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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsI just found out my 80 year old Father has Covid
He lives in a nursing home 900 miles away and we have not been able to see him since Feb. So far he is asymptomatic.
If they need anyone to drag trump out of the WH on inauguration day, I will happily volunteer.
My Father in Law, is also very sick with pancreatic cancer. We were seeing him every month. That stopped because of Covid. We did go last month because of a medical emergency. trump's action regarding Covid have denied us valuable time with our loved ones, when they need us the most.
Fuck trump
MissB
(15,803 posts)I hope he recovers from covid.
but there is a reason he is in a nursing home. I just wish he had chosen to live with us, but he didn't want to move out of state.
malaise
(268,693 posts)mercuryblues
(14,522 posts)BusyBeingBest
(8,052 posts)mercuryblues
(14,522 posts)I would like to see him again, in person.
SheltieLover
(57,073 posts)Healing vibes on the way! 💗💗💗
At least, thus far, he doesn't have symptoms! Keeping fingers crossed!
Are they giving him any meds or supplements for covid?
So sorry about your FIL, too.
Awful that precious time with loved ones stolen by chumputin!
Ha! They could wipe out national debt selling tickets to drag him out of our WH, or even to watch online!
mercuryblues
(14,522 posts)renate
(13,776 posts)I'm sorry you have that worry. Best wishes to your father.
And I'm so sorry you haven't been able to see your father-in-law. That's just heartbreaking.
rustysgurl
(1,040 posts)This is a lot for you to deal with, and I understand your anger and feelings of helplessness.
I hope you get to see them soon, and they both make successful recoveries.
mercuryblues
(14,522 posts)recover. That is known. He has the same cancer as Alex Trebek and were diagnosed 1 month apart.
Beringia
(4,316 posts)stillcool
(32,626 posts)I really can't imagine. All the best vibes for you and yours.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)What a horrible thing to hear, especially since he is so far away. I hope they are able to keep him healthy and that you will be able to see him again soon.
Nevilledog
(51,005 posts)Hugin
(33,046 posts)You!
irisblue
(32,928 posts)Demsrule86
(68,456 posts)mercuryblues
(14,522 posts)AwakeAtLast
(14,123 posts)My 81 y/o father was released from the hospital two weeks ago after battling COVID. He has high BP, Type II Diabetes and Parkinson's. He was able to get Remdesivir, and went from being on Oxygen to walking out two days later. I believe it saved him. I hope your Dad responds well to treatment! Sending big love and hugs!
niyad
(113,049 posts)Lonestarblue
(9,958 posts)I hope your father stays asymptomatic. And may your father-in-law have as peaceful end of life experience as possible. I really hope you can see him again.
Meowmee
(5,164 posts)🙏🏻 For him
mountain grammy
(26,598 posts)😥
ananda
(28,834 posts)I'm so sorry about your dad.
Best wishes.
Karadeniz
(22,468 posts)lunatica
(53,410 posts)Hugs to you. Im glad he is asymptomatic. But still, its so damn tragic. I hope your father in law is getting palliative care.
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)Is it an outbreak? Or an isolated infection? --- Have they been able to contact-trace it to a specific outing, visitor, or staff member?
mercuryblues
(14,522 posts)They test staff and patients as needed and at random. If a staff member feels sick, they are told not work until their test result comes in and pay them anyhow. A few test positive every month and immediate action is taken. There have not been large outbreaks.
it is so hard to contact trace in that environment. Therapists, RNs, NAs, DRs, Kitchen staff, janitorial, security, orderlies, secretarial, social workers, and patients.
MLAA
(17,250 posts)Sending 💕💕to your father and father in law.
Leith
(7,808 posts)These times are rough - very rough for you. All the best to you.
BComplex
(8,017 posts)I hope he turns out to be ok.
Rebl2
(13,462 posts)is 89 and father, who is 91, are in a nursing home and they had Covid (early September) and both survived. My dad did get pneumonia, but like I said he survived and is doing well. I am able to visit with them by way of FaceTime once a week since early April. This nursing home has done their best to keep family in touch with their loved ones. I hope your father does well like my parents did. By the way, my parents are not the picture of health, yet they survived.
I so agree with you that trump has cost us valuable time with our elderly family members.
peacebuzzard
(5,148 posts)I am glad he is not having symptoms. This is very sad, I hope he remains safe and well.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,760 posts)And your father-in-law's pancreatic cancer.
My father died last week of pancreatic cancer, so I can vouch for the fact that COVID really has made everything worse. Especially things that are already too hard.
Yeah, fuck Trump, and every one of his despicable enablers.
cilla4progress
(24,717 posts)In my heart.