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ETTD WhiteTara Oct 2020 #1
Yep! jrthin Oct 2020 #14
Agreed. c-rational Oct 2020 #59
"Everything Trump Touches Expires" Leghorn21 Oct 2020 #25
Check your subject line. tblue37 Oct 2020 #47
See what I mean? WhiteTara Oct 2020 #51
Trump touch is the opposite of Midas touch IronLionZion Oct 2020 #92
King Midas in Reverse Dirty Socialist Oct 2020 #100
King Merde-as nt smb Oct 2020 #103
Welcome home Karma! MLAA Oct 2020 #2
Flagged a racist, his risk factor for workplace violence and rental violence is through the roof. TheBlackAdder Oct 2020 #65
never mess with Karma, sounds like he had it coming beachbumbob Oct 2020 #3
So so sad. BKDem Oct 2020 #4
They never learn snowybirdie Oct 2020 #5
Precisely Sherman A1 Oct 2020 #52
I set my privacy's strings to friends only and never will accept a friend request from someone I kimbutgar Oct 2020 #80
Falsebook ignores your "privacy settings." lagomorph777 Oct 2020 #97
I don't ever post on Facebook DBoon Oct 2020 #93
Be careful what you post, someone is always watching kirkuchiyo Oct 2020 #94
Sorry you have to deal with that in your family. haele Oct 2020 #6
Also the most important thing to remember, what's posted on the internet lasts forever. brush Oct 2020 #15
...and health care. He's going to need the ACA. 😔 ooky Oct 2020 #7
Trump should send him a check or something for his effort dalton99a Oct 2020 #8
... pazzyanne Oct 2020 #70
Many of these trumpsters that are brainwashed by him are just so impossible to deal with FM123 Oct 2020 #9
trumpsters defend him like most people would a family member, really sickening KS Toronado Oct 2020 #24
Bootstraps. nt Hotler Oct 2020 #10
Pull yourself up by bootstraps. SMoss Oct 2020 #26
Try Harder! ProfessorGAC Oct 2020 #33
The main problem with that slogan is - all those with no boots. calimary Oct 2020 #35
Clearly, that's your fault. n/t sarge43 Oct 2020 #53
Try pulling up on one foot at a time. lunatica Oct 2020 #62
Snowflake rpannier Oct 2020 #86
It requires ropes, pulleys, and hooks. soldierant Oct 2020 #89
lol uponit7771 Oct 2020 #102
This Ferrets are Cool Oct 2020 #39
"What goes around-----" nt Atticus Oct 2020 #11
Yes he will need the ACA for health insurance which he rallied against for yrs Books_Tea_Alone Oct 2020 #12
Be sympathetic, but make DeminPennswoods Oct 2020 #20
And if you can, refer to ACA as Obama Care :) n/t Pluvious Oct 2020 #30
He better hope that Barrett doesn't get confirmed for the Supreme Court then..... groundloop Oct 2020 #49
It is strange and weird that when conservatives get caught in their bullshit, they're never sorry Rabrrrrrr Oct 2020 #66
What did he do for a living? kimbutgar Oct 2020 #79
Financial planner for a bank Books_Tea_Alone Oct 2020 #88
Yep nobody wants to find out their financial planner is a racist kimbutgar Oct 2020 #99
Yikes!! Thekaspervote Oct 2020 #13
"Opportunity knocks, Karma kicks the door in". Blue_true Oct 2020 #16
that's a shame Takket Oct 2020 #17
Hoping for your sibling's successful education and positive reckoning lostnfound Oct 2020 #18
Will he still be voting for trump? AlexSFCA Oct 2020 #19
Yes- huge Trump supporter. Books_Tea_Alone Oct 2020 #34
"DAMN THAT DEEP STATE!!!!!" durablend Oct 2020 #43
"Caught" presumes an action that was wrong. TwilightZone Oct 2020 #45
You can't choose your relatives. BlancheSplanchnik Oct 2020 #21
Ohhhhh myyyy. The holidays should really be fun this season. niyad Oct 2020 #22
What holidays? JustABozoOnThisBus Oct 2020 #73
I know I shouldn't, but the schadenfreude is lovely. Thanks for sharing. Nitram Oct 2020 #23
This one is a dilemma for me Shermann Oct 2020 #27
He accidentally posted on his professional account linked to the company. Books_Tea_Alone Oct 2020 #37
The Pitfall Of Employment At Will ProfessorGAC Oct 2020 #38
It was posted on the employer's account.... pretty much the same as using the employer's property groundloop Oct 2020 #46
Agreed! ProfessorGAC Oct 2020 #61
Unless your business IS politics! niyad Oct 2020 #74
Of Course! ProfessorGAC Oct 2020 #81
For sure DeminPennswoods Oct 2020 #60
Writing a racist book would likely result in the same outcome. TwilightZone Oct 2020 #48
but the world owes him everything... getagrip_already Oct 2020 #28
DEBT came for your sibling Warpy Oct 2020 #29
I'm sorry you and your family had to go through this. My family is divided too. NoRoadUntravelled Oct 2020 #31
Of course, in his mind... hurple Oct 2020 #32
Holy shit Joinfortmill Oct 2020 #36
Good God Dan Oct 2020 #40
What little I know of the post Books_Tea_Alone Oct 2020 #50
I have one of those in my family... 634-5789 Oct 2020 #41
"Christina?" Or "Christian?" Archae Oct 2020 #77
Was he horrible before rump? tavernier Oct 2020 #42
Yes see posts below for his background n/t Books_Tea_Alone Oct 2020 #85
Karma is taking a long nap lame54 Oct 2020 #44
And to top it off he burned bridges with you. He's on his own now. Hope he learns a lesson. Illumination Oct 2020 #54
Swift except for trump birdographer Oct 2020 #55
Uh oh. To whom will he go for help? Demobrat Oct 2020 #56
Play stupid games-get stupid prizes demtenjeep Oct 2020 #57
Write him a note and tell him there are lots of job openings in.... KY_EnviroGuy Oct 2020 #58
Or he might use his connections to find work in... MyMission Oct 2020 #95
K&R Blue Owl Oct 2020 #63
Good. May his suffering be enlightening, and may he emerge less of a giant ass. Stand and Fight Oct 2020 #64
Wow. Dysfunctional much? jaxexpat Oct 2020 #67
Add a bear and you have The Great Outdoors. CaptYossarian Oct 2020 #68
A lot of Trump True Believers are feeling the strain. Aussie105 Oct 2020 #69
Sounds like the holidays won't be a happy time for him in his BigmanPigman Oct 2020 #71
Shit happens. Often, to shitty people. 11 Bravo Oct 2020 #72
you going to take him in when he loses his house? Demovictory9 Oct 2020 #75
I hope he doesn't have children. Ilsa Oct 2020 #76
Thankfully he does not have children Books_Tea_Alone Oct 2020 #83
Good choice. And good luck! nt Ilsa Oct 2020 #87
Help him out if you can. Kill him with kindness. I would help mine. He's blood. n/t zackymilly Oct 2020 #78
Books_Tea_Alone.... Upthevibe Oct 2020 #82
I honestly think he has undiagnosed personality issues Books_Tea_Alone Oct 2020 #84
Thank you for your honest Upthevibe Oct 2020 #90
I know that type of person. progressoid Oct 2020 #98
Old friend of mine went down the rabbit hole... Xolodno Oct 2020 #91
So ... has your brother hit you up for a loan yet? FakeNoose Oct 2020 #96
K&R, #RacismIsExpensive💲💲💲 uponit7771 Oct 2020 #101

WhiteTara

(29,705 posts)
1. ETTD
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 11:34 AM
Oct 2020

Last edited Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:49 PM - Edit history (1)

Everything trump Touches Dies

jrthin

(4,835 posts)
14. Yep!
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:09 PM
Oct 2020

c-rational

(2,592 posts)
59. Agreed.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 02:34 PM
Oct 2020

Leghorn21

(13,524 posts)
25. "Everything Trump Touches Expires"
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:50 PM
Oct 2020

YEP!!

tblue37

(65,340 posts)
47. Check your subject line.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:43 PM
Oct 2020

WhiteTara

(29,705 posts)
51. See what I mean?
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:49 PM
Oct 2020

Even my typing goes to hell!

IronLionZion

(45,433 posts)
92. Trump touch is the opposite of Midas touch
Mon Oct 19, 2020, 12:24 AM
Oct 2020

everything he touches turns to shit

smb

(3,471 posts)
103. King Merde-as nt
Mon Oct 19, 2020, 01:10 PM
Oct 2020

MLAA

(17,288 posts)
2. Welcome home Karma!
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 11:36 AM
Oct 2020

TheBlackAdder

(28,189 posts)
65. Flagged a racist, his risk factor for workplace violence and rental violence is through the roof.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 05:13 PM
Oct 2020

.

He'll have a tough time finding many jobs, and he might get excluded from quite a few rental communities.

.

 

beachbumbob

(9,263 posts)
3. never mess with Karma, sounds like he had it coming
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 11:38 AM
Oct 2020

BKDem

(1,733 posts)
4. So so sad.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 11:39 AM
Oct 2020

Richly deserved, I'm sure.

snowybirdie

(5,225 posts)
5. They never learn
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 11:39 AM
Oct 2020

Have a relative who constantly puts pro rtump messages on FB and argues with anyone disputing his ideas . Has lost two jobs in the past five years suddenly. Coincidence? All I know is if I was still in the business world, I'd never post on Social Media.

Sherman A1

(38,958 posts)
52. Precisely
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:50 PM
Oct 2020

I post what I want now, but I am retired. When I was working I rarely posted anything beyond pictures of flowers and alike. You just never know.

kimbutgar

(21,137 posts)
80. I set my privacy's strings to friends only and never will accept a friend request from someone I
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 08:27 PM
Oct 2020

Don’t know.

That said I stopped doing Facebook on September 30th and won’t go back until after the election. Too much crap on there and I might be more tempted to say bad stuff to those MF45 supporters I know.

lagomorph777

(30,613 posts)
97. Falsebook ignores your "privacy settings."
Mon Oct 19, 2020, 09:47 AM
Oct 2020

Its business model is to sell and expose your "private" stuff. Anyone you think is a "friend" there is just as likely a bot or troll.

DBoon

(22,363 posts)
93. I don't ever post on Facebook
Mon Oct 19, 2020, 12:42 AM
Oct 2020

My dog, however, has posted some remarkable things on her Facebook account

kirkuchiyo

(402 posts)
94. Be careful what you post, someone is always watching
Mon Oct 19, 2020, 08:19 AM
Oct 2020

Years ago at a previous job we had interviewed a (seemingly) nice, qualified woman for a job. We were going to offer her the job when I decided to Google her. Found a bunch of posts online with ranty, stupid stuff about her current and previous employers. Gave us a new perspective on her. Needless to say she didn't get the job.

haele

(12,650 posts)
6. Sorry you have to deal with that in your family.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 11:44 AM
Oct 2020

And I suppose that like most Trump cultists, he is too stupid -err, has been too distracted with his career and "well deserved relaxation" - to have either enough savings or any fallback work he can do until he can claim he learned his lesson when he slinks around looking for another job.

Trump cultists always seem to have forgotten the seriously important social basics they were supposed to have learned in Sunday School and Kindergarten.

Haele

brush

(53,776 posts)
15. Also the most important thing to remember, what's posted on the internet lasts forever.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:14 PM
Oct 2020

ooky

(8,922 posts)
7. ...and health care. He's going to need the ACA. 😔
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 11:44 AM
Oct 2020

dalton99a

(81,475 posts)
8. Trump should send him a check or something for his effort
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 11:46 AM
Oct 2020

Maybe it's in the mail


pazzyanne

(6,551 posts)
70. ...
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 06:03 PM
Oct 2020

tRump write a check? I saw that the mayor of Tucson has welcomed him, but wants the money his campaign still owes them from 2016.

"The Trump campaign still owes taxpayers $80,000 from a 2016 rally at the Tucson Convention Center. Monday's campaign stop, Mayor Regina Romero says, could cost the city $50,000 more."

FM123

(10,053 posts)
9. Many of these trumpsters that are brainwashed by him are just so impossible to deal with
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 11:47 AM
Oct 2020

by us everyday folks, BUT eventually they come face to face with someone or something that is bigger than us, something that says Nope, not this time!

KS Toronado

(17,221 posts)
24. trumpsters defend him like most people would a family member, really sickening
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:47 PM
Oct 2020

Hotler

(11,420 posts)
10. Bootstraps. nt
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 11:47 AM
Oct 2020

SMoss

(112 posts)
26. Pull yourself up by bootstraps.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:51 PM
Oct 2020

Strange idea. I put my boots on then tried to lift myself off the floor by pulling on my bootstraps. It dudn't work.

ProfessorGAC

(65,011 posts)
33. Try Harder!
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:12 PM
Oct 2020

Sorry, I was channeling one of those Ayn Rand loving idiots!

calimary

(81,238 posts)
35. The main problem with that slogan is - all those with no boots.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:13 PM
Oct 2020

Or shoes of any sort.

sarge43

(28,941 posts)
53. Clearly, that's your fault. n/t
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:54 PM
Oct 2020

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
62. Try pulling up on one foot at a time.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 04:48 PM
Oct 2020

That’ll work.

rpannier

(24,329 posts)
86. Snowflake
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 10:32 PM
Oct 2020

soldierant

(6,857 posts)
89. It requires ropes, pulleys, and hooks.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 11:27 PM
Oct 2020

And it can lead to dangerous falls IRL.

But, to add that in imagination to the metaphor, if they want people pulling themselves up by their bootstraps, why aren't they providing ropes, pulleys, and hooks?

(And of course boots.)they

uponit7771

(90,335 posts)
102. lol
Mon Oct 19, 2020, 11:35 AM
Oct 2020

Ferrets are Cool

(21,106 posts)
39. This
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:19 PM
Oct 2020

Atticus

(15,124 posts)
11. "What goes around-----" nt
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 11:53 AM
Oct 2020

Books_Tea_Alone

(253 posts)
12. Yes he will need the ACA for health insurance which he rallied against for yrs
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 11:55 AM
Oct 2020

He has no savings, car underwater, but is only upset he was "caught" and that he "screwed up" by posting on his professional account instead of his personal account which was full of hate. Not the fact that it shouldn't have been posted anywhere in the first place.

DeminPennswoods

(15,286 posts)
20. Be sympathetic, but make
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:37 PM
Oct 2020

sure to say "actions have consequences".

Pluvious

(4,310 posts)
30. And if you can, refer to ACA as Obama Care :) n/t
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:04 PM
Oct 2020

groundloop

(11,518 posts)
49. He better hope that Barrett doesn't get confirmed for the Supreme Court then.....
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:45 PM
Oct 2020

since the GOPer's have a case being heard before the Supreme Court right after the election that will kill the entire Affordable Care Act.

Rabrrrrrr

(58,349 posts)
66. It is strange and weird that when conservatives get caught in their bullshit, they're never sorry
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 05:19 PM
Oct 2020

about the stupid shit they said, they're only ever sorry that they put it on Facebook, or sent it in an email, or forgot they were on a work account, or said it out loud in public... juts like Trump, it's never really they're fault, and they're never actually sorry about being racist or sexist or whatever.

They're only sorry that we don't live in a free country where it's okay to be openly racist, forcing them to be careful where and when they spread their shit.

kimbutgar

(21,137 posts)
79. What did he do for a living?
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 08:24 PM
Oct 2020

Books_Tea_Alone

(253 posts)
88. Financial planner for a bank
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 11:21 PM
Oct 2020

kimbutgar

(21,137 posts)
99. Yep nobody wants to find out their financial planner is a racist
Mon Oct 19, 2020, 11:16 AM
Oct 2020

Especially if one of his clients is a minority.

Thekaspervote

(32,762 posts)
13. Yikes!!
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 11:57 AM
Oct 2020

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
16. "Opportunity knocks, Karma kicks the door in".
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:19 PM
Oct 2020

Potential employers check social media now because they don’t want a red herring to stink up their shops. He may find a job with a hater like him, but he is going to suffer low pay and abuse, because that is how people like that behave.

Takket

(21,563 posts)
17. that's a shame
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:19 PM
Oct 2020

lostnfound

(16,178 posts)
18. Hoping for your sibling's successful education and positive reckoning
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:25 PM
Oct 2020

As Jung would say of such misfortunes, now great things may happen. If his eyes are opened.

AlexSFCA

(6,137 posts)
19. Will he still be voting for trump?
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:30 PM
Oct 2020

Books_Tea_Alone

(253 posts)
34. Yes- huge Trump supporter.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:12 PM
Oct 2020

Doesn't think he did anything wrong, just that he was caught

durablend

(7,460 posts)
43. "DAMN THAT DEEP STATE!!!!!"
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:29 PM
Oct 2020

"Foiled again!"

TwilightZone

(25,471 posts)
45. "Caught" presumes an action that was wrong.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:41 PM
Oct 2020

Our course, they never see it that way.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
21. You can't choose your relatives.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:37 PM
Oct 2020

Unfortunately.

niyad

(113,285 posts)
22. Ohhhhh myyyy. The holidays should really be fun this season.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:46 PM
Oct 2020

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,339 posts)
73. What holidays?
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 06:16 PM
Oct 2020

My usual family gatherings are all canceled.

Maybe we'll sit around a table for Thanksgiving 2021.

I've been fortunate. We keep to non-politics, non-religion, and generally get along. Maybe we don't want to raise a ruckus in front of the kids.

Nitram

(22,794 posts)
23. I know I shouldn't, but the schadenfreude is lovely. Thanks for sharing.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:46 PM
Oct 2020

I hope many more of his kind are brought up short during the coming months and years.

Shermann

(7,413 posts)
27. This one is a dilemma for me
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:53 PM
Oct 2020

He doesn't sound like anybody I would get along with.

But at the same time, I've always been troubled by the power our employers ("Little Brother&quot have. Monitoring our social media pages and applying such a severe punishment for content they disapprove of is a bit chilling. "Extremely racist" can be subjective.

What if he put his views into a book which was published instead? Would that change the calculus, and why?

Some high-profile positions have contracts with morality clauses, but anyone under one of these would have to opt in.

Books_Tea_Alone

(253 posts)
37. He accidentally posted on his professional account linked to the company.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:15 PM
Oct 2020

I'm assuming they cannot see the horrific postings on his personal account unless he used the company issued laptop. Any of his postings in his personal accounts would have instantly got him fired.

ProfessorGAC

(65,011 posts)
38. The Pitfall Of Employment At Will
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:17 PM
Oct 2020

I guess I have issue with punitive action for offensive Social Media posts from one's own computer.
If the posts came from someone at work, uses company technology property, that's different.
As objectionable as it may be, expressing opinion on one's own time, using one's own property makes this less comfortable.
But, with At Will, they can almost get rid of anybody for anything that can be defined as "cause".

groundloop

(11,518 posts)
46. It was posted on the employer's account.... pretty much the same as using the employer's property
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:43 PM
Oct 2020

Plus absolutely stupid as hell, as I'm sure after that incident the employer was left with no choice since they certainly couldn't afford to be associated with hatred and racism.

ProfessorGAC

(65,011 posts)
61. Agreed!
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 03:22 PM
Oct 2020

Guy f'd up. Business & politics are a dangerous combination.

niyad

(113,285 posts)
74. Unless your business IS politics!
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 06:32 PM
Oct 2020

ProfessorGAC

(65,011 posts)
81. Of Course!
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 08:40 PM
Oct 2020

That is a notable exception!

DeminPennswoods

(15,286 posts)
60. For sure
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 02:59 PM
Oct 2020

nt

TwilightZone

(25,471 posts)
48. Writing a racist book would likely result in the same outcome.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:45 PM
Oct 2020

Maybe people should just stop being overtly racist, particularly in an environment that makes their employers look bad.

getagrip_already

(14,742 posts)
28. but the world owes him everything...
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:56 PM
Oct 2020

so all will be well for him.

Warpy

(111,255 posts)
29. DEBT came for your sibling
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:00 PM
Oct 2020

just like it will come for his lard and savior.

A lot of people out there who bought everything Limbag said and did are going to be a serious trouble unless they can learn the very basic social grace of keeping their traps shut in public.

NoRoadUntravelled

(2,626 posts)
31. I'm sorry you and your family had to go through this. My family is divided too.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:09 PM
Oct 2020

It's not easy.
On the karma side, it seems that life always makes sure we get the lessons we need to become better and do better. For some, the learning curve is a long one. The lessons get tougher as time goes on.

hurple

(1,306 posts)
32. Of course, in his mind...
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:11 PM
Oct 2020

He has just been ensnared in the great liberal conspiracy (tm) to take down trump that is spearheaded by Soros and Clinton and Obama.

Not his fault. Nope. *They* ruined his life just because he supports trump.

And his hatred will grow...

Joinfortmill

(14,417 posts)
36. Holy shit
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:14 PM
Oct 2020

Dan

(3,554 posts)
40. Good God
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:19 PM
Oct 2020

Within 12 hours? Wow, what could he have said... it boggles the mind.

Books_Tea_Alone

(253 posts)
50. What little I know of the post
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:48 PM
Oct 2020

Involved a recollection of a crime, tagging a person of color innocently, anti BLM, and racial slurs

634-5789

(4,175 posts)
41. I have one of those in my family...
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:22 PM
Oct 2020

Have not talked to him, seen him, will not got to any celebration of any kind if that asshole is going to be there. Don't tell me you're a 'Christina' if you're a racist tRump lovin' jackass. n/t

Archae

(46,327 posts)
77. "Christina?" Or "Christian?"
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 07:08 PM
Oct 2020

Oops...

tavernier

(12,383 posts)
42. Was he horrible before rump?
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:23 PM
Oct 2020

Books_Tea_Alone

(253 posts)
85. Yes see posts below for his background n/t
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 10:16 PM
Oct 2020

lame54

(35,287 posts)
44. Karma is taking a long nap
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:30 PM
Oct 2020
 

Illumination

(2,458 posts)
54. And to top it off he burned bridges with you. He's on his own now. Hope he learns a lesson.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:56 PM
Oct 2020

Maybe when Trump is gone, he'll see how foolish he was to you & others!
We welcome you here @ DU & thank you for being here!...

birdographer

(1,325 posts)
55. Swift except for trump
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 01:58 PM
Oct 2020

Karma is just sitting on its thumbs when it comes to trump. His evil and depravity just goes and goes with no payback at all.

Demobrat

(8,976 posts)
56. Uh oh. To whom will he go for help?
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 02:02 PM
Oct 2020

Last edited Sun Oct 18, 2020, 04:51 PM - Edit history (1)

Your parents? You? Other sibs? Is he married?

I hope this guy doesn’t end up on your couch. Sometimes having a heart can suck.

 

demtenjeep

(31,997 posts)
57. Play stupid games-get stupid prizes
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 02:06 PM
Oct 2020

that is all

KY_EnviroGuy

(14,490 posts)
58. Write him a note and tell him there are lots of job openings in....
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 02:09 PM
Oct 2020

retail stores for mask and social distancing rule enforcers....

MyMission

(1,850 posts)
95. Or he might use his connections to find work in...
Mon Oct 19, 2020, 09:06 AM
Oct 2020

tRump's orbit, in some way.

A paid rally attendee, or working on his staff, or working for those politicians or rich people who support him, etc. Sadly, no masks required.

Blue Owl

(50,356 posts)
63. K&R
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 05:04 PM
Oct 2020

Stand and Fight

(7,480 posts)
64. Good. May his suffering be enlightening, and may he emerge less of a giant ass.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 05:07 PM
Oct 2020

jaxexpat

(6,820 posts)
67. Wow. Dysfunctional much?
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 05:44 PM
Oct 2020

CaptYossarian

(6,448 posts)
68. Add a bear and you have The Great Outdoors.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 05:46 PM
Oct 2020

Aussie105

(5,392 posts)
69. A lot of Trump True Believers are feeling the strain.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 05:57 PM
Oct 2020

They are watching the pipe dreams of a fossilized mind (Trump's) that they swallowed without criticism, being dismantled before their eyes.

You can either say to yourself . . . well, Karma is here, I was promised something unrealistic, how do I readjust my personal value system? Or, more likely, lash out on social media to try to put the threat to your imaginary future success back in the box.

I've gone through the first process, and it is painful. (Not recently)
Basically, you feel your personality deconstructing, and you need to do a slow rebuild based on more realistic assumptions and expectations.
In the end though, you become a better person, better adjusted to the reality around you.
A process highly recommended to anyone who votes for Trump.

But dumping your bile and disappointment on social media never works. It can come back to bite in unexpected ways.
Something Trump is going to learn soon.




BigmanPigman

(51,590 posts)
71. Sounds like the holidays won't be a happy time for him in his
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 06:09 PM
Oct 2020

car/new home. So sad...

11 Bravo

(23,926 posts)
72. Shit happens. Often, to shitty people.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 06:11 PM
Oct 2020

Demovictory9

(32,454 posts)
75. you going to take him in when he loses his house?
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 06:33 PM
Oct 2020

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
76. I hope he doesn't have children.
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 06:59 PM
Oct 2020

I'd hate for them to suffer. If he does have little kids, and you can afford it, maybe you can help them have a nice Christmas morning.

I have a family like your brother, also, who has gone through a job loss and diagnosed with a chronic medical condition. He and his wife don't seem to understand the concept of taking care of one another and treating all with respect. Both are racists. I think she reads racist, RW websites every day. It's hard to feel sorry for them.

Books_Tea_Alone

(253 posts)
83. Thankfully he does not have children
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 10:06 PM
Oct 2020

His wife receives $1300 SSDI each month for mental illness but she spends it on expensive clothing (think $1500 handbags, $200 jeans). It has taken all of my self control not to be a whistleblower in that situation. She is refusing to part with her income for household expenses- a real winner. She cannot get any decent job as she has a criminal background involving grand larceny and assault. Sorry to go on but I am done with them

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
87. Good choice. And good luck! nt
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 11:16 PM
Oct 2020

zackymilly

(2,375 posts)
78. Help him out if you can. Kill him with kindness. I would help mine. He's blood. n/t
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 07:12 PM
Oct 2020

Upthevibe

(8,042 posts)
82. Books_Tea_Alone....
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 10:02 PM
Oct 2020

Wow.....Karma has actually stepped up to the plate in many cases regarding our current situation.....

Firstly, I'm so sorry that your sibling sounds like such a dick (I apologize for my cussing). Secondly, I have a serious question for you. I'm assuming you were both raised in the same house by the same parents. A question that comes up time and time again is how people raised in the same environment can sometimes turn out so differently. What do you think happened with you guys that caused you to be so different?

Books_Tea_Alone

(253 posts)
84. I honestly think he has undiagnosed personality issues
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 10:15 PM
Oct 2020

And is stuck in his glory days of high school and college. He has always got into altercations, crashed cars, and wrecked relationships. He does not care to educate himself, read, etc. He thinks he is the smartest one on the room at all times and likes to boast. My husband and I raised a wonderful family, our kids are polite and contributing to society nicely. We are a family of volunteers, readers, and all hold professional licenses. He has none of that and chose a wife who is a convicted felon, receivee over $1000 each month in SSDI for mental illness and spends it al on clothing for herself $200 jeans, $1500 handbags, etc) My parents are normal (my father was a Trumpinista but is now voting for Biden). You are correct in that it does make an interesting nature vs nurture study

Upthevibe

(8,042 posts)
90. Thank you for your honest
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 11:27 PM
Oct 2020

and interesting assessment. It does sound like he very well may have some kind of personality disorder.

I think of my siblings and I (there were four of us but two are now gone) - who've been progressives and socially aware and active for most of our lives. My only brother and the oldest in the family voted Republican a couple of times but I blame that on his wife at the time. Our parents marched with those who marched with Martin Luther King, were very much against the Vietnam War (even though most in their generation supported it), and were true progressives.

I remember my brother (who was 10 years older than I and in high school at the time) insisted that the family take part in the Cesar Chavez grape boycott. My parents were so proud of him and, of course, no grapes in my house!

My one sister who's alive now and I speak all the time about the current situation. She's eight years older than I, and she's one of the most politically astute people I know. I'm so thankful that we are absolutely in alignment with our beliefs as our are two nephews and their amazing, socially conscious wives....

When I read stories like yours regarding your brother I know what a bummer it must be. Having said that, it's awesome that your dad's voting for Biden! And is sounds like you and your husband raised wonderful kids

progressoid

(49,988 posts)
98. I know that type of person.
Mon Oct 19, 2020, 11:16 AM
Oct 2020

Not in my family, but in my circle of acquaintances. As hard as is might be to part with family, you are better off not interacting with him.

Xolodno

(6,390 posts)
91. Old friend of mine went down the rabbit hole...
Sun Oct 18, 2020, 11:42 PM
Oct 2020

...of "conservative news". Of course he claims he's still independent....yeah....right..

Some of the crazy shit he puts on facebook is sooner or later going to catch up. I warned him a long time ago, keep your personal account separate from your business one. Didn't last long as he said it didn't get as much "response" from the business account. As they say, be careful what you ask for.

FakeNoose

(32,634 posts)
96. So ... has your brother hit you up for a loan yet?
Mon Oct 19, 2020, 09:12 AM
Oct 2020

Get ready because I'm sure that's the plan.
He's probably already borrowing from the Bank of Dad, you're next.



uponit7771

(90,335 posts)
101. K&R, #RacismIsExpensive💲💲💲
Mon Oct 19, 2020, 11:34 AM
Oct 2020
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