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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsThere is no way in the world that I could engage in a "discussion" with someone who
was going to argue that Trump should be re-elected.
If some idiot insists that the world is flat or the Holocaust was a hoax or that windmills cause cancer, should we dignify their proud ignorance by "discussing" the pros and cons of their "position"?
Doesn't the mere act of responding to those promoting an obvious fraud---a transparent obscenity---imply that "there are two sides" worthy of consideration?
There is NOTHING to discuss with a Trump supporter. Frankly, I don't even want to breathe the same air.
Ferrets are Cool
(22,957 posts)Skittles
(171,710 posts)Docreed2003
(18,714 posts)And I'm losing my temper more frequently around them which isn't good either.
In the OR this week, I got so pissed when one of the scrub techs says "I just can't vote for Biden...all he does is lie and lie". Omg, I don't discuss politics at work but that flew all over me. Like do you not see and appreciate that Trump lies every time he opens his damn mouth??
Blue_true
(31,261 posts)I know a couple like that.
But the deep dyed in the wool Trumpers? I dont waste my time. I tried reasoning with one a couple of years back, it was like talking to a tree. The subject was a current event and the facts were clear and widely reported in tv and print news. Every time I hit him with a fact, he dismissed it as fake news. I gave up and never talked to a person like that again.
doc03
(39,086 posts)anymore. They believe the crap they read on the internet and from Trump that is all. I am Byeden my time for after the election if
Biden wins. I remember 4 years ago the day after the election when all the Trumpsters were prancing around giving each other the thumbs up. I can't wait to walk in the coffee shop and give them the thumbs up. I saved my 4th of July fireworks to set off when they announce the winner.
Atticus
(15,124 posts)is the most appropriate digit?
Blue_true
(31,261 posts)Bingo. Right on the money. They dismiss anything that doesnt confirm their insanity.
cyclonefence
(5,151 posts)with a person whose universe is so skewed, where right is wrong, where lies are truth, where kindness is cruelty.
I cannot agree more.
erronis
(23,879 posts)The implicit demand for obedience contained in deliberately false information is what is most destructive to democracy. When we share a commitment to finding the truth and agree about the method for discovering it, we are setting important democratic ground rules. Not only do these shared values and belief in the process help us arrive at collaborative solutions, but they also give us a bond that sustains our society when our governments reach decisions or make policies that we might disagree with.
So when Twitter tries to insert facts into Trumps tweets, it is using a very old and democratic method that goes back to the ancient Greeks. It reminds us that we have a responsibility to ourselves and to our fellow citizens to search for, and debate, the truth. It encourages us to be loyal to our shared values and higher principles, not to a person or party.
But when decision-making is based on choosing sides, rather than on reasoned argument and discovering truth, these ground rules are eviscerated. Research shows that beliefs premised on loyaltyto, say, a person, or to a partisan affiliationare especially impervious to facts that question or disprove them. Without a shared factual reality as a starting point, the Aristotelian ideal of debating ideas and achieving consensus on our common issues becomes impossible.
When propagandists, be they presidents or anyone else, reject any attempt to provide facts in the face of lies, they are rejecting the pillars of truth-finding upon which a democratic society is based: curiosity and debate. Accusationsrather than argumentand compliancerather than persuasionare incompatible with a democratic dialogue. The ancient Greeks rejected unquestioned propaganda and disinformation as well outside of democratic norms. So should we.
Atticus
(15,124 posts)those succinct reminders of truths which, after we read them, seem like common sense.
erronis
(23,879 posts)There's so much wisdom out there even tho the noise of the enemy try to drown it out. It's always good to share our resources.
Recently also:
Marcy Wheeler and co-writers: https://www.emptywheel.net/
Heather Cox-Richardson: https://heathercoxrichardson.substack.com/
Buckeye_Democrat
(15,526 posts)Tribalism often leads to these problems, which is why I get uncomfortable when I see it here sometimes. (Not often, thankfully.)
JoeOtterbein
(7,869 posts)Thanks for posting.
I would add that a good way to flip a "true believer" is to use emotion as much, or more, than facts. Try to find the basis of his emotional "crush" on certain people or ideas. That is their weakness.
One of my favorites is the fact that George Washington did not have wooden teeth. Instead, he had teeth made from teeth pulled from the mouths of slaves. If the person has a bit of remorse for slavery, it tends to put them off guard. If it's a Trumper go for the kill by dropping a bit of news they may not have heard yet. Like Michael Cohen's new forward about Vegas "golden showers".
dhol82
(9,650 posts)SeattleVet
(5,903 posts)Conversation with a 'friend-of-a-friend' on Facebook.
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FoaF - Yesterday morning, posts a link to BBC story on UAE/Israel peace deal.
Commenter #1: And yet - CNN.com does not even mention this story. (with link to CNN front page)
FoaF: They wouldn't. It makes Trump look good.
Me: {After checking on the CNN home page} It's been up on CNN all day, in the "World" section:
https://www.cnn.com/2020/08/13/politics/israel-united-arab-emirates-normalization-trump/index.html
FoaF: You had to go look for it. Pretty sure that's front page news.
And on to this morning when I saw the messages...
Me: The story was (and still is, as of 2 minutes ago) linked on the front page, in the World section of the front page. Actually, there are 2 stories linked from the front page concerning this; one is the hard-news article I linked above, and the other is an opinion piece. The notion that 'CNN.com does not even mention this story' is demonstrably false.
FoaF: I do see it now. It is the last one in the list. I didn't see it yesterday at all.
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And, of course, Commenter #1 has not been seen since he first claimed that CNN wasn't covering this.
Well, Duh! That's the way news sites work...the story was on the opening page (and probably started early in the day in the top 'Breaking' section). When I first looked it was the top story in the World section of the front page. When he said I had to go look for it, I checked again and it was still on the front page, but now down to being the 3rd story in the World panel. By the time he checked again it was the 5th story, having been pushed down by newer, more current news items. By tomorrow it will probably be off of the front page - and that's when I fully expect Commenter #1 to pop up again, with something along the lines of, "See - it's not there!".
Hell, not only was the story there, it has been updated multiple times through yesterday and today as new information or commentary came in.
They just don't see what they don't want to see. This is the type of density we have to break through.
yuiyoshida
(45,415 posts)Just as MANY Republicans are dying as Democrats... the virus doesn't care.
StocktonNative
(139 posts)in the Orange Marmalade's ideology.
That alone makes me stay far way from his Cult45 animals.
djacq
(1,778 posts)He's betting $200 against America.
SergeStorms
(20,591 posts)I've been talking to these dunderheads for four years. They just get worse, more deluded.
LakeArenal
(29,949 posts)I plan on being a gracious winner.
And am planning to put out my virtual hand and shake on the future.
Atticus
(15,124 posts)Others would say that your "forgive and forget" attitude is exactly what will encourage future Trumps.
LakeArenal
(29,949 posts)Not trying to be a better person than anyone. Although I think Joe would prefer to release the animosity than to cultivate it.
JoeOtterbein
(7,869 posts)Also, while you are trying to change a vote of one person you might have someone listening who might be influenced by your argument.
It may seem fruitless at times, but it's a great feeling when you do flip a Republic to a Democratic vote!
Atticus
(15,124 posts)same synonym: "weak".
JoeOtterbein
(7,869 posts)Pick on their hero(s). It all takes time, but now it is not to late to start with any voter.
Test yourself. Set a target person. If there are others around, pick on the bully. You might change a listener or two.
Whatever you do, please don't give up. We need every vote we can get.
Atticus
(15,124 posts)the knuckle-dragging Confederate flag flying asses who live in my world. Maybe you have a better variety.
JoeOtterbein
(7,869 posts)The little ones can grow to be great "influencers" on parents and grand-parents.
Flipping votes is like cooking a good meal. It takes time. For 2020 time is a wasting! We need your talents. Please keep trying.
(Also, add a little super glue to the grease when no one is watching!)
CountMyVote4Reality
(294 posts)While I have concerns about purity tests and painting everything as either black or white, this is different. Its the Trumpers that can only engage their warrants as absolute. Their cult will not be persuaded otherwise.
By refusing to debate them, we are simply being efficient with our time. Without some circumstantial life event prompting a shock to the system, they are a lost cause.
leftieNanner
(16,159 posts)who is involved in a volunteer situation with me - has a TRUMP 2020 bumper sticker on her truck.