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orleans

(34,049 posts)
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 04:47 PM Nov 2020

i miss wearing lipstick

i liked the way it looked & i liked the way it felt
i'm in and out frequently -- store, work, taking doglet out numerous times a day/evening & late at night. i'm in a building with other residents who never wear a mask in the hallway. but i do, every time i come and go.

i've probably put lipstick on a handful of times since we first went into a lock down in march -- and those few times have only been when i come in with the doglet for the last time late at night.

even if i wore this mask the answer would be: i'm not wearing lipstick.

i realize it's trivial but it's just another fucking thing that's been taken away



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i miss wearing lipstick (Original Post) orleans Nov 2020 OP
I'm with you on that Danmel Nov 2020 #1
me too! I even bought an LED mask that I can program messages on.. samnsara Nov 2020 #4
im loving masks for the opposite reason..i dont have to apply make up.. samnsara Nov 2020 #2
Same here happybird Nov 2020 #12
love it!!!!! samnsara Nov 2020 #27
True but think about how much money we've saved malaise Nov 2020 #3
me too..i poked a hole in my UGG boots...:(....but for stuff non toenail related....... samnsara Nov 2020 #26
I have always pampered my feet malaise Nov 2020 #29
I really have a difficult time benld74 Nov 2020 #5
I hear ya - maybe we could wear masks that say "Hello, my name is..." Talitha Nov 2020 #9
I miss it, too. Silver Gaia Nov 2020 #6
lipstick pamdb Nov 2020 #7
That I miss malaise Nov 2020 #30
Mask hides my nose hair mustache. +++ IADEMO2004 Nov 2020 #8
Yes! luvs2sing Nov 2020 #10
I also need my brows waxed Danmel Nov 2020 #11
My Wife Bought The Sally Hansen Products ProfessorGAC Nov 2020 #15
This malaise Nov 2020 #31
I wear lipstick even if no one is going to see it zeusdogmom Nov 2020 #13
Me, too. Polly Hennessey Nov 2020 #16
Good for you! zeusdogmom Nov 2020 #34
Get a clear mask ornotna Nov 2020 #14
The problem is more how it would get smeared on the mask JI7 Nov 2020 #24
Wear it in the house Rice4VP Nov 2020 #17
CDC 6' rule Throck Nov 2020 #18
I miss cinema. And restaurants. And bars. DetlefK Nov 2020 #19
I miss going to concerts and sporting events. Initech Nov 2020 #22
I miss making music with a group zeusdogmom Nov 2020 #35
Me too! GigiLeigh Nov 2020 #20
I've never worn lipstick but continue to wear aftershave. Sneederbunk Nov 2020 #21
I feel that way about lip gloss JI7 Nov 2020 #23
Same here Sunsky Nov 2020 #25
Uhh...ladies... jmowreader Nov 2020 #28
Well, I'm a guy, so no lipstick. But the masks mean I don't have to shave everyday, panader0 Nov 2020 #32
I'm confused.... brooklynite Nov 2020 #33
i guess both. but mostly that i'm not wearing it orleans Nov 2020 #42
Go a little bolder on the eye makeup! ginny skinny Nov 2020 #36
I miss wearing shoes. And pants. lindysalsagal Nov 2020 #37
Me too. And blush. I feel washed out behind my mask. Hortensis Nov 2020 #38
I miss pants TeamPooka Nov 2020 #39
You can still wear it. Renew Deal Nov 2020 #40
I miss not having a place to go where I can dress nice and look nice. Raine Nov 2020 #41

Danmel

(4,913 posts)
1. I'm with you on that
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 04:50 PM
Nov 2020

I've got a wardrobe of masks that match my clothing as a way of compensating for not wearing lipstick.

samnsara

(17,616 posts)
4. me too! I even bought an LED mask that I can program messages on..
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 04:52 PM
Nov 2020

..hubby wore it to work on Halloween. Its flashed BOO!

samnsara

(17,616 posts)
2. im loving masks for the opposite reason..i dont have to apply make up..
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 04:51 PM
Nov 2020

...just some mascara and eye liner and I look better than I ever did in half the time.

happybird

(4,604 posts)
12. Same here
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 05:25 PM
Nov 2020

I don’t wear makeup, but have been going to the store without my dentures. It’s so nice!

malaise

(268,930 posts)
3. True but think about how much money we've saved
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 04:52 PM
Nov 2020

on lipstick and gloss this year.
What I miss most is my fortnightly pedicure. I hadn't gone for five weeks until my toenails actually tore my sneakers and I had to replace them. Will be going for one this week for sure.

samnsara

(17,616 posts)
26. me too..i poked a hole in my UGG boots...:(....but for stuff non toenail related.......
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 06:56 PM
Nov 2020

...get a foot peel. They are mahvoloussss...

malaise

(268,930 posts)
29. I have always pampered my feet
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 07:02 PM
Nov 2020

and they are in very good shape. Three times a week I have a foot massage for 40 minutes with a Homedic's foot massager and pre-pandemic I had a pedi every two weeks.

benld74

(9,904 posts)
5. I really have a difficult time
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 04:53 PM
Nov 2020

Telling who are the people wearing masks. Example, neighbor across the street was walking into vote I was walking out. She calls out my name and says Hi! I did a doubletake and said Hi back. Didn’t dawn on me WHO it was until I got out to my car and thought. Then I felt bad.

Talitha

(6,582 posts)
9. I hear ya - maybe we could wear masks that say "Hello, my name is..."
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 05:08 PM
Nov 2020


Or maybe a picture of our face on the mask?
Taken of course, as we wore our favorite shade of lipstick.

Silver Gaia

(4,542 posts)
6. I miss it, too.
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 05:03 PM
Nov 2020

But I'm also glad sometimes that I don't feel the need to use cover-up or blusher, so it's a trade-off. However, I also have a large, multi-hued collection of lipsticks and glosses just sitting there most of the time. I do get to use them occasionally when I teach online with a videocam, but that's not much consolation. Overall, yeah, I miss it because it was always fun for me.

pamdb

(1,332 posts)
7. lipstick
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 05:07 PM
Nov 2020


I KNOW!!!!!

I haven't had to buy any lipstick since last winter!!!!!!

And I miss smiling at people.

IADEMO2004

(5,554 posts)
8. Mask hides my nose hair mustache. +++
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 05:08 PM
Nov 2020

No idea the last time I saw lipstick on a woman live in person. Too long is the only measure I have.

and hugs

and I don't have a nose hair mustache.

Danmel

(4,913 posts)
11. I also need my brows waxed
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 05:22 PM
Nov 2020

I look like Albert Einstein and Brooke Shields' love child.
(With credit to the writers of the Princess Diaries for the description.)

ProfessorGAC

(64,995 posts)
15. My Wife Bought The Sally Hansen Products
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 05:29 PM
Nov 2020

Hair up near where a guy's sidebruns would he and her eyebrows.
2 different products.
She was very happy with them.
Easy to use, she said.
She'd rather go get them waxed, but given COVID, she was pleased.

zeusdogmom

(990 posts)
13. I wear lipstick even if no one is going to see it
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 05:26 PM
Nov 2020

Full make up, too. Nasty ass virus isn’t going to take that away from me. 😄

Polly Hennessey

(6,793 posts)
16. Me, too.
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 05:30 PM
Nov 2020

Must have my lipstick. Have now become adept at kissing my mask. Don’t say anything, it is my mask and my 💄 lipstick.

JI7

(89,247 posts)
24. The problem is more how it would get smeared on the mask
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 06:37 PM
Nov 2020

which I assume would happen with this also.

DetlefK

(16,423 posts)
19. I miss cinema. And restaurants. And bars.
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 05:45 PM
Nov 2020

There's something special about going out into town and having a nice meal in a restaurant. It's just not the same as home-cooked.

There's something special about going out into town and watching a movie on the big screen. It's just not the same when staying at home and watching it on a small screen.

There's something special about going to an underground-club, chatting up a goth-girl, getting shot down, dancing your brain out to punk-music and playing table-soccer with strangers until 2 am.

Initech

(100,063 posts)
22. I miss going to concerts and sporting events.
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 06:30 PM
Nov 2020

I have been to just about every venue in the greater Los Angeles area multiple times to see my favorite bands. I've also been to venues in Vegas, Phoenix, Detroit, New York, DC, Denver... all over the country, really. And I was really looking forward to going to SoFi Stadium for the first time this year and seeing Motley Crue and Def Leppard.

I also miss going to games. I should be going to see my Ducks right now but the NHL season isn't even playing.

This pandemic has sucked more than anything that could possibly suck.

zeusdogmom

(990 posts)
35. I miss making music with a group
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 08:14 PM
Nov 2020

No community band. 😪 No church choir. 😫 No handbells. 😪. Yes we have had a couple of choir rehearsals in the back parking lot of church and then recorded for the online worship recording. But it isn't the same. The weekly gatherings of fellow musicians - all wonderful people - is so special. And I miss it SO much.

We had in person worship on a very limited, restricted basis for about a month but that has been canceled again because of the horrible rapid increase in the number covid positive people in the area. Abundance of caution. Maybe again after the first of the year ....

We are all missing our former rhythms of life and yearn for the day when we can freely move about again, enjoying the activities we love.

Stay strong everyone. The next few weeks are going to be tough ones to get thru.

GigiLeigh

(75 posts)
20. Me too!
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 06:25 PM
Nov 2020

I love lipstick. My favorite cosmetic. I haven't worn lipstick or really any make up since April. I know it's a small thing in the grand scheme of things but I just had to reply. It's something that has bugged me for months. LOL.

Sunsky

(1,737 posts)
25. Same here
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 06:37 PM
Nov 2020

I have forgotten a few times and have smudged my mask. Oh well, it felt good for a moment.

panader0

(25,816 posts)
32. Well, I'm a guy, so no lipstick. But the masks mean I don't have to shave everyday,
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 07:06 PM
Nov 2020

not that I ever did. I once had an embarrassing moment (don't tell anyone) when I got about halfway to town
to shop and realized I hadn't put my dentures in. They are pretty new to me, and I just spaced it. Then I thought
what the hell, I'll have a mask on. So I went ahead.
I never did it again.

brooklynite

(94,501 posts)
33. I'm confused....
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 07:26 PM
Nov 2020

Are you unhappy that you’re not wearing lipstick, or that nobody can see the lipstick you’re wearing?

orleans

(34,049 posts)
42. i guess both. but mostly that i'm not wearing it
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 10:38 PM
Nov 2020

i liked the way it felt, kept my lips moist and unchapped, i have to talk a lot at work and my mouth gets dry. i suck on tic tacs (as i always have) but now i find myself licking my lips fairly often so i can run my mouth easier and faster and form the words quicker. sometimes dry lips get caught up on the front teeth

i don't wear any other make-up so my lipstick was the one exception. and i loved the color. i guess i feel i don't look that great and that lipstick helped me to look just a little bit better/nicer. (more put-together, as my mom used to say)

a couple people up thread suggested those see-thru plastic masks, but i imagine a tactical error happening, and lipstick smearing on the mask where everyone could see it! omg!

and the fact is i miss a lot of things. i know we all do--things far more important than stupid lipstick. but even that one simple thing has been taken out of my life for now.

anyway...

ginny skinny

(182 posts)
36. Go a little bolder on the eye makeup!
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 09:17 PM
Nov 2020

I've noticed some of the younger gals around here wearing fake eyelashes and going all in on the eyebrows. Not sure if that's because they are playing up the one aspect of the face that is visible when wearing a mask or if that's been a thing for a while and I'm just noticing now.

Raine

(30,540 posts)
41. I miss not having a place to go where I can dress nice and look nice.
Sun Nov 15, 2020, 10:18 PM
Nov 2020

I hate wearing a mask 😷 so much. I feel like I can't breath, can't be natural with people, can't even think clearly.

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