Rebecca Solnit, one of our most incisive writers:
A somewhat long, yet critical read.
https://lithub.com/rebecca-solnit-on-not-meeting-nazis-halfway/?fbclid=IwAR3UJkIIVg0JFzCjIgT-eidlVP-qTN7T8L_p7tXGQiTTruLRKan2WxlUpeQ
Paul Waldman wrote a valuable column in the Washington Post a few years ago, in which he pointed out that this discord is valuable fuel to right-wing operatives: The assumption is that if Democrats simply choose to deploy this powerful tool of respect, then minds will be changed and votes will follow. This belief, widespread though it may be, is stunningly naive. He notes that the sense of being disrespected doesnt come from the policies advocated by the Democratic Party, and it doesnt come from the things Democratic politicians say. Where does it come from? An entire industry thats devoted to convincing white people that liberal elitists look down on them. The right has a gigantic media apparatus that is devoted to convincing people that liberals disrespect them, plus a political party whose leaders all understand that that idea is key to their political project and so join in the chorus at every opportunity.
Theres also often a devils bargain buried in all this, that you flatter and, yeah, respect these white people who think this country is theirs by throwing other people under the busby disrespecting immigrants and queer people and feminists and their rights and views. And you reinforce that constituencys sense that they matter more than other people when you pander like this, and pretty much all the problems weve faced over the past four years, to say nothing of the last five hundred, come from this sense of white people being more important than nonwhites, Christians than non-Christians, native-born than immigrant, male than female, straight than queer, cis-gender than trans.
The comments are definitely worth reading as well.