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barbtries

(31,217 posts)
Sat Oct 31, 2020, 12:20 PM Oct 2020

A good but much more conservative than I am friend

and i talked for a long time yesterday. She told me that she voted for Cal Cunningham even though she does not like the way he goes after the pharma industry and his bad judgment regarding a sex scandal during the middle of a campaign. Her even more conservative brother (they are both from Western NC and he still lives there) voted for Joe Biden AND Roy Cooper.

I struggle to understand why these votes were hard for them. Especially the Senate vote, because even when Joe wins, if we don't take the Senate McConnell will still be doing his evil during a Biden term.

We talked for a long time about the fallacy (as I see it) of the conventional wisdom that republicans are better for the economy. We argued over whether Amy Barrett will be bound by the law or by her religion and partisan interests, and whether it was ethical for her to even allow herself to be used this way.

We bemoaned the estrangement caused by the great divide. Between us, we can talk out our differences. She said, "I just want us to stop hating each other."

I do too. I love my brother and we never talk. She said you can debate, and I said how do you debate somebody who's operating on a completely different set of facts? we did not resolve this conversation, but we're still friends, and she voted almost straight Dem ticket except i think Agriculture and some other office not part of the GA.

she said she's going to switch her affiliation to unaffiliated because Democratic GOTV calls are driving her crazy lol

NC GO BLUE

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A good but much more conservative than I am friend (Original Post) barbtries Oct 2020 OP
Divide and... Newest Reality Oct 2020 #1
me too. barbtries Oct 2020 #2
Switching to unaffiliatedwill cause more calls. Each side will contact her trying to persuade her. 33taw Oct 2020 #3
i tried to tell her that, barbtries Oct 2020 #4
LOL on the unaffiliated - she will get calls & mail from BOTH parties! CrispyQ Oct 2020 #5
well put barbtries Oct 2020 #6

Newest Reality

(12,712 posts)
1. Divide and...
Sat Oct 31, 2020, 12:25 PM
Oct 2020

Divide and conquer.

United we stand, divided we fall.

I think those truisms are apropos currently. I do think about them.

barbtries

(31,217 posts)
2. me too.
Sat Oct 31, 2020, 12:31 PM
Oct 2020

compare how united we were during WWII to how divided we are now, in a similarly threatening crisis. If we could come together to get through the pandemic thousands of thousands of people would not die. would not have already died.

there is some cognizance of this on the right. There are die hard republicans who are truly repulsed by trump.

it's truly tragic what he and his republican sycophants have done to our nation.

barbtries

(31,217 posts)
4. i tried to tell her that,
Sat Oct 31, 2020, 12:46 PM
Oct 2020

because that's what's happening to my son. but she's not buying it. she says it's all Democrats.

CrispyQ

(40,806 posts)
5. LOL on the unaffiliated - she will get calls & mail from BOTH parties!
Sat Oct 31, 2020, 01:17 PM
Oct 2020

My husband is unaffiliated & gets tons more calls & mail than I do.

I have wondered for a long time why Wall Street doesn't bust the myth that republicans are better for the economy, but I decided after 2008 that they don't really care so much about the overall economy than they do the ability for them to exploit it—run up a bubble, sell out before the crash, & then buy up everything they can for pennies on the dollar. Happens about every ten years, it seems. The 1% have very successfully pitted the working/middle class against each other.

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