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JimGinPA

(14,811 posts)
Sat Sep 19, 2020, 12:59 PM Sep 2020

So I Confronted A MAGA Cousin From MO On Facebook This Morning

She posted that she was a "huge supporter" in a reply to a post by one of her sisters. My reply to her;

What do you admire most about him? That he called our men in uniform losers, or that he called those that died in battle suckers? Or maybe that he knew back in Feb. that Covid-19 was a serious airborne infectious disease but lied about it, and downplayed it, costing untold 1000's of lives? Or maybe you're a fan of the other thousands of documented lies he's told since the Russians helped him get elected. Is it the early morning bathroom tweets? No, it's gotta be the pussy grabbing! How foolish you look publicly supporting that snake oil salesman.


Crickets for an hour.


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So I Confronted A MAGA Cousin From MO On Facebook This Morning (Original Post) JimGinPA Sep 2020 OP
Did she respond? XanaDUer2 Sep 2020 #1
Nope JimGinPA Sep 2020 #3
Did she unfriend you? Bev54 Sep 2020 #6
No, But I Barely Know Her JimGinPA Sep 2020 #37
If she happened to be an attendee, for her sake, hope she didn't catch anything else. nt thenelm1 Sep 2020 #44
Well done. dchill Sep 2020 #2
Thank you for speaking up! Cousin Dupree Sep 2020 #4
Nicely worded, succinct and to the point. brush Sep 2020 #5
Agreed! Well done! liberalla Sep 2020 #16
Boom! onecaliberal Sep 2020 #7
Give her time lunatica Sep 2020 #8
Well done! MLAA Sep 2020 #9
Trump's supporters know he's a lowlife piece of shit and they don't care Snake Plissken Sep 2020 #10
"know that he's a lowlife piece .." stopdiggin Sep 2020 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author stopdiggin Sep 2020 #15
Agree, make them uncomfortable. radius777 Sep 2020 #51
As has been said - Sometimes there's nothing virtuous about compromise GoneOffShore Sep 2020 #52
Your final line, instead of the one you have, PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2020 #11
Let that sink in KatyMan Sep 2020 #46
One of the best..... BlueDawn Sep 2020 #12
Trump supporters Aerator Sep 2020 #13
Goldwater 1964. A classic. RussellCattle Sep 2020 #21
Heard about the Goldwater sandwich? It's... reACTIONary Sep 2020 #41
The Trump sandwich is a little more elaborate csziggy Sep 2020 #47
LOL +100 sans text reACTIONary Sep 2020 #59
If you search for "Trump sandwich" there are a lot of images of boards csziggy Sep 2020 #61
Thanks for sharing! reACTIONary Sep 2020 #62
Surely they do, but as long as he's pwning the libs... thenelm1 Sep 2020 #48
Never have and never will try to reason with a Deplorable Dukkha Sep 2020 #17
You forgot bounties on our troupes. StTimofEdenRoc Sep 2020 #18
and innocent children torn from parents, never to be reunited. lindysalsagal Sep 2020 #19
I ask if they get embarrassed over his overt racism. JohnnyRingo Sep 2020 #20
I have several MAGA cousins in MO. mantis49 Sep 2020 #22
My MAGA Cousin is "muted" for 30 days. GopherGal Sep 2020 #27
Good for you! FoxNewsSucks Sep 2020 #23
My older brother always responds with, "Oh, never mind." LogicFirst Sep 2020 #24
They'll just say it's all fake news hauckeye Sep 2020 #25
ask what policies they like the most.the onethatcares Sep 2020 #38
Good on you. OregonBlue Sep 2020 #26
Yet another reason to not be on Facebook grantcart Sep 2020 #28
one of the millions of brainwashed fox news created, they are triggered every time yaesu Sep 2020 #29
Well said! patphil Sep 2020 #30
you are brilliant. thanks Jim !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! may i borrow your words and use it on facebook. trueblue2007 Sep 2020 #31
Absolutely! JimGinPA Sep 2020 #32
Good response - I always like to include a gif of Trump mocking womanofthehills Sep 2020 #33
maybe its his shitty faux tan on his face? pansypoo53219 Sep 2020 #34
Wow! Good for you! Joinfortmill Sep 2020 #35
RUMP says what they believe but are afraid to say out loud. NoMoreRepugs Sep 2020 #36
awesome mdbl Sep 2020 #39
Absolutely! JimGinPA Sep 2020 #40
👏 👏 👏 BlancheSplanchnik Sep 2020 #42
Excellent Call Out on your Magat cuz, JGPA! Cha Sep 2020 #43
Applause Ferrets are Cool Sep 2020 #45
this is very handy VideoSteve Sep 2020 #49
I think the most obscene thing he's done was putting children in cages. C Moon Sep 2020 #50
That's nice Sherman A1 Sep 2020 #53
K&R for displays of righteous anger meow2u3 Sep 2020 #54
Well done. k&r n/t Laelth Sep 2020 #55
Sharp pointed -- hurts the brain. Just what I need for my daily NCjack Sep 2020 #56
it's been a day. ever hear back from her? n/t orleans Sep 2020 #57
Yes... JimGinPA Sep 2020 #58
You empirically discovered the key: prove that he doesn't care for America, but only himself andym Sep 2020 #60
He cares about the country? Elwood P Dowd Sep 2020 #63
good job. and i'd write her off. she's a lost cause. orleans Sep 2020 #64

JimGinPA

(14,811 posts)
37. No, But I Barely Know Her
Sat Sep 19, 2020, 05:23 PM
Sep 2020

I'm the oldest in my generation & she's the youngest. She was a baby when I went to college & moved away. She knows a couple of my sisters who stayed in the area a lot better & she really doesn't want to get on their bad side. Normally we all avoid political conversations, but she lives at the Lake of the Ozarks & I think she got some MAGA courage from the bike rally there this weekend.


lunatica

(53,410 posts)
8. Give her time
Sat Sep 19, 2020, 01:09 PM
Sep 2020

Any minute now she’ll come back with how the Democrats are the same. Especially Hillary.

No. Worse! Hillary is worse! Bigly worse!

Snake Plissken

(4,103 posts)
10. Trump's supporters know he's a lowlife piece of shit and they don't care
Sat Sep 19, 2020, 01:29 PM
Sep 2020

You won't change her mind, but that's not what's important


It's important that you stopped coddling her and the rest of his supporters, and make it perfectly clear they are lowlife pieces of shit too for supporting him.

stopdiggin

(11,242 posts)
14. "know that he's a lowlife piece .."
Sat Sep 19, 2020, 01:48 PM
Sep 2020

that's it in a nutshell. They support him precisely because he is a middle finger thrust out at -- the entire world.

Don't try to over-think it. They certainly don't.

Response to Snake Plissken (Reply #10)

BlueDawn

(892 posts)
12. One of the best.....
Sat Sep 19, 2020, 01:35 PM
Sep 2020

....ripostes I have seen to date. Asking questions as you did really puts someone on the spot and requires answers, which unfortunately most Trump cultists would simply refuse to offer.

I love how you approached this. I am very curious about her response, should you receive one!

csziggy

(34,131 posts)
47. The Trump sandwich is a little more elaborate
Sat Sep 19, 2020, 10:27 PM
Sep 2020

White bread, full of baloney, with Russian dressing and an extremely small pickle.

csziggy

(34,131 posts)
61. If you search for "Trump sandwich" there are a lot of images of boards
Sun Sep 20, 2020, 02:35 PM
Sep 2020

In front of shops with this delicacy. I did not invent it.

reACTIONary

(5,768 posts)
62. Thanks for sharing!
Sun Sep 20, 2020, 02:52 PM
Sep 2020

During the campaign they proffered a variety of merchandise as the "Goldwater" this or the "Goldwater" that. My father enjoyed telling the "Goldwater sandwich" joke. One of the earliest political references I remember.

thenelm1

(851 posts)
48. Surely they do, but as long as he's pwning the libs...
Sat Sep 19, 2020, 10:41 PM
Sep 2020

In too many cases, these folks world doesn't seem to extend beyond a few hundred yards beyond the space they currently inhabit. They have no concept of the world beyond their immediate sphere of occupation. The rest of the country and the world be damned as long as they get their way in that little insular bubble they live in. They assume that the rest of the country and world should have that same parochial, bumkin view of the big, wide world we live in as they do. They're scared to death of change and having to expand their horizons to encompass a greater world view beyond themselves.

JohnnyRingo

(18,618 posts)
20. I ask if they get embarrassed over his overt racism.
Sat Sep 19, 2020, 02:20 PM
Sep 2020

That puts them on the spot because they can't admit they're racist so they usually say "he's not racist". That leaves to door open to point out things he does that are. It's not hard.

"Name all the black people in his cabinet." "Why is there only one?"

GopherGal

(2,007 posts)
27. My MAGA Cousin is "muted" for 30 days.
Sat Sep 19, 2020, 03:04 PM
Sep 2020

After ignoring a bunch of "pro-life" stuff, it was "4 men died alone" about Benghazi that did it. Rather than type some response about thousands dying alone due to COVID, I clicked the "..." to find some other options.

hauckeye

(631 posts)
25. They'll just say it's all fake news
Sat Sep 19, 2020, 02:43 PM
Sep 2020

My MAGA relatives say they don't like his tweeting and his personality but they like his policies ....blech

onethatcares

(16,161 posts)
38. ask what policies they like the most.the
Sat Sep 19, 2020, 05:35 PM
Sep 2020

especially if they like the deferral of payroll taxes.

That usually gets me a "Duh, it's my money, I should get it now".

gaudammm jbwentworth assholes.

yaesu

(8,020 posts)
29. one of the millions of brainwashed fox news created, they are triggered every time
Sat Sep 19, 2020, 03:13 PM
Sep 2020

they see something orange.

patphil

(6,150 posts)
30. Well said!
Sat Sep 19, 2020, 03:22 PM
Sep 2020

Sometimes you just have to take a stand.

A couple months ago in a conversation about Trump I told my brother-in-law, a strong Trump supporter and a good Lutheran, that Trump had no love in his heart.
He gave me a shocked look and feel silent.

He hasn't talked politics with me since.

womanofthehills

(8,661 posts)
33. Good response - I always like to include a gif of Trump mocking
Sat Sep 19, 2020, 03:33 PM
Sep 2020

the handicapped reporter. When I do that on Facebook it usually stops Republican responses although one woman told me the video was manipulated.

NCjack

(10,279 posts)
56. Sharp pointed -- hurts the brain. Just what I need for my daily
Sun Sep 20, 2020, 11:05 AM
Sep 2020

encounters with Trumpsters. Thanks.

JimGinPA

(14,811 posts)
58. Yes...
Sun Sep 20, 2020, 01:02 PM
Sep 2020
One he is NOT A POLITICIAN and he actually cares for his country. He isn’t being paid to take on the shit he was left with and has made many many many improvements...the copy and paste was to save my time. Just so ya know.

And no one knew what the Covid was going to do or that it would have the affects it has had. And according to the CDC the numbers are wrong anyway. So many reports that were wrong.

But hey if you want to vote for someone who cannot form a thought or sentence and prefers children over someone who has actually done so much for our country in just a few short years and cleaned up Obama’s and many Democrats mess then go ahead. My vote will be for Trump 100%


I replied;

No, he's not a politician, he's famous for being famous, like a Kardashian without the talent. And for failing businesses, bankruptcies & cheating investors. The tapes were released last week where he said he knew about Covid & was downplaying it. Fox News has confirmed it, & they'e not exactly a "librul" news source.


Then my sister wrote to her;

Wow, I feel a combination of pity and disdain for you right now. Sad.


That was the end of the conversation.

andym

(5,443 posts)
60. You empirically discovered the key: prove that he doesn't care for America, but only himself
Sun Sep 20, 2020, 02:28 PM
Sep 2020

Note the defense "he cares for America" (really means he cares for MAGAs). Each of your original arguments in the OP actually makes a very strong case he does NOT care for America. Should just be repeated in that context.

Elwood P Dowd

(11,443 posts)
63. He cares about the country?
Sun Sep 20, 2020, 03:15 PM
Sep 2020

If he cares so much about serving his country, then why was he a draft dodger during Vietnam? Why does he love dictators who are our enemies? Why did he make so many real estate and money laundering deals with Russian spies. Why were six of his campaign advisors convicted of felonies, and why did they all have close ties with Russian spies? If he cares about his country, why does he constantly lie to it's citizens? If he cares about his country, why has he taken the ACA to court to kick 25 million US citizens off their health care insurance during a health care emergency called COVID-19?

orleans

(34,040 posts)
64. good job. and i'd write her off. she's a lost cause.
Sun Sep 20, 2020, 09:04 PM
Sep 2020

i absolutely refuse to deal with people like that--on social media and in real life.

(fuck them)

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