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Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 08:26 PM Jul 2020

Why, oh why do I waste my time?

I have two sisters who are Fox "news" junkies and hard-core right-wingers. Why do I waste my time trying over and over, year after year, to help them see the light? I know it will only end is angry email exchanges, but I keep hoping that some day I might get through to them. Sigh.

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Why, oh why do I waste my time? (Original Post) Binkie The Clown Jul 2020 OP
Masochist? Nevilledog Jul 2020 #1
I'm very sorry to see this; elleng Jul 2020 #2
My brother and I agreed to never discuss politics again bluedye33139 Jul 2020 #3
I tried that, but then... Binkie The Clown Jul 2020 #4
Ugh. We actually had to unfollow each other on social media bluedye33139 Jul 2020 #6
Fortunately, I'm not on any social media sites. nt Binkie The Clown Jul 2020 #7
You know it might be because you're their sibling lunatica Jul 2020 #5
I think we outgrew that 60 years ago. Binkie The Clown Jul 2020 #8
because you miss who they used to be? Skittles Jul 2020 #9
I was sure the older of my two sisters was too smart for that, but... Binkie The Clown Jul 2020 #10
Intelligence doesn't make one immune to propaganda. nt. Mariana Jul 2020 #12
honestly, that is especially sad Skittles Jul 2020 #14
I had words with my cousin last week. lkinwi Jul 2020 #11
Block Fox from their DVR? Initech Jul 2020 #13

elleng

(130,864 posts)
2. I'm very sorry to see this;
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 08:29 PM
Jul 2020

guess I can understand, tho have no such to deal with (thank goodness.)

GOODNESS is the answer to 'why,' and the Goodness is all yours.

bluedye33139

(1,474 posts)
3. My brother and I agreed to never discuss politics again
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 08:33 PM
Jul 2020

We had a pretty horrific battle after Trump's election, and he was extremely upset. And from his perspective, I was belittling, dismissive, and arrogant.

I was not going to apologize for the certainty of my strong views, and I get that he's a conservative Republican. He is anti-racist and very tolerant of LGBT people and is not opposed to immigration, but because he is a Republican he is very tolerant of the Republican ideology in general.

Not talking about politics has freed us up to be brothers again.

Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
4. I tried that, but then...
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 08:38 PM
Jul 2020

they send me another video from Fox News filled with lies and distortions.
Somehow, I can't resist taking the bait.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
5. You know it might be because you're their sibling
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 08:38 PM
Jul 2020

that they resist seeing the truth. Siblings are notoriously contrarians with each other.

Evidently they have to experience the worst before they acknowledge it.

Skittles

(153,147 posts)
9. because you miss who they used to be?
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 08:45 PM
Jul 2020

I am lucky that none of my siblings were susceptible to rightwing-brainwashing

Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
10. I was sure the older of my two sisters was too smart for that, but...
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 08:47 PM
Jul 2020

...then her hubby got sucked into the Fox cesspool, and I think she went along just to avoid marital friction.

lkinwi

(1,477 posts)
11. I had words with my cousin last week.
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 08:52 PM
Jul 2020

I usually just tell her that I’m not going to argue, but I had already had two old fashioneds and she started in by saying all lives matter...she hasn’t called again.

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