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edhopper

(33,543 posts)
Fri Nov 27, 2020, 10:50 PM Nov 2020

In 7 to 10 days, when the cases and deaths spike from Thanksgiving

and the medical experts plead for people to not to repeat these deadly gatherings at Christmas.

All the people who didn't lose someone to this idiocy, will willfully ignore the warnings and blissfully put their family at risk again.

Because people who are saying we need to stay safe are mean and don't love Grandma and Grandpa.

They are just that stupid.

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In 7 to 10 days, when the cases and deaths spike from Thanksgiving (Original Post) edhopper Nov 2020 OP
It is hopeless MFM008 Nov 2020 #1
certainly seems that way-- some people incredibly resistant to this sort of basic info LymphocyteLover Nov 2020 #7
A large segment of America has become whiny, thoughtless babies, no wonder why Trump Blue_true Nov 2020 #16
Well Timewas Nov 2020 #30
Yes, as harsh as that sounds. Blue_true Nov 2020 #40
I guess Timewas Nov 2020 #45
yeah MFM008 Nov 2020 #48
One couple was bitching about wearing masks in front of me at Sav-a-lot. ssgbryan Nov 2020 #46
Many will not listen even if they lose someone close liberal N proud Nov 2020 #2
I'm beginning to think of it as... 2naSalit Nov 2020 #3
Unfortunately, as terrible as this disease is, PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 2020 #25
Well, if you want to talk FACTS... 2naSalit Nov 2020 #33
That's exactly right. The real damage will be the lasting effects. Buckeyeblue Nov 2020 #34
That's what I've been wondering Windy City Charlie Nov 2020 #36
Yes. It could be as big a crisis as the pandemic. Buckeyeblue Nov 2020 #41
I'm sure the Covidiots will carry on MustLoveBeagles Nov 2020 #4
What's crazy Windy City Charlie Nov 2020 #5
I have too MustLoveBeagles Nov 2020 #15
Symptoms will start for a lot tomorrow - but since tests are hard to come by Ms. Toad Nov 2020 #6
That's the problem Windy City Charlie Nov 2020 #8
My mantra is that I have to treat everyone as having COVID - Ms. Toad Nov 2020 #10
Exactly Windy City Charlie Nov 2020 #12
Ugh, I'm sorry to read that! Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2020 #13
I was sorry to read about your sister. Ms. Toad Nov 2020 #20
I get frustrated and sometimes angrily say that we should just open everything up, no restrictions. Oneironaut Nov 2020 #9
Therein lies the problem Windy City Charlie Nov 2020 #11
My daughter firmly believes if we go the herd immunity route, Heartstrings Nov 2020 #14
Hospital capacity can't withstand that level of illness. Blue_true Nov 2020 #18
I have family in Sweden - Ms. Toad Nov 2020 #21
I am doing everything that I can to avoid that virus. Blue_true Nov 2020 #22
My practice, as well. Ms. Toad Nov 2020 #23
That doesn't bode well for a vaccine... Hugin Nov 2020 #37
The Swedish National Epidemiologist made the statement about antibodies. Blue_true Nov 2020 #39
Can not get a more primary source than that, BT. Hugin Nov 2020 #43
I don't know the protocol that trial subjects are expected to follow. Blue_true Nov 2020 #44
Herd immunity doesn't work that way. PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 2020 #28
Yeah, herd immunity would only exist in a closed system where... Hugin Nov 2020 #38
When the vaccine comes out do you think they'll change? Arthur_Frain Nov 2020 #17
Many are saying that they are not going to take the vaccine. nt Blue_true Nov 2020 #19
Can't blame em cuz Bill Gates' Deep State Nanobots altering our DNA to make us Gay Socialists mr_lebowski Nov 2020 #24
Gay Socialist?? Ellen Forradalom Nov 2020 #27
Or Bill Gates will implant a tracking device in the vaccine.... Heartstrings Nov 2020 #31
I know ... they're such fucking morons ... mr_lebowski Nov 2020 #32
Magats aren't known for wasting brain cells on thinking. nt Blue_true Nov 2020 #42
Not this guy. ssgbryan Nov 2020 #47
So damned true! SlogginThroughIt Nov 2020 #26
Quite a few couldn't stand up to Grandma's bullying, admit it. Warpy Nov 2020 #29
True edhopper Nov 2020 #35

MFM008

(19,803 posts)
1. It is hopeless
Fri Nov 27, 2020, 11:02 PM
Nov 2020

They just wont do it.
I cant believe that they wont do it.
They refuse to act safely, its like watching a mass suicide.

LymphocyteLover

(5,639 posts)
7. certainly seems that way-- some people incredibly resistant to this sort of basic info
Fri Nov 27, 2020, 11:22 PM
Nov 2020

and to taking it seriously

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
16. A large segment of America has become whiny, thoughtless babies, no wonder why Trump
Fri Nov 27, 2020, 11:55 PM
Nov 2020

appeals to a majority of that set.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
40. Yes, as harsh as that sounds.
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 02:05 PM
Nov 2020

In a functioning society, all of us are asked to do things that we would rather not do and if we could live totally outside of a society, wouldn’t do.

The majority of people realize that tradeoffs and accept them as part of gaining the benefits that come with being part of a working society. But there always is a group of people that insist on gaining the things from an organized society that they want, while resisting doing the tradeoffs that society asks of them, but which they would rather not do. So, if those people suffer until they change their thinking, or simply die off, in the long run both of those outcomes are beneficial to the whole of society.

 

ssgbryan

(23 posts)
46. One couple was bitching about wearing masks in front of me at Sav-a-lot.
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 04:05 PM
Nov 2020

I just pointed out that every selfish son of a bitch that wouldn't wear a mask was putting her 2 preschool children at risk.


Kept repeating the selfish part of it. "ME, ME, ME, MY RIGHTS, MY FREEDOMS," no thought of anyone else.

Because wearing a mask is a test - Are you a person that only thinks of themselves? Or are you a team player that thinks about others?


Light bulb went off at that point.

2naSalit

(86,496 posts)
3. I'm beginning to think of it as...
Fri Nov 27, 2020, 11:10 PM
Nov 2020

A self culling event. Not only will they do it again at xmas, they'll do it again a week later for New Years. If anybody's left by Valentine's Day, well, I have no doubt what they would do.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,839 posts)
25. Unfortunately, as terrible as this disease is,
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 01:41 AM
Nov 2020

the actual death rate is quite low, and no where near a culling number.

It's instructive to look at population graphs over time. Even the 1918 flu pandemic, and WWII have almost no effect. It's scary.

More than twice as many babies are born each day, each year, as people who die. Think about it.

2naSalit

(86,496 posts)
33. Well, if you want to talk FACTS...
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 09:35 AM
Nov 2020

That's another thing!

Actually, I agree with your points. I was being snarky and based my premise on a much smaller population set where the magats were killing themselves off. But you are correct, the death rate is low comparatively. I wonder how many will have serious lasting health problems afterward... it seems to be a thing. There could be an increase in latent death rate in the next few years I would imagine.

Buckeyeblue

(5,499 posts)
34. That's exactly right. The real damage will be the lasting effects.
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 10:12 AM
Nov 2020

We don't know the true long term effects. What happens after year 1, year 3, year 5. By the end of Biden's first term we could have a massive population of people who can't work because of heart/lung disease caused by covid.

They'll be called the Covid Crawlers because they'll be young and tethered to walkers as they slow-walk their way everywhere, huffing and puffing for that perfect breath that is always out of reach.

Windy City Charlie

(1,178 posts)
36. That's what I've been wondering
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 11:11 AM
Nov 2020

How many of these deniers who refused to wear masks, but contracted the virus, and in coming years will be turning around and collecting disability benefits from Social Security due to heart and lung disease.

MustLoveBeagles

(11,587 posts)
4. I'm sure the Covidiots will carry on
Fri Nov 27, 2020, 11:11 PM
Nov 2020

They will gather for Christmas and New Years. They don't give a damn about anyone but themselves. We're a country of sociopaths and tantrum throwing spoiled children. It's such a shame that scientists,doctors and other healthcare workers have to beg and plead for the public to follow simple precautions and guidelines knowing the masses with ignore them. Many Americans have simply given up.

Windy City Charlie

(1,178 posts)
5. What's crazy
Fri Nov 27, 2020, 11:18 PM
Nov 2020

I've heard stories where some of the deniers have been told by their doctors that they've contracted the virus and they still refuse to believe it exists. That they've gotten into heated arguments with their doctors about it.

MustLoveBeagles

(11,587 posts)
15. I have too
Fri Nov 27, 2020, 11:51 PM
Nov 2020

I've always thought of myself as a compassionate person but I'm finding that my empathy has been stretched almost to the breaking point. When I hear those stories I'm starting to think its a shame time and resources are being wasted on these dead enders when there are people that caught this through no fault of their own but won't get that level of care. Someone on this site suggested when they start that shit with the doctors they should stop all care and dump them in the parking lot. I'm not quite there yet but I'm getting close. I've put my life on hold as many of us have. This has ended any chance I had of becoming a mother. I can only do it through IVF treatments but I refuse to bring a baby into this nightmare. I'm in my late forties so time isn't on my side. By the time the dust settles from this it will likely be too late for me. That makes me very angry.

I just found out Wednesday that a group of several friends we used to meet with once a month for lunch contracted Covid. They'd starting meeting again but hubby and I and another close friend felt it was too dangerous. Two had to be hospitalized and ironically enough it wasn't the elderly friends with numerous comorbidities. It was two middle aged people in relatively good health. Fortunately no one died, but the two are still are still dealing with the aftermath since they were sent home. The women (the source of the superspreader event who'd contracted it from her 20 something daughter) still has difficulty breathing and her boyfriend has lost much of the muscle mass in his thighs. She's kicking herself now for not being more careful.

Ms. Toad

(34,055 posts)
6. Symptoms will start for a lot tomorrow - but since tests are hard to come by
Fri Nov 27, 2020, 11:19 PM
Nov 2020

they won't really start showing up in the stats for a few days after that.

The timing of the start of a lot of symptoms is 2-3 days after exposure.

As for dodging a bullet - I'm having that conversation with my daughter. She was exposed 2 weeks ago - and I believe she now thinks she's invincible. She's headed to friends of the person who exposed her for a gathering that includes food. I begged her to wear a mask and socially distance. When I commented to her about dodging a bullet this time, and that she might not be so lucky next time, she started ranting about it making no sense if it is so contagious how she didn't get it this time.

So I dragged out some of the studies with diagrams to show her how ventilation might have made a difference (as one example of variation) - one asymptomatic person infected more than half of the people at tables in the direct line of the air conditioning flow - but none of the tables out of the direct line of flow. Then I dragged out the mutations that make COVID 19 more contagious and pointed out that the person she was exposed to might have had a less contagious version, and that she might not be so lucky next time.

She seemed convinced - but then, again, I wasn't aware of how much risk she was taking until 17 days ago (3 days before she was exposed). I'll just stick with my 24/7 masking until this thing is over.

Windy City Charlie

(1,178 posts)
8. That's the problem
Fri Nov 27, 2020, 11:23 PM
Nov 2020

Many people may start getting the symptoms, but will they continue to refuse to wear a mask, and furthermore, will get they tested? If not, obviously they'll be doing nothing but spreading it further.

Ms. Toad

(34,055 posts)
10. My mantra is that I have to treat everyone as having COVID -
Fri Nov 27, 2020, 11:25 PM
Nov 2020

Unfortunately, including both other members of my household. If I don't treat them as having COVID, I will contract it.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
13. Ugh, I'm sorry to read that!
Fri Nov 27, 2020, 11:43 PM
Nov 2020

My sister-in-law got infected a few days before you reported your daughter's behavior over two weeks ago, and she passed away last night.

Please keep trying to persuade her to be more careful, especially with her risk factors. Vaccines should be available soon!

Ms. Toad

(34,055 posts)
20. I was sorry to read about your sister.
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 12:19 AM
Nov 2020

I know I started to add a comment in that thread, but I likely got distracted.

Her great uncle (my mother's brother) was diagnosed roughly the same time and was near death two days ago. He improved yesterday enough to be moved to a nursing care facility - I think mainly because there are no more beds for COVID patients in Wisconsin. No word yet today. (He is in his early 90s.)

In one of these threads the comment of a medical person was reported - this is the week that nearly every American will finally know somoene with COVID. That appears to be true.

Although I've known dozens, including those who have died or had long term complications, it is partly becuase I know people all over the country - and teach in a University where there is at least some emphasis on disclosure. This week has been the first really close exposure (immediate family and aunts, uncles, cousins, etc.)

I didn't want to push her right after her exposure, since it was clear she was feeling defensive about having potentially exposed me - and about the struggles she is having with masking in small (non-exclusive) social circles. So - today was the first longer conversation I've had with her. There will be more - and more with my spouse who has similar issues.

I am so glad my shadow quarantine (imposed by the University) is over tomorrow and I can go back to my office where I can at least get a few unmasked hours a day.

Oneironaut

(5,490 posts)
9. I get frustrated and sometimes angrily say that we should just open everything up, no restrictions.
Fri Nov 27, 2020, 11:24 PM
Nov 2020

Let's pack into bars again, and have concerts and sporting events. Let's all mingle together and pretend nothing is wrong. Let's have 3 million people die, because a sizable number of Americans (mostly Republicans) don't believe that the virus is even real, it's a conspiracy to take away their rights, or that it's no worse than the flu. Have the hospitals fill up to the point where people are dying in hallways, denying that COVID-19 exists with their last breaths.

I don't mean it, but the idiocy Americans are showing with this virus is frustrating.

Windy City Charlie

(1,178 posts)
11. Therein lies the problem
Fri Nov 27, 2020, 11:32 PM
Nov 2020

The deniers refuse to wear a mask and refuse to get tested. So, how many of them have contracted the virus due to not wearing a mask? And if they refuse to get tested, many may not even realize they have it, and in turn, they become super-spreaders of the virus.

Heartstrings

(7,349 posts)
14. My daughter firmly believes if we go the herd immunity route,
Fri Nov 27, 2020, 11:47 PM
Nov 2020

it’ll be like the bubonic plague with X’s on the doors denoting death and trucks driving by to pick up the bodies to burn in mass graves.

I hope she’s wrong, but nothing is inconceivable at this time.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
18. Hospital capacity can't withstand that level of illness.
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 12:12 AM
Nov 2020

People will be dying due to lack of treatment or inadequate treatment by over-stretched Doctors and Nurses.

I read that Sweden isn’t seeing any positive impact of having a good percentage of it’s population having anti-bodies. The PM there imposed some restrictions to combat the virus spread last week. We are a much larger, far less healthy population and our profit centered medical infrastructure seems fragile when it gets overrun - so we shouldn’t expect to remotely match Sweden’s trajectory through the pandemic.

Ms. Toad

(34,055 posts)
21. I have family in Sweden -
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 12:28 AM
Nov 2020

My uncle (in Wisconsin) was diagnosed last week. He was near death the day before yesterday - my mother (his sister) expected to wake up learning she was the only one left of the immediate family in which she grew up. Fortunately, he was enough better that rationing of hospital rooms + his improvement allowed them to move to a short term care facility.

But in the process of finding out how he's doing, I've had conversations with one of his daughters.

She reported that much of her sister's family (who live in Sweden) have had the disease - niece, nephew, nephew's wife, nephew's mother-in-law, etc.

Only two of the (larger) US branch of the family - many of whom live in Wisconsin, have had it.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
22. I am doing everything that I can to avoid that virus.
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 12:44 AM
Nov 2020

I am claustrophobic and being put on a Vent would likely finish me even if I am sedated and on pain meds. I am healthy and plan on working to stay that way. Wearing a mask properly and using good commonsense seems to be the best path to me. I am really disappointed to see prominent people, including President-Elect Biden and Dr. Fauci at times, either not covering their nose at all, or covering their nose just above the nostrils (President-elect Biden and Dr. Fauci). I cover my nose to the nose bones, then I contour the nose wire to my upper-cheeks.

Ms. Toad

(34,055 posts)
23. My practice, as well.
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 12:56 AM
Nov 2020

If being on a vent was survivable, claustrophobia wouldn't kill me. But I don't want to temp fate - or overtax our health care system taking care of me.

I've only had two scenarios when wearing a mask was challenging - both times when I shouldn't have had to wear one. Making Thanksgiving dinner in my own home. Not only did I keep jamming food into my mask when I tried to taste test it (and forgot I was wearing a maks), I was moving around enough that it was hot and uncomfortable. (Since everyone else was in bed, I did take it off after running the air purifier in the kitchen for more than an hour after anyone other than mee had been in the kitchen). The other is that when my nose is stuffy it is occasionally hard for me to get a good deep breath when I'm sleeping in a double mask (since my spouse can't seem to keep even a single mask on when out with family and a couple of friends).

I really see very little reason the vast majority of people can't wear a mask - and can't wear it properly.

Hugin

(33,100 posts)
37. That doesn't bode well for a vaccine...
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 11:17 AM
Nov 2020

"Sweden isn’t seeing any positive impact of having a good percentage of it’s population having anti-bodies."

I've been troubled by the amount of play the vaccines are getting with claims of 90 - 95% effective. What they are talking about is antibody production. I've also read several case studies of patients dying after receiving convalescent plasma or manufactured antibodies. Granted they may have been given them too late in the disease process to make any difference.

I don't want to seem like a sea-lion, but, where did you see this discussion of the impact in Sweden, Blue_tire?

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
39. The Swedish National Epidemiologist made the statement about antibodies.
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 01:52 PM
Nov 2020

The Prime Minister implemented restrictions like occupancy limits, closing bars early, ect. I didn’t read that he asked people to mask up, but, IMO, Swedes would be smart to start using masks more broadly.

I don’t know what relationship Sweden’s finding will have to whether vaccines work. From what I understand, the three vaccines that have been announced prevented people that got the vaccine from getting COVID19, which is the whole point of a vaccine. The question of how long a person that get the two shot regimen is protected is still an open question, from what I understand about what I read. The effectiveness number was derived from testing of people 14 days after the second shot, so, if those people don’t get more shots, how long are they protected? The fact that a large number of people are saying that they won’t get the shots is another issue, there will be a large reservoir around to infect people that got the shots but maybe had the effectiveness of the shots dissipate over a certain amount of time.

Hugin

(33,100 posts)
43. Can not get a more primary source than that, BT.
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 03:03 PM
Nov 2020

My only other lingering question is if the trail subjects are continuing the other preventative measures; masks, distancing, isolation, etc. after receiving the inoculations.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
44. I don't know the protocol that trial subjects are expected to follow.
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 03:11 PM
Nov 2020

The article that I read on vaccines didn’t say whether the trial subjects were purposely exposed to a small dose of the virus (challenge trial).

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,839 posts)
28. Herd immunity doesn't work that way.
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 01:48 AM
Nov 2020

If it did, things like measles, mumps, and chicken pox would have died out hundreds of years ago. Instead, every single year millions of kids got those diseases. And the next year, millions more.

We can name any disease we like and herd immunity doesn't really exist.

Or not with vaccinations. The reason smallpox no longer exists is NOT because of herd immunity. It's because it was vaccinated into extinction.

This disease will NOT go away once 70 percent of people have gotten it. Because the remaining 30 percent will be more than enough to keep it circulating. But a safe and effective vaccine, once given to 90 percent of the population, will do the trick.

Although, it will be helpful to understand that the anti-vaxxers in a way won't matter. They'll choose not to get the vaccine, and they'll continue to get it. Those of us who do get it, will be immune.

I will ask this question: Will those who have already had Covid-19 still be encouraged to get it? Why?

Hugin

(33,100 posts)
38. Yeah, herd immunity would only exist in a closed system where...
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 11:25 AM
Nov 2020

No other factors or diseases were present.

It also requires all of the potential targets of infection to be nearly genetically identical.

I keep thinking about the wave of death in the new world subsequent to Columbian contact. Within 40 years over 90% of the indigenous Americans were dead and it was actually three different diseases. The first and second were introduced at contact and the third may have originated in the Americas. The first weakened the population and the next two killed them ALL.

Arthur_Frain

(1,846 posts)
17. When the vaccine comes out do you think they'll change?
Fri Nov 27, 2020, 11:59 PM
Nov 2020

We will all go pretty much right back to packing into bars and pretending this never happened. We’re great at denial. But from the sound of things when we start doing that again about half of us will be vaccinated and half of us will not be.

It’s going to continue to be ugly for quite some time. Local city council has had to defer for two meetings now any action on a mask statement. Due to rabid turnout, demands to be heard, etc. Even now, after all of this, science is a liberal scheme to them.

 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
24. Can't blame em cuz Bill Gates' Deep State Nanobots altering our DNA to make us Gay Socialists
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 01:22 AM
Nov 2020

would mean the end of Murika!!!!

Heartstrings

(7,349 posts)
31. Or Bill Gates will implant a tracking device in the vaccine....
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 02:26 AM
Nov 2020

Like any one of us is so significant to Bill Gates that he would want to track us. Or better yet, what’s that in your hand? A cell phone? OMG!

 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
32. I know ... they're such fucking morons ...
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 02:33 AM
Nov 2020

You willingly carry around a device that literally communicates to a giant, corporate-owned computer system telling it exactly where that device is ... all the damn time ... and not only that ... it knows a shitload about what you do, who you know, what your conversations are, what websites you go to ... NONE of which some bot in your bloodstream could possibly do (of course it couldn't be used to track you either). And that's all just fine.

Warpy

(111,222 posts)
29. Quite a few couldn't stand up to Grandma's bullying, admit it.
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 01:49 AM
Nov 2020

Family dynamics are very strange during winter holidays.

We'll start seeing a spike in cases Tues-Thurs. Deaths will lag a week or two behind it.

Perhaps it will reduce the pressure to travel to big family dos on Xmas. I sincerely hope so.

edhopper

(33,543 posts)
35. True
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 10:29 AM
Nov 2020

seen this in my own family. Some who are usually completely on board with COVID safety couldn't say no to going to Grandma's for TG.

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