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WillParkinson

(16,879 posts)
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 01:25 PM Dec 2020

This morning Paul took me to the ER

I was having problems breathing, had no strength, couldn't taste or smell.

Yup. I tested Covid+, which is weird, because I haven't been out of the house for weeks.

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This morning Paul took me to the ER (Original Post) WillParkinson Dec 2020 OP
Oh, no. murielm99 Dec 2020 #1
Take care of yourself, Will. LuckyCharms Dec 2020 #2
I am so sorry...get well soon...sending all good wishes, prayers etc. Demsrule86 Dec 2020 #3
Healing vibes sent...... Heartstrings Dec 2020 #4
Sorry! Ms. Toad Dec 2020 #5
So sorry to hear this. Desert grandma Dec 2020 #6
I'm sorry. Keep us posted as you can. Solly Mack Dec 2020 #7
Sorry to hear this, Will! Take care of yourself. yardwork Dec 2020 #8
Please Do Share How You Believe You Caught It sfstaxprep Dec 2020 #9
The only thing I can think of.... WillParkinson Dec 2020 #14
Paul needs to get tested. LisaL Dec 2020 #26
exactly LymphocyteLover Dec 2020 #31
What They Said sfstaxprep Dec 2020 #34
*this* Roland99 Dec 2020 #45
Recover quickly cally Dec 2020 #54
Paul went yesterday for his test.... WillParkinson Dec 2020 #76
Given the rather delicate issue of time (you don't test positive till 5-7 days... LAS14 Dec 2020 #85
So sorry that this is happening to you guys... be well and heal quickly. NurseJackie Dec 2020 #55
... Nevilledog Dec 2020 #10
Scary news for both of you. Greybnk48 Dec 2020 #11
Hope you recover quickly Will. Take care of yourself. livetohike Dec 2020 #12
Hope that your recovery is quick! Freedomofspeech Dec 2020 #13
please get better soon... handmade34 Dec 2020 #15
That is scary. AirmensMom Dec 2020 #16
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Dec 2020 #23
I was shocked that the dental surgeon/surgery I had to CharleyDog Dec 2020 #38
That Dentist is a super spreader and needs to be reported Sedona Dec 2020 #70
That's indefensible. Where was that? DFW Dec 2020 #74
Coos Bay, Oregon. Lots of RW nut jobs, educated nut jobs, angry at libs. nt CharleyDog Dec 2020 #75
Agreed. And you are being smart, rational and protecting others. Not paranoid at all. Evolve Dammit Dec 2020 #41
We do the same with groceries and mail. Better to take more precautions than less. NoRoadUntravelled Dec 2020 #68
Paul is my husband of decades.... WillParkinson Dec 2020 #81
Sounds a lot like us. AirmensMom Dec 2020 #86
Please get well soon. peacebuzzard Dec 2020 #17
Take Care! UCmeNdc Dec 2020 #18
Sending you 💖💖💕💕💕💖 and wishes for the speediest recovery ever. MLAA Dec 2020 #19
Stay strong grantcart Dec 2020 #20
So sorry to hear this pandr32 Dec 2020 #21
So very sorry to hear this. Healing vibes and energy on their way. Please take care of yourself niyad Dec 2020 #22
Sorry to hear the news peggysue2 Dec 2020 #24
Have there been other people going in and out of the house? LisaL Dec 2020 #25
So sorry to hear this - hope you recover soon! Mad_Dem_X Dec 2020 #27
Saying prayers for a quick, easy recovery for you. Ilsa Dec 2020 #28
Best wishes to you and yours Leith Dec 2020 #29
Fuck.. denbot Dec 2020 #30
Please take care of yourself, Will. crickets Dec 2020 #32
Best wishes that all is ok nt DonaldsRump Dec 2020 #33
I am sorry to hear that. BMW2020RT Dec 2020 #35
Take good care democrank Dec 2020 #36
Very sorry to hear this Catherine Vincent Dec 2020 #37
That seriously sucks Bayard Dec 2020 #39
Our biggest fear: we've been very good about staying quarantined but somehow we get it. marble falls Dec 2020 #40
Wishing you a speedy and complete recovery nt Wicked Blue Dec 2020 #42
So sorry to hear this! SheltieLover Dec 2020 #43
Healing Vibes Will irisblue Dec 2020 #44
Oh no, so sorry to hear that. wendyb-NC Dec 2020 #46
I am so sorry to hear this, Will. smirkymonkey Dec 2020 #47
Oh, no! StarryNite Dec 2020 #48
I hope you get well soon. Elderberry tea is good as a natural anti-viral. 58Sunliner Dec 2020 #49
Precautions reduce our risk but don't eliminate it Warpy Dec 2020 #50
Hope you get well quickly! BadGimp Dec 2020 #51
Hopefully it's one of the milder strains that have shown up. NNadir Dec 2020 #52
yikes! Hope it gets better soon! FirstLight Dec 2020 #53
Speedy recovery, Will! n/t NanceGreggs Dec 2020 #56
So sorry, get well soon! nt. Akacia Dec 2020 #57
Really sorry - KT2000 Dec 2020 #58
Hope you recover quickly malaise Dec 2020 #59
Heallng energy cp Dec 2020 #60
Damnation! This shouldn't have happened! So sorry about this and best wishes!!!!!! Karadeniz Dec 2020 #61
Oh no! Please hang in there. Hoping you get the best of care! ancianita Dec 2020 #62
Praying for a FAST and COMPLETE recovery for you, Will! n/t TygrBright Dec 2020 #63
So sorry to hear this Meowmee Dec 2020 #64
Damn! BobTheSubgenius Dec 2020 #65
I hope you get well soon, Will uppityperson Dec 2020 #66
Sending good light WillParkinson spanone Dec 2020 #67
Sending wishes for a speedy recovery. NoRoadUntravelled Dec 2020 #69
get well soon uponit7771 Dec 2020 #71
Oh no. Take care of yourself! CaptainTruth Dec 2020 #72
what about Paul, has he been careful, been out? Demonaut Dec 2020 #73
He's an essential employee WillParkinson Dec 2020 #77
Good luck on that, and hope you throw yours off quickly, Will. Hortensis Dec 2020 #80
Has Paul been out of the house? nt LAS14 Dec 2020 #78
Paul was at work until he took me to the ER.... WillParkinson Dec 2020 #79
It has been 2 days. Hope you are getting better question everything Dec 2020 #82
I thought I was... WillParkinson Dec 2020 #83
Hang on there. At least you are able to participate on these pages question everything Dec 2020 #84

Ms. Toad

(38,636 posts)
5. Sorry!
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 01:29 PM
Dec 2020

Is Paul going out of the house?

I've unfortunately had problems with my spouse and daughter not being scrupulous about masks, so I've had to wear masks in the house.

Best wishes for a speedy recovery!

 

sfstaxprep

(10,599 posts)
9. Please Do Share How You Believe You Caught It
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 01:32 PM
Dec 2020

If you haven't left the house, you still have somehow been in contact with someone who had it, and that contact occurred within the last 2-3 weeks at the most, probably even more recent.

It would be helpful for those of us who have also remained very careful.

WillParkinson

(16,879 posts)
14. The only thing I can think of....
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 01:41 PM
Dec 2020

Is Paul brought it home from work. I can't see any other way it happened.

WillParkinson

(16,879 posts)
76. Paul went yesterday for his test....
Thu Dec 10, 2020, 12:29 PM
Dec 2020

Five to seven days for the results. I'm concerned, because the place he went swabbed the inside of his nostril, not pushed up into the nasal cavity. The nurse in the ER said that was a good test for flu, but not for Covid. When the health department called me yesterday (or day before, I'm kinda lost on days), I mentioned it to her, and she said, "It's the gold standard of tests" and when told what the nurse said she vacillated. So I'm not convinced his test will give an accurate result.

LAS14

(15,506 posts)
85. Given the rather delicate issue of time (you don't test positive till 5-7 days...
Thu Dec 10, 2020, 01:51 PM
Dec 2020

... after infection, and then you don't continue to test positive for avery long time, even if you've still got symptoms.

SO - If Paul tests negative it still doesn't necessarily mean he wasn't the source.

Greybnk48

(10,724 posts)
11. Scary news for both of you.
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 01:34 PM
Dec 2020

I wish you a speedy recovery! Please let us know how you're doing.

livetohike

(24,282 posts)
12. Hope you recover quickly Will. Take care of yourself.
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 01:35 PM
Dec 2020
and check in with an update when you feel up to it.

AirmensMom

(15,107 posts)
16. That is scary.
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 01:44 PM
Dec 2020

I don't know who Paul is, but he should probably also get tested.

I am so paranoid about this thing that I wash my hands after I touch any mail or packages. I put on nitrile gloves and wash everything that my husband brings from the grocery store. He wears mask and gloves, a different set for each store, and then they all get washed in hot water with the "covid towels" that I washed and dried the stuff with.

Except for doc appointments, I don't leave the house. And now it turns out that my particular doc's offices are taking it less seriously than the grocery stores. SMDH

I really hope you don't get too sick from it. Take care of yourself and please keep us updated as you are able to.

Response to AirmensMom (Reply #16)

CharleyDog

(816 posts)
38. I was shocked that the dental surgeon/surgery I had to
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 03:01 PM
Dec 2020

endure were VERY lax. Dental surgery! The CDC recommends all patients use H202 mouth rinse before the dentist exam, these guys, no.

This office, dental surgery! let anyone/everyone in the waiting room (other dentists I recently had to see, limited the patients into the office one at a time, others HAD to wait outside (yes in the rain, but in their cars, which was fine. The aid would come to the car and get us when it was our turn).

Anyway, some patients HAD NO MASK ON. Also, there were some very old, very frail people in the waiting room.
Some of his staff WORE THEIR MASK UNDER THEIR NOSE). All very casual. No cleaning that I saw.

I was terrified, tried not to touch anything, but you're so vulnerable in these situations. Our area is low in cases (compared to some right now), but is accelerating and I predict that office is going to close.

(it's been two weeks, and no symptoms, but god damn)

DFW

(60,182 posts)
74. That's indefensible. Where was that?
Wed Dec 9, 2020, 08:13 PM
Dec 2020

I had some serious dental surgery in Dallas when I was there in August. That place was so tight and sterile, you would have thought I was having brain surgery with radioactive isotopes being implanted. No virus anywhere, of course.

NoRoadUntravelled

(2,626 posts)
68. We do the same with groceries and mail. Better to take more precautions than less.
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 10:37 PM
Dec 2020

I'm always taken aback to see our mail carrier having conversations with people in the neighborhood while standing only a couple of feet apart and no one wearing masks. I live in a 55+ community and most of the people in the area where I walk almost every day are far above 55.

WillParkinson

(16,879 posts)
81. Paul is my husband of decades....
Thu Dec 10, 2020, 12:42 PM
Dec 2020

I never leave the house. I work from home, so don't need to. When he goes out, he's always masked. Not sure how it happened. He was tested yesterday, but I'm not confident in the test they did, because it wasn't the stick up the nasal cavity, only a swab inside the nose.

AirmensMom

(15,107 posts)
86. Sounds a lot like us.
Thu Dec 10, 2020, 05:09 PM
Dec 2020

Somewhat, anyway. Husband works from home and I'm retired. He's always masked and gloved and goes out only for groceries and to see our daughter, who lives an hour away and also works from home.

We are the only people we know who wear gloves along with the masks when we go out. It's way too easy to touch your face without realizing it. He keeps several pairs of cotton gloves in his car. Everything goes in the washing machine when he gets home.

Can Paul get a new test? I wish you both well. These are some scary times.

peacebuzzard

(5,870 posts)
17. Please get well soon.
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 01:47 PM
Dec 2020

This covid is raging everywhere in my location.

Hope you are over this quickly, safely and at home.

Please update.

niyad

(132,440 posts)
22. So very sorry to hear this. Healing vibes and energy on their way. Please take care of yourself
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 01:56 PM
Dec 2020

and keep us posted as you can.

peggysue2

(12,532 posts)
24. Sorry to hear the news
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 02:02 PM
Dec 2020

I listened to Stephanie Ruhle yesterday and heard she and her family had been down with Covid. She too was surprised because she'd tried so hard to be careful--always wore a mask, washed hands, took social distancing seriously.

Scary times. With cases rising, the risk factor rises as well. For all of us. There's just more virus out there.

Here's hoping for a mild case and a smooth recovery!

Take care.

LisaL

(47,423 posts)
25. Have there been other people going in and out of the house?
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 02:04 PM
Dec 2020

One of them could be an asymptomatic carrier.

Leith

(7,864 posts)
29. Best wishes to you and yours
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 02:12 PM
Dec 2020

Please keep us updated on your condition and contact tracing.

It's disconcerting to hear that even strict quarantine didn't keep you from testing positive.

denbot

(9,950 posts)
30. Fuck..
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 02:16 PM
Dec 2020

One more reason to be mad at the maskholes. May you have a rapid, and complete recovery.

crickets

(26,168 posts)
32. Please take care of yourself, Will.
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 02:24 PM
Dec 2020

Paul needs a test too! I hope you recover quickly with no complications. Do check in often to let us know how you're doing.

BMW2020RT

(146 posts)
35. I am sorry to hear that.
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 02:47 PM
Dec 2020

I have been away from work for a shingles outbreak last month. I intended to return to work this morning, but my plan was disrupted by chills, a slight cough, and some nasal congestion that worsened over the weekend. After speaking with my primary care physician this morning I have an appointment this afternoon to be tested. Since I confined myself to the house during Thanksgiving week so as not to endanger an infant grandson the likelihood of a COVID infection seems remote, but I will cross my fingers just the same.

Good luck. I hope your infection is as mild as my wife's financial conselor. He said it was a strange experience, losing his sense of taste.

Bayard

(29,682 posts)
39. That seriously sucks
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 03:16 PM
Dec 2020

Especially this close to a vaccine.

As others have said, Paul should be tested, then contact testing.

Take good care of yourself, and keep us posted.

SheltieLover

(80,449 posts)
43. So sorry to hear this!
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 03:40 PM
Dec 2020

Healing vibes on the way! 0lease keep us posted on how you are feeling! 💓💓💓

wendyb-NC

(4,691 posts)
46. Oh no, so sorry to hear that.
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 03:57 PM
Dec 2020

what a bummer, so scary. I hope that you, have had the worst of it at this point, and you recover steadily and fast, from this point on.

I hope Paul gets tested, too. Maybe even more than once if he tests negative, the first time. Take good care of your selves rest, eat well, and focus on positive things, what ever helps you feel better, get over this crazy virus.

I sending positive energy, and prayers for your speedy recovery, and Paul's, if comes down with it. Take care and blessings.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
47. I am so sorry to hear this, Will.
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 04:08 PM
Dec 2020

Please take care. I wish for you a speedy recovery and sending healing vibes.

StarryNite

(12,115 posts)
48. Oh, no!
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 04:12 PM
Dec 2020

It's so strange the way some people can be reckless and not get it while others who have been very careful still wind up with it. That's what happened with my daughter. She just got out of quarantine and back to work last Thursday. Her sense of taste and smell have only partially returned. It's odd. For instance she can smell and taste mint and cinnamon but not coffee. So be prepared for weirdness as you heal. Make sure Paul gets tested and please keep us posted.

58Sunliner

(6,329 posts)
49. I hope you get well soon. Elderberry tea is good as a natural anti-viral.
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 04:13 PM
Dec 2020

You have probably read many of the suggestions. Melatonin is supposed to be helpful as well in preventing serious complications. Sleeping at a 45 degree angle may help as well. Please check in.

Warpy

(114,615 posts)
50. Precautions reduce our risk but don't eliminate it
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 04:18 PM
Dec 2020

Anyone you have seen, people on the other side of a door you answered, anything plastic or metal that has come in from outside might have brought the virus to you.

I just hope this is as bad as it's going to get and that you recover quickly.

NNadir

(38,041 posts)
52. Hopefully it's one of the milder strains that have shown up.
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 04:27 PM
Dec 2020

Two of sisters' in law had it. One was very sick, but recovered nicely with no apparent long term effects.

The other had a very mild case, tested positive, and was back to full heath after "bad cold" symptoms, for less than a week.

I wish you the latter.

FirstLight

(15,771 posts)
53. yikes! Hope it gets better soon!
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 05:26 PM
Dec 2020

Definitely keep us posted.

I am trying not to be too paranoid but at the same time am freaking out about little stuff too.

Meowmee

(9,212 posts)
64. So sorry to hear this
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 09:03 PM
Dec 2020

Wishing you a fast recovery I recommend taking vit D , C and lysine which I took when I had covid pneumonia. I also took zithromax which I had at home. One of my students who just tested positive was rx tthat for covid as well.

WillParkinson

(16,879 posts)
77. He's an essential employee
Thu Dec 10, 2020, 12:30 PM
Dec 2020

So he's been to work, but they wear masks. Of course, that doesn't preclude something happening. He got his test yesterday, so now we wait to see the results.

WillParkinson

(16,879 posts)
79. Paul was at work until he took me to the ER....
Thu Dec 10, 2020, 12:32 PM
Dec 2020

But he still has to go to Walgreens to pick up his prescriptions. He wears a mask everywhere, and he's as careful as he can be.

question everything

(52,132 posts)
84. Hang on there. At least you are able to participate on these pages
Thu Dec 10, 2020, 01:45 PM
Dec 2020

and, hopefully, keeps contacts with other loves ones.


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