loon, I’ll warrant.

niyad

(113,279 posts)
12. And, according to a post here on DU earlier today, his ex-wife was a mob prostitue
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 05:44 PM
Jul 2020

And had been the mistress of a Chechnyan warlord.

Princess Turandot

(4,787 posts)
19. The judge had just been assigned to the Deutsche Bank. God forbid this ahole had killed her too..
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 06:13 PM
Jul 2020

they would have simply replaced her with another judge. While I imagine that she's a very capable judge, it's hard to see how assassinating her would have benefited either party in the case at this stage. Not to mention, a 'professional' hit-person would likely not have shot two people in the open doorway of a home, left a wounded witness who could identify him behind, and failed to look through the house for his actual target.

ZZenith

(4,121 posts)
20. Assuming you are serious -
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 06:29 PM
Jul 2020

Doesn’t this send a signal to anyone else who might be put on this case?

And does it not get them a “do-over” for judge selection? Perhaps someone a little less ethically rigid?

woodsprite

(11,913 posts)
30. He also crossed paths/had connections to Roy Cohn and the Gambino and Managano crime families.
Tue Jul 21, 2020, 11:52 AM
Jul 2020

According to his web site: Worked undercover for the media as assistant campaign manager for a mob judge backed by the Gambino and Managano crime families and Roy Cohn.

dawg day

(7,947 posts)
3. I'm glad he didn't decide YOU were an enemy after you shut down his case-
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 04:47 PM
Jul 2020

Did you hear about the OTHER "prominent men's rights attorney" in California, killed the same way (fake delivery driver), just last week, Marc Angelucci?

"One of his friends’ answered, but the delivery man said he had a package that Angelucci needed to sign for."
https://www.sbsun.com/2020/07/12/mens-rights-activist-fatally-shot-in-front-of-home-in-san-bernardino-mountains/

Looks like the shooter first tried to take out a rival in his little niche in the legal world?

Laxman

(2,419 posts)
6. I've Come Across.....
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 04:57 PM
Jul 2020

way more than my share of characters, dangerous and otherwise, in my career. I've had the State Police sit outside my house for a couple of weeks while I prosecuted a gang leader. I've been in very public positions and had a small gaggle of stalkers over the years. I've gotten anonymous threatening letters. Even had one loon who showed up on my front lawn. Never bothered me. This kind of makes me re-think my cavalier attitude.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,311 posts)
8. The authorities have made that connection too
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 05:18 PM
Jul 2020
And now authorities are also looking into his possible connection to the death of another prominent men's rights figure in California earlier this month, sources say.
...
According to law enforcement sources, investigators found material with Den Hollander on the California murder victim, as well as information about Judge Janet DiFiore, the chief judge of the state of New York. The FBI has been in contact with DiFiore to advise her of the finding.

https://www.nbcnewyork.com/news/local/crime-and-courts/dead-man-in-ny-may-be-tied-to-killing-of-nj-federal-judges-son-shooting-of-her-husband-sources/2521563/

magicarpet

(14,145 posts)
5. TrDump has brought the marginalized into the mainstream.
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 04:55 PM
Jul 2020

And now come hell or high water they demand their day in the sun.

Cha

(297,187 posts)
23. Speaking of the heinous Puppet for Putin.. I saw this..
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 07:15 PM
Jul 2020
Den Hollander previously sued multiple NBC News anchors, as well as anchors from other networks, and alleged they engaged in an illegal conspiracy to prevent Donald Trump's election to the presidency.)

https://www.nbcnewyork.com/news/local/crime-and-courts/dead-man-in-ny-may-be-tied-to-killing-of-nj-federal-judges-son-shooting-of-her-husband-sources/2521563/

Kitchari

(2,166 posts)
11. How bizarre
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 05:30 PM
Jul 2020

That you were acquainted with both of them in the long ago past. Thanks for the thread--lots of interesting details are appearing here, such as the Russian connection and the other murder in California

Laxman

(2,419 posts)
16. When I Saw The Name....
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 06:02 PM
Jul 2020

of the suspected shooter this afternoon my first reaction was "what, that asshole?". I was just a kid when I ran across him. He was very young too but there was something about him that just wasn't right.

bucolic_frolic

(43,146 posts)
15. The takeaway for me, from the Trump era, and the last 10 years
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 05:57 PM
Jul 2020

for reasons I won't go into, is to pay attention to personality. Personality disorders come in various shapes, sizes, and degrees. Antisocial personality disorder is likely the worst. There are about 9 symptoms. They are a potential, that can go extreme at various points and various times.

Of course I'm no psychologist, so discount my view if you disagree.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
24. K&R
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 07:32 PM
Jul 2020

Thank you for your story. I have a feeling that a lot more is going to come out about this and it's going to be very ugly.

Cha

(297,187 posts)
26. Thank you, Laxman, for sharing your personal
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 07:37 PM
Jul 2020

very different histories with one of the victims, Mark Anderi, and the crazed killer, Den Hollander.

Shocking, Hollander has a trump connection...

Den Hollander previously sued multiple NBC News anchors, as well as anchors from other networks, and alleged they engaged in an illegal conspiracy to prevent Donald Trump's election to the presidency.)

https://www.nbcnewyork.com/news/local/crime-and-courts/dead-man-in-ny-may-be-tied-to-killing-of-nj-federal-judges-son-shooting-of-her-husband-sources/2521563/

I wonder what set him off so horribly as to elaborately plan to go to Judge Salas' home and start shooting to kill? And, then he gets to New York and decides to kill himself.. or that may have been his plan all along since he didn't think he could get away with it?

I'll never forget how you kept us informed during the whole Chris Christy Heinous Bridge Takeover. I guess Christy Finally got his Karma.

Lonestarblue

(9,981 posts)
29. Did he really commit suicide, or did someone make it look that way?
Tue Jul 21, 2020, 10:26 AM
Jul 2020

With Trump and Russian connections, I’m suspicious of everything. I feel like we’re experiencing an international crime syndicate at work with the former KGB head Putin the mastermind behind it.

SharonAnn

(13,772 posts)
31. I'm noticing his work in Russia. Wouldn't have taken much for him
Tue Jul 21, 2020, 12:39 PM
Jul 2020

To take on a “hit job” from them. If nothing else, they could’ve just been ratcheting up his anger until he exploded.

Cha

(297,187 posts)
33. Turns out Hollander had a "serious cancer condition"..
Tue Jul 21, 2020, 03:43 PM
Jul 2020
Den Hollander was a notoriously anti-feminist men's rights attorney, whose vitriolic website and book condemn women in rage-filled terms. In one of his books, he specifically blasted Salas by name as "lazy and incompetent" and said her only accomplishment was being a high school cheerleader. Den Hollander appeared in her court at one time as counsel in a lawsuit over the all-male military draft.

It's reported in this article tha Hollander had a serious cancer condition..

The body, identified by sources as attorney Roy Den Hollander, was found on a property in the Sullivan County town of Rockland, near Liberty, which is in the New York Catskills. Den Hollander had previously announced on a GoFundMe page, titled "Cancer knocks you down & doctors finish you off," that he was being treated for an apparent serious cancer condition.

https://www.nbcnewyork.com/news/local/crime-and-courts/dead-man-in-ny-may-be-tied-to-killing-of-nj-federal-judges-son-shooting-of-her-husband-sources/2521563/

https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=13784100

Sucha NastyWoman

(2,748 posts)
32. Is this what an incel grows up to be?
Tue Jul 21, 2020, 02:08 PM
Jul 2020

The place I live is thick with these types, although maybe not as far gone as he was.

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