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TexasTowelie

(112,102 posts)
Sun Sep 13, 2020, 12:53 PM Sep 2020

We studied what happens when guys add their cats to their dating app profiles

If you’ve used a dating app, you’ll know the importance of choosing good profile pics.

These photos don’t just relay attractiveness; a recent study suggested that 43% of people think they can get a sense of someone’s personality by their picture. You might guess that someone who has included a photo of themselves hiking is an outdoorsy type of person.

But as scientists who study human-animal interactions, we wanted to know what this meant for pet owners – in particular, male cat owners.

If you’re a guy who owns a cat, what kind of effect does it have on suitors if you post a picture posing with your favorite feline?

Read more: https://theconversation.com/we-studied-what-happens-when-guys-add-their-cats-to-their-dating-app-profiles-144999

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We studied what happens when guys add their cats to their dating app profiles (Original Post) TexasTowelie Sep 2020 OP
Um, young ladies.... qwlauren35 Sep 2020 #1
"Favored those who had dogs, but cats still gave an edge." AbsoDAMNlutely! hlthe2b Sep 2020 #2
This article was followed by a murielm99 Sep 2020 #3
How about the snake owners? I bet that's a big plus! Beakybird Sep 2020 #4
This really surprises me. Laffy Kat Sep 2020 #5
What about men who have dozens of hamsters in a giant Habitrail that encircles their bedroom? Silent3 Sep 2020 #6
That depends... lame54 Sep 2020 #8
With many exercise wheels tied to an array of generators... Silent3 Sep 2020 #9
I'm allergic to cats, so it would be a no. milestogo Sep 2020 #7
This stereotype has got to go. StarryNite Sep 2020 #10
If I was a guy with a cat I would be happy that the women who thought I wasn't "masculine chowder66 Sep 2020 #11
I read the article Rizen Nov 2020 #12
Don't let it get you down. TexasTowelie Nov 2020 #13

hlthe2b

(102,225 posts)
2. "Favored those who had dogs, but cats still gave an edge." AbsoDAMNlutely!
Sun Sep 13, 2020, 12:57 PM
Sep 2020

Never trust someone who doesn't like animals. And if they show it by keeping pets, all the better.

Laffy Kat

(16,377 posts)
5. This really surprises me.
Sun Sep 13, 2020, 01:09 PM
Sep 2020

I would look at a guy holding a cat as much more likely to like women and not feel threatened by them. It would be a definite plus for me.

Silent3

(15,200 posts)
6. What about men who have dozens of hamsters in a giant Habitrail that encircles their bedroom?
Sun Sep 13, 2020, 01:14 PM
Sep 2020

Asking for a friend.

Silent3

(15,200 posts)
9. With many exercise wheels tied to an array of generators...
Sun Sep 13, 2020, 01:35 PM
Sep 2020

...it's any amazing source of energy.

Hypothetically.

If that's the way my friend set it up.

StarryNite

(9,442 posts)
10. This stereotype has got to go.
Sun Sep 13, 2020, 01:38 PM
Sep 2020

Cats are awesome. Therefore how can a man be judged negatively just because he has a cat? I've known several men who had cats, only cats. They were every bit as masculine as men who don't have cats. Some men want animals and due to their life circumstances cats work better than dogs. Cats are much less needy. For instance a cat can be left home alone when a short trip out of town is necessary. Or maybe, they just prefer cats to dogs. So what? Personally I love both cats and dogs. As a woman, I think that a woman who finds a cat owning man to be less masculine or desirable says more about her than it does about the man who has a cat.

chowder66

(9,067 posts)
11. If I was a guy with a cat I would be happy that the women who thought I wasn't "masculine
Sun Sep 13, 2020, 05:37 PM
Sep 2020

enough" passed me by.

Men who like cats tell me that they don't have a problem with how they are perceived and are secure with themselves.

I'm so tired of the cat/dog wars. I like animals, I like people who like animals (if you have a dog, great!, if you have a cat, great!).
If you are a hunter - boooooooooooooo.




TexasTowelie

(112,102 posts)
13. Don't let it get you down.
Mon Nov 23, 2020, 10:49 PM
Nov 2020

Look at the cat photos and memes in my avatar and sig line. Thankfully, I'm not looking for a relationship at this time. Good luck to you--hopefully you will find someone who is impressed by your affection for your cat.

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