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CTyankee

(63,901 posts)
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:17 PM Oct 2020

Are you handing out candy at Halloween this year? This is a serious (not a Lounge) question.

My husband believes it is not safe for us to participate because of Covid and because we are elderly. I understand his concerns, even tho we don't have much in exchange with the the kids since they are small and have parents with them.

Should we put out a sign or just turn off the outdoor light so they don't waste their time with us?

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Are you handing out candy at Halloween this year? This is a serious (not a Lounge) question. (Original Post) CTyankee Oct 2020 OP
No Sherman A1 Oct 2020 #1
Nope redstatebluegirl Oct 2020 #2
Through a PVC pipe liberal N proud Oct 2020 #3
More than I can handle but a good idea. I thought of just putting the candy out in plastic CTyankee Oct 2020 #12
I am not. Laffy Kat Oct 2020 #4
No. Nevilledog Oct 2020 #5
No. FM123 Oct 2020 #6
Good for them! SheltieLover Oct 2020 #23
Nope. Leaving all the lights off. tanyev Oct 2020 #7
i usually decorate big and we have a reputation as a Halloween house In our neighborhood kimbutgar Oct 2020 #8
Put tRump mask on witch to drive home the point! SheltieLover Oct 2020 #26
Funny Last year we had a decoration with MF45's head on a goblin they was motion sensored kimbutgar Oct 2020 #45
I wouldn't argue with covidiots tbh SheltieLover Oct 2020 #46
No ... for the first time ever. CatMor Oct 2020 #9
Of course not relayerbob Oct 2020 #10
No. ffr Oct 2020 #11
No we are not. First time ever. onecaliberal Oct 2020 #13
Not doing it, elleng Oct 2020 #14
I'm not as far off the road as you, but I've never had a trick or treater come to my house. csziggy Oct 2020 #68
Not handing out candy this year Ruby Zee Oct 2020 #15
Welcome to DU, Ruby Zee! Niagara Oct 2020 #52
Nope SheltieLover Oct 2020 #16
Not this year. gademocrat7 Oct 2020 #17
No. CottonBear Oct 2020 #18
Just to the grand boys through BittyJenkins Oct 2020 #19
You don't have much exchange with the kids? SMC22307 Oct 2020 #20
We are going to put a bowl out with our candy outside by the front door with a sign "take one" Peacetrain Oct 2020 #21
Just turn off the outdoor light Rorey Oct 2020 #22
No GP6971 Oct 2020 #24
im so far out in the bazoonies even UPS doesnt come to my house.. samnsara Oct 2020 #25
Yes spinbaby Oct 2020 #27
Condiment packets, going with an Asian theme this year. Hotler Oct 2020 #28
Funny! Thanks WA-03 Democrat Oct 2020 #48
Buying, & keeping RainCaster Oct 2020 #29
LOL...off topic. Iggo Oct 2020 #81
It sounds like you have friendly neighborhood. Why not put a big bowl of penny candy, LAS14 Oct 2020 #30
Yes, but with controls MANative Oct 2020 #31
We're doing the same thing. Luciferous Oct 2020 #76
Yes, but strictly outside and no contact. LisaM Oct 2020 #32
I have devised a means to dispense the candy from a distance. Mister Ed Oct 2020 #33
I am putting it out on my porch with a lighted sign that says CANDY SoonerPride Oct 2020 #34
Yes, full size snickers StTimofEdenRoc Oct 2020 #35
Omg! Niagara Oct 2020 #50
No. Lunabell Oct 2020 #36
Yes. Masked and gloved. Trump has taken so much from us, I want Halloween. Demsrule86 Oct 2020 #37
No, and I'm stuck with four huge bags of candy Generic Brad Oct 2020 #38
Are there any fire houses or libraries giving out candy? Demsrule86 Oct 2020 #69
We have had exactly one trick or treater in 35 years! world wide wally Oct 2020 #39
I'm leaving two Halloween buckets on my front stoop peggysue2 Oct 2020 #40
Isn't this risky with so many hands going in ? I think passing them out yourself JI7 Oct 2020 #75
Just not going to do it this year peggysue2 Oct 2020 #85
Dark porch this year lame54 Oct 2020 #41
No Green Line Oct 2020 #42
No, but that's not at all unusual MissB Oct 2020 #43
We're going to set up a Halloween candy chute. Baitball Blogger Oct 2020 #44
No. Niagara Oct 2020 #47
For years I've purchased candy, decorated house and prepared for trick or treaters.... hlthe2b Oct 2020 #49
Yes. Candy Chute. Happy Hoosier Oct 2020 #51
Yes, carefully Klaralven Oct 2020 #53
No. No lights or decorations. Nululu Oct 2020 #54
i plan to drop it from a 2nd story window, mopinko Oct 2020 #55
No zipplewrath Oct 2020 #56
no... myohmy2 Oct 2020 #57
Grammie... myohmy2 Oct 2020 #63
No, we are not and we will miss it because our neighborhood has always been fun for the kids. BeckyDem Oct 2020 #58
Leaving a bowl in the skeleton's lap on the porch. nolabear Oct 2020 #59
No. Not even a bowl on the porch this year. crickets Oct 2020 #60
good point. Kids need constant supervision with this. CTyankee Oct 2020 #73
That's why we are doing little bags set up on a table in the driveway. Luciferous Oct 2020 #77
Well that's a smart way to do it. crickets Oct 2020 #88
Yeah, I figured this was the best way to do it this year. The candy Luciferous Oct 2020 #89
No. hamsterjill Oct 2020 #61
Nope lived here 25 years never got any trick or treaters nt doc03 Oct 2020 #62
No. We have some exterior lights that are on a timer & will make sure they &the porch lights are off Hekate Oct 2020 #64
Not this year. Owl Oct 2020 #65
Nope, haven't in years shanti Oct 2020 #66
No. smirkymonkey Oct 2020 #67
No FreeState Oct 2020 #70
No. Halloween is officially canceled in Los Angeles this year. beaglelover Oct 2020 #71
Well...not cancelled. Just different. Iggo Oct 2020 #80
Yes, but we are setting up a table in the driveway with goody bags Luciferous Oct 2020 #72
Nope. Liberal In Texas Oct 2020 #74
Nope. (And we're the good house, too.) Iggo Oct 2020 #78
Sort Of ProfessorGAC Oct 2020 #79
Haven't decided Awsi Dooger Oct 2020 #82
I'm supposed to walk around my block with family Marthe48 Oct 2020 #83
Yes. Neighborhood has decided to have Tracer Oct 2020 #84
No Meowmee Oct 2020 #86
Yes, of course former9thward Oct 2020 #87

CTyankee

(63,901 posts)
12. More than I can handle but a good idea. I thought of just putting the candy out in plastic
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:21 PM
Oct 2020

pumpkins but my husband says the older kids will take it all and leave none for the little ones.

Laffy Kat

(16,377 posts)
4. I am not.
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:20 PM
Oct 2020

I am putting together a few special bags of goodies for kids whom I know in my neighborhood to hand-out before Halloween, but front porch light will be out on Saturday night.

FM123

(10,053 posts)
6. No.
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:20 PM
Oct 2020

Our HOA just sent out a letter to all families that we will resume trick or treating next year but NOT this year. Too dangerous with Covid.

tanyev

(42,550 posts)
7. Nope. Leaving all the lights off.
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:21 PM
Oct 2020

That should be enough to keep them away. I will really be surprised if our neighborhood has any trick or treaters out and about this year.

kimbutgar

(21,127 posts)
8. i usually decorate big and we have a reputation as a Halloween house In our neighborhood
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:21 PM
Oct 2020

But this year no decorations except for the witch we put out that flys in front of our house and she’s wearing a face mask this year!

I’ll have a little candy though just in case.

But this pandemic is too scary to risk anybody’s safety.

kimbutgar

(21,127 posts)
45. Funny Last year we had a decoration with MF45's head on a goblin they was motion sensored
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:35 PM
Oct 2020

And it came down the size of the house. This man with his children came by and He told me he didn’t like that mask on the goblin and said Halloween shouldn’t be politicized and it was disrespectful of the president. He was a big guy and kind of threatening looking so I took it down later some people came by and were disappointed I took it down they had wanted to take a picture. My husband goes to be early for his job and when I told him about the guy he said I should have gotten him out of the bed to confront him.

relayerbob

(6,544 posts)
10. Of course not
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:21 PM
Oct 2020

Any parent irresponsible enough to take their children trick-or-treating absolutely do not deserve to get rewards

elleng

(130,864 posts)
14. Not doing it,
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:22 PM
Oct 2020

as my house is 1+ mile off the nearest road; NO ONE comes here.

IF I were in 'town,' or a suburb, I would devise a mechanism to enable the kids to enjoy, like a basket outside near the house, with a sign: 'Take 2.'

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
68. I'm not as far off the road as you, but I've never had a trick or treater come to my house.
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 05:51 PM
Oct 2020

So I don't have to worry about it.

Ruby Zee

(170 posts)
15. Not handing out candy this year
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:22 PM
Oct 2020

We usually get a lot of trick or treaters, but following CDC and Oregon Health Authority guidelines, I will not be handing out candy this Halloween. Trick or treating is identified as high risk behavior. I will put a sign on my door "Sorry, no trick or treat this year due to COVID19 - see you next year". There are five young children on my block, so I am making up trick or treat bags for them, and will leave them on their front porch.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
16. Nope
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:22 PM
Oct 2020

Not getting anywhere near magats.

I will turn off light & let pit bull "answer" through the window. (Joking. I will crate him for his own sanity, esp since he has already put his head through one window. Thankfully, no injury!)

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
20. You don't have much exchange with the kids?
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:22 PM
Oct 2020

I usually bend down and talk to them while I'm putting candy in their little bags.

It is worth risking infection to hand out candy? Only you and your husband can answer that. I'd leave a bowl of candy somewhere, maybe with a cute little Happy Halloween sign.

Peacetrain

(22,875 posts)
21. We are going to put a bowl out with our candy outside by the front door with a sign "take one"
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:22 PM
Oct 2020

and Happy Halloween... Some kids will take one bag of M&M's.. and some will try to scoop out the entire bowl.. just the nature of kids at given ages.. but I know the littlest ones who come out with their parents the first hour or so.. will get a bag of M&Ms before the older kids clean out the bowl..

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
22. Just turn off the outdoor light
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:22 PM
Oct 2020

I was thinking about creating a no contact way to hand out candy, but then I decided that I just wasn't going to participate at all.

samnsara

(17,616 posts)
25. im so far out in the bazoonies even UPS doesnt come to my house..
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:24 PM
Oct 2020

...but I love Halloween...so put out a bowl of candy and keep the light on. Little kids are usually honest and will only 'take one'.

Maybe a scary decorations on the porch..some fake spider webs ...make it fun for the kiddos. They have missed out on so much.

spinbaby

(15,088 posts)
27. Yes
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:25 PM
Oct 2020

We have trick or treating early from 3:30 to 5:00. I plan to put out a container of candy, so kids can help themselves. We’ll wave from the front window.

Iggo

(47,549 posts)
81. LOL...off topic.
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 06:37 PM
Oct 2020

I was texting in a group text about getting rid of Covid45 (the current resident of the White House) and one of the guys replied about how surprised he was that I'd gotten so fat during the pandemic.

Took me all fucking day to figure out what he was talking about.

LAS14

(13,783 posts)
30. It sounds like you have friendly neighborhood. Why not put a big bowl of penny candy,
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:26 PM
Oct 2020

or little bags of candy on your front porch, with a sign "One each, please. Happy Halloween! And BOO!"

MANative

(4,112 posts)
31. Yes, but with controls
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:27 PM
Oct 2020

Our neighborhood regularly gets 100 or more trick or treaters, and I'm sure this year won't be as active, but we will get some. I'm putting on gloves and mask and preparing little poly bags with a few pieces each. They'll go on a card table in the driveway. When they're gone, the lights go out.

LisaM

(27,801 posts)
32. Yes, but strictly outside and no contact.
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:27 PM
Oct 2020

I haven't exactly figured out the logistics, probably bagged candy on a table. We are in a situation where there's a large front yard and plenty of room for social distancing. No one will be close to anyone else. I am thinking out full details of how to do this, but I think baggies of candy on an outside table, no one within 12 feet.

Mister Ed

(5,928 posts)
33. I have devised a means to dispense the candy from a distance.
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:28 PM
Oct 2020

I've fenced off my porch steps, and at the top of the steps I've placed a tall stepladder. Lashed to the top of the stepladder is a ten- foot length of 6" diameter PVC plastic pipe, sloping down at a steep angle to the top of the fence at the foot of the steps.

I'll stand on the porch (masked, and in the guise of the Grim Reaper), and send candy down the chute into the bags of the children at the foot of the steps.

Most of our neighborhood is canceling trick-or-treating, but with this rig I'll be able to help the kids have a little bit of fun without any risk of spreading infection.

Demsrule86

(68,543 posts)
37. Yes. Masked and gloved. Trump has taken so much from us, I want Halloween.
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:30 PM
Oct 2020

I don't know if we will have it though in our city.

Generic Brad

(14,274 posts)
38. No, and I'm stuck with four huge bags of candy
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:30 PM
Oct 2020

I stocked up so I could pass candy out to kids at an open air company event. It’s been canceled. And no one comes around to my neighborhood.

Demsrule86

(68,543 posts)
69. Are there any fire houses or libraries giving out candy?
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 05:52 PM
Oct 2020

Also. A nursing home or assisted living center would be nice too.

world wide wally

(21,740 posts)
39. We have had exactly one trick or treater in 35 years!
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:31 PM
Oct 2020

Of course, we live on the side of a mountain in Colorado, so it's a lot of work just to get to the house.

peggysue2

(10,828 posts)
40. I'm leaving two Halloween buckets on my front stoop
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:32 PM
Oct 2020

Kids can help themselves and when the candy supply is gone, it's gone. Too bad because I genuinely enjoy greeting the kids and handing out candy. But my husband and I haven't been this careful for this long to blow it on one night.

Thanks, Donald!

JI7

(89,246 posts)
75. Isn't this risky with so many hands going in ? I think passing them out yourself
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 06:12 PM
Oct 2020

while wearing a mask would be safer. But even that wouldn't be recommended.

peggysue2

(10,828 posts)
85. Just not going to do it this year
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 06:55 PM
Oct 2020

Honestly, if I had small children I'd be looking for alternatives to door-to-door trick or treating. At the same time, I don't want to completely ignore the event bc Halloween is so popular. I loved it as a kid as did my children.

Pretty much up to the parents and the level of care and anxiety.

So, the candy will be there and if it doesn't go, it will be tossed at the end of the evening. That being said, I could put a set of inexpensive prongs out there for the kids to use. Though I doubt they'd take the time.

MissB

(15,805 posts)
43. No, but that's not at all unusual
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:33 PM
Oct 2020

Our neighborhood is weird. There is only one street in the entire neighborhood that kids trick-or-treat on, and it isn’t ours.

We are close to a local private college and every few years we get a couple of students from there, so I do keep a bucket nearby the door just in case.

The one street has already said that they aren’t participating this year which makes sense. No one needs hundreds of kids showing up at their houses.

I have some young (grade school) relatives nearby- I’m making them boo baskets that I’ll drop off later this week.

Niagara

(7,595 posts)
47. No.
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:41 PM
Oct 2020

I will be out-of-town this year. Even if I was going to be home, I would leave a bowl of candy out for the trick-or-treaters on the honor system.


Halloween is my favorite time of year, I just don't think it's worth getting sick. Here's hoping that we'll make progress on a vaccination and treatments way before next year.

hlthe2b

(102,225 posts)
49. For years I've purchased candy, decorated house and prepared for trick or treaters....
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:42 PM
Oct 2020

but have had exactly ZERO come by in recent years. I always leave a big bowl of candy on a small table on the porch with a sign to help themselves, even when they failed to come by and after going to bed.

Well, given COVID and the past lack of interest, I'm not even going to buy candy this year and will merely leave the lights off.

This saddens me, but if they didn't come in the past when I made every effort, I just can't justify doing so during a pandemic. I'm sorry for the kids.

Nululu

(840 posts)
54. No. No lights or decorations.
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 03:51 PM
Oct 2020

One year we left candy out but ants got into it.

Few kids trick or treat anymore. Last year there was one. We're elderly and compromised.

zipplewrath

(16,646 posts)
56. No
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 04:01 PM
Oct 2020

We talked about this, and Thanksgiving, and Christmas. The CDC and Fauci have asked us not to have any gatherings. And they are right. Could we "get away with it"? Yes, probably. We've even discussed it. But unless "everyone" does what they ask, the ones that don't "get away with it" will cause all the problems that Fauci and the CDC are talking about.

And this should probably be a poll.

myohmy2

(3,162 posts)
57. no...
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 04:02 PM
Oct 2020

...but I will set some candy out at the end of the driveway for the kids with a request to take only one...( fat chance)

...they'll probably fight over it, steal it, or, do what they want...

...also, no pumpkins or decorations to encourage enthusiasm...

...when younger, I couldn't imagine myself allowing my children out Trick or Treating during a pandemic...on the other hand, as a kid, I thought Halloween was the best day of the year...it was the only day of the year you could go up to any house on the block, ring the bell, say, 'Trick or Treat' and they would automatically give you FREE candy...wow, at 72 I'm still getting excited...

...can't imagine totally chumping the kids on Halloween...

myohmy2

(3,162 posts)
63. Grammie...
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 04:25 PM
Oct 2020

...just informed me we're not allowed to put candy out...some kid with COVID could goober up the candy and spread the virus to other kids...I didn't know or think of that...

...Grammie did say she would keep an eye out for Trick or Treaters and toss candy at them as they approach the house...I said I'd help with the tossing...not very Halloween-ish but it's better than nothing...

...this Trump Virus is ruining everything...

BeckyDem

(8,361 posts)
58. No, we are not and we will miss it because our neighborhood has always been fun for the kids.
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 04:06 PM
Oct 2020

Just not this year, my husband and I are in our sixties.


Stay safe whatever you decide.

nolabear

(41,959 posts)
59. Leaving a bowl in the skeleton's lap on the porch.
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 04:07 PM
Oct 2020

We don’t get many but I want it available. Could someone take too much? Sure. No biggie.

crickets

(25,962 posts)
60. No. Not even a bowl on the porch this year.
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 04:08 PM
Oct 2020

Picture it: a couple of kids come up the steps and see that the bowl has several kinds of candy. They dig through, making sure to pick what they want. Multiply this by several more sets of kids, and at least one of those children has a nose that's started to run slightly in the chill, and has used a hand to wipe his or her nose before sticking the hand in the bowl to pick a piece of candy. Voila! COVID roulette.

"Oh, it's only spread by aerosols!" Whatever. I thought about it and just can't take the chance. Candy can wait until next year. /Debbie Downer.

Luciferous

(6,078 posts)
77. That's why we are doing little bags set up on a table in the driveway.
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 06:18 PM
Oct 2020

ETA I'm also putting out a hand sanitizer pump.

Luciferous

(6,078 posts)
89. Yeah, I figured this was the best way to do it this year. The candy
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 10:56 PM
Oct 2020

chutes that others are doing sound fun though!

hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
61. No.
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 04:15 PM
Oct 2020

Trick-or-treating has been steadily on the decline in my area for the last several years. I’d be happy if it went away.

Our main issue is the older brats who want to cause mischief, so a lot of people have stopped doing anything that isn’t school or church sponsored.

Hekate

(90,642 posts)
64. No. We have some exterior lights that are on a timer & will make sure they &the porch lights are off
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 04:36 PM
Oct 2020

It’s sad, but there you have it.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
67. No.
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 04:46 PM
Oct 2020

I live in a doorman apartment building and they don't let people in off the street. There are almost no children in this building and I doubt they will be going door to door. I don't remember what happened last year before Covid, but I don't think anyone even came by, so I doubt there will be anyone this year w/ Covid.

Liberal In Texas

(13,546 posts)
74. Nope.
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 06:08 PM
Oct 2020

One of the young couples on our street with a small kid is trying to set up a thing where people would leave treats curb-side. Kind of defeats the whole purpose of trick-or-treating.

I'm turning out the porch light and putting a NO on the door.

ProfessorGAC

(64,995 posts)
79. Sort Of
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 06:25 PM
Oct 2020

I will be sitting in the living room. (Should tell you, we almost don't use that room, because of the den being far more private.). I'll hook up the WiFi TV and keep a couple small pails on the porch.
I'll put salty snacks in one, candy in the other.
I'll be watching out the window, hoping that will dissuade gluttony.
When enough have come by to lower that inventory, and nobody is imminent, I'll top off the pails.
It goes for 3 hours, but I'm pulling stuff & shutting off the light after 2.

 

Awsi Dooger

(14,565 posts)
82. Haven't decided
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 06:39 PM
Oct 2020

Might put out a bowl with honor system and a small note saying leave some for me

I definitely won't hand out anything

Marthe48

(16,935 posts)
83. I'm supposed to walk around my block with family
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 06:48 PM
Oct 2020

Not sure I will. I won't pass treats out oat the door, and I don't want to put them in a bowl.

I have railroad ties along the side of the house, about 20 feet from the door, about 35' of them, on the edge of the yard by the street. If the weather is dry, I will put the treats in plastic bags and put them a few ft. apart on the rails, and toss any that aren't taken at the end of the hour. I'll try to get some battery candles and add to the treat bags I might make so they show up.

Stay well everyone!

Tracer

(2,769 posts)
84. Yes. Neighborhood has decided to have
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 06:54 PM
Oct 2020

Tables at the end of driveways. One masked person to hand out candy. Not the greatest solution, but our town has almost no Covid cases.

Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
86. No
Sun Oct 25, 2020, 07:00 PM
Oct 2020

last year we had no trick or treaters anyway. It has been dwindling year by year. I may put a sign that says no halloween treats due to covid etc so people don’t come to the door, just in case there are a few, but I doubt with covid there will be any. It is not safe for sure.

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