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coti

(4,612 posts)
Tue Nov 10, 2020, 06:11 PM Nov 2020

DU is going to have to find things to talk about other than Trump

and his cultists' conspiracy theories.

If we genuinely want to move beyond this and stop torturing ourselves with garbage information, we are the ones that are going to have to take the steps necessary for that. We all know full well that the RWNJ are never going to learn, are never going to change their minds, and are never going to shut the hell up.

But, the great thing is Trump will be leaving the White House and we don't HAVE to listen to them anymore. If they want to lie to themselves about the election, it doesn't matter.

No, there won't be any "coup." There won't be any overruling or ignoring the will of the people. Even if there are minor delaying tactics, like obstructing the GSA, nothing is going to keep Biden from being sworn in on January 20. And the screaming and lying of Trump and his supporters will go on and on, it's true. But what you are seeing and hearing is the noise and chaff of the free flow of (stupid and self-kidding) ideas in a politically-free society, not evidence of any actual danger to Biden's presidency.

Obviously I love DU very much and I'm anxious to see the contribution our site makes to the evolution of our country in the coming years. But- seriously folks- figuratively, but also in so many different ways, we need to put down the crack pipe here.

We've been in an extremely unhealthy, abusive, and far-too-exciting relationship with our President, his supporters and our political discourse for well over four years, now. The fear of that continuing is very strong, and it has a huge impact on our thoughts and behavior. That's the manipulation of Trump's abuse and gaslighting- he makes you think you HAVE to pay attention to him, or ELSE.

We don't. We really, truly don't have to pay any more attention to him. He never did anything effective to begin with, and won't start now. All he's ever done is scream, lie and manipulate.

We must be mindful and remind ourselves continuously that it is OK to let him go. We are safe and it is OK to let him go.

We beat Trump, and it's ok to let him go.


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DU is going to have to find things to talk about other than Trump (Original Post) coti Nov 2020 OP
Yes... we won, Biden will be inaugurated in Jan, let's focus on the good Thekaspervote Nov 2020 #1
We had PLENTY to talk about during 8 years of Obama-Biden and before that GW Bush* hlthe2b Nov 2020 #2
Not for at least 5 years because his impact will not be undone for 5 years. nt Boogiemack Nov 2020 #3
That doesn't mean we should feed Turin_C3PO Nov 2020 #7
I don't really think he checks in here much. Crunchy Frog Nov 2020 #28
It is propagating his influence, and, more importantly, coti Nov 2020 #31
moscow mitch, leningrad graham, little rubio, asshole cruz .... samsingh Nov 2020 #4
Exactly Sunsky Nov 2020 #17
You really think he'll be quiet after Jan 20? awesomerwb1 Nov 2020 #5
So that means we must listen to him? Turin_C3PO Nov 2020 #9
lol Good luck ignoring him awesomerwb1 Nov 2020 #19
There is little you must do... seems an absurd inference on your part. LanternWaste Nov 2020 #23
No, not at all. He'll be screaming all over Twitter coti Nov 2020 #15
We could focus on how to improve Democratic messaging Binkie The Clown Nov 2020 #6
Great post! Turin_C3PO Nov 2020 #8
Someday, yes, but Trump's downfall will be a long time in the telling Silent3 Nov 2020 #10
It's getting silly d_b Nov 2020 #11
THANK YOU. We don't ever have to talk about this monster again. I pledge to never Nay Nov 2020 #12
There will be plenty for activists to discuss and DO! pat_k Nov 2020 #13
Thank you. Deb Nov 2020 #14
No. It's the media that better get their asses in gear & find things to talk about other than Trump mtnsnake Nov 2020 #16
I fully agree with this also. coti Nov 2020 #20
This Meowmee Nov 2020 #25
I agree Dem2 Nov 2020 #18
I would be happy to read a boring discussion of the merits of oatmeal rather than more Trump. Vinca Nov 2020 #21
K&R and keep repeating. We need to focus on rebuilding this nation ffr Nov 2020 #22
I will wait til he's gone! LeftInTX Nov 2020 #24
Bookmarking for future reference. Crunchy Frog Nov 2020 #26
I am sure there will be plenty Meowmee Nov 2020 #27
He is currently a grave danger to our republic. spanone Nov 2020 #29
K&R Bradshaw3 Nov 2020 #30

Thekaspervote

(32,682 posts)
1. Yes... we won, Biden will be inaugurated in Jan, let's focus on the good
Tue Nov 10, 2020, 06:13 PM
Nov 2020

Bookmarking your post as well..it’s really well stated

hlthe2b

(102,061 posts)
2. We had PLENTY to talk about during 8 years of Obama-Biden and before that GW Bush*
Tue Nov 10, 2020, 06:14 PM
Nov 2020

I've been here since the start. There is no need to think we can ONLY talk about Trump*. Most of us want nothing more than to talk about policy progress and strategy toward improving our country.

If you doubt that, do a google search for Palin. She was a constant source of discussion as were Cheney and his minions under GW Bush* before. Now, never.

Crunchy Frog

(26,574 posts)
28. I don't really think he checks in here much.
Tue Nov 10, 2020, 07:06 PM
Nov 2020

I think it's kind of silly to imagine that anything we say here is giving him any meaningful "attention".

coti

(4,612 posts)
31. It is propagating his influence, and, more importantly,
Tue Nov 10, 2020, 07:17 PM
Nov 2020

we're torturing ourselves with his sickness.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
23. There is little you must do... seems an absurd inference on your part.
Tue Nov 10, 2020, 06:44 PM
Nov 2020

Taking heed of a thing does not imply compliance, nor does taking note of a thing necessarily result in audience.

Leave oblivion to the oblivious.

coti

(4,612 posts)
15. No, not at all. He'll be screaming all over Twitter
Tue Nov 10, 2020, 06:35 PM
Nov 2020

and telling the same lies for the rest of his life, and he'll still have tens of millions of his cultists. But we STILL don't have to listen to him anymore.

Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
6. We could focus on how to improve Democratic messaging
Tue Nov 10, 2020, 06:18 PM
Nov 2020

and stop leaving the whole mass messaging arena to the Republicans.

Silent3

(15,119 posts)
10. Someday, yes, but Trump's downfall will be a long time in the telling
Tue Nov 10, 2020, 06:20 PM
Nov 2020

At least if any sort of justice is going to be served. Trump, his corrupt family, his enablers, his crazy followers... there's quite a bit of this story left to go.

And even when Trump is gone, Trumpism, sadly but clearly, has deeper roots than we'd have hoped, and will be with us a while. It will be good to take a vacation from Trump occupying so much of our mental landscape, and that is something we should do, but vigilance requires not letting go too much.

d_b

(7,462 posts)
11. It's getting silly
Tue Nov 10, 2020, 06:20 PM
Nov 2020

Our wealthy overlords and their courts aren't going to plunge the nation into war over Donald Trump, folks.


Nay

(12,051 posts)
12. THANK YOU. We don't ever have to talk about this monster again. I pledge to never
Tue Nov 10, 2020, 06:22 PM
Nov 2020

contribute a comment to a thread that concerns Trump, once Biden is inaugurated. I urge others to pledge this, too.

I never want to hear any more about this creep until his obituary.

pat_k

(9,313 posts)
13. There will be plenty for activists to discuss and DO!
Tue Nov 10, 2020, 06:22 PM
Nov 2020

We have fights ahead for truly meaningful, transformative change. . . and to push our leaders to talk about what our true goals are, whether or not they are doable now.

Our leaders aren't talking about these things, they are not building support for future wins.

"Our side" has lived in fear of being "too extreme" for WAAAAYYY too long.

It is time to light the flames of real hope in a dream of an an America reinvented.

mtnsnake

(22,236 posts)
16. No. It's the media that better get their asses in gear & find things to talk about other than Trump
Tue Nov 10, 2020, 06:37 PM
Nov 2020

since it's the media who is mainly responsible for Trump getting elected when they gave him so much undeserved attention starting from Day 1 in the Republican Primaries and continuing throughout the following years, giving way more than his fair share of the attention which he thrives on.

coti

(4,612 posts)
20. I fully agree with this also.
Tue Nov 10, 2020, 06:40 PM
Nov 2020

But everyone needs to start taking more control of what they're thinking about and how they're feeling.

ffr

(22,664 posts)
22. K&R and keep repeating. We need to focus on rebuilding this nation
Tue Nov 10, 2020, 06:43 PM
Nov 2020

Forget and disregard what crazy people in the alternative facts universe have to say.

Crunchy Frog

(26,574 posts)
26. Bookmarking for future reference.
Tue Nov 10, 2020, 07:00 PM
Nov 2020

I can't say that I know what is or isn't going to happen. I think we're currently in uncharted waters in this country.

I think the Lounge is probably a good place for people who don't want to see discussions about what's happening right in front of us.

Hiding threads by keyword is also a useful function.

Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
27. I am sure there will be plenty
Tue Nov 10, 2020, 07:02 PM
Nov 2020

To talk about when he finally is removed... there already is. But the damage he and his nutcase fascist supporters have done is not going to simply vanish. If you ignore history you may find yourself repeating it.

I guess people can decide what they want to discuss here. I doubt he will vanish, I hope his twitter account is disabled and he is prosecuted but he could easily end up with some other mouthpiece or network to promote his crap.

Bradshaw3

(7,483 posts)
30. K&R
Tue Nov 10, 2020, 07:16 PM
Nov 2020

Very insightful and much needed post. I like the crack pipe reference. In that doc The Social Dilemma they talk about how our brains respond to stimuli on social media. I'm afraid that is what happens too often, even to Democrats. It may feel good temporarily to rant about everything that comes out of drumpf's mouth - much of which is intended to draw that very response - but in the long run it is not healthy and does not contribute to resisting him and his "policies" anymore than repeatedly pulling the handle on a slot machine is going to make you rich.

I believe that after a few years, drumpf will be holding his rallies in the parking lot of an abandoned K-mart with a crowd of 150. I hope we won't see posts about whatever idiotic and inane thing he said.

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