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herding cats

(19,559 posts)
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 12:18 AM Sep 2020

Please send good vibes.

My mom, as some of you know from my previous post Tuesday, lost her home late Tuesday in what is now the North Complex West Zone Fire in CA. It was the Bear Fire/North Complex Fire then.

They're heading out to here to live with me in Texas tomorrow morning from Oroville. She's elderly and couldn't make the drive and my brother flew up and is driving them here.

Good wishes/prayers/thoughts they make it here safe and whole are all welcome. My brother and my mom are both high risk for Covid. I'm so worried for them both on this long 3 day journey.

Just keep them in your thoughts, please. ❤️

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Please send good vibes. (Original Post) herding cats Sep 2020 OP
For Mom...❤️ TruckFump Sep 2020 #1
Deeply appreciated. herding cats Sep 2020 #13
Take care, Hearding Cats. Hope things work out. Hoyt Sep 2020 #2
Thank you. herding cats Sep 2020 #14
Keeping them both in my thoughts for a safe journey, my friend Rhiannon12866 Sep 2020 #3
My love and thanks to you. ❤️ herding cats Sep 2020 #15
That was my first thought, too Rhiannon12866 Sep 2020 #17
We're dealing with this one day at a time herding cats Sep 2020 #22
Bless you for taking them in. MontanaMama Sep 2020 #4
My thanks. ❤️ herding cats Sep 2020 #16
Safe journey for your family. sheshe2 Sep 2020 #5
She, I'm so scared. herding cats Sep 2020 #20
You're a wonderful person for taking them in. Laffy Kat Sep 2020 #6
My thanks. ❤️ herding cats Sep 2020 #21
You've got it Clash City Rocker Sep 2020 #7
I know the region well. My mom lived in Berry Creek. One ridge over from Paradise. herding cats Sep 2020 #12
Wishing for the best for you all. Midnight Writer Sep 2020 #8
Thank you. ❤️ herding cats Sep 2020 #23
Sorry to hear it. roamer65 Sep 2020 #9
My mom is safe and sound. Right now. herding cats Sep 2020 #24
You got it herding cats MagickMuffin Sep 2020 #10
My mom joked about how they needed to get their DL's changed and registration to vote changed. herding cats Sep 2020 #26
Oh, honey... I'm so sorry your family is going thru this. Nevilledog Sep 2020 #11
My thanks to you. ❤️ herding cats Sep 2020 #29
I'm so sorry she and you are going though this brer cat Sep 2020 #18
My thanks to you, kind friend. herding cats Sep 2020 #32
Your mom will be in my prayers Gothmog Sep 2020 #19
My love to you. herding cats Sep 2020 #33
Good wishes peggysue2 Sep 2020 #25
They are in my thoughts. qwlauren35 Sep 2020 #27
... Demovictory9 Sep 2020 #28
Vibes on the way! 💗💗💗 SheltieLover Sep 2020 #30
Sending much love and support. May you all find peace nolabear Sep 2020 #31
Safe and Healthy Travels for them! electric_blue68 Sep 2020 #34
It's a good thing they have you to turn to! BigmanPigman Sep 2020 #35
You really have my best KT2000 Sep 2020 #36
I hope your mother and brother have a safe and uneventful trip. FuzzyRabbit Sep 2020 #37
Sending love and support Granny M Sep 2020 #38
Good Wishes Sent COL Mustard Sep 2020 #39
I said a prayer Joinfortmill Sep 2020 #40
Message auto-removed Name removed Sep 2020 #41
I am so sorry. I did not see the previous post about losing her home to the fire Tanuki Sep 2020 #42
Sending prayers and kind thoughts hamsterjill Sep 2020 #43
So sorry for your mom malaise Sep 2020 #44
Sorry the worst happened--that is terrible. I saw the update. BusyBeingBest Sep 2020 #45
Good vibes sent for a safe journey... Heartstrings Sep 2020 #46

Rhiannon12866

(205,161 posts)
3. Keeping them both in my thoughts for a safe journey, my friend
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 12:23 AM
Sep 2020

I am so sorry that you're all going through this right now.

herding cats

(19,559 posts)
15. My love and thanks to you. ❤️
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 12:58 AM
Sep 2020

I just want them here and not sick and we can then begin to figure this whole mess out. You know? We already have so very much on our plates, Covid is an unwelcome extra.

My poor mom is so sad already. She truly can't deal with another lawyer now.

Rhiannon12866

(205,161 posts)
17. That was my first thought, too
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 01:05 AM
Sep 2020

With all that's already going on right now, this additional blow has to be overwhelming. Kudos to you and your brother for stepping up, your Mom is fortunate to have you to lean on. Just concentrate on one step at a time, the journey first, then dealing with whatever she's up to. And remember to breathe, as a very wise person once said to me...

herding cats

(19,559 posts)
22. We're dealing with this one day at a time
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 01:14 AM
Sep 2020

Tiny baby steps. Get her here. Deal with her immediate traumas (she's lost friends to the Fire, then the loss of her home). Make her know she's safe, loved and secure. After that I'm winging it.

sheshe2

(83,729 posts)
5. Safe journey for your family.
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 12:28 AM
Sep 2020

Love and hugs to you all. Everything is so much more difficult with COVID as if the fires are not bad enough.

Wrapping you all in my arms.

herding cats

(19,559 posts)
20. She, I'm so scared.
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 01:09 AM
Sep 2020

My mom has several high risk factors, along with my brother. Then when they get here if anyone caught it, my husband is high risk x2. 3 of my dearest are at high risk from this trip.

They're bringing her car (all she has left) on a long road trip at the worst possible time. It's unavoidable, and terrifying. I hate 2020 with i deep passion.

My love and appreciation to you for your much needed kindness. I'm so overwhelmed right now with all my worries. I needed a touch of kind support.

Clash City Rocker

(3,396 posts)
7. You've got it
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 12:34 AM
Sep 2020

Oroville is a stone’s throw from a cute little town called Paradise (or, as the idiot in the WH called it, “Pleasure”) that almost ceased to exist altogether in 2018 because of a massive fire. I went to college in nearby Chico. It’s a lovely area.

herding cats

(19,559 posts)
12. I know the region well. My mom lived in Berry Creek. One ridge over from Paradise.
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 12:50 AM
Sep 2020

She's extremely fortunate to have a hotel room in Oroville where she evacuated to. They were one of some only 90 people to secure one was the evacuation was issued. My sister owned the day on thst one booking it when mom said they had to leave now. ❤️

Her town might be gone for good. Most of the homes are much like hers and just a slab with ash on the top. It's truly apoplectic to view. Everything is burned from the tall pines down to their homes. In so very many cases there's nothing left. If you didn't know previously there was a home there, you'd not be sure by just looking at the aftermath. I've never seen homes so totally erased before, and this is far from my first wildfire.

The gentleman who was kindly driving about trying to map lost homes for people said when he hit my mom"s house, "it looks like there used to be a home up there due to the driveway and ash." That's all that was left of her 30+ years there. A driveway and ash.

roamer65

(36,745 posts)
9. Sorry to hear it.
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 12:39 AM
Sep 2020

Hope they make it safe and sound.

Sadly, there will be many more stories like your mom’s as GHGs increase to higher levels.

herding cats

(19,559 posts)
24. My mom is safe and sound. Right now.
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 01:19 AM
Sep 2020

I agree with you, and it breaks my heart for all the other families.

I know their fear and pain.

herding cats

(19,559 posts)
26. My mom joked about how they needed to get their DL's changed and registration to vote changed.
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 01:28 AM
Sep 2020

She's a true gem of a person. Even in all this suffering she's looking for silver linings.

I'm confident they'll both be registered to vote within a short time.

Nevilledog

(51,068 posts)
11. Oh, honey... I'm so sorry your family is going thru this.
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 12:42 AM
Sep 2020

Trust that they'll be diligent during their travel to your home, and how relieved you'll be when they get there. You know where I am if you need to rant a bit.

herding cats

(19,559 posts)
29. My thanks to you. ❤️
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 01:40 AM
Sep 2020

I know they'll be diligent, I also know how concerned they are. They're so scared. I went over the scientific data with them both, and I hoped it eased some of their concerns this evening. My heart is just so broken for my mom. I'm trying to be positive for them when we speak.

2020 is the worst year on record in my life. It needs to end soon.

My true appreciation and ❤️ to you for your kindness. It was needed tonight.

brer cat

(24,556 posts)
18. I'm so sorry she and you are going though this
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 01:06 AM
Sep 2020

awful nightmare, herding cats. Keeping your family in my heart.

herding cats

(19,559 posts)
32. My thanks to you, kind friend.
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 01:44 AM
Sep 2020

I always feared this would happen. My mom actually had her place up and was trying to sell and get out of there before it did burn. She just didn't make it.

Covid makes this whole relocating much more risky and frightening then should be necessary. It all just sucks so very badly.

peggysue2

(10,828 posts)
25. Good wishes
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 01:26 AM
Sep 2020

And blessings sent in your direction. The fire news is devastating and Covid complicates everything.

The best to you and your family.

qwlauren35

(6,147 posts)
27. They are in my thoughts.
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 01:31 AM
Sep 2020

There are new drugs and new methodologies for saving people who get sick.

Make sure they get tested as soon as they land, and then get them to a safe and loving home, as I know you will provide.

nolabear

(41,959 posts)
31. Sending much love and support. May you all find peace
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 01:43 AM
Sep 2020

These are awful times. Sometimes what we have left is one another. Glad you are there for her.

electric_blue68

(14,863 posts)
34. Safe and Healthy Travels for them!
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 01:49 AM
Sep 2020

Oh, missed she lost friends as well. Damn.

Hopefully slow, steady, and safely they'll arrive. They're taking the proper precautions.

KT2000

(20,572 posts)
36. You really have my best
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 01:55 AM
Sep 2020

I cannot imagine starting over as so many will have to do. She is lucky to have you and your brother. Good vibes heading your way.

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Tanuki

(14,918 posts)
42. I am so sorry. I did not see the previous post about losing her home to the fire
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 08:56 AM
Sep 2020

That would be devastating even in ordinary, plague-free times. How much more stressful it must be now! She is fortunate to have such strong and helpful support from you and your brother. Wishing a safe journey to them and a bright new beginning and happier times ahead for your dear mother.

hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
43. Sending prayers and kind thoughts
Mon Sep 14, 2020, 09:00 AM
Sep 2020

There is just SO much to contend with right now. I’m so glad you are a buffer for your mom.

Where are you in Texas? I’m in SA. Our COVID numbers are dropping but we are (like everywhere) not out of the woods yet.

Be vigilant. Be safe. And find a minute to take care of yourself in all of this. This stress is not healthy for anyone.

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